Bad news!

Aflick:


https://punchng.com/teachers-car-crushes-pupil-to-death-in-lagos-school/

sotomayor:
A month ago, I was place on PEP after a condom burst. It took about 12 hours to get it handy.
Just 2days ago I completed it.

Doctors in the house, what's the possibility of contacting HIV , if I missed a day or wasn't exactly taking it at the specified 7pm but regularly.

I feel normal, I just don't trust the girl in question.
Am scared ASF to go get another test.

Please sir. Where did you get your PEP from. My condom burst yesterday and i don't also trust that girl

wolexy07:
Just completed day 20 of PEP. 8 days to be done with this sh*t, I hope. I am taking a combination of Aluvia (Lopinavir/Ritonavir) and Lamivudine+Zidovudine. Side effects: my taste is constantly effed up and I stool sometimes. I am also prone to fall asleep if I mistakenly lie down. The major side effect I have experienced is that my libido and sexual performance has been greatly affected. Pre PEP, I used to go up to 3+ rounds without cumming (I am not lying!) but as I progressed with taking the drugs, I go limp within a minute or two! It's driving me nuts. For those that have taken PEP, did you experience decrease in libido/sexual performance ? Was it temporary? Like, did things normalize after you finished? How long did it take?

Oga sir. Please tell me how you got the PEP because my condom broke and i suspect that girl. Please

allcomage:
Igbo run egalitarian society, live and let live. Everyone believes he can be better and makes efforts to be better. When you ask them why they hate Igbo, They will start to bable.

No, they will use the usual excuse of Igbos too like money that's why

there are people saying granduje is an uneducated riff raff. lol. i laugh

this guy played kwankwaso (former gov of kano state) he has successfully played sanusi ( the ones most influencial monarch in Nigeria )

this fulani people love to make you think that they are not smart .
then they strike you like a snake .

note to all. if you are walking on the same road with a fulani man. please ensure you have your eyes on him at all times . don't let him work behind you.

JonDon12:


Stay Strong is all I can say. Keep your head up. Remember 99 days for thief. One day for the owner.

thank you . learned fellow.

your personality reflects your intensive reading.

starstaz:


Most of Nigeria public universities share this common attribute of " moral killer " and this in no way is the exclusive right of ABU in this regards. Haaaaaaaaaa. From unilag to lasu to oau to unn, the list goes on and on. Am not so sure of private uni in this regards.

well. allow me to disagree .
simply because here in ABU its not all department that are involved in that evil morale killer act.

Tajbol4splend:
These Igbos no dey cease to amaze me, why they wan kill themselves on top Trump wey no know them

because trump is like a igbo man.
going for what is right radically and not a hypocrite.

he is an action man like the igbos

abeg . they are probably envious of her. apart from the fact she is not core north .

this school ABU is where you will see lecturers happy to fail their students out of envy and low self esteem.

i am in ABU accounting department . you can not tell me trash

most notorious department with alot of scheming .
you will write simple exam swearing that you will get an A but you will see C in results board .
or
they will give you something you were not taught in school as exam question . just to fail you and MODERATE the results .

very selfish .
this kills morale like mad.
they mess with your reality .

i have never seen a situation where teachers are happy to see theirr students fail.

JonDon12:


First of all I am not elder. I am not a youth but not an elder. The point I was trying to make is that a lot of "Youth" supported Buhari. Theres no way he would have won without the Youth. Nigeria has a very young population due to its high birth rate and its low average life expectancy so please dont tell me the Youth especially in the SW did not vote for Buhari.

I remember when I lived in Nigeria. I read incessantly. I borrowed books. Spent my breaks and my afternoons reading and a lot of it has paid off. Nigerian Youths do not know anything about History or Liberal Arts and they try not to learn. The definition of Liberal Arts is Knowledge for Free Peoples compared to Scientific Arts which is Knowledge for professionals. In America, the first thing you are taught is Liberal Arts. In Nigeria, you are not taught that but it is still your responsibility to learn how to be free. Thats the only reason I say Nigerian Youth are Lazy.

