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You have no proof of this. It is his words against theirs. So what if he lied that he wasn't told the details? You now paint people who are innocent bad because they tried to save their daughter's life? What if the table was reversed and you read this comment of yours made by someone against you? EmperorCaesar: |
True. You didn't trivialize it. But the way you coined your question didn't exactly do justice to whatever your "noble" intention is. sounded like you Offpoint1: |
Isn't this statement insensitive? People with Sickle Cell Anaemia aren't on death penalty. Let's be more cautious with our utterances. And yes, even those with HIV aren't on death penalty--if well managed and it doesn't degenerate to AIDS. You sound like those with HIV and Sickle cell are paying for some sin they committed, but this isn't exactly the case. seanery: |
How does seeking to gosn admission into University stop anything. Baron Trump just gained admission into school, so is not like he is a university grad. Late Apple Founder, Steve Jobs was a high school droput. So I don't see how your excuse helps your case. B3sty: |
If this is true. Then, it is truly sad. What What did I just read? Clear daylight robbery of a people that claim to have an active youth population.This is a lot of guts! But if you did this findings, then well done for fact checking. Some of us don't bother to fact-check what is dished us because we are negligent or simply gullible-- myself inclusive. Our role should be to hold government accountable not just cry foul. Championing and insisting on Due diligence. But ethnic bigotry, religious sentiments and party affiliations won't let us see and do the needful even when we are hit by the excesses of a failed system. Others have resort to simply complaining on social media with no deliberate measure on how to curb the madness that is plaguing our nation. DatNiggaDaz: |
It’s sad how some people lie under the guise of “researches have shown”, assuming no one will fact-check them. Let me burst your bubbles: There's no definitive research that universally states women are more heartless than men. In fact, studies on emotional expression and empathy often suggest that women tend to be more empathetic and emotionally expressive, though this can vary widely among individuals. However, perceptions of being "heartless" can be influenced by societal expectations, cultural norms, and personal experiences. The idea that women are inherently more "heartless" or selfish in their decisions is more of a stereotype than a universally supported fact. People's capacity for empathy, compassion, or selfishness is influenced by a complex mix of personality, upbringing, life experiences, and individual values, rather than being strictly tied to gender. In psychological research, empathy and compassion are often studied, and while women tend to score higher on average in empathy-related traits, this doesn't mean all women are always empathetic, nor does it mean men are always less so. When it comes to decision-making, both men and women can act selfishly or altruistically depending on the context, personal stakes, and moral framework guiding their actions. It's important to avoid overgeneralizing based on gender, as human behavior is nuanced and cannot be boiled down to simple stereotypes. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5110041/?utm_source=chatgpt.com https://edition.cnn.com/2022/12/26/health/empathy-women-men/index.html?utm_source=chatgpt.com, https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-023-47747-9?utm_source=chatgpt.com (That’s me fact-checking your statement—it doesn't exist.) If you argue, kindly post your source’s research link. Mcslize: |
I agree with him on this one. I’m not an APC compatriot, and I do know things aren't going well in our land, but negative remarks about our country doesn’t affect those at the helm of affairs, it afffects you. The comments you make, go viral and you are perceived as being from a country that is dying. So they deny you entrant to their country. The people you think you are hurting by your “truthful” comments are hardly affected by it. They don't queue up for visas. They don't apply for international jobs, etc. You are still the worse hit by all your negative comments about your country on social media. Help ain’t coming from Donald Trump because you are crying foul. Instead, the more you cry foul, the more they perceive you as a liability to them. I stumbled on a thread from 2019, and noticed that this crying by Nigerians about hardship didn't start today. People have been crying poverty since forever and nothing has changed except make more borders close their doors against us. All we seem to specialize in is cry ‘ojoro’ on social media like a helpless baby, but are we truly helpless? Who made us helpless? Isn't this out country? What can we do to ensure we have an election where our votes count in 2027? What can we do to ensure Nigeria works aside crying foul? Well, like he said, we may be corrupt, oh! Yes, we are a corrupt people, but other countries don’t have saints ruling, they aren't just blowing their trumpet about it. I don't celebrate the “madness” in the seat of power or their damnable policies, but I do know that we still are the worse hit of our rants. President Tinubu will still get a presidential visit to any country he is invited to. So what’s the point of crying foul when it is only comes back to haunt you? quote author=Islie post=133807788] https://dailytrust.com/its-unpatriotic-to-say-may-nigeria-not-happen-to-you-taiwo-oyedele/#google_vignette[/quote] |
