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The people that beg, extort and eat their gratuity and pension in service talking

Bloody liar, he just sent 50k without a prior financial transaction and knows your bank details. dey play. just pay back 450k correct investment

1. Does Ikeja Electric disconnect Nigerians from necessities like light without prior written notice?

2. How does Ikeja Electric employ the services of Arrogant customer care who hang the phone call on customers calling to complain.

3. Why is it that the Technical team wants to be greased, bribed, and worshiped each time they go out for field maintenance?

4. Why is it that when I called to complain, they formally regularised my disconnection to 27 July, 2025, (been disconnected since 22nd July, 2025) on the system with a remark to come to the office to negotiate repayment plan on the premises which we almost payoff on the second meter and have one prepaid meter and paid for another prepaid meter recently wish to pay for one more was told the prepaid meter is not available again.

5. Since you bill us on estimated billing, is Ikeja Electric going to deduct the number of days we are disconnected from our next billing?

Sometimes, when we dream it looks stupid and foolish. On a more serious note there is no way you will not loose guide. She will not kill you as expected but your soul will be tormented when you are in your night.
Wayforward - plan for your night without her being involved. Do not loose guide.

Listening carefully to your story and looking at it spiritually, I will have this to say;
1. The demise of your dad is the begining of your problem. The battle he can not overcome is now yours - Be strong to fight it to the end.
2. Your mother's attitude was not her doing but a forces she needs to reckoned with. She was been used to displayed her family after all what she passed through with the demised of your dad.
3. The onus now lies on you now - pray move closer to God, give them a reasonable distance but not total distance. Change your line and still keep the other line to communicate with them occasionally. Be sending a token to her but make your you are the one that can reach them when you feel like. Pray you get a good job but keep reasonable distance and access.i repeat.
All these for your peace of mind.... When you are strong enough to stand. You can now have an open line with them.
Wish you good luck

Pacesetters.

Giftedhands45:
@all thanks for your advice and suggestions.
I have reported to his mum and siblings severally and they're not happy about his behavior, but he refuses to change.

The advice on moving to my parents house once the house rent expires is exactly what I will do.

For those saying I bring forth children to suffer them. No, My children are not suffering. I tried to give them the best in my own power. I'm the only one suffering because I'm doing it all alone.
And sure, no more intimacy here anymore. He can't provide, he can't touch me either

The beginning of scatter family.... Just go separate ways instead of disturbing yourself and realized later outside is not laughing. My contribution .... See yourself as the husband and let him take responsibility of the wife.

when I was told by one stupid company zonal auditor that what I was been paid, they did not expect me to have a savings of 1million naira in 7 years of working with them. I resigned the stupid job and I am happy being my own boss today.

Who he epp?

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goodeveing, the problem with your husband demands collective solution, if he is the best man as you claimed leaving the marriage will not be the way out. unless you are leaving to stay alone without having anything to do with sex. if you know you can do that no problem. you can not get somebody that will give you true love like your husband but what you will always get is sexmate and let it be clear your responsibility will increase because you have to fend for the children and house bills and utility yourself. Men outside will only pay for sex offering services and not taking your responsibility as their own. (image the comments and remarks of single mothers on nairaland)

MY ADVICE
kindly involve your mother in law and your mother to seek spiritual healings because it is not your husband doing if he always come to apologies. He needs total deliverance. The devil really wants to make you miserable and he picks his fight using your husband. By the time he finishes with you, you will be in your thirties looking sixty. This is the time your marraige was been tested, do not give up and make it stand.

shalom.

Do not panic, your system bios board has been locked. I t is usually done by a system engineer to avoid users of a system of complaining of bad repairs done on their system.

My candid advice. Stay put and leave all those issues you think is a problem as no problem i.e if she forget ur birthday celebrate and remind her and make yourself happy. Birthday can easily be celebrated with ur kids. Cook what if feel like cooking and involve urself more in social activities. Most ladies have spiritual husband who always make most of them think without a man they can survive. Leave her and see her miserable life. Keep her for sake of ur love for her.

Nairalanders please carefully the message sir festus is trying to pass across before commenting. This is an examination with instruction "Read carefully" Festus did not say they are giving Atiku visa but a mockery statement of try it out and see what someone with seal indictment will face.

good point

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I caught her cheating via fb chat how she was bang with a condom. Not really happy that I am betrayed.