Voting for a Bad leader is one thing. Voting for a bad leader who then destroys the electoral process hence Guaranteeing Bad Leaders forever is another thing. Buhari is off the latter. If Nigerian Youth were smart, they would have learnt that.

Benjamin Franklin once said: "Those who would give up essential Liberty, to purchase a little temporary Safety, deserve neither Liberty nor Safety."

That is what Nigerians did. They gave up their freedom to an unrepentant despot for a bit of security. They deserve and Got Neither.

before i start . it seems your augment is based on book knowledge not on street observation .
you need to go out there and observe for yourself why we are not doing like you.

i will quote you here :
"I remember when I lived in Nigeria. I read
incessantly. I borrowed books"

while my observation is based on many friends and family members even strangers in a beer palor . i observe what they say And their state of mind.


1.Oga. this youths you are talking about that voted for buhari are the uneducated tugs . those ones are gone. the youths i am talking about are the many graduates over there that are educated enough to make a difference but no, politicis is not their business .
they have lost confidence in it. rightfully so.

they will tell you that "who go win go still win". my vote will not count


my augment was simple . you did seem to counter all but one . which is the hopelessness that has engulfed us all here.

this hopelessness is what i want you to address .

the youths have somewhat giving up on the system

you are talking about reading Liberia art and history . but a youth who have giving up on the system finds no need to read all those.

WE ARE NOT LAZY, WE HAVE LOST HOPE .
that is the plague of the youths somewhat.

so. until you can find a way to restore their hope and confident in our country .
nobody will read Liberia art and history for you.
thank you

my dear. distance is your problem . (thank God you mentioned it)

your man needs to release he probably has high sex drive.
i forever will advocate masturbation to adultery .
if your man is not cheating on you which seems less likely because he is busy watching porn. then you should be happy for the mean time and try to work out your distance issue quickly .

but if his porn watching is not mainly to masturbate then sister you may have a problem in your hands . that means the females nudity has not yet sunk into his head and he is forever still amazed by unclothedness .

my advice hence is to check why he really Is into porn.

-- if it solemly for masturbation, then you are safe

---if it solemly for nudity, then you have a problem .

---if its both, then you can manage but you still have a problem .

its easy only if you have porn and soap

JonDon12:
Buhari is Right. Nigerians Youth are Lazy. Instead of working hard in school to learn Critical Analytical Skills, History, Common Sense and Reasoning. They are Gbe Bodying E and Soapying, so that when time comes to vote instead of voting someone like Oby or Sowore, they vote Buhari and/or Atiku. Lazy Fools. Over 100 million of you are jobless. I have very little sympathy for you. It is because you are foolish. You vote for Bad Leaders.

Get you a book and Read. Sit with your elders and learn. Volunnteer in your community. Get some education instead of cheating in Exam all the time. Even if you are in Community Grammer school or Ansarudeen, you still have your books, Read them from front to back and read again. They say the world belongs to the man who hustles while he waits. Get some knowledge so that u can make good political decisions instead of supporting the likes of TINUBU, BUHARI and ATIKU WHO WILL DO NOTHING FOR YOU.

oga elder .
i want to first thank you for your passionate comment hence i proceed to mine .

you are living in your time when economy were not as bad.
all these dos and don't you mentioned rarely work again.
you are shouting read book read book. but forgetting that many first class graduates are still jobless. even buhari said in a comment that the youths should forget their degree and hustle .

now for the hustling part. you may call it lazy but i will change the term to -- hopelessness .

Nigerian youths have entered a state of hopelessness that is why the hustling spirit is not just enticing .

in addition to the political election part. instead of saying we elect the wrong leaders i'd say -- Nigerian youths do not simply partake in electing leaders. it has been some from of tend these past years. the youths feel exempted from the Nigerian politics and wholely accepts it that way. i am a Nigerian youth and among my peers i was the only one that had a voters card . i realised this and investigated more from other youths and noticed the same. the ones that managed to have a voters card were reluctance to use it.

so. sir. i hope i have been able to enlighten you on the Nigerian youths plaque coming from an insider .

