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What rubbish! Was it not the same Africans who walked around with loincloths long before the "massas" ever set foot here? Don't know about other parts of Africa, but in most Southern regions of Africa, nudity is considered the most natural & uncorrupted state of every human. Dare I say, "traditional". We are all born nekkid after all. And so was that guy & chic in Eden.

It's sometimes even used to rebel against western culture. Sorry but I don't see the correlation here. Those people were probably skimpily clad because this IS Africa 1)it's damn hot & 2) it just was what it was way back then.

Various African tribes in "traditional" wear

Bah humbug!

No. She looks kinda manly in the 1st pic.

That's sad I think it should be made illegal somehow because people will start walking off the edge of the earth if it continues More room for the rest of us, but still, it's becoming dangerous because the same people are bumping into things & other people. It's like living side by side with the 3 blind mice. Just yesterday I saw a guy walk into a glass next to the door while text walking. It was kinda funny to watch though

Hmmm, good question *scratches chin*

My thought is they're dummies.

misspicy:
LMAO

I knew it! immediately I saw the follow,my instincts spiked

it will be kept locked and zipped but the intelligence is still radiating no matter how much its trying to oppress it just a matter of time

check my posts,I have not had a brawl with any ,been a very good girl.

Missed you, pumpkin

New year, new attitudes, stick with it

misspicy:
is she?

In the flesh

Hope you've been a good girl this new year

MduZA:
Sharpzinto..!

Eita daar!

MduZA:
Unyaka omusha ungiphethe kahle singezwa kuwe!

Lekker! S'bongi mpilo. So far so good. Akusizi ukukhala.

None. Both stink. Why would any sane person settle for either when there are odourless people out there?

MduZA:
It might be the opposite way...an avarage south African does not even know where Nigeria is on the map.

Hehehe. True dat!

Happy new year, Mdu Ukuphethe njani so far?

HateU2:
Awon okunrin sha. He no wan make d other side chicks hear am

That's if their hearing aids are turned all the way up

I can bet my left ear that he is being genuine. The old stock knew/know the meaning of true love & longevity. They really do not make them like they used to

When you say "basic", what do you mean?

If they're as basic as you say they are, I don't think there's a need for underhandedness. Let him give his basic answers. What's the big deal?

captainmilk:
Lol but you enjoyed it sha

Not really. Took me time to get used to the whole tongue thing. I found it gross.

I was 13. It was with this hot high school boy called G. At the time I thought he was the man because he was in high school & 16. Hello! The kiss happened one evening at the dark alley behind my house. We were about to say goodbye , he told me to give him a kiss & I gave him a peck on the lips, feeling kinky because it was my 1st time smooching a boy He showed me what a novice I still was by shoving his tongue down my throat. I think almost vomited. Yuck! I yelled "Ewww. WTF?" It was disgusting... the 1st time

Classy don't pay the bills. Some women even dig ditches nowadays. We say whatever a man can do we can do it better, so there you have it-equality.

She (the wife) is a clown.

Hmmm, just 6 minutes into it, you must be a stud muffin

Smh. If only the number of times you've had sex increased your IQ points or added an extra zero to your bank balance.

People are counting c-notes & you're busy counting strokes-how sad

Depends on what "it" is. What is "it"?

Fine or not fine, there should always be boundaries in place when he has female friends so you don't feel disrespected. Is he a flirt?

Cybertext:
The one with the Afro is a gay..... Don't ask me how I know.

A few whispers in the dark can turn him straight

Lmao, poor taste. One even resembles Abe Lincoln I can think of a few even better looking than those up there. Real panty droppers if you will

Like that's gonna solve anything. Puhleeze. There's always gonna be another Hellen as long as she keeps the husband. She better stock up on some printing paper

Waste of time.

shortgun:
but my moniker is shortgun .....are you saying I will elope with someone's daughter?

Maybe if you had "wedding" added to your name.

gynny:
lol.. Am not high on anything illegal. But i'll get my head checked!

Please do If he's not adding any positive value to your life then he shouldn't be in it. Period. Guys are so tiring sometimes.

Look at it this way- keeping him is stressing you out, right? If you remain with him, you remain with all the uncertainty & stress. If you remain with him, you're holding on to the pain & whatever extra nonsense he brings to the table. However, if you release him, not only will you be free, but the pain will be short-lived compared to what you're allowing yourself to put up with now (for God knows how long). Eventually you will be happy again. Don't you just wanna giggle when you think of all the past relationships you thought you'd never survive? I know I do

shortgun:
You called me?
which one is Shortgun wedding?

A fast one with minimum planning eg. elopement.

Beg him to call you !!!! What illegal substance are you on? It's not too late, you can still add him to your new year's resolutions as the bad habit to quit

"A girl should never need someone who doesn't need her"- Marilyn Monroe

Depends on whether there ARE plans in motion, leading up to an actual wedding. I don't think there is or there should be a set time-frame imo, just as long as the two people involved have a vision in mind & are making steps (no matter how slow) to make it a reality. Basically, whatever is agreed upon by the engaged couple. Months? Years? Who cares? However long it takes to have the perfect wedding day...or decide if he's still the one you wanna spend the rest of your life with- forever IS a very long time after all I'd use the extra time to weigh the pros + cons & to observe just to make sure I'm not making any mistakes, because as they say, time reveals a lot of things. And besides, if you want something to be exactly like you imagined, "picture perfect", unless you have a money tree, then it might take just a tad longer to get all the ducks in a row. IJS. Who wants a shotgun wedding anyway?

One word-ODD.