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Family / Re: Hitting Ur Wife To Be? by Iyanlax: 8:43pm On Aug 15, 2009 |
Run for your life It will only get worse. |
Romance / Re: My Boy Friend's Best Friend Is A Girl. by Iyanlax: 2:38pm On Sep 07, 2008 |
@ At thread starter - "Tunde said he wanted Tope to be his girl friend, but she wasn't conceding since Tunde is IGBO (Note: names used here are not the real names) and Tope Yoruba, Tope's parents don't want Igbos. For more than two years, they've been very close claiming to be best friends According to the above, I would be concerned too if I were Bukky. It sounds like the only reason they are not an item is because of their parents, However, if their friendship has lasted this long despite their parents objections to courtship/marraige, sooner or later they will become one. My advise, tell Bukky to cut hjer losses sooner rather than later or she will be hurt, Tunde is not being fair at all to poor Bukky. |
Romance / Re: Love Is Too Incredible. I Need Help by Iyanlax: 8:34pm On Jan 28, 2008 |
You done the right thing. If she cannot commuicate her self to you, you will have bigger probs in the future. I woul suggest talking to her, but is seems as though you have attempted to do this many times to no avail. Some ppl are just not meant to be together. Dont let her insecurities spoil you for the right woman. |
Romance / Re: So Confused About My Relationship - My Boyfriend Beats Me by Iyanlax: 8:27pm On Jan 28, 2008 |
@ Poster. Dont be confused. RUN FOR YOUR LIFE. |
Romance / Re: I Don Confuse by Iyanlax: 8:14pm On Jan 28, 2008 |
No need for confusion. Appreciate her honesty and if you really care about her, you will appreciate her friendship without no strings. |
Family / Re: Hey This Is ''shapeyz'' Husband by Iyanlax: 9:42pm On Jan 25, 2008 |
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Why am I starting to get a bad feeling that Nairalanders have been led up a loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong garden path with this story! Shapey, the cousin and now the husband have all come to contribute to this saga. Not that I found this strange to begin with, however, now the husband has come to add his experience. Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm I smell big smelly fish here ooooo. Maybe you guys ought to sell your script to Nollywood producers. Me I no longer buy this story. |
Romance / Re: Affair With A Married Man by Iyanlax: 8:44pm On Jan 22, 2008 |
@ Poster. What goes around comes around. Remember that when you are about to marry the love of your life. If this 'married' man cannot honour the vows he made before the Almighty Lord, atleast, you should honour yourself. I dont agree with it at all. He will chuck you back to where he picked you when he finishes having his fun, and wonder back to his poor wife! This poor unsuspecting wife may be you one day. Honour your self my dear. |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Keep Asking Me To Assit His Ex Boyfriend by Iyanlax: 8:35pm On Jan 20, 2008 |
frFrank, SHE'S PLAYING YOU LIKE A HARP |
Romance / Re: Your Girlfriend Disappears with Your Certificate by Iyanlax: 4:04pm On Jan 19, 2008 |
What ediat where you dating what does she want to do sell it to another man, Or maybe it clashed with your wallpaper |
Romance / Re: Should I Accept My Former Girlfriend Back After 2yrs by Iyanlax: 4:01pm On Jan 19, 2008 |
Oga, you have to make this girl really deserve getting you back or she will not flinch to do it again. You need to get to know her again and examine for yourself if she has changed in to the person you NOW wish to date. If she just left you for no reason for another man ask her now what was it about him that swayed her head? Dont be sucked into her sob stories. |
Family / Re: How Necessary Is Marriage? by Iyanlax: 8:58pm On Jan 18, 2008 |
For me oohh, Marraige is very necessary indeed. My momsie and popsie are still together and they have been fab role models for an enduring marraige, I too expect this for myself. I dont want to become a statistic or just be given the sad title of 'baby mother', It's also about an expectation of my worth, to be a wife and not just a standard girlfriend. Indeed my ideals have much to do with my Nigerian culture, thus upbringing. All of which I will be passing on to my children. |
