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When your daughters and sisters are told what you just blurted out about wives having no place in their husband’s lives, I hope you won’t cry foul?

Some of you speak and think with your “anuses”.

Your mum should be on top of the list. The same mum that her husband don’t believe has a place in his life should make the top of the list for her kids

Your confused mindset about marriage is why the marriage institution seem ho have lost its essence. Kids spewing thrash about what they know nothing about.

Babies in men’s skin. Mumny’s boys that have refused to grow up and learn about what and who a woman is.

Your arrangement is why your daughters wont have a home because their husbands will place no value on them.

Keep talking from your anus!

If you aren't confused, I would wonder what confusion is.


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Wrong arrangement. Where does your mum fall into? Ur mum should even be top on that list. Fucccck the wife[/quote]

If you are in Abuja, the vaccine is gotten in the Ministry of Health for N2500 at most. N2000 for the vaccine and issuance of the card and Remita will charge you N500 for the transaction.

You are given the vaccine, then you wait to collect the card. Simple process and you can be sure you have the original card.

Regards.

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Okay
But how can one get the yellow card and what are the procedures in doing so?[/quote]

In the saner claim you claim we run to, it is often well deserved with their works speaking for them. that’s the difference.



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What is the problem with her age and being a state lawmaker? Do you have a database of older people ALONE being in similar positions in developed countries where we are running to?

Also, what is the problem with politicians having their children inherit their profession. Don't we have that in other professions? Don't we have that in other saner clime countries?

Instead of wailing and cursing hopelessly, why not get to work on different aspects of the political and governance processes to have your own visions and worldviews dominate the conversations that translate into policies and government actions?[/quote]

Great advice, man. Great one.

And I say may this be the lot of your daughters, sisters and every woman you hold dear. May their husbands kick them out at the slightest provocation. Kindly say an Amen.

People spill thrash because they don’t see beyond themselves.

Benwallt:
As a man, prioritise your happiness over any woman's wish. You're are on earth to live happily not to get stranded on welfare of any woman because she bored you children.

Kick her out at the slightest provocation or disrespect.

What a myopic perspective. Very myopic.

IamHonourable1:
You don't have any point, how many women have you seen sacrifice anything for their husbands, but the number of men who sacrifice (including their lives) for their wives are too numerous to mention.

Very apt.

Salowise:
They think they're fighting Nigeria meanwhile Chidinma's mother is not even a Nigerian but a Mozambican. They're just senseless, I'm sure she's using a diplomatic passport or Nigeria passport.

Interesting! I haven’t watched the video but your response here is a handful.

So because a lecturer asked you delete a video you captured him in so she chose to retaliate and you said it was a good call?

Like am I reading this or just hallucinating?

A student and a lecturer having a physical tissle where she beat him up because she was provoked and someone here calls it a good cause.

May God help this generation else we are doomed.

There is such a thing as restraint. If she was attacked by a man with powerful muscle will she put up such an affront or exercise self control?

Nothing stopped her from afterward going to meet the lecturer and explain that she felt assaulted by his action that is wisdom, but to retaliate on your lecturer in a school environment isn’t smart.

Doing videos in school even though you call it public domain is unethical. Very unethical. Precisely because it is a personal video stuff. That is not what the school environment is for.

This may end up causing phones to be banned. Reasons why schools like Covenant University doesn’t allow the use of phones.

Some of us abuse privileges and this is an example of it.

There was a way she could have erred her grievance.

EmeeNaka:
The Lecturer should be sanctioned. We have got to learn to treat people with respect, not assuming that our age or attainment makes us better than others.
The Lecturer pushed the student out of the way, and walk away while saying 'excuse me'. However, the student protested the pushing, the Lecturer, who has walked down some feet away, turned back to challenge the student to delete a video she was taking in public, citing that the video may have captured him. Upon the student refusal, the lecture took matter into his hand, trying to force the phone out of the students hand and that led the student to defend herself.
The student didn't go towards the Lecturer at all, instead the Lecturer walked towards the student in all the drama and started every aspect of the violence that ensued
We must begin to understand that every individual deserves respect and should be treated with dignity.

