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romeorailss:
Chai I weep for ur reasoning Why can't it make sense.


What if she wanted some cash from the guy or some benefits she kniws the guy is capable of and the guy turned her down. So u are saying she can't blackmail the guy, simply because she went there herself?


Wow !

Why are you making up a story that never happened?
Making up a lie is easy but no judge with a functioning brain
will ever believe you.

If you can reason properly, you will understand that stories
and possibilities don't win a case, evidence does.

"What if's" are meaningless in a real case.
Even if the guy decides to use that line, he would have
to prove his case and that is the beauty of the
justice system, no one will believe you because say so.

It is always about evidence.

vicraven:
stupid hoe...

slept in the same bed with a man you hardly know and isn't your husband...


you Even had a boyfriend...


hoes...

the sky is your limit...

If she was a hoe, she would be happy to have a new rich customer,
but she wasn't that is why you got to hear about it.

tiwiex:
Yes. But she gave a silly reason for going to Lekki. To use Wi-Fi. The story needed a reason and she went to use Wi-Fi was it? How much is transport to Lekki? How much is data? This thing happened in June oh. The shock would have made her report within a few days. Something else is going on here.

Why she went there is immaterial unless the guy can prove that she gave her consent
(which is almost impossible).
He won't be charged with rape because there is insufficient evidence neither
will he get the "justice" he is fighting for.

Rape is rape whether it happened in the perpetrator's place or the victim's place.

Chuksemi:
Oga oh, calm down. People cook up stories everyday. Grave allegations are being laid against people daily around the world.

The lady should have known that rape is a very grave allegation, and you have to prove it. A mere twitter story isn't enough evidence. I am glad he has taken the case to court, he did the right thing.

Lady agreed to visit guy.
Then lady cooked up the story of rape.
To what end?
Does that make sense to you?

sisisioge:
Lobatan! I knew it! I just knew it! How in blawdy heell can anyone walk into a guy's how with the agreement to spend the weekend, change into easy clothings, sleep on his bed, cuddly with him, get orals from him and then scream rape after an inter course occurred? She said she said no...though her actions screamed yes! Whew! It is well.

She explicitly told him no sex before the visit, which he agreed to.
It was nothing but a rape and the beast will be dealt with.
No means No

delors:
Good point. Unless someone rises and defends himself, the female folks are hell bent of bringing down the male folks with false allegation of rape knowing that the public will quickly jump in to defend them.

If the "female folks" are accusing only you of rape, then you should be locked
up already because they can't all be wrong.
As for this guy, only one girl accused him, so his case is still pending.

brosci:
The lady had better be ready for what is coming for her. She will have a whole lot of explanation to give in court. I bet she doesnt knw how lawyers twist cases. At the end of this all she's going to lose and may spend some time behind bars because her story betrayed her already and trust me when i tell u that she didnt say the whole truth in her write up.

She has no explanation to give, if you understand the law, it is this
guy who is suing that have to prove his case.
This guy probably think he can force his way through this case because
he is well off but he will be surprised eventually.

Except she is illegally detained by the police, based on the highest bidder factor, she
will never spend a minute behind bar.
Her story was simple and direct. She was raped!

You visited a guy and willingly agreed to pass the night with him.
You willingly allowed him cuddle and touch you in an intimate and sexual way.
He went down between ur legs and had his way with you via oral and you didnt even struggle a little.(according to her story) lol no intended rapist can dare that with a lady with functioning hands and feet
He had sex with you and when it was over guilt did what it does best and you cried your heart out.

Rape is simply sex without consent. She explicitly told him no sex before the visit which he agreed to.
The girl is not a virgin, so I see no reason for guilt, if she was comfortable visiting the guy, it makes
no sense that she will make up a rape story.

From the above deduction every stage the lady and the guy went thru( from cuddling to sex) must have been a systematic breaking of the girl will power (i.e she gave consent even if she didnt want to due to persistence from the guy) rather than brute strenght from the guy And friends that isnt RAPE.

Rape doesn't require strength, it just means having sex with someone without their
consent. The dumb guy will have to prove in court that she gave her consent.