EggSauce:
check my threads and reputation on nairaland before spewing trash ..they scammed you... what's my business with that... Na me scam you? ... Please respect yourself I don't take such issues involving my reputation lightly.

oga shut up . even if you are not a scammer . this is how they operate .

instead of you to prove yourself . you are here 'spewing' over your head .
foolish business man.

luckshine007:
I didn’t see any BULLSHIT apart from you own. You most not agree with him but at least show some respect

there is nothing to respect in that guys post

Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.

bro you just have high sex drive . no big deal.
and for the short time. it is natural for a man to last 2 to 6 minute
s to be satisfied . it is women that needs more time.
and for the masturbation . it is because of the high sex drive i said earlier . just find something to take your time away. you will forget porn

Vortex369:
So, what do you want us to do about this story? Start fuccking prostitutes?

lol. i laugh.
no ofcourse
the lesson hear is probably to not look down on people
because this lashing prostitute thing has more bad than good . no doubt

this is prove that nobody is above scam. i have been slammed before and with patient reminiscencing and investigation on why someone this smart could be slammed i realised that must of the work is done by the victim not the swiddler .
it is simple human nature . only if you are an animal can you be immune to a scam .

best tip is to turn down your emotions in any business deals and don't be too optimistic .
it is all in the emotions .
it is possible to escape a scam today and fall for a simpler one tomorrow .

Daboomb:


Did yo notice that it is mostly ladies, that are advicing you to WALK AWAY from him, calling him all sort of names and warning you of impending danger, if you continue with him? WHY IS THAT? is it that Women love themselves more (and the Men are dumb) or Women hate to see one of their succeed in marriage? Do they sound like that your friend called "Grace", or not?
Reflect for a minute,, over this situation.

You said this man loves you to a fault (your own words).
You attributed the rancour between both of you to misinformation from your Friend "Grace" and some other people running you down, with him.
- What l can infer from these is that your differences (things that causes fight) are EXTERNAL to both of you mostly.
So, can you work on those external factors and remove most of them?

He seems to be the "jealous type" (some call it "insecure" but l bet that nobody feels insecure, over something they dont cherish, so it can be a good thing, if properly harnessed).
Why cant you, for the sake of your "fragile relationship" (if it is that important to you), make effort to cut-off those people, especially those predator-men he does not like seeing in your company or with your, making amorous advances at you?
There is no smoke, without fire and most men know that women are only as strong as when there no "cunnyingly desperate man trying to raise their skirt! It is better you dont expose your wife to these "predator-men" than bank on her ability to withstand their advances.

I do tell my wife that no woman can ressist me, if l am really bent on having her but l have decided to remain faithful to my wife, because l am certain she is faithful to me and as a matter of Policy, my respect for another man will not let me do any married woman, God forbid.
But l will not allow another man to share a hotel room overnight with my wife, claiming they are work-buddies.
Mbaanu, l nor dey take such risk, call me insecure, if you like. I odnt use my nose to sniff what l know l wont eat.

Maybe your man is just like that, someone who does not like to "risk" his future wife, in the compnay of randy men (Some women even claim such men used jazz on them, when they eventually fall for him! Maybe true, maybe not, but the damage is already done!).
Why dont you just agree with his way, stay away from rolling with such men (by chat, text or phone-calls) and let him verify such, to build confidence in yoru relationship?

Now, l dont like when things get to the point where the man has to raise his hand, it is a sig that you have both hit rock-bottom.
He abuses you and you insult him back in return, that much is evident from your post but do you know that "when the sea is trough, you cannot paddle your canoe roughly at the same time"? (Proverb!).
For any relationship to work, bith parties cant be "fire-for-fire" at the same time.
The "weaker" person has to calm down and stay calm, when tempers are boiling or ONE PERSON has to be the SHEEP (quiet, not insutling and calm) when the other is playing the GOAT (Angry, insutling and in fits!).
This is the secret of a successful marriage. Subdued Ego.