For a port that was not bringing in N1 but costing the government to keep it in form, 20% stakes is a lot. The gains far outweighs the costs. This will open up Cross River state. For a start, it isn’t a bad deal.

And do you think the governor hasn’t done due diligence and made consultations? Some of you are interesting.

With 20% the state can achieve a whole lot.

Stop looking at the 80% UAE is taking . They are the ones taking the risk of a dead port to bring it to life.

Dadiye:
How can a project relinquishing 80% ownership to an Arab company sound wise to anybody?

So what do you propose? Since a proposition about learning a skill seems unreasonable. Propose something to him.

Some people make it seem like there is a short cut to success.it is said that if education is expensive try ignorance.

No one who invests in a skill does so because they had the money stashed up.

How much is skill acquisition that you figure is too expensive to invest in?

Even if he can’t start the crypto or data science as proposed, there are other skills that he could start with.

As little as learning video editing or even graphics design very well can make all the difference. I don’t think it would require breaking a bank to learn these skills.

Goodplace:
Is it not money that they pay to learn any skill...be reasonable

A bundle of contradiction your statement is, I tell you.

How do you place “true love” in a list, then go ahead and claim that if your hubby doesn’t provide you with money and sex, you will look elsewhere?

Wait! Are the things listed meant to be from your hubby alone?

Well, when you marry, you marry your partner’s excesses as well as his strengths. There is a such a thing as working on a marriage.

True God orchestrated marriage, but no good marriage is made in heaven.

Every enviable marriage are made on earth by two people who put in the work by embracing knowledge, wisdom, and understanding of the subject matter as instructed by God’s holy book.

Every one good in bed learned the act. They weren’t born in heaven with expertise. So why should you cheat on your hubby because of this? Understanding entails you both learn the act together—since you are a maniac who chose to marry.

Every one who has money built from somewhere, if money matters so much to you, then why marry the poor man in the first place to contemplate cheating?

If you aim to cheat because your hubby no longer has money, that is bizarre to say the least—but people do all sorts.

Truth is, putting true love in your list is just off.

Cause you can’t marry for true love and have issues with the other two things you listed.

Albeit, if you expect only your hubby to provide all three while you are the recipient. That is already a dead marriage working.

It is frustrating to keep giving and not receiving. It is killing to keep trying to make improvements and not receive encouragement to be better.

So I’ll pity your “hubby” because he will be a frustrated man.

Because even the Bible is clear on this:

Can two walk together unless they agree?

Agreement should be on spiritual, mental, and physical level.

So talk it out with your fiancé and consider if you want to proceed before saying, I do.

Alternatively, if you are in a marital commitment already and feel it isn’t working, instead of cheating on your spouse by getting it elsewhere, please ask for a divorce.

But to cheat on a man who truly loves you because he no longer can provide or not a champion in a bed is a decision that will breed shame.

Regards.

Jennyclay:
Men need to up their game in bed, Biko

Probably, the gospel singer is not good in bed.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t sing for God, but still have time for other physical things God created

I know money answers all things, but there are some additional things men need to do to make his marriage/relationship work.

Money
Sex
True love

If I’m not going enough satisfaction from this 3 things in listed from my man, I will definitely look elsewhere. I’m sorry

I would never understand how people spew obscene things in a public forum. Being dignified isn't expensive-- I promise.

You and the lots that liked your comments need help.

How you sexualize women is so pathetic. A woman is more than sex. Please, grow up!

Anyways, you are referring to the ladies who would stoop to co-habit with guys. You and them are birds of a feather.

Uchman1759:
She must sleep oo so I can salvage dat sweet pussy and breast. Everybody must not be lucky, that your babe died at your house doesn’t mean mine die too.

Nice!

The post claims Edo and Delta states were carved out from the Bendel state in 1991. But failed to state when Bendel state was created?

That is a very serious lapse in my opinion.

To reduce the great Benin Kingdom to being birthed in 1991 because there is no mention of when it was created.

Anyone learning history can be misled by this error.

Sometimes, it is better not to even school people than do and make a grave error.

