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You have all been fooled.


Denrele n Goldies' reality show just kicked off.

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Lol, I also thought for some moment like you did wondering whether the news of her death is meant to throw people off balance before starting the reality show but if husband is posting pictures and kennis music & LIB are announcing stuffs then stuff may be for real.

The Andrew husband man left some things unsaid thus having people wonder why the lady is married to him and tripping over the Prezzy fela. Why will the singer's girlfriend be posting that feb 14 was supposed to be their happiest day and all that talk of Prezzo wanting to propose on 14th feb/Val. She has been seen moving around with Prezzo from pictures posted in this forum, attending weddings and functions in the US. A happily married woman won't be doing that so I don't think that whatever she had/has with the husband is smooth sailing.

A woman has a right to go for another chance of love if the one she had/has isn't fulfilling. The man said in the interview (if the interview is real)that

Interviewer: Do you think he fell in love? And did you ever think Susan liked him for a minute…?
Andrew Harvey: People fall in love and it’s not impossible to love more than one person, but there are different levels. She liked him initially, but began to despise him and distanced herself as he tried to use her she complained he was very manipulative

Methinks that this man didn't say all there is to it. There are more than met the eye in this so people shouldn't rush to blame the singer, they should allow her to rest biko.

@Petnkool
Thank you for doing a good job and and bringing back those saying terrible things about the Goldie girl to their senses. You actually saved me some hardwork because such terrible things they say crawl under my skin and would have had me trying to make them stop talking like that about her. Thank you for defending her too.

She may have divorced from the husband or separated. If she is happily married to him why will she be tripping over Prezzo?
There may be more to it than met the eye and whatever it may be does not seem like she is happily married to that white man.
Just my thought.

The person has changed the twitter handle from Miss Nkem to Psychotic_girl. I have a feeling that that is a heartless man hiding behind somebody's name to post such wicked things.

Yeah Jallow's recent post are too hot to handle.

Thanks for the songs and hot pixs you posted for me at your thread. You sure know that I like hot pictures and when mixed with sweet music------gosh girl
I will storm the rest of your thread soon and will also be back here to check out that last music you have it seems hot like Jallow's too Lol.

MsDarkSkin: @Ivy is that Faye Ann Lyons in your profile?!

I looooove her!!!!

anyway here is a present for you hun!!

https://www.nairaland.com/1057316/beauty-la-isla-876-women/76#14337792

I like Fay too and just love those poses of hers.
I like her (Bunji Garlins)husband's music more though. Here's his newest song
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6wIceAz0xI8

Lovely song.

Know what, Fay-ann's father Super Blue won the Soca Monarch and Road March

NessaFresh: The bit.ch used an innocent nigerian models pic

I see. So the picture isn't hers. I am marching to twitter to give her a piece of my mind too. Fr*aking she!

Their wedding picture with the cakes is very lovely. Her chief bridesmaid in church seems to be somebody I worked in Lagos with.

Hey! Better to take down these pictures, it can only set tongues wagging. This girl should be left to rest in peace right now.
It's still shocking that she died just like that for people to begin to say stuffs on her right now.

Dyt: It will lead to good things
It will lead to success
It will lead to all the things dat brings joy to one

Alleluiah, girl.

Aa San waa sii gbogbo nkan tii eyan fi l'ayo
I like that chorus, the owner of the song will be amazed to hear me sing his song. The way I harmonized it will have him wondering why he didn't prolong that chorus and make sweeter/more soul lifting music with that part of his song.

JallowBah: Today, there is actually a demonstration in the capital, regarding family-reunions in my country. The FN-convention says "to put the need of kids first", and for kids, the best thing would be to have both their parents in the same country, specially when they are married. Still, the immigration law say you need to make at least 43891.04 $, before taxes every year, to get your spouse in the country. They do not care if he have a job waiting or not. They do not care how long you have been married, how long you have been apart, or how the man is as a person.

So, I need a new job. I am looking, and have interviews this week coming. Cross your fingers for me, I need him to come and stay.

And I know what you mean..it is just not easy at all times. Most of the time, I am positive, and keeping my head up, it just HITS at times.
Going to suprise him tomorrow, though Can`t wait to put my arms around my hubby, two months since the last time now!

Wow $43891 is huge for that. They made things difficult for such couples, guess it's some form of control by the immigration unit. Everything will be alright okay. Hope your daughter is doing great?

I agree that the breaking of the news yesterday evening was too quick, shocking and unbelieveable but the Ayobami guy quarrelling with Linda is not making sense at all. What does he mean by saying that CNN should be the media to break the news after family confirmation. What kind of logic is that?

Jeez this is real.
Poor girl. Rest dearie.

That girl dey heartless o-o and she is there flashing her picture to the world and blabbing like that. Can somebody tell her to remove her picture from there because people get killed for talking heartless trash like that. Even when i don't like how heartless she is being, we don't want another death right now.

What manner of human being is that? Even after the Goldie girl is dead, one can still almost touch the hatred oozing from that heartless Nkem girl.

