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Abeg who sabi the IGR for Ekiti state?

Someone has been woken up alright?

It's a new dawn

New sheriff in town and everyone getting in order as they should

Yesoooooo!

UjSizzle:
I've met cheating men and women who are fully aware of his actions but do nothing about it. So maybe it is true that some men cheat and we can't change it, but how we deal with this fact is very subjective.
You can choose to ignore or rant or even lace his food with and OD of Tylenol (real nice )... whatever makes you happy. I know women who don't care what the man does so long he takes care of his family while at it.

Personally I have no idea what I'd do if that happened to me. I'll place my bet on the Tylenol though or maybe I'll leave the nigger. But I sure as hell won't be killing myself for no bastard.

Still I'm keeping my aunt's advice close to heart.
"Men marry because they want legitimate children and not for love."
Could be bad advice depending on your prerogative, but it's bound to give every woman a goodnight's sleep.

I don't believe the expected payment of $1.5k

It's like they purposely tell lies so as to garner sympathy since there story always border along the line of poverty and act of desperation

How did you arrive at 160k when it's being sold for £339 at their store

Phew

make i talk?

I see you creamish

where you been hiding gurlllll

Sleekyshuga:
You wanna be noticed, right?

Yes pleaseeeeeee

I wanna hoard your attention

Amya:
Cheating is not a non-issue. It's a terrible thing. Yeah. My message is for those women who might decide to commit suicide at the mere thought of their spouse cheating on them.

I do not condone cheating in anyway. Whether I like it or not, men will cheat, and possibly keep cheating. Just want women to accept that reality.

Gotcha

I think your attempt at downplaying the significance of a cheating partner is apt but you've failed to consider how the act of cheating in it's entirety reverberates around the foundation that a successful marriage should stand on. In other words, the ripple effect of cheating

Yes cheating to us Men at most times is simply defined as sharing ones body.

These are some of the direct impact of cheating in a relationship:

The obvious STI's
Finance
Trust Issues (both Present and future)
Increase of anxiety on the receiving partner
Emotional Imbalance and in turn cloudiness of judgement when it comes to real issues

barcanista:
I don't know why you keep quoting me even when I ignore you.
What is the problem here? Who told you the Linkedin profile is "fake"? Why speculating? What is her "Real" Linkedin? So a fake linkedin will have over 500 Connections just like that? Is the post about the likedin or about the Spa? Was the Spa established in July 1995 or not? If No, when was it established? Discuss issues and stop disturbing me whether or not the profile was created by someone else. I dare her to SUE me if she is conviced that I'm libelling her. I don't libel people!

Get off your high horse dude!
This is the first time i'm actually directly quoting your ignorance and outright deceit. No need ignoring me since i'm not one to follow your moronic arse all over the place. You aren't that intelligent so nothing really to gain from your consistent flow of gibberish

Yes a fake linkedln page can have as many followers as possible since it's not unexpected to expect clowns that will solicit for favours to get linked up to her so they can send cv's or what not.
It's like saying why would a fake FB account have tons of friends.

The onus is on you to provide evidence that she opened the spa at your speculated date AND that the SPA was opened with proceeds from Buhari's embezzled funds as insinuated by you

I go just cage am sharpish...... Jokes

But phew i don't envy parents that have to go through sex education with their female daughters.....


To be honest, i think i will just advice her to stick to MouthAction if the pressure ever gets too much since it's a decision she will have to take by herself no matter how forceful/convincing the parent may be

SeverusSnape:
Does that stop him from being a Brainless dullard

You are entitled to that assertion of yours but don't wish him cancer for goodness sake!

barcanista:
You are not sounding intelligent at all. You mean my "co-traveller" opened a "fake" profile with 500+ connections? Wow... Did my "co-traveller" also faked the July 1995 founding date of Aisha's Buhari's spa? How smart does that sound?

Was the Spa established in July 1995 or not? Was the Spa established 3 months after Buhari was dashed the PTF Chairmanship or not? The subject is not the linkedin profile, but the date of the Spa establishment. I don't care about what she does on Linkedin...

Why try to directly link her to a linkedln page that could have been faked if all you were concerned about was the date the company was registered and/or started trading. You could have gone to company house to do that research.

