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As far as am concern no tribe can insult ijaw without me telling you the menace ur tribe is bringing to this country...
Anyday u want to insult ijaw i'm in this forum and i will tell u the backwardness of your tribe.. Always tribal' no meaningful statement..

jamesversion:
Soothe yourself.

1.when u mis-manage things you put ur life in danger no matter how much u get..
2. Spending 15k for a plate of soup instead of 5k is greedyness and lack of calculation..
3. I know a woman who finish her shop over food and clothes but today go and see her fellow business women and see the length they have gone..
4. I believe in making more money no matter how much i get or make.
5.marriage is not by force'' i don't know whether u read my ftc?
6.your friend was never ready from the beginning' how can u talk about marriage when you don't have a meaningful income.
7.what i believe about marriage is' no matter how much u are making' a man need to save atleast 1 to 5m before bringing a woman home regardless of ur monthly income but everybody don't think same and everybody has different experience with different struggling background' so what if the person is trying to save this money and didn't meetup'' he need to start from somewhere.[quote author=BigIyanga post=125486324][/quote]

Choice... Bad nigga don't judge.. They just want to bleep and keep the vibe going... Anything u want to do with a bad nigga is free e.g smoking tattoo and many more...

The dirty tribe before yoruba.. A tribe where an 80yrs old man can marry a 10years old kid.. A tribe where raping and borning kid like rice' want to talk about ijaw i was thinking u are from a sound tribe like igbo....

jamesversion:
I'm from Hausa. So you can tell me our faults.

BigIyanga:
You’re stil talking about you in this issue…you’re happy you brought a child into this world.. good. What is the future of that child? He/she will take the same WAEC/JAMB with kids that attended good govt and private schools? For your child to pass and get admitted into a federal unit school, you should have a cash reserve of about N300k… we are not talking about private school for rich folks

let end it here'' i am not here to brag about myself'' whatever my mates are doing i can attain the small i will get... I know how much i make every 4 to 6months.... A non greedy and careless person can marry and enjoy well with 6k daily except he marry a useless woman...

You didn't ask urself between the man and the woman who will simp more... If u are simp you are simp... Marriage don't turn anyman to a simp rather understanding and maturity is what u need in marriage'' 4rm experience

spiSeyi:
The reality is that marriage is meant for SIMP , alpha males go wait tire . Most Nland alpha males become too SIMPle at the sight of t*to

One of my happiest moment in life is giving birth to my beautiful daughter in the year 2016'' today i am enjoying my life not because i am earning salary or whatever...
I leave my 50k salary govt work to go join and busines and it is the most important choice i have ever made'' if you telling him not marry' what about keke drivers who make 7 to 3k but living fine wit their kids...
Oga the salary of a graduate is 80k to 90k yet they are married'' ok what about soldiers who earn 50 to 60k... It is choice and calculation... It is not easy to make 180k in nigeria... The only demerit is the cash don't come in bulk.. If not op is a big man...

BigIyanga:
Prices of baby foods like similac,peak,sma,diapers, kids drugs+, hospital care dont change whether you’re in the city of village, matter of fact, they cost more in villages .
180k steady income can take care of a single not a family of 3 (husband, wife and 1 kid) unless you want that wife and child to suffer

Good idea also...

mayo47:
120k excluding weekends. Does he work all weekends? Its not healthy to assume he works everyday. If he does he might use the money he makes to take care of himself.

If he makes 120k, abeg use the money to partly learn a very a marketable skill within 1 year. After this step, you can continue with side job on the side with the 120k. Then you can evfen decide to marry because your situation will very likely change in the future because of the skill

NB: Marketable skill is relative. Look at verifiable website to find out what people are looking for. Go to Coursera and Udemy and the rest will be history

In ur imagination anybody who doesn't believe in your religion is suffering? What a dumb thinking.. See this is not where i will brag about my life.. But i have get what many of my age mates has not got yet.. Say u get..

Myer:
I'm sure life is already telling you about life.
Just be humble and you will save yourself from life showing you more shege.

Come to the Way, the Truth and the Life and you will know and experience the difference between life and Eternal Life.
God bless you.

I have said it before'' two over strict people can't end well in any marriage.. If you don't have the ability to overlook so many things marriage is not for you....
Your entitle mentality and papers didn't matter in marriage...
What matters is understanding and patience...

Either me....

frozen70:
It doesn't make sense engaging you in any meaningful conversation
So am done with you

You don't tell me things concerning nigeria'' i know how much i spent everyday... Telling some one to not marry because he is earning 180k doesn't add up'' in my writeup i give reasons' depend on location and ur connection plus the type of woman u want to marry... You just quote me like i make the wrong statement... If u say people who earn 180k should not marry... What is the salary of a graduate' what is the salary of level 15'' my man life is not like that and life didn't wait for anybody.. As far he can born what he is be able to take care of it is fine.. Once again go and read the ftc before you quote me... I have clear reasons

BigIyanga:
Im telling you the truth… folks like you are far from reality. Go and price . SMA, cerelac and other baby foods… Prenatal and postnatal care go cost N100s of 1000s… Folks like u always trivial the financial involvement in raising kids…that’s why we have over 20m kids homeless and out of school.