Ini Edo have lovely eyes, that smoky eye shadow is very good on her eyes.
She hasn't looked this good in a long while. Hope what i am seeing on her belly isn't folds of flesh? If she wants to show off all that she should be ready to gym out fat-causing-folds biko.

So this girl truly died? Wow.
Heard in the net last night but waited to confirm today and be sure.
I was admiring her lovely outfit she worn to the grammy in a thread here just days ago.
Rest in peace girlie.

@PrettyCindy
Hope you are doing great dear.
Please whatever you do, be very careful with a man who dared strike a pregnant woman. A woman pregnant with his child at that.
A man that cannot find it in him to set eye on his own child. Where is the heart of such a man that any will want to live with him?
I got scared reading where he slapped you and you slapped him back. It was beautiful you stood up for yourself when you were abused but things could have gone out of hand and you could have been harmed greatly out of rage for slapping him back. Thank goodness you escaped the abuse in one piece.

We are not the ones to tell you what to do here, you may even say all this and lovey dovey back to him. Just be careful whatever you do, we want you alive and well.

JallowBah: 50/50 chance. If we get no, we will probably move to a country that is a member of EU-union, where we know it is a 99% chance to get a yes.
I am tired of moving, and stressing, and all that sh*t. I just want my husband to be able to stay in my country, with us, and have..."a normal life".

Most times your belief and the things you have in mind (view,wish) concerning an important matter comes tumbling out exactly the way you willed it. As this means a lot to you simply believe and will that you are getting a perfect "yes" not 50/50 chance. Haven't you seen women that go to their country's immigration office to demand why their spouse aren't getting what is due to him? In such cases the immigration officers can't help but grant such couples their heart's desire. You can speak to a lawyer that can explain things to you (your rights and that of your foreign husband) that is if you are haven't done so already. Most countries enable the spouse of a citizen of their country to stay with their wife/husband if due process is followed unless there are other things surrounding it that are making you worry over things. Don't fret much okay.

JallowBah: Venting:

I miss Gambia. Way too much. I miss his mother, and her rambling on in fulani to me, and me understand just small of it, and then us laughing.
I miss walking to the cornershop in the morning to buy tappalappa.
I miss arguing in the marked about price on almost everything.
I miss having his family around, but still being able to have privacy when needed.
I miss the climate.
I miss the calmness I feel when i am down there, how more relaxed and happy with myself and the surroundings I feel..
I really wish there was work down there..there is no chance for us there, not now.

Instead, we have to go through the hell of applying with immigration in my country, and maybe, maybe not, get a yes or a no. It f*cks up my head.

Hey! Hey!
Take it easy.
It's going to be alright, you know.

You have to get a "yes", its your country and you are entitled to having him with you there. It's gonna be alright.

omakay: Hello Everyone in the house.

Has anyone taken time to study the HIGHER/LOWER option?

That is another gold mine to be explored.

I will be back with more updates on my research.

I think that is a good option to use but not for a short time trade like 30 mins or one hour. It will be perfect for a trade that is longing or shorting steadily, retracing a little bit and continuing on its journey. One can trade it for say good long hours that you are sure that the trade would have progressed on and make your money. I used it once or twice for short time trade and learnt that lesson.

Manweysabi: where u been babe? happy nu year!

Happy New year Sir. I've been good, just caught up with other things. Happy New year to you.
Happy New year to everybody.

wapmasta001: Where have u being....en manweysabi....since u dey come here, u never post oooo.....u come c woman post today, na him u say make u post sharp sharp....hmmmm manweysabii

Wapmasta Na waa for you-o-o

[quote author=Brand_new]I don't share the authors views though it's somehow applicable to some people. I also grew up having house helps and with the circumstances I grew up in, we kinda shared tasks and responsibilities so I never saw them as inferior. That stuck with me and until now I see every other person as equals and believe they deserve to be respected and cared for even though they seem not to be from a privileged background.[/quote]Just what I said. I share her view but do not agree perfectly with the instance she used to buttressed her point.

As per solution, it starts with us all. There are people in our country mostly youths with such crazy mentality towards the rich. I was with a group of people sometime ago and somebody passed us and the kind of adulations he got in greetings was enough to make me know that there must be a reason why he was being specially greeted and praised, the next moment he walked away two persons in the group busted out praising the young man and making every one know how much money the said man has to a point that i nearly wanted to close my ears.

In my opinion though, I think that a greater percentage of homes in Nigeria inculcate moral values compared to some other countries. If some people think that most famlies don't teach kids to appreciate and respect everyone irrespective of class or jobs they are doing then the teaching of good values should be inculcated in schools and home. There is a country that got tired of parents not teaching kids enough at home and having them grow up with less moral values. What they did was start a drive/campaign that aims at instilling moral values/virtues in schools.

ifyalways: She wrote so much about the societal class segregation and so little on how to curb it.
@Ivy,why do you have a problem with her personal experience?She's been honest,IMO.

