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Unlimited22:
Omo arsenal wan bottle league p

[color=royalblue]Woe is that man that puts his hope in Arsenal another man.[/color]

Persephone1:
Lol... So let me get this straight.

Nigerian men monetize Nigerian women's efforts and roles, women are beginning to see and act from men's perspective now there are issues. All of you will be alright!

When you are quick to ask a woman what she brings to the table, what she added to your success, what her contributions are in the home all because they aren't monetary and quantifiable then it's only a matter of time before such woman stop trying, take off her "insignificant" deeds , becomes completely "useless"and contribute what you only understand/acknowledge MONEY by earning.
Drink water you will be alright!

As for cooking, a man who understands and acknowledge the non monetary effort of a woman deserves lots of mouth watering dishes. But a "what do you bring to the table" kind of man deserves "plates filled with cash".
All of us will be alright

[color=royalblue]Ma,

A woman does not know how to cook.

Should she be applauded for this or not?

I would appreciate your reply, ma [/color]

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Omoh, i don laugh tire.[/color]

Kholiwe:
Then specify about those you are talking about. Don't say women like you are referring to all.

[color=royalblue]Yes, maa'mi[/color]

Unlimited22:
Lol they have a term for this.

This is their 'internalised misogyny' and the feminists are here to liberate them from such thinking which is why our fragile egos cannot handle them.

[color=royalblue]Lol

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Magnoliaa:
Dude, dude, dude.

Okay, I get your point.

But you know we can also flip this and apply it to you, right?


Infact, I will dare say it that you men that are saying a woman must know how to cook do not actually require those standards of your women.


If you think I am making mouth with all I am saying here, who's to say you and the rest are not making mouth too?

Oh. You believe so much in your own integrity to be true to yourself?

The fact that you cannot conceive something, especially outside of your scope (and life outlooks), doesn't make it a lie.

[color=royalblue]I am not here to argue anybody's world with them

I as a guy had to cook for 11 months because i had no option.

So why should i applaud someone for not knowing how to cook? Even if you hate men with every breathe you take, why shouldn't you learn how to cook for yourself?

I am yet to meet a lady that cannot cook and isn't willing to learn. I have never seen any in my entire life.

This is the first place in my life that i would see ladies applaud ladies that cannot cook.

No vex if i sound archaic[/color]

Kholiwe:
You statement is clear and obvious. Cooking food is a thing of pride for women lol.

[color=royalblue]Yes, for my sister,my cousins my mum, the ladies i have dated, and all i have as friends.

Do you want to argue my world with me?[/color]

Kholiwe:
One moment you are saying women don't belong to the kitchen then another you are saying making meals is a thing of pride for women. Cooking food is a pride for women lmao. The African man at his core is sexist by nature so am not surprised.

[color=royalblue]You can be shocked, surprised, anxious, etc

That's on you, not me.

It is your responsibility to comprehend what i typed, not mine[/color]

Unlimited22:
Even my sister no dey gree me near her pot, e come be madam.


I believe everyone should know how to cook and you're expecting me to jump for joy when you tell me you don't know how to cook and you're not willing to learn

Okay.

[color=royalblue]They are trolling.

It has to be [/color]

GloriousGbola:
The Irony of your argument is that women across the world, brought up in different cultures from hyper conservative to Uber liberal have been and still are being taught to cook.

The target market of designer cooking utensils and accessories are not men, they are women. The stars of the cooking threads in this platform are women and no one is bothered with it.

A woman who can cook is as important to a marriage as a man who can knack properly. Yes you can do without either, but a lifetime of this will be pretty grim.

Unlimited22:
Omo my former HOD when I was a student is a Professor of Optometry.

She no dey too get time for domestic work. Her husband is a successful Medical doctor too with his own practice in Owerri.

These people dey travel international. As in, they're not small fish by Naija standards.

Bro, this woman dey tell us how she looks forward to being the one to make her husband's and family's meals by herself whenever she can despite being able to afford help.
I have seen lots of cases like these from very successful women.

I am a doctor and I see great women I'm different fields every day of my life, but I will be threatened by people who are starting their careers and cannot cook.

[color=royalblue]It is a thing of pride for women..

Like GloriousGbola said, they will fiercely defend the kitchen; complain when you put a spoon where it shouldn't be, or even scoop the food in a shape they do not like.