I don’t get you guys on this platform. I thought you all would celebrate her for staying through despite being physically abused? Most of you speak so poorly of Nigerian ladies like every lady out there are the cause of your woos. She stays in the physically-abusive relationship, you say she has low self esteem. She leaves, you call her evening newspaper that nobody wants. Your lot and your insensitive comments are the reason ladies would rather die in an abusive relationship than walk away. Keep dishing out insensitive comments. —— My apologies if you haven’t been raining fire and brimstone on Nigerian ladies, this comment is directed to all who do. Remember you have sisters who are vituous. Daughters maybe now or in the future that will be full-fledged Nigerian. Your painting Nigerian ladies as people with no worth because of your wrong choices will hit her too, someday. Keep placing all Nigerian ladies as oloshos. What goes around comes around. EmperorCaesar: |
I don’t get. Is Peter Obi the governor of Anambra state or the President of Ndigbo? quote author=yarimo post=133805759]In anambra state and Peter OBI is yet to react or condole with the family, but quick to condole fire tanker incident in far away Niger state. [/quote] |
Great advice, here. You could have gone ahead to also tell them the kind of investments they should embrace that works so they don’t jump from pot to fire. That would make your advise solid-proof. When advice isn’t comprehensive enough, it could cause more harm than good. Not all investments are worth it. ibechris: |
A biter, petty soul you say? Well, righteousness can only make sense with justice. Sometimes, we say things but don’t even understand its import. What was your reaction when you saw the gospel Artist who beheaded his girlfriend? Now, assuming the girl he beheaded was your acquaintance or relative? Would you ask the judge to forgive the gospel artist? That God is love only makes sense with effecting justice. Even the devil will call God a liar if those who do treacherous things are allowed to go unpunished. And to avert that, He told Christ to die and called those who wanted to escape death to embrace His salvation. The blood shed on the cross wasn’t a comedy show. The wages of sin is death and Adam brought that death on mankind through disobedience. The consequences was clearly spelled out to him, but he went ahead nevertheless because of greed. The devil was already being judged for treachery and wanted God to condemn His creation— the creation He bragged about and prided in which was why he deceived him in the garden. God who said He has esteemed His word above His name needed to prove that His word meant something. So man had to live with the consequences of his sin because God’s throne is seated in righteousness and justice. Because He is love, He provided a way of escape, such that those who embrace Christ can avoid the doom that Adam already purchased for mankind—-willfully. So if you head off to hell because you refuse salvation, the problem isn’t God. God didn’t design hell for man initially but for the angels who left their first estate. So the chance to escape hell is still available. Salvation is God’s way of saving man from the consequences of the sin brought upon us by our forefather—Adam. Calling God bitter for making hell clearly shows you are misinformed. I’ll urge that you don’t wait till the end of your age to find out if hell is real or not. It will be too late. You lose nothing by accepting Christ as Lord and personal savior. Shalom. danvon: |
You and all those who liked your obscene comment need help and fast. How do you come on a public platform and be this stu*pid? TheBreastSucker: |
This is untrue. noobody: |
Yet when you consider the pressure these women who cannot conceive go through from family, in-laws, society, religious organization and even media, will you blame them? AllenSpencer: |
He is actually saying rubbish. If you took the pain to go through his posts and the assertions he made, you wont argue with our deductions. That you write exams that licenses you to practice does not in any way translate to Nigerian results being invalid in the West. That's a silly assertion and sillier that he is being corrected and he is still bent on his ignorance. And if you are appaluding his ignorance after clearly reading the title in this thread and how his assertions parallels it, then I am lost for words. E2000: |
There’s nothing shameful in what Arise did. They simply tackled already trending videos under Ojy Okpe’s segment. They didn’t come Up with the headline. The media is there to ensure accountability from government— to put them on their toes. What they did is why this explanation was made; else power may be abused. Obakoolex: |
You mentioned that Papa Oyedepo doesn't preach about salvation? I don't agree with you. To get saved isn't anyone's responsibility but that of the Holy Spirit who convicts the sinners So inviting people to be part of the church assembly is a way to get them to keep hearing the word while we trust God for their day of salvation. Papa Oyedepo never ends any message without addressing those who are unsaved and giving them an opportunity to embrace Christ so they can be beneficiaries of His promise. Continually preaching about hell or heaven isn't what gets people saved either. Sometimes, they do so out of fear and fall right back into the world under pressure. People who embrace salvation because they love God are bound to stay rooted and grounded in Him. If your burden is to preach Christ in the light you see Him, please go right ahead and do so. No one has the exclusive reserve to preach Christ. Only Christ carries the whole burden of the world on His shoulders. Everyone one of us bear a part of His burden. Believers are to go into the world and preach the gospel. So every one believer has the right to peach the gospel. So instead of comparing ministers who are occupying their office and doing their bid, I urge you to embrace your call for they are horne from our burdens. Inviting people to church is a strategy by the Church to ensure that they keep reaching out to the unsaved. The chances for conversion is higher than a one off meeting jesusjnr2020: |