Family / Re: Why Do You Want To Have Kids? by Iyanlax: 8:49pm On Jan 18, 2008 |
@ Stillwater. Pele my dear. God bless. *big hug* Like someone else said, I naturally love children and pray to be blessed with a fantasticly loving family of my own very soon. By the Almighty's Grace. Amen. I suppose I like kids/young people so much I even work with them. |
Romance / Re: Is Love Enough? by Iyanlax: 7:59pm On Jan 18, 2008 |
[quote author=richardz I have three pets at home which answer the same purpose as a husband. I have a dog which growls every morning, a parrot which swears all afternoon, and a cat that comes home late at night" I'd say the above meant you took her for granted [/quote] |
Romance / Re: Ten Years Of Relationship But No Marriage by Iyanlax: 9:48pm On Jan 17, 2008 |
Try not to make it 20 years |
Events / Re: My Dad's 50th Birthday: , What Gift Can I Buy For Him: by Iyanlax: 9:27pm On Jan 15, 2008 |
Buy your Popsie ati Momsi a return ticket somewhere nice. If owo is not available, Plan a party for him, 50 is a mile stone birthday. Invite all his friends, including some old ones he has lost touch with. Plan it that all his kids make a special speech showing all appreciation for him etc I actually the party idea is better than the first one. It does depend on how long you have befor the big day, but it doesn't have to be on his day just the Sat after. Good luck. |
Romance / Re: kl by Iyanlax: 4:52pm On Jan 11, 2008 |
@ Hacker777. You must stop living in DENIAL. You already know what the deal is, you must stop trying to make excuses for her behaviour. Dont let her spoil you visions and expectations of a healthy and respectful relationship. She's not ready for what you got to give, it hurts, but not as much as it would if you continue to overlook her behaviour. Peace |
Family / Re: My Marriage Is Dying Before My Eyes: Help by Iyanlax: 10:46pm On Jan 08, 2008 |
@ Poster, I dont need to tell you the error of your ways - you know this already. But I do have to ask you 'what the hell were you thinking of when you decided to go to work the same morning he found out this tragic news' M&S for that matter! Wow. No disprespect but omo, come better than that. I think your oko has every right to be angry with you. You are the last person who he feels should have laughed at such news. However, I'm starting to think that his level of anger towards you may have a lot to do with what his mother has informed him about you in the past. She has (imo) obviously spoken things that he is seeing in you now. This is a big shame and I am praying on your behalf that his heart softens towards you once again. I also agree that you MUST, at all cost go home and support him, even if M&S want to sack you for it, let them go to places. Good luck and the Almighty Lords blessings. |
Romance / Re: Is My Complexion A Gift Or A Curse? by Iyanlax: 5:50pm On Jan 07, 2008 |
See how devide and rule still plaughs us today, @ Poster you 'try to elevate your self |
Culture / Re: Can I, A Calabar Boy, Wed An Edo Girl? by Iyanlax: 5:38pm On Jan 07, 2008 |
I agree. Its seems a little odd that your asking for advice in areas such as distance, culture, surely yr courtship together would have answered these questions. How long have you been dating this young lady? Or is she someone you have taken a shine to (from afar) and are considering her as you future wife ? |
Romance / Re: She Wants Me To 'Give Her More Space' by Iyanlax: 3:26pm On Jan 04, 2008 |
that question is giving me a kind of answer to my assumption about the whole thing. we really don't go out 2geda much and its her fault. the time we have gone out 2geda have always been from my side. she is always saying she want to stay at home. this just came to my mind, cld it be she never loved me? this question is bring so many things to my head, we hardly DO THAT THING and truly when we do it, it really don't enjoy it at all. its always very boring to the core and u knw we men because of the urge we got to do it. --------------------------------- OK Now it sounds as though you both are simply not COMPATIBLE I now agree you should just be friends and move on, you can not FORCE love. Pele. |
Romance / Re: Is This Right? by Iyanlax: 2:08pm On Jan 04, 2008 |
Its morally wrong. Why are two sisters marraid to two brothers. Did yr friend meet him through her sisters relationship with her now husband? If so, it wrong for the two siblings to go this far(imo). However, if they met seperately then it lessensa the moral boundaries. Overall, this is just TOO CLOSE TO HOME. Haba. |