The men patronizing you for hookup will still reject you when they want to marry... They reject u because u choose ashawo' u was not forced into it.. And they have the right to reject you... Just d truth... A man smoking weed with you knows that he will not marry you...

frozen70:
Look, hook ups are being patronized by men

Have you ever seen any man that brings a hook up lady to his parents and introduce her as a hook up staff, you as a man will you introduce her as such?

No one is justifying that act, but why are the men patronizing them

Same way men goes into robbery and we are not justifying that

Are you telling me that FG are not aware that some ladies are into such professions

Do you see them being asked to pay tax

The main issue is that may we not be found in such situations

My friend will u get lost...

Myer:
That some are using phone wrongly does not mean phone is the problem.
The problem is lack of knowledge of God.
Pray you never encounter the kinda problem that will make you believe in God by force.
More importantly, pray for Grace to easily know God personally, life and existence has meaning when you do.

what do you have to tell me concerning life... Just because u want to defend ur useless religion..

Stop misleading the public....

BigIyanga:
You’re talking about yourself right.. N180k/mo is nothing in this Naija economy. You must not bequeath poverty to your kid. You dont have to bring a child into this world join suffer league with u. Go hustle and stabilize yourself 1st

talented321:
My wedding is coming soon my man... I hope u dey state na..

kikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikiki egberi ama...

Just imagine'' somebody who can't tell his tribe want to have discussion with me.. As if i be novice here in nigeria... No tribe can insult ijaw' that i will not tell him/her the uselessness of their tribe be it yoruba' igbo or hausa... Just leave the kid

talented321:
We don't have to fight here in nairaland'' life is more that... I hate tribal talks Jamesversion if u are proud of your tribe make it known'' because i know izonborn has the ability to counter u... Name ur tribe..

Comment of d year

hopefulLandlord:
Christians should be very watchful of their utterances against Pastor Taiwo Odebiyi as what he did might've been commanded by Yahweh as he works in mysterious ways and his wisdom, as our perfect Holy Bible said, looks like foolishness unto man.

Yahweh once told the Israelites to kill all Midianites but keep young virgin girls as war booty. This sounds wrong to us but whatever Yahweh commands is wise even if it looks wrong in our limited knowledge he has his reasons

Yahweh figuratively destroyed Saul for not totally destroying the Amalekites

Yahweh once told Ezekiel to eat bread baked with human shiit

Same way Yahweh sent lying spirits to Ahab's prophets. This also sounds wrong to us but he has his reasons we aren't privy to and he answers to no one

Yahweh also hardened Pharaoh's heart while using that as opportunity to send more plagues and kill innocent people until all firstborn sons of the Egyptians are dead.

Since they never born me.. One man dey rule one country... I blame d citizens and military...

I don't have to reply u because u sound dumb... So u can't say what u want to say without involving tribe... And it is ur type that shout tribalism up and down..

jamesversion:
Is that how single girls take over peoples marriages in Bayelsa or maybe Ijawland where you come from?

i will not reply u again...

Peoples role model..

Jeon'' calm down'' forgive the manchi...

Jeon:
Then what is the meaning of this?



Or this is the usual copy and paste stories y'all stole? .

I believe he will learn the hard way...

1k men are jobless because of a selfish leader..

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finallybusy:
I don't understand "feminists" trying to push blame to the father. He played his part nine months ago. He has surely long impregnated another female.

Your life is in danger'' but you are thinking about marriage.. Trusting that woman is ur number one fuckup...
You dey wear suit?

The fire will deliver her...
Gullible religion fools...
When it didn't favor them' they blame satan.. And when it's favor them' they go and give their useless thanksgiving.. He fit dey bleep her too...
Look at china' russia' japan and many more countries'' the world respect them not because of religion but because of science and inventions...
I wonder the young generation refuse to learn.. With religion you only go backward because it is just over hyped..

An unmarried woman in early thirty is already bitter and violent... From experience...

Rucheen:
Unmarried elderly woman and an impotent man who is more bitter

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Your toto never slack/worn out'' that is a red flag too..
If you don't stop hookup you will die single' why because their is a spirit in oloshoism...
Oloshos lack appreciation'' because you compare your man with ur customers'' men love appreciation and hate comparison.
*every lasting friendship needs''
Understanding' patience' don't depend on man entirely financially' appreciate' stop pressing ur phone when with ur man' it is a redflag.. Stop unnecessary arguement with ur man and always respect his opinion' counter him politely when he does what you don't like and many more..
*look at the men you are dealing with' does this men has vision and ready to start live..

You are the one suffering from boredom... Why una hate truth like this...

Persephone1:
I don't know how a grown up will wake up early in the morning and would pick advising single women as a quest of all problems of the world and Nigeria specifically. Small-mindedness or boredom?

Km

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