What an advice to give to someone. You shouldn't pass out your experience as a law anyone should live by. Being unfriendly towards people doesn't pay anyone. Drawing boundaries is key to fostering healthy relationships. You never can tell when he would need help from his ‘poor” neighbors in the ‘poor’ environment. If it was a rich environment, his neighbors would be his friends, I presume. Life is a gift.Use it judiciously and make impact. Thquote author=BigDickProblems post=133282733] As a freelancer, look for a cheap area, get a cheap Solar installation that can be charged also with Nepa, and that can run your laptop for long hours and power your fan, gadgets and other low energy appliances. Be careful of your neighbors too (since it’s a poor environment), they are not your friends, don’t form any familiarity with them (only good morning, afternoon and good evening) and just mind your business. Cheaper food and all that are some of. the advantages.[/quote] |
I often don't check out people's profile when they comment, but I had to check yours. I'm in awe that this comment emanated from a man. It's indeed refreshing that there are still men who emphasize facts over sentiments. Your comment nailed this thread. Thank you, sir tete7000: |
Messages like these are why people enter into marriage out of pressure-- they see the signs but still rush in because they have to fulfil societal demands. Aren't there children from young parents that have deformed children? So it has to be attributed to age. Ladies have become desperate with these messages breaking people's homes and settling for baby mama out of fear. Some when they have kids, they head off for divorce so making men primarily sperm donors. You all should just stop with all these messages and let people live their lives. You have all done more harm than good. Marriages isn't primarily about children but you all have made it so. So a woman dash into it despite her unhappiness. Then, you are the same people who will come with headlines than ladies are oloshos when she cheats on the man because she isn't happy in the marriage. It's truly sad. Life is lived once. Allow people live and trust God to perfect everything in His time. Lonestar124: |
I don't think there has been anyone who said sex is our major problem. Or maybe I missed it, you could share a link where Africans-- particularly Nigerians have been quoted to say sex is their major problem. But I do agree with you that it is a problem. Not sure of the "major" part. Shalom. kennyz247: |
Exactly! How can a pastor be living like Christ indeed and have a wife that won't submit to him? AntiChristian: |
Decades ago, back in boarding school, I saw God fight for me in a way that left me amazed. I didn’t pray for it. I didn’t expect it. But it taught me a lesson I’ve carried ever since. Our school had six dormitories, each filled with the energy of students and the occasional dose of trouble. One day, a senior sent me to deliver a message in another dorm. As I turned to leave after delivering the message, I heard someone speak, loud and sharp. “And she calls herself a Christian? Heartless!” The words cut deep. As I walked out, other students hissed at me. Their faces showed nothing but disgust. I froze, completely confused. What had I done? Then, a senior came up to me, her face hard with anger. “Pray you don’t fall into my trap,” she said coldly. “You won’t like what happens if you do.” I left in tears, baffled. I couldn’t understand why they hated me. I’d always been careful, always tried to do what was right. I loved God openly and acted in Christian plays. And so, I was worried that I had put the faith I professed into disrepute. For months, the tension didn’t ease. Some seniors made life harder for me—longer chores, harsher punishments. I endured it quietly, crying when it got too much. Then one day, everything changed. There was chaos in one of the dorms. I went over to see what was happening and saw a day student, someone I had brought to the dorm on a number of occasions, at the center of it all. She was being accused of theft. I couldn’t just watch. I stepped in, defending her. “She’s not like that,” I said firmly. “This must be a mistake.” That’s when the unexpected happened. A senior, the same one who’d once called me heartless, pulled me aside. To my shock, she apologized. “We were wrong about you,” she said. “Let me explain.” The truth was jaw-dropping. The girl I had just defended, my supposed friend, had been running errands for them in exchange for small favors. To gain their sympathy, she told them her mum had passed away and that her stepmother was wicked, often depriving her of food. Moved by her story, the boarders had even started contributing money to support her. But things didn’t add up for long. They soon discovered that the injuries she had claimed were from her stepmother were actually sustained when she was caught stealing and beaten. Her lies began to crumble. Over time, they also noticed money and belongings going missing. When they set a trap, they caught her stealing marked money. That’s when the web of deceit completely unraveled. I disclosed that I knew her mum personally and that she was alive and well. I also explained that I had never left the dormitory to report her to anyone because I hadn’t even known she was running errands for them. It all came together. I remembered my own missing money and belongings and realized she had fooled me too. When I confronted her, the lies fully collapsed. She had fabricated everything to cover her tracks, but God brought out the truth in His time. That day, as I walked back to my dorm, I felt overwhelmed by God’s faithfulness. I didn’t have to fight for myself—He did it for me. He cleared my name in a way I could never have done on my own. The lesson was clear: no matter what others say or do, the truth will always come out. If you’re facing false accusations or unjust treatment today, hold on. God sees you. He knows the truth. Trust Him. He will vindicate you at the perfect time.