Romance / Re: She Wants Me To 'Give Her More Space' by Iyanlax: 12:02pm On Jan 04, 2008 |
@Poster, I really DONT THINK SHE IS SEEING SOME OTHER MAN. Your girlfriend simply WANTS A BIT OF A CHALLENGE Would you not get BOARD of the same old routine day in day out? What else do you people do besides you going o see her EVERY day from work? What are her interest? What are your interests? @ Every body who suggested another man has taken her interest. Its best not to judge EVERY case by your own experiences. Not every body is this fickle |
Romance / Re: She Wants Me To 'Give Her More Space' by Iyanlax: 12:00pm On Jan 04, 2008 |
@Poster, Give her some space and then plan an exciting surprise for her that does not invlve her neighbourhood |
Romance / Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by Iyanlax: 8:30pm On Jan 02, 2008 |
I think this warrants the girlfriend being informed Holding hands in the movies sounds suspect to me. Lets face it, if this was innocent, the girlfriend would be aware of this 'friend' so the person doing the telling will have to ask the girlfriend in a round about way if the boyfriend is close to any other females. We are all different but I believe this is over stepping boundaries and respect for your other half; unless the relationship is young, other than that, there really is no need. Why was the girlfriend not invited if this movie date was nothing suspect? These questions indicate the necessity for the person doing the telling, to be sensitive, and not dropping this info like 'amebo'(sp) . |
Romance / Re: Help! My Girlfriend Is Suicidal, My Life Is At Risk! by Iyanlax: 12:13am On Dec 22, 2007 |
@ Prince_onx. I did not want to laugh but your post was too funny, but on point. @ Segzi Cres. I agree with Prince, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE but b4 you do so, I suggest you try and persuade her to visit a Phycologist - counsellor, this behaviour is NOT NORMAL for any of u. Maybe speak to your lecturer for advise a.s.a.p. |
Romance / Re: 2 Months Pregnant And 6 Months To Fixed Wedding Date? Advice by Iyanlax: 10:06pm On Dec 15, 2007 |
I dont understand what the couple are fretting about. You said they done the traditional engagment in Naija this year am I mistaken by thinking they are already Husband and Wife in the laws of Nigeria? Please enlighten me if I have it wrong. If the issue is the parents - Are they really going to consider terminating their first child on this basis? Haba I'm sure their folks would understand, they have been together for 8 years for goodness sake. If the issue is the woman not wanting to walk down the aisle heavily pregnant, I understand, why dont they consider pushing the wedding forward? But to even contemplate termination (imo) would be a grave mistake. Please ask them to consider their options wisley. Please I urge you. |
Romance / Re: Should I Be Friends With My Boss? by Iyanlax: 4:18pm On Dec 15, 2007 |
Blackcat:--------------------------------------- So! Why don't you just break down all the relevant details in the first post rather than getting people to mis understand your intentions. On that basis, i really think deep down your intentions are NOT honourable. Yor boss is HOT, but IM MARRIED. Girl stop fooling your self. |
Romance / Re: Me,my Pastor,and The Big Secret by Iyanlax: 3:46pm On Dec 15, 2007 |
Your post sounds like a fantasy from your diary However, I give you the benefit of the doubt. My friend, get out of this church and report him, What kind of pastor is this. Omo I beg, dont let him abuse you any more. Please read Corinthians 2, CH 11. Adultery, False Prophets! Galatians, Corinthians 1 For you my dear, read Proverbs 31. |
Romance / Re: Should I Be Friends With My Boss? by Iyanlax: 3:30pm On Dec 15, 2007 |
I think, get a crip of your sences girl. Fix up, look sharp. |
Romance / Re: What Should A Man Do When A Woman Hits Him? by Iyanlax: 10:09pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
What should a man do when a woman hits him? The same as a woman should do if a man hit her, RUN LIKE THE WIND |
Culture / Re: How Is Christmas Celebrated In Nigeria? by Iyanlax: 9:34pm On Dec 12, 2007 |
ikamefa:Too funny. |
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