Great100000:
The House of Representatives committee on constitutional review on Thursday revealed that it has received proposals for the creation of 31 new states. If the proposals are approved, the states of the federation will move from 36 to 67.

Nigeria has undergone several state creation exercises since independence. These divisions were primarily made to bring governance closer to the people and address administrative challenges. Here’s a list of all Nigerian states and their dates of creation:

1. Abia State – August 27, 1991

Created from Imo State by General Ibrahim Babangida’s military government.

2. Adamawa State – August 27, 1991

Carved out of Gongola State by the Babangida administration.

3. Akwa Ibom State – September 23, 1987

Created from Cross River State under General Ibrahim Babangida.

4. Anambra State – August 27, 1991

Previously part of the old Anambra, it was split to form Enugu State.

5. Bauchi State – February 3, 1976

Created from the former North-Eastern State during General Murtala Muhammed’s regime.

6. Bayelsa State – October 1, 1996

Carved out of Rivers State under General Sani Abacha.

7. Benue State – February 3, 1976

Formed from Benue-Plateau State by Murtala Muhammed.

8. Borno State – February 3, 1976

Created from North-Eastern State.

9. Cross River State – May 27, 1967

Originally South-Eastern State, renamed Cross River in 1976.

10. Delta State – August 27, 1991

Split from Bendel State under Babangida’s government.

11. Ebonyi State – October 1, 1996

Formed from parts of Abia and Enugu States.

12. Edo State – August 27, 1991

Carved out of the former Bendel State.

13. Ekiti State – October 1, 1996

Split from Ondo State under General Sani Abacha.

14. Enugu State – August 27, 1991

Created from the old Anambra State.

15. Gombe State – October 1, 1996

Carved out of Bauchi State.

16. Imo State – February 3, 1976

Formed from the old East Central State.

17. Jigawa State – August 27, 1991

Created from Kano State.

18. Kaduna State – May 27, 1967

Initially part of North-Central State, renamed Kaduna in 1976.

19. Kano State – May 27, 1967

One of the 12 states created from the former Northern Region.

20. Katsina State – September 23, 1987

Carved out of old Kaduna State.

21. Kebbi State – August 27, 1991

Created from Sokoto State.

22. Kogi State – August 27, 1991

Formed from parts of Benue and Kwara States.

23. Kwara State – May 27, 1967

One of the original 12 states.

24. Lagos State – May 27, 1967

Among the first 12 states created from the Western Region.

25. Nasarawa State – October 1, 1996

Carved out of Plateau State.

26. Niger State – February 3, 1976

Created from North-Western State.

27. Ogun State – February 3, 1976

Split from the old Western State.

28. Ondo State – February 3, 1976

Carved out of the old Western State.

29. Osun State – August 27, 1991

Created from Oyo State.

30. Oyo State – February 3, 1976

Formed from the old Western State.

31. Plateau State – February 3, 1976

Created from Benue-Plateau State.

32. Rivers State – May 27, 1967

Carved out of the Eastern Region.

33. Sokoto State – February 3, 1976

Split from North-Western State.

34. Taraba State – August 27, 1991

Carved out of Gongola State.

35. Yobe State – August 27, 1991

Created from Borno State.

36. Zamfara State – October 1, 1996

Created from Sokoto State.

Despite the 36-state structure, various ethnic and political groups continue to demand more states, arguing for better representation, economic benefits, and administrative efficiency.

However, critics have argued that while state creation has helped bring administration closer to the people, it has also contributed to economic dependency on the federal government.

Source: https://businessday.ng/news/article/full-list-36-nigerian-states-their-dates-of-creation-and-how-they-were-created/?amp

Your intent is good, but the context is so anti-God Almighty.

If you truly think God brought Corona Virus into the world as a means to humble the world powers, you gats go embrace some real political power tussle underplays by world powers.

It wasn’t called Chinese Virus for nothing. A virus that was prepared in the lab was created by God? Oh! Please, stop it already.

Did the Corona Virus not kill Christians who believed in God? So what’s your point, really?

Corona Virus had nothing to do with God just as the disappearance of the Airplane(which hasn’t been proven as legit news, by the way) has nothing to do with Him.

