₦airaland Forum

1. No wife materials
Common among some men is the reservation that there is scarcity of ‘wife-materials’ in Nigeria.

2. They get sex freely without marriage than in time past
Realizing now that they can get sex more easily than in times past, when ‘virginity’ for women was a pass value to marriage, some men now feel lot of women today have lost it when it comes to keeping themselves whole.

So in marriage, you don't get sex freely baa? Another trash as I expected

3. Nigeria weddings are expensive
In a country where a man is expected to marry a woman in three different kinds of wedding- Religious, Traditional and Court, the cost of marriage no doubt is something men find very intimidating. Presently the average Nigeria wedding cost something like N700,000 and the it goes upward from that to more unimaginable cost.

4. In search of a ‘working class’
Today, most Nigerian men are in search of a wife capable of sharing financial responsibilities with them. Gone are the days when men marry ‘full-house-wives’, the increasing cost of living has tilted most men in favor of ladies who have a means of livelihood and willing to share with their man, the burden of building a home.

Well,this reason makes a little sense

5. Unrealistic Expectations from In-laws
Some parents have set certain standards for anyone who will marry their child, either way be it that such expectations are from the groom parent’s or bride, the regulations sometimes affect relationships

Give an example of an unrealistic expectation or for ever

6. Trust issues
Most times, people fear to get committed into a relationship because of trust issues. Some men have been bruised in their past relationships and therefore they don’t want to put themselves out there.

You are talking about marriage. This means they must be in a relationship already. So how is the issue of trust here again.? Mtcheew

Good morning dear

“I think that whatever age a person chooses to run should not matter; what should matter is the preparedness of the person because elective positions require some skills.

HOLYDICK:
And 12 million naira just went up in that smoke

lestat:
I beg of you with everything you hold holy, please don't have children

We can't have more of this on Earth please

Why is everyone so emotional?

The other day, Sanusi Lamido's son got a job as a police officer. How many people typed GOD BLESS HIS PARENTS?

You know why? Because we always feel the rich oppresses the poor with their privileges, and we forget that we would do much more if we got there.

That boy got that job because his mother recommended him first, then he passed the test and interview, which is very beautiful. God bless his mother

Would you have said the same if the mother was rich? If no, then you are just as hypocritical as I thought

Like I said, don't let your emotions becloud your sense of judgement. What happened her is just Connection, Corruption(if I may borrow the word) and man-know-man.

You can actually scroll down if you don't like what I typed

Adios

CHAVINCI:
nope,got ur point 4rm ur very 1st post,was just messing around wit u

So you just let me dey waste my battery baa?

CHAVINCI:
what's your point exactly,did you miss the part where it said she is a CLEANER that recommended her son,who sat and passed the interview?

My point is, it was her recommendation that got her son a seat for the test and interview

If it was the rich, would you have said the same? You still haven't answered

I have no issue with the son or the job. I'm happy for them. But the lower class always feel cheated if it was the other way round

I'm sure if her son was sidelined and someone else was taken based on recommendation, she would have cried to God. But here she is, doing the same

Hope you get my point?

And if you don't, please don't quote me again. My hand is paining because you still don't understand

ruggedtimi:
na still connection, but the guy merit the job

Because him mama na cleaner for there Abi?

Let's stop being emotional. If it was the rich, it would have been otherwise

CHAVINCI:
people like you dont apprecite good news meant for others.

Awwwnn.. Cry baby


Maybe there was someone else qualified for the job, but because his mum works there and recommended him, that person becomes jobless

Did you think about that? No

Like I said, if it was Folorunsho Alakija or Kema Chikwe that got a job for their children, you will not type "GOD BLESS OUR MOTHERS" but CORRUPTION, MAN-KNO-MAN, CONNECTION and any other phrase we all know

So like I said, go play with your sand. Don't try to be emotional all around me. What I typed is what it is

CHAVINCI:
u just had to open ur damned mouth and spoil the mood sha.

That why it's my mouth



You can now continue playing with your sand

BrainnewsNg:
Hmmmmmm

See prayer ooooo

Are you God?

You didn't see "I hope" in that sentence Abi?

OmobaDe10th:
@izzou are u going from Lagos

Nah

I'm done with NYSC. Just wanted to help you guys

labodinho:
Lol

Wah bout redeployment due to insecurity,still okay?

Kebbi is much more secure than Lagos sef. So that wouldn't even count

They will even tell you in camp not to put that one sef

Just use health grounds sha.

labodinho:
Sup with redeployment using medical report
How possible

I don't want you to redeploy

Go and serve your nation
























Just try and get one from a government hospital. And then try and put your ears down in camp. Runs dey usually happen

But redeployment is absolutely possible

OmobaDe10th:
Please is it a crime to report to camp on the 20th of april

Just be in camp a day after it has been declared open

But in Nigeria, everything is still possible sha

Ijayudife:
Isn't there any1 going from enugu to kebbi?

OmobaDe10th:
so guys what do you think about this plan??