Note that all this could have been avoided if she didnt spend the night with a man u knw nothin about and isnt ur boyfriend. Who the fvck does that? Well maybe a girl that wants to get laid

No, this would have been avoided if the rapist conducted himself, banned her from visiting him
when she suggested she wants no sex or sent her away when she refused his advances.

She should have first reported the rape to the police before calling out the alleged rapist.
Now she has been put on the defensive.

okay

Thumbs up

baddosky1:
Be quiet. Afonja girls no get money for wig and weavon. They plait 1921 hair.

If you and your lots don't patronize BigSarah, others will!

I don't engage dumb trolls, go find your mate kid.

Realfitbody:
It's a very funny development. Robbers are caught and imprisioned for a time. Then they are freed and they rob again but this time they become more clever. In the US there are rehabilitation centres to help prisioners but in my country OYO is your case.

Say what you know.
About 70% of all criminals released from prison in the US end up being
arrested for other crimes within three years.
Prisons are punishment centers.

Yeligray:
bastards?, oya you give them jobs na. It may surprise you that one of them might be a graduate..


BASTARDS?, What of those in power that stole millions of naira and dollars why arn't you calling them bastards?..



See let me tell you something, in Nigeria if it's a big man that steals he will be treated with respect, protected and treated like a boss e.g maina, diesani etc. But if it's a common man he would be paraded, flogged and disgraced.. Don't get me wrong i'm totally against crime but i hate being unfair.

It is okay to steal because you are unemployed and because someone stole millions of naira?
SMH

majekdom2:
any human can oppress any other human. What the post is about is why it is more with women.

If it is about the bold, then the post fail woefully because it didn't present a single
objective evidence. "My girlfriend says" is pure nonsense when you are trying to
establish a fact or compare two things.

Lols, so who does the filming.
The fights amongst men that make news, who does the filming. I can expect two guys to do business and at the end one cheats another- that's a guy thing but not that I will feel intimated by his charisma or charm even before we start business.

It doesn't matter who does the filming. I ask you one more time, have you ever been intimidated by a woman?
You may skip this as usual.

Babe, stop allowing sentiments. We even saw it play out between Stella Oduah and Alison. I started to think why Alison allies are all male- not a single key female ally. Please answer this genuinely? Which gender gossips most? Which gender keeps malice most?

I am not a babe, and you are the sentimental type who gets carried away by popular sentiments.

Since women hate each other and don't keep other women as friends according to this posts, then
who are they gossipping with? Men?

People who arm their opponents have no need to keep malice. Even if someone gossips,
how does that prove that women are more of enemies to themselves than men are?

Have you forgotten that Akpabio also complained about Alison, well I don't expect you to remember
that a man also had a feud with a woman because it doesn't fit your beliefs.
Tinubu and OBJ had on many occasions cast aspersions on Jonathan, but I am yet
to see any "observer" accuse men of hating each other, what they would have done if
the actors were women.

It's a natural thing with women.

Says who?
A man slaps another man, the reaction will be, oh its men stuff.

But when it is done by a woman, then the noise becomes deafening,
we now hear various stories about how women hate each other, how
they are their own worst enemies. But any critical mind can see through
such baseless assertions.

majekdom2:
someone any other person might be intimidated by. Do you want me to post links where you see women fight each other because of one man. How many men make such news. This post is not an attack on females. Just some observation which is somehow someway true

Some men fight and kill each other because of women.
Have you ever been intimidated by the presence of a woman?
I doubt if your answer is yes, because most men have been intimidated
by other men and not women.

Note that the items that make news are those judged by the publishers
to elicit maximum emotional and entertainment reactions.

Where I used to live, there are local gangs who always involved in fights
but most people just ignore them and move on, if it were to be women, the
passer-bys will bring out their phones to film and upload.

Every antagonistic act exhibited by women towards other women can be
found in men in equal or worse proportion. Men hardly complain when they
get oppressed or treated unfairly by other men because they don't want to
be seen as pained weaklings who can't sort themselves.

majekdom2:
understand the word "enemy" in this context...