And yes, some men are temperamental (like me) but my beautiful wife has so much sense in managing my temper that we have never had any physical fight for decades. She knows when l am Goat and my Goat knows to apologise when he is wrong, thereafter.

I counsel young families, especially newly married and the golden advice l give the wife is "manage yoru husband, like you will manage a business you want to be successful, despite all the challenges".
And l tell the husband, love your wife, respect her and be her husband and Daddy. It works a lot.

Finally, your relationship has all the ingredients of being successful, you just need to set your priorities right, avoid the "GRACES" in your life, be less combative in the relationship when their is an arguement and communicate more openly with your Man.

But if you want to walk-away, its your choice, you may or may not be that lucky to find someone who "loves you to a fault", that is the most difficult part of any relationship because after all the "Raggae" of courtship, comes the stark "Blues" of staying married..... and it is love that sustains it thereafter because there will certainly be challenges, lots of challenges in the first five years of marriage.

And Sister "Grace" is waiting in the wings, anyway.

Wish you the best.

nigger . you are taking BULLSHIT.
simple

Daboomb:


Did yo notice that it is mostly ladies, that are advicing you to WALK AWAY from him, calling him all sort of names and warning you of impending danger, if you continue with him? WHY IS THAT? is it that Women love themselves more (and the Men are dumb) or Women hate to see one of their succeed in marriage? Do they sound like that your friend called "Grace", or not?
Reflect for a minute,, over this situation.

You said this man loves you to a fault (your own words).
You attributed the rancour between both of you to misinformation from your Friend "Grace" and some other people running you down, with him.
- What l can infer from these is that your differences (things that causes fight) are EXTERNAL to both of you mostly.
So, can you work on those external factors and remove most of them?

He seems to be the "jealous type" (some call it "insecure" but l bet that nobody feels insecure, over something they dont cherish, so it can be a good thing, if properly harnessed).
Why cant you, for the sake of your "fragile relationship" (if it is that important to you), make effort to cut-off those people, especially those predator-men he does not like seeing in your company or with your, making amorous advances at you?
There is no smoke, without fire and most men know that women are only as strong as when there no "cunnyingly desperate man trying to raise their skirt! It is better you dont expose your wife to these "predator-men" than bank on her ability to withstand their advances.

I do tell my wife that no woman can ressist me, if l am really bent on having her but l have decided to remain faithful to my wife, because l am certain she is faithful to me and as a matter of Policy, my respect for another man will not let me do any married woman, God forbid.
But l will not allow another man to share a hotel room overnight with my wife, claiming they are work-buddies.
Mbaanu, l nor dey take such risk, call me insecure, if you like. I odnt use my nose to sniff what l know l wont eat.

Maybe your man is just like that, someone who does not like to "risk" his future wife, in the compnay of randy men (Some women even claim such men used jazz on them, when they eventually fall for him! Maybe true, maybe not, but the damage is already done!).
Why dont you just agree with his way, stay away from rolling with such men (by chat, text or phone-calls) and let him verify such, to build confidence in yoru relationship?

Now, l dont like when things get to the point where the man has to raise his hand, it is a sig that you have both hit rock-bottom.
He abuses you and you insult him back in return, that much is evident from your post but do you know that "when the sea is trough, you cannot paddle your canoe roughly at the same time"? (Proverb!).
For any relationship to work, bith parties cant be "fire-for-fire" at the same time.
The "weaker" person has to calm down and stay calm, when tempers are boiling or ONE PERSON has to be the SHEEP (quiet, not insutling and calm) when the other is playing the GOAT (Angry, insutling and in fits!).
This is the secret of a successful marriage. Subdued Ego.

And yes, some men are temperamental (like me) but my beautiful wife has so much sense in managing my temper that we have never had any physical fight for decades. She knows when l am Goat and my Goat knows to apologise when he is wrong, thereafter.

I counsel young families, especially newly married and the golden advice l give the wife is "manage yoru husband, like you will manage a business you want to be successful, despite all the challenges".
And l tell the husband, love your wife, respect her and be her husband and Daddy. It works a lot.