Izen:
First of all, why would you slap a man? A naija man for that matter? Are you dumb? Can you defend yourself if he decides to pounce on you or is there even a legal system to defend you? Ladies please, let us advise ourselves, it is never a good idea no matter how angry you are.
That said, guys be honest with yourselves please. You are no match for a woman strength-wise. When a woman hits you, she is most likely upset and not necessarily angry. (Check the dictionary for the difference, it is in the context.) She is not necessarily trying to hurt you and there is usually no power play involved. She is just trying to let go of steam. On the other hand, when a man hits, it is usually due to bruised ego and trying to put a woman in her place. Motive is what we should note here. Just like rape is more about power than sex so is domestic abuse when coming from a man in particular. There is not much harm a slap from a woman can do to you than a bruised ego and it is not life-threatening.
Now don't get me wrong, there are women that can be abusive especially when they start caring pestle, knife, hot water, etc. For all it's worth, disarm her with a punch if necessary, run and sue the hell out of her. I will back you up on that. This is only applicable if she hits first. If she is defending herself with any of this, it is still on you.
However, retaliating when a woman slaps you just because your ego is bruised is a no in my book. You'd have lost all moral justification by then.
Just my two cents.

What if the woman is fun of doing that when there is a minor atgumrnt . we you keep ignoring even she been reported like twice for her to take caution?

The governor does not know the rules that guide bullion van. They should have park off road like every Nigerian and not obstructing bullion van. CBN van biko!!! The governor is only trying to claim supremacy but you can not be right when been seen jeopardising security routine

Look more like panda african specie or wild bush cat

I notice that as well. The admin needs to work on this and block off of any reported immature users.

ademola2017:
Hi Nairalanders,

I am in a state of dilemma as my marriage is shaking.

Before we got married, my wife treated me like a piece of shit and never gave me any regards or attention. Any little quarrel would be blown out of proportion and wouldn't talk to me for days. I did the calling always and each time I ask her why she doesn't call, she would say I should get used to it. There was a day when a baseless quarrel occurred, she accused me falsely and we didn't talk for more than two months. I stayed single and was already moving on until her friend came begging on her behalf. I wondered why she didn't come herself but all the same I accepted her back. She changed like she was doing me favor but I still persisted because I loved her genuinely.

Fast forward, we got married and I was hoping for a good future with her. As usual I was very open to her and discussed every issues with her. At a point, I found out the marriage was one sided. I gave more but got little or nothing from her. I never burden her with house chores or cooking at all. We sat always to talk about her attitude but she would say things are fine while I will be grieving and having sleepless nights. She will wake up in the middle of the night to check my phone to know if i was cheating. I swear I have never cheated on my wife... She knows my password and never hid anything from her.
As we went on in the marriage, her behavior became worse and couldn't condone it again. She never saw anything wrong with her attitude and would say her apologizes are expensive.

I decided to do a background check on her and found out she double dated all through when we started dating and gave the guy more attention for 2years of our relationship. When things went bad between them, she fell back to me and unknown to me, I accepted her back. She and her ex were still in good communication till the night I confronted her. She would rather confide in her ex than confide in me (Now husband) Now, I feel so hurt, betrayed and used and can’t trust her again.

She has been very apologetic and says she is ready to change. So if had not found out about her double ways, I will still be condoning her insolent ways. I am seriously finding it hard in my heart to forgive her. Even if I do, I can never ever forget because I do not trust her again.

What will you guys advice?

U have enter one chance bro. If no issue, back out forget the marriage. If there is, do nt add more, keep mute and be watchful. No love at the beginning no love to the end. While keeping mute and be ur self things will take shape. She will surely back off herself.

The guy is from imodi imosan ijebu

Op, focus on buiding urself and start a dating game with another lady on friendship level with lot of outing. Do not give her a call again and when she text u remain causual in ur response too. Always be very brief with ur response. Move on. Do not tell her u are not doing again. Times will

Do nt be deceived with her plead. Go ahead with ur decision and move on. She can as well change her attitude with any lucky man that falls her hand.

Simply as ABC. Is not too late now with one issue. Pls, do nt compromise ur happiness for anything. We all make mistakes and always better when we realised on time. No right or wrong decision but timely decisions makes one a better achiever. Word enough for d wise.

Dear OP,
Talking to him will not solve the issue. Your guy is just been aroused when he sees you. Try and ask what actually turn him on about u. Maybe dressing or look. Learn to do more of open dating to quench the huge for sex nt close door meeting. He loves u but try and avoid closed door dating and be romantic when outdoor. Identified his weakness and use it against him.

Dear OP,
Talking to him will not solve the issue. Your guy is just been aroused when he sees you. Try and ask what actually turn him on about u. May dressing or look. Learn to do more of open dating to quench the huge for sex nt close door meeting. He loves u but try and avoid closed door dating and be romantic when outdoor. Identified his weakness and use it against him.

Cheating is cheating. Passing d buck is what I see. Move on with ur life and try to find something doing. Turn to God and u realise what He is going to do in ur life.

I was taught on how to treat a lady and be cool temper.