Have you heard of using the name of the Lord in vain? Seems like what you are doing.

God doesn’t tempt with evil. I beg you, please. He is Almighty. He doesn’t need to prove it to anyone.

You reject or embrace Him, the consequences of your choice is irrevocable. God has nothing to lose, so why prove anything?

Besides, Trump has honored only God before he stepped into power so why would God want to humble him?

In a bid to sound religious, sometimes, we end up ridiculing the faith we hold dear.

Please, desist!

kerry57:
Don't ever think that u are so safe anywhere in this world. America thinks that they are super power in tech and can forsee things, this trend of air issue is a test of that power just like corona virus showed the super powers around the world that they are still far away in health issues containment.

The all knowing God I believe will once in a while show us how empty we are so that the wise will reference his mighty name.

Don’t always assume everyone is like you. Don’t!

If you can’t discern when someone is sincere. How can anyone help you? It is your lot who didnt think Peter Obi could be different.

There are still good people in the land. Just know this. Don’t judge others from your experiences or who you are.

Even if he is eating people’s money, at least we saw clearly a project he carried out. If our politicians will do with our money more than they eat our money, we would make progress as a nation.

Regards, sir.

WowSweetGuy:
Why do this man always dress dirty... Very dirty dark man.

Easy way to chop funds given to you is to go to one local school drop 5million for replacement of cheap ceiling boards and painting of the walls then claim you spent 50million

Naija easy chopping of funds way since 1960

Thank You Jesus, for tragedy averted.

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How do people come to a conclusion like this over other people’s lives? It beats me, really.

Just so you know:

Lecturing job isn’t something you leave for something else. Nothing stops him from lecturing still in theatre acts department—he is most probably going to be an asset with his accomplishments in Nollywood.

Reminds me of someone who shared that he encountered him in Herbert Wigwe’s University.

popp:
I know he is regretting it today.

He would have been a Professor by now.

Although, he wouldn't have been as famous as he is today.

But fame without fortune is unfortunate.

Don’t mind their analyisis. People forming that they are wiser than the Person who created sex and prescribed that it should be in marriage.

Most of the issues we have in relationahips today stem from disobeying God’s instruction to abstain before marriage.

A couple who knows nothing about sex have nothing to worry about 2 minutes man or sexual compatibility. They accept themselves the way they are and learn the process.

The way some people prioritise sex these days is just appalling.

Ladies in the olden days married as virgins and God helps you if the bed sheet you consummate your marriage on doesn't come out with blood stains

This way, ladies stayed chaste and marriages were fine. No issue of sexual compatibility or 1-mimute man.

Today with all the advocacy of sexual compatibility and testing the product before marriage, more marriages are in disarray.

We can't be wiser than the manufacturer.

Anointedvirgin:
Lol.🤣..
So if the guy issa one minute man, she should go about testing different men until she finds the one who isn't one minute, before she settles with him abi?

IT IS WELL OO.. LOL.🤣

You could have taken the pain to read at least two lines of the writeup before making a comment because clearly you only ran with the headline.

And I think it isn't good to run theough making conclusion from superficial assumptions.

veekid:
How much is Tinubu pumping into these guys account for them to get high with leprosy of the brain and open their gutter for such suggestions?

Exactly, my thoughts.

The writeup sounds like something that was written on her behalf.

dominique:
That's a carefully composed write-up most likely not from her. Her husband is definitely behind this

I believe it is your perception. Are you saying the shouldn't cover news of public interest when it happens in Anambra?

You sound as though you could hide news that are negative to make Anambra look otherwise. Evil is evil matter the region it is committed.

Is the news a lie? If it happens, why should you be pained that the spotlight is raised in a region?

So how much emphasis is placed in a state where evil is uncovered doesn't matter.

edlion57:
This is very bad...Anyways Crime happens everywhere in other igboland ,in fact, the whole Nigeria. why the sudden focus on Anambra by media house

I totally agree with you.

Yet, should having s3x be for those who want to burn steam?

The manufacturer's original intent for s3x is in the confines of a marital relationship.