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You are a joke. A huge joke. Jeez, you are the definition of annoying. I’m not Igbo but the way you yorubas are acting here is so upsetting. Isn’t the president subject to the constitution? You guys are endorsing dictatorship because you are trying to prove you have a Yoruba president? Hope when the cock you guys are breeding comes to roost, you won’t cry foul. You guys are sowing dictatorship, a walk over the rule of law or can’t you read? The president is overturning a ruling of the court and you are saying why is Falana speaking? Is the judiciary subject to the executive? You Yorubas are just a shame. See how the Obidients tackle Obi at every excess. We all should hold government accountable. That’s what we are to do, not not be plain dumb. of quote author=Salewa97 post=132929636]Falana is just being petty. Why is he always trying to undermine the authority of the president?[/quote] |
"When you marry a woman who cannot deliver naturally?" I wish I understood this statement. Are there women who choose not to deliver naturally? Isn't it circumstances that makes CS an option? Of course, aside from those woman who are woke and just want it. Your statement is so insensitive. nwirinedu: |
What an insensitive comment to make. You go to church but your statement doesn’t reflect it. The number one tenet of the Christian faith is love and your statement is far from reflective of it. We should be weeping that people are leaving the faith for our lack of reflection of Christ. Is this really the Church Christ died for? Sincerely, analyze it. Alliswell248: |
Kindly stop spewing thrash. Are you saying that you only have a right to comment on someone's demeanor if he hails from your state of origin, not place of residence? How sensible does that sound to you? You shouldn't be on this platform then, as you are licensed to only speak on Rivers State issues-- if you have ever commented on happenings in other state or of individuals not from your state of origin, it goes to show you are a hypocrite. Did you ever have an opinion on Trump and Kamala? Did you just skip post on it and didn't comment? Are you an American? Do you even live in America? Please, stop being myopic. Every one has a right to an opinion and playing the indigene card is childish to say the least. Tackle issues. That way you'll come off as intelligent. Now, let me emphasize: We are Nigerians and have a right to make contributions to any matter of interest. Shalom. Do Kreesxxx: |
Interesting! Yet they voted for him enmasse.The same Obi won Mr Tinubu in Lagos, Abuja and Iragbjii—-Tinubu’s hometown. PulaPower: |
You have sense. Don’t let guys with little or no clue on how to treat a lady ruin your values. I like the fact that you understand respect. Keep at it. I also like that you stood up for your friend. Disrespect is disrespect, it doesn’t matter who is receiving it. How do you tell someone who isn’t staying in your apartment to clean it up because she came visiting her friend? If she were to be Otedola’s daughter, would he have asked her to sweep? That’s the angle I access respect from. He didn’t disrespect the lady. He disrespected you and No! You didn’t overreact. Undilutedme: |
Of all the tasks on it? Promoting s3x tapes is how you survive? Those who partake and those who promote are stakeholders. Please, eternity is ahead. Consider your ways. Efab555: |
Interesting! She blasts the ‘oyinbo’ man she met at the bank over what exactly? The message isn’t complete and only racists would applaud the lady when they have no knowledge of what prompted the exchange. ! chi900: |

What did I just read? Clear daylight robbery of a people that claim to have an active youth population.