Finally, your relationship has all the ingredients of being successful, you just need to set your priorities right, avoid the "GRACES" in your life, be less combative in the relationship when their is an arguement and communicate more openly with your Man.

But if you want to walk-away, its your choice, you may or may not be that lucky to find someone who "loves you to a fault", that is the most difficult part of any relationship because after all the "Raggae" of courtship, comes the stark "Blues" of staying married..... and it is love that sustains it thereafter because there will certainly be challenges, lots of challenges in the first five years of marriage.

And Sister "Grace" is waiting in the wings, anyway.

Wish you the best.

nigger . you are taking BULLSHIT

dannyla:
I opened a new account to remain anonymous.
This story is a bit long but pls bear with me.

I met this man almost 2yrs ago at an event a friend invited me to. The next week, he collected my number from my friend and called me, we began talking from there and agreed to go on a date. He proposed marriage to me on the first date which I rejected. I told him that I can't marry outside my church and from the little I've heard from him, our life dreams differ. I decided to cut him off from that day and I stayed away for about 3months. Meanwhile he got my friend to introduce him to my sis, mum and another friend who happened to be from his place, I'll call her Grace.
He made them all aware of his intent towards me and my stand and asked for their help to change my mind. Grace became his biggest ally and convinced me to have another date. He asked that we date for a while and see if we can work out our differences. During the date I noticed he has a very hot and quick temper and he listens to gossip a lot so I do tell Gracethat I don't see a future with him but he was too persistent, Grace always had words of encouragement and considering the fact that for some strange reason, it was mainly married men always approach me for a relationship with stories of how they got married to a wrong woman and they are or are almost divorced, dating a single man with no kids was very tempting and I decided to give it a try.

He asked me to tell him everything about me so there are no secrets between us and I did. Starting from secondary school to that day, I told him everything, from my first kiss, the colleague who tried to rape me, my ex who lied about his marital status and disvirgined me etc. he did the same too and I felt a burden roll off my shoulder.

Few days later I began to notice changes in him especially towards my business. I thrive in a male dominated industry in a ratio of 9men to 1woman. He asked me to show him the pictures of my colleagues which I did, he also asked if they make passes at me which I said is almost inevitable but my boundaries are clear and rigid.

Fast forward to now. I noticed that whenever I drop my phone, he goes through it. Facebook, sms, WhatsApp etc. He even picks my call when I'm not close to the phone. He asked me about a certain colleague who cracks dirty jokes like how I rushed to get married (I told him I'm already married). I didn't think much about it.

He later began to complain about my partners and how I'm sleeping with them like the prostitute I am, called me an unrepentant liar, unsubmisive, manipulating etc. Said he regrets asking for my hand at all and he's just waiting forthe day he'll catch me redhanded so he can dump my sorry a*s.
I told him to end it now cus I'm fed up, family came in and I later found out that Grace has been telling a lot of lies against hoping to get him for herself as well as hate filled advises from some aggrieved friends who felt ladies from my tribe are no good and just there to "chop money". Apologies were said and received and we continued.

Another time I visited him and we had an argument, he gave me several heavy knocks on my head and I developed a headache and began to insult him which resultedin more heavy knocks. I broke up with him and left. Later my mum called him to ask why he laid his hands on me, he denied it swearing with his life. Said I insulted him and he lost his temper and insulted me back that he's sorry. He began to drop messages everywhere and I eventually gave in.

3rd incident happened on our way back from an event. He saw a message from a colleague he told me to stop doing business with cus he feels the man has his eyes on me which is totally not true. He flared up, stopped the car and was even threatening to beat me up. I came down from his car and stood by the roadside. He came down too and gave me the insult of my life in full public view and glare and told me to enter the car which I refused. I had no money on me and had to beg a stranger for money. By that time he was coming back, he quickly took a picture of both of us and sent it to everybody of how he caught me in the act with my lover on the road. He called me and said that if he must marry me, I must break my business sim card and look for a wife friendly occupation or sit at home.