How a man knows he has no intent of marrying a lady and puts her in the family way and then start spewing irresponsibility.

Oh! He should be ashamed for lacking self-control. Of course, the lady isn't exempt.

Why open your legs for a man who hasn't married you?

The whole mess we are in is simply as a result of indiscipline and I pray God help us reset our approach to the life He has given us.

No one has a right to be thinking S3x with a woman that isn't his wife and vice versa. We simply complicate the lives of children born through our indiscipline.

Every man knows a woman he has a future with. All this crap of she has a terrible attitude which is why you can't marry her after she is pregnant for you

The question is didn't you see the attitude before you laid with her?

Bunch of irresponsibility on both parties who want to eat their cake and have it.
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SafetyFirst:
No. It's not enough reason on its own.
Marriage is for two mature minded adults who have agreed to work together to make it work.
Marriage no be childs play o!

And in your opinion the way to tackle her misdemeanor is to beat her black and blue?

Like seriously?

If your daughter comes back home to you with a story like this and you learned that she was beaten because she wore a singlet to take her wards to school, you would celebrate your son-in-law for it?

Your initiative is pathetic.

In essence throw away the baby and the bath water.

You beat a woman who you are physically stronger than because of a garment she wore you don't like??

What happened to the boxing ring? Isn't that where those with physical prowess go? But no, you'd rather settle for a lady's job and churn out your frustration with life on your wife.

Those who fight in the boxing ring do not have enough energy left to fight outside of it.

True. She is your wife and you don't like the outfit she is wearing because it doesn't reflect well on you, but is battery the way to tackle it??

Isn't this action insecurity laced from ego or would you call this love

Someone beats the mother of his kids like a common criminal and you are saying she got what she deserved.

The truth is this:

You can't love anyone like yourself and hurt them because they don't do your bidding.That is witchcraft.

If she won't do your bidding because you need a puppet and you are tired, take her back to the home you married her from and ask for your bride price. You have no right to lay your hands on any one's child. No right!

If she were Otedola's daughter, would you lay a finger on her? Suddenly you would learn self-control because of the reality of serving jail term-- This tells me that I should be big so future son in-laws can have sense by default.

That a human would even mention that she got what she deserved informs ladies to be wary because there are lots of beasts parading as humans.

Oh yeah! You clearly aren't human.

But would the ladies listen? A lady will see a guy make a pathetic comment like this and still go ahead and marry him to avoid being called an evening newspaper.

You need some growing up-- I tell you.

Amumaigwe:
You forget to address the cause of the battery. Why would a married woman that is supposed to be raising responsible kids walk almost naked in the public?

You tamed them because you needed robots as wives. Your arrogance stinks.

You are such a weak individual. It's sad that you can't even see it? This is why you don't know you need help. I feel so sorry for you and your narcissistic tendencies.

Deep within, you know your life isn't working. You try to intimidate people to submission using all manner of tactics because somehow people must bow to your ideologies. That isn't life.

That you brag about employing that with people who you should be most vulnerable with clearly shows how pathetic your life is.

A very sad life you have there, sir.

I don't know you, but I know you aren't a happy person.

Even God respects our individuality. He enjoys watching us be us. He doesn't assert or try to make us humble by force. So He said come let us reason together.

That's how you know those with true strength.

They aren't intimidated by others stubbornness or show them pepper so they submit.

Submission is won by excellent leadership and those who have mastered leadership don't speak like you do.

Again, you need help-- and fast.

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I MEET YOUR TYPE I TAME THAT YOUR NONSENSE GENDER EQUALITY AND TURN YOU TO A FULL TIME HOUSE WIFE WITHIN MONTHS!

you are not even up to any of my two wives in stubbornness! now they are all very humble and respectful wives happily enjoying the riches and peace of their husband.

Anyways i will definitely not meet your type cause i don't do hookup girls.[/quote]

You are such a weakling. Your comment stinks of it. Jeez ..and a woman said, "I do" to you?. There's nothing glamorous about your mindset. It is appalling.

You talk about respect like you know what it entails. You clearly don't.

Well, it's the ladies that gives you this guta I feel sorry for. You don't realize it yet: but you need help. Serious help!