I no dey believe all these things for here[/color]

GloriousGbola:
Now that you put it like that - imagine me as a man saying I don't keep track of the bills that need to be paid. Its not my role.

[color=royalblue]I just tire[/color]

Unlimited22:
Im just not going to Debate such matters anymore because it's basic common sense.


My sister Is a better cook than I am, but we can both cook.

If we dey house i won't be expecting hee to go and start generator or change oil inside motor, or to climb tank and put chlorine.
If the bulb for her room blow I no go expect am to loosen lampholder. But she can do some of these things.

In the same way, even if I follow am ho market or I help, she go enter kitchen.

I even go with her because we're far apart and rarely are at home together...

Na only here wey we go dey clap for woman wey no sabi cook.

[color=royalblue]After wetin i read here, I really thank God for my life.

I thank God for your own too.

I really thought it was common sense[/color]

[color=royalblue]INEC never announce results, person don give victory and acceptance speech

Is this not punishable by law?[/color]

Unlimited22:
Even my father, who believes in traditional roles to the core (guyman no sabi anything wey pass to boil rice and yam) told me this.

He doesn't know how to cook but as I was following him to generator house and to change car oil, na so I dey follow mumsi enter kitchen.

He said until you get to that point, there are things you must do for yourself and this applies to everyone.

Na only for Nairaland we go dey praise woman wey no sabi cook

[color=royalblue]Like...

Even if no man will ever taste your food, cook for yourself.

Na only here you go see women praising women for not knowing how to cook...instead of encouraging her to know
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Unlimited22:
Especially on Twitter and Nairaland.


Anyway see wetin Mr. Yakubu INEC don turn Nigeria to.

Them say them no announce any result, but winner dey give victory speech for NTA

[color=royalblue]This country is a big mess.

This election na the most expensive nonsense wey any government don fund.[/color]

[color=royalblue]Everything online is always opposite with the real world.
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liveLongNprospa:
So what is your own volition..

A woman should do majority of the cooking to save resources or a man should do majority of the cooking or should they both take turns with whoever is available to cook..

Which is it?

[color=royalblue]You are just jumping everywhere, trying to use your case to justify everything.

I know how to cook, and my wife must know how to.

Even if i can afford eating out for 365 days, i would not do it.

When my kids grow, we will teach them how to cook.

Na my life be this. No drag am with me, abeg [/color]

Kholiwe:
Anybody that wants to learn how to cook should do that irrespective of Gender. Anybody interested in cooking should learn not just women. The idea that women must be good in the kitchen only propagate the wrong Idea that they belong there. It also creates a situation where the man is okay not making food because he believes it is the job of the woman.

[color=royalblue]Don't blame me for my opinion.

It is here that cooking is argued on the basis of self esteem and equality

The women i know in my life are very proud to cook even what their man would eat.

I have not seen one that sees it as a way to compete.

No vex, ehn[/color]

afrodoc2:
Na you know wetin you dey find.

[color=royalblue]Civil engineers full this thread. [/color]

liveLongNprospa:
The married men here that have wives.. Ask them if their wives are also gainfully employed too then we can proceed from there.

Also izzuo in a relationship, who should be doing the cooking?

[color=royalblue]Should there be cooking or providing in a relationship?

Everyone is at their own volition to cook or provide.

But if you intend to marry any girl, she should love you enough to save resources by knowing how to cook.

And if you intend to marry any man, he should love you enough to meet the family's needs by providing.

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Itsrm:
You can minus me

[color=royalblue]Why naa?

Just when i wanted to make you the first [/color]

BlaqFaze:
In Nigeria and Africa at large marrying a woman who can't cook is recipe for disaster

That big yansh and breast that is shacking you will clear one day and you'll have a house where your wife will be scampering every morning to look for where to buy food for kids to take to school

[color=royalblue]In a country where more than half are struggling, person dey underplay the value of cooking

So everyone can afford chefs and maids..

Wonderful[/color]

liveLongNprospa:
Lmao izzou calm down and follow the conversation well.
I said that cooking is a skill both genders need.

I also said that I know this conversation is because alot of men ascribe cooking to the women in the relationship which is not the way it is unlike then.

I gave an example by saying what if the woman earns higher than the man and thereby takes on more responsibilities in the home, who then cooks?