Yeah, I thought as much too as in how to change that----
Ain't got worries with her personal experience Ojare, just saying that there are many instances that should have been used for example some fathers in the villages that will insult and almost want to push their adult boys into robbery [color=000099]when they see[/color] the Obodo oyibo-living children of their mates return home with dollars .

He pulled his tripled-up-worth swagga string on[color=00099] them and now they[/color] will all be tripping to do his biddings.
Nice!
He and the boys did us proud, I believed in them all the way. They should sit up in NFF, respect the talent we've got and quit getting us foreign coaches, the ones some countries brought to AFCON nearly had hypertension in the field on us. Lol

oluwadare26: He shud thank his saviour dat he didnt waited long, he 4 c the Unemployed graduates get coaching skills

You ain't easy.

hisableplc: This morning i found out that the bulls are on gear n not relaxing yet i still rode on the bulls on gu eu ej n gold though i will close at 11-12 cos i know phase 2 might change things

Yeah EJ is a bit bullish-steady this morning but also retracing a bit right now. Can still head on north, should----do watch out.

infofirst: Eu bull should watch out for the opportunity after today drop n no chrt now cos i just lost my mum...Dull Mood activated n May God Help us all.

May God comfort your heart.

Happy New season 13 all,

@Ufotuko
There's a mail for you, need your e mail address to get it to you or you can mail me at ivorybt@yahoo.com so that i can forward it.

sleek09: Wapmasta i see you. pls i wouldn't mind the ebook as well. sleek0509(at)yahoo(dot)com.
More greens.

What's the latest ebook on BOM, make una send am come my way o. The other one we got wasn't enlightening enough.
Wapmasta please send it to me too at ivorybt@yahoo.com. Thanks

Happy New year to all ya Pipmaking Pips

Ufotuko (remember me from the binary options thread?) this post is for you. I just composed a mail to send to you to get an info from you but just realized that I don't have your e-mail address. I thought I had it but remembered that you were trying to send me an attachment months ago that failed to go thru. You can send me a mail at ivorybt@yahoo.com so that I can forward the mail to you that is if you don't want to leave your e-mail addy here. Thanks


Whoops just realized that season 13 thread is already on!

Long One: I don’t see anything wrong with what she said. She showed her upbringing a part of the problem, which I feel is a necessary step towards a lasting solution. She could have adopted a ‘holier than thou’ attitude, but she did not, this I find impressive.

Truth be told, we all know what the problem is, but seem to shy away from working towards a lasting solution, as it is embedded in our orientation right from childhood.

slimyem: Why are you making it sound as if she made all those things up.
She relayed her personal experience just as it was to paint the desired effect which it did.
Like it or not,it is a vivid description of the relationship between average Nigerian families with housemaids back in the day and up till now. @bolded...speak for yourself and family.Stop questioning Ada's angle.
Its an interesting read depicting the sad angle of Nigerians' social and economic lives.
Would you have preferred she says things are they are not instead?

One or two of my posts here in the forum in the past holds the same view as depicted in Ada's article. I also don't like that the rich ones are exalted and the poor ones unappreciated in our country.

I don't think that her use of how she related with maids did justice to her write-up, there are other instances that can bring her topic home to people without telling the world that she wasn't taught to respect all persons and making it seem like every family look down on maids and families that give out their children as helps. I don't think that is true but if you guys think so too then you are entitled to your opinion just like I am entitled to mine. Thanks

remecy: The problem is that when ladies in relationships notice that is not working as they wish simply becos they gain somethings from it they feel they can change it after they after marriage.
Suicide is not your solution right now rather more problems.
You are already in it, always please your husband no matter what he says or do especially in the presence of those he talks bad abt you to, even if hurts.Do those things that thrill him while you were dating even if it is against your wish. Soon he will change.
Remember, that divorce is not an option as no man wants a second wife so u must make your marriage work. All the best

If she is already in it, does she have to tolerate being abused with words in front of others? She sure has to react to it in such a way that the man stops doing that. Folding her hands and pleasing him nicy nicy even when she is being talked down will not make him change soon dearie.

Ada Nwaubani made it sound like her parents didn't teach her and her siblings to respect and appreciate everybody whether maid or not. She is writing about a good topic but spoilt it by bringing in her family upbringing and relationship with maids therein. She said that it is in recent years that she learnt to accord due respect to maids (the "thank you" and "smiles" ), like was she treating them less than that before? Some of us lived with maids while growing up and still appreciated and respected them. One of the househelps I grew up with was getting same stuffs, dresses etc parents bought for me, it was as if we were twins. We were taught to treat them like our own siblings too so it isn't every family that looked down on maids as nobodies.

On that note if Ada had cut out that part about the maids and concentrated on her topic and found other good examples and areas where the poor are snobbed and the rich exalted in our country that would have been a nice write up.

I have read stuffs sychronize like that when women live close.
What is one person doing with 40 wives. Jeez!