And yeah! All those who liked your chauvinistic comment also need to have their minds examined.

obiekunie01:
rubbish talk!

na all this nonsense talk don turn all the men to jellybeans that every idiot wife go open mouth and talk anyhow to her husband!

DO ANYHOW FOR MY HOUSE YOU SEE ANY HOW! THERE CAN ONLY BE ONE CAPTAIN IN A SHIP - AND IN MY SHIP I AM THE CAPTAIN - AND EVERYONE MUST RESPECT THAT!

Chaiii…your hatred for him had got to be deep to make an assertion like this. The first time I heard that PO was exceptionally good was from Anambraians.

Of course, when he was governor, I knew he won an award sometime as best governor but didn't take that seriously.

If he was such a terrible person like you claim, he wouldn't have cleared up the votes in all of the South Eastern states against all opposing voices from other wannabes from the South East.

I can tell you for free, you don’t win a people that massively unless they loved you, indeed.

Tinubu lost Lagos state to him; in spite of your claims that he was the best governor in Lagos’s history.

So think I again before you spew stuff.

And by the way, I ain't from the South East or a politician. I stand for truth.

richmond500:
Just to gain public accolades, this guy is over doing it.
If he was this good, people wouldn't have hated him when he was a governor.
He was the only governor that a single person didn't say anything good about his leadership

Nice!

Not sure how this would work, but I long to see someone being sued for defamation actually pay the money demanded.

Suing for defamation was a thing in 2024. Not sure any ever went through, or maybe it did and I missed it.

Pastor Jeremiah vs VDM—any updates?
SAN Falana vs VDM—-any updates?

Plus, we don't see any public apologies from those being sued and we don't hear what became of the case.

It often dies a natural death—I guess.

Let’s use suing for defamation less so when. We do, it can really have impact.

Kanu given audience on this is most unlikely and
I’m sure even him knows it. So what’s the point?

If those who aren't in government net don't succeed with their defamation cases, what chance has someone who is a government prisoner?

Nigeria will get to that place someday when defamation cases are a thing. We just aren't there yet.

TimeManager:
https://guardian.ng/news/kanu-slams-n100b-defamation-suit-on-buharis-ex-aide/

I don't get our politics in this country.

Does being the flagbearer of an opposition party during a presidential election automatically make you the governor of the state you hail from or the “president” of your geopolitical zone?

Cause why should Obi’s commiseration with the bereaved’s family or social media condemnation of the act count as gold when the state has a governor?

Kulis:
Obi didn't get it right on this one

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Oh...that's where he was nailed. As long as he participated not just dish out orders, he gets a first degree murder charge.

dapsoneh:
Therr are CCTV evidences of adedoyin actively particpating in the killing

No need to insult anyone.

In saner climes, as long as you didn't pull the trigger, you can't be sentenced to death. It isn't viewed as first degree murder. Only that can earn a death sentence and in states where death sentence is abolished, a life imprisonment without the possibility of parole.

Anyone can claim that someone sent them to commit murder

This isn't to say the hotelier isn't culpable but to spell out, perhaps, a lapse on judgment.

BlocksNG:
You must be stupid. Those who killed him confessed that they killed him on the order of adedoyin.

You're right! They'll only recognize male and female. But they didn't ban gay marriages. Bob-brisky is a male by birth and that's what is recognized.

So Bob could choose to marry any man/woman whether they are biological male/female really makes no difference. The US isn't frowning at gay marriages at the moment

G0Oodharddick:
Are you confused?

Trump said the American government will recognize only male and female, so therefore any other transgender or transgendered is unrecognized and illegal.

The werey bobsrisky should go to USA let's see if he'll come back alive.

Yeah! And he typically didn't ban gay marriages or dealings. The US would still say them as a couple even though they recognize them as male-male or female-female.

So, yeah! He could marry a gay in the US and be out of the law's grip.

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Trump didn't say you can't change your gender. He only said he can't recognized more than 2 genders.[/quote]

I will never understand why anyone would root for Iran— a nation who carries out unprovoked attacks. It is well o!

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