We all agree cooking is important to both genders.
Where it seems we differ is which gender it should be traditionally assigned to now..

Personally it doesn't make sense for it to be a woman when both of them are working and earning and barely have time.

OH before I forget, for me I don't bother about whether she can cook or not coz eating food from outside nor dey commot anything from my body coz I'm lucky to be able to afford that lifestyle 🙏

[color=royalblue]If you create a thread stating why Men should cook, i will not argue or defend why we shouldn't

I said it before...Everybody should know how to cook.

I served in Kebbi state, and i cooked from my first day after Camp till i left

There was no buka. If anyone did not know how to cook, or try to learn, you will eat bread till you eventually die. This has nothing to do with whether you have money or not

Cooking is necessary, and instead applauding women who can't, encourage them to learn.

I am also happy you are stating your opinion. It is good. But it is not a true reflection of our world.

You can do a survey of married men here that have wives that can't cook, and pay chefs to do the job. Let us see how many they are[/color]

Theflint1:
I don look the passport again, Tinubu's passport and the woman's own that Tinubu posted are same design...her passport also has PD under passport type, and a stamp from the Guinean chief of Cabinet, so likely diplomatic passport as well.

[color=royalblue]Chineke nna![/color]

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liveLongNprospa:
Lmao if a man travels and the woman buys food for the kids, will they not survive?
Abi if a woman travels and a man is getting food from eateries for the kids will the kids die?

Abi something special dey Inside the meals?

Being responsible to your family means to provide for them.
The woman can pay a chef to cook and that sorts it out.
Some of these things na lack of money dey reduce ability to navigate simple issues sometimes

[color=royalblue]A country of 133 million poor people, but we need to justify why cooking is not important and a man can pay chef to cook.

If na European dey type this thing, i go understand.

When i was working, ladies bring their food flasks to work. Both single and married. Even men wey don marry sef dey carry flask come work

But online, a man can pay a chef.

Ask how many married men here have chefs on this thread or on this forum.

Make una continue[/color]

Theflint1:
It's possible not all countries use that ECOWAS-type template...the Nigerian passport is an ECOWAS passport and it's very possible there's an overlap in design for countries that choose to use this ECOWAS passport.

[color=royalblue]You see this reconstruction and rehabilitation wey you wan do? Cement no plenty for am

You have seen two different profiles of Guinean passports, but you want to believe that BAT had a different template.

Why not show us another Guinean passport using BAT template?

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liveLongNprospa:
Men dey file for child support too abroad. So its not just a particular gender.
Hakimi's wife will get child support if she can prove she's a better primary caregiver to the kids. If hakimi proves he can provide care better than the mom then she won't get it.

A man and a woman should be responsible to their family. Things are not so black and white like before.


Use our realities in Nigeria. Imagine marrying a woman who cannot support the home financially in this economy 😁.

Unless you are a rich man or woman then go ahead.
Even some rich men dey ensure say their wives dey earn atleast something. Coz who knows tomorrow.

Wooh this conversation dey based on our individual outlooks on life

[color=royalblue]If you say the bolded, why should one person not know how to cook, and we say we are both responsible?

So if a man travels, his wife will be taking the kids to Sweet Sensation every morning, afternoon and night till he gets back?

Is this how both of them can be responsible for their family?[/color]

Theflint1:
Compare the design of the passport I quoted with this one you just posted, two different things. Tinubu's passport, just like the one you posted is closer to more recent designs of ECOWAS-type passports.

[color=royalblue]ECOWAS-type passports indeed.

This is a picture of a Nigerian and Ghanaian passport.

Both are ECOWAS countries

So which one is ECOWAS-type?[/color]

BlaqFaze:
nawa o...lolz

[color=royalblue]Make we dey watch.

Lies may last for the night, but truth comes in the morning[/color]

Theflint1:
Isn't that a passport that expires in 2012? 11 years later, it's very possible they've changed the design of their passport since then.

[color=royalblue]Check this one from 2019

Change ko, Swap ni[/color]

afrodoc2:
Na so we see am.

Meanwhile let me kill that lamba about Hakimi’s wife. She was never the richest Spanish actress.

When Penelope Cruz, Elsa Pataky, Paz Vega and co never die.

[color=royalblue]Everything about this guy don turn to lamba.

I hear say Mummy Payment method sef na lamba [/color]