May I ask what you understand by the word "enemy" in this context?

majekdom2:
it's no baseless saying ooooo. We see it everywhere. I have personally seen it play out not once not twice or thrice

Who is your worst enemy?
A woman or a man?

With this publication, vultures will become more endangered as more people
become vulture egg hunter.

Why does nairaland keep celebrating prostitutes?

cococandy:
You don’t know that.
She has a job
And has endorsements too.

So yes she has a rich boyfriend or maybe boyfriends but you don’t know that she can’t provide her own basic needs without these men.

"Basic needs" are relative, some people require millions to maintain
theirs while others need a few thousand.
I have no problem with whatever she does for a living but for
painting the wrong picture.

This is her real image: I am an OAP earning about 150k a month
and still can afford 50 million naira cars and live a luxurious life
with the help of my very good sponsor boyfriends.

While this is what she wants girls to believe: I am an independent
successful woman with the world at my feet courtesy of my sheer
brilliance and intelligence, you can be like me(not really) if you are
determined.

cococandy:
I get what you’re saying.

But I don’t get what is contradictory about a feminist accepting expensive gifts from a man.
Does feminism mean ‘no gifts, no relationships etc’

If she was just a feminist, there is no problem with that.
But she literally depends on men for her upkeep while projecting
a false image of an independent woman.

haywire07:
I totally hate men that hit women and Infact, I could turn the fight to my own personal matter but

What makes a man more of a coward?
It's his inability to speak out . He doesn't want to be seeing as weakling.

All this women are always quick to posts cases of domestic violence and all those crappy rape stories , but what about the men? Don't we suffer the same?
Women would call theirs "rape" but when the man is the victim they say "seduce". Is it basically because the man has the piston?

Abeg , enoff of all this biased violence against women sh*t jor , we all are victims I am a victim .

I dislike cowards.
If you want to support domestic violence, you don't need to pretend
after all this is a faceless forum.

If you are really being abused, keeping quiet is the heart of cowardice,
but we all know the truth that you are just pained that domestic violence
is being frowned at as an anti-social behavior.

Now to the issue of being "seduced" are you saying that you lack the mental
resilience to decide what you want for yourself?

Is it the problem of a woman if you spend all your mental power imagining
sex?

You are more of a victim of ignorance and prejudice.

AngelicBeing:
The administration of justice and the punishment system in Nigeria is a joke, a poor man steals biscuits and he is sentenced to 20years in jail, while all the wicked politicians who stole billions are given lighter sentence or plea bargain, how can you sentence a killer to 7years in jail, what kind of useless jungle called Nigeria, oh well, I agree with those who call the country a zoo and a jungle, nonsense

Stop ranting, get properly educated and you will understand the law
is not black and white.

Ironically, you are thinking like a mob baying for blood which is exactly
what is obtained in a jungle.

Never knew Tinubu is an SU

Jesse01:
guy u copy Benita comments Y?

Could be the same person operating both handles.

jusRadical:
What do mean by a high-class lady?

Any lady whose social class is above one's level.

LancelLogan:
I do not know any psychiatrist in Port Harcourt... I will appreciate if you can link me to anyone...

Visit the nearest teaching hospital and inquire.
They will direct you.

The only reason your mother is a "witch" is because you have a particular
problem defying solution. The spiritualists know this and that is why they
are exploiting your fear and gullibility.

If everything was working according to plan, you won't even entertain
the thoughts.

If indeed you believe your mother is a witch, kindly stay away from her
because I don't want to read a news about how a confused child killed
his mother because of witchcraft

tayo60:
Let me tell you something, so far she didn't kill you at birth does not mean she can't harm you in future. Some witches sacrifice their children's future and destiny instead of killing them thereby making their children unsuccessful in life. If your mum is not a witch, such can't be said about her. Now, how will you handle d situation? Don't confront her o, continue to pray more and go for deliverance and move away from her. If your mum has done evil to other people and destroyed many destinies, you and your siblings that her children will suffer the kama o. And its only God's mercy that can deliver you which is very rare in a situation like this.

Too much nollyhood.

BluntBoy:
He once slapped Aisha Abimbola (a Yoruba actress).

Really?
For winking at him?