He later apologised over it. Meanwhile he and my sis don't flow as before as he once called her a prostitute.

I want to call it quits but everyone around me feels it's a mistake and he is saying everything out of anger and if I'm patient enough, he will change completely.

I must admit that he has changed alot since we met but the progress compared to the timeframe and the heat I face everyday is nothing to write home about.

He loves me to a fault and I don't know if I can find someone who loves me like him but his other attitude is sniffing life out of me. Do I stay or quit?
Thanks for reading and pardon any typos

this guy couldnt hide his toxic part in just introduction level . hahaha . i laugh.
they said women are their own worse enemy because they are so stubborn and like to deceive themselves . lol.
so you like you believe that what this guy have for you is "love to a fault "

well. majority of the comments here said you should leave.
but
i wouldnt be surprise if you stay. because you kind make it easy to deceive themselves.
that is how the snake deceived eve
hahaha hahaha.
lol. laugh wan kill me here. to think that leaving him was a considerration .

hahaha . you are dealing with a full blown narccissist my sister. go abduction read about narccissism behavior and do your math. lol.

because cigarette is the prefered brand of the world conquerors (Britain and America) but weed is the prefered brand of rastafarians .lol.
my point is simple . the rulers of the world then looked down on weed and gave it a bad name. hence, other societies/countries followed .
that is the power of influence .

rape them abeg they do men worse

well. my advice is for you to give in . not foolishly but give in to one girl . have enough sex with her until your realize that sex is over rated . this is very helpful for you will easily disdain sex and women in general . but if you keep on resisting the jonji God put in us men. you may later give in when you are married and still find sex as a big deal. .

enjoy your youth and explore . university free life comes once. having one girl. i repeat one girl won't kill you or jeopardies your future .

AwkaetitiBabe:
2017? Billionaire? Farming?

no noo. its to good to be true . in about 2 years . 2017? billionaire ? farming? .
any one that believes this without a doubt never chop life or hasn't understood the hustle that awaits him.

EggSauce:
Google pixel one for sell already on Android 10... location is North... 5k for sending to your doorstep in South through DHL... Lesser if you're in North...

If Interested just mention me

they've scamed me like this before. lol

JeffSiberstein:


Shut up your mouth, I have done everything from Cigarettes, Marijuana to Drugs to the extent I was a dealer. When I made up my mind to quit I did and for a year now I have been clean. If someone decides to quit it is easy to do, its only difficult when people are pressuring u to quit and u haven't made up your mind to quit

my brother , you were not an addict . you just had the habit of smoking and doing drugs .
you can not just make up your mind and stop if you were at the level of addiction
that is the big different .
addiction is your body can not function without the drugs that is why they get withdrawal

habit means your body can still function without the substance whatsoever

matrix199:
It's easier said than done. It's easier to be a coach than a player. It's safer being the doctor than the patient.


Undermining addiction clearly shows the writer's poor understanding of it. Once an addition becomes compulsive, it becomes the most difficult thing to let go of.

For me, the only therapeutic measure to overcome addition is "Long Term Inaccessibility". Once you deny yourself or you're denied access to that thing you're addicted to for a very long time, the part of the brain responsible for the compulsive addiction becomes renewed, and there's every likelihood there won't be a relapse.


If you like, pray as long as you can, so long that thing you're addicted to is within your reach, you're likely to sneak back doing it.

good write up there bro
addiction is different from habit
OP was mostly giving advice on how to stop a habit not addiction.

princeSammyz:
Idleness and 'aloneness', the most potent fuels of addictions so far. Experience has taught me this and one sure way to healing lies in engaging both the mind and the hands in productive activities. You will forget those things trust me.

well said , well said bro .
especially in cases with substance addition
when one try to stop smoking for example boredom engulfs you. that is why you take substance in the first place to kill boredom .
replace that boredom killer with something else and you are out.

rembering how you were without the addiction is a good powerful mind tool.

we weren't born with smoke in your hands for instant . keep recalling that and you will realize that it is possible to stop

pharmacy pls