I would have expected anyone with a functioning brain to test the authenticity of the page before blowing fuse.

SeverusSnape:
PMB means perpetually malignant and Brainless

What da fvck is your problem like seriously?
Why would you wish cancer to someone just because he is a public figure and you are not in support of his presidency?
You really need to get your brain checked mofo!

Are they going to charge the contractor to court so they can retrieve the N1.3B?

joseph1832:
Now you just have to wonder who to believe. First it was PMB owned a mansion in Abuja, now its he was evicted for failing to pay rent.

I really believe now that "the irony of the information age is that it has given celebrated credence to uninformed opinion".

Any and everybody with internet can just come online and post rubbish without verifying or having in dept knowledge about what he or she is posting. Opinions flying left, right and center.

PMB will shut this people selling falsehood when he starts doing the very thing GEJ didn't do!.

We need strong libel laws. It's that simple

Toks2008:
I will pretend that i did not see your display of childishness and lack of manners.

Now let me give u some valuable
enlightenment about the fact THAT CONDOM DOES NOT PREVENT STIs OR EVEN HIV

Do you know that condom does not cover
the entire shaft or penile region?

the base of the shaft and part of the srotal
sac makes contact with the vaginal fluid
during intercourse.

We also know that HIV is prevent in the
vagina fluid and it can pass through a delicate membrane such as the delicate skin in the penile region so apparently as we make love with psycological pleasure,we also stand the risk of contracting hiv nd other sti once thepenile shaft or srotal sac touches her fluid and she can also get the virus if an infected lover has the virus as a result of mild abbraisons on the man pnis so please rid urself of the ignorant mentality that condoms prevent sti.

my word of advice,be matured and decent when you make posts on ab online socia platform so that you will not be percieved as a low life social tout.

Stop acting half smart.
I don't even need to treat your ignorance with respect to how STI's are transmitted.

Google should be your companion for the next 48hrs

If i were to even entertain your tomfoolery, how would the HIV strain from the virginal fluid pass through the condom?

Why would WHO advise condoms as a necessity for safe sex if it isn't secure?

Good times

Toks2008:
Get my point

95% of men will cheat on their woman meaning we have 5% who will not.

i have been with a lady for 12years wtout cheatn on her not because of the lobe i hve for her but because i am a believer with great love and fear for GOD but im only one of the 5%

Ladies will always lure even a man who does not want to cheat and this is where the problem lies..even a man who does bot want to cheat will be lured by these jezebels and how many men can withstand these sultry beauties.

Who is a cheat and how would you define it in your own words?

Toks2008:
Oga proff abeg which part of my post are you having headache over?

Im too intellectually sound to decipher your rethorics ao please communicate effectively.

Nevertheless,except you are married at least for 10years without cheating on your wife please dont bother replying to this post.I expect men to catch my drift not boys or men with boys mindset.

You are actually intellectually limited to have suggested condoms don't protect against STI's.

Besides, saying most men are likely to cheat isn't the same as all men would cheat so your 95% stats from your moronic arse is a bit far fetched.

Cheating isn't gender specific so please get it in your head Sir

Tgirl4real:
Hmm...

Whichever way, one can ONLY find true peace in Christ Jesus

What would Jesus do in this scenario?

I guess he would forgive and forget!

mokset123:
lemme just ask you one question, if you bought a brand new kia sportage for 7m and you registered it and used it for four years. Please tell me how much you would sell the car after using it for four years?

I'm sure you wouldn't expect me to pluck out a figure from thin air....

I would do the following:
Do a market research on the going rate for similar vehicles in the open market most especially taking into consideration factors such as:
Age/year of the vehicle,
Mechanical state of the vehicle
Cosmetic state of the vehicle
Mileage of the vehicle.

bla bla bla

Who exactly did they approve?
What's with the secrecy abegiii?

Caracta:
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Aminat508:
kinni egbon? What?

The guy sef use mac ni?

You only have two realistic options.:

1) Accept and accommodate the fact that he is a cheat and would most certainly cheat again - This as expected is drastic but might be your best bet if you are one of the people that wouldn't consider divorce under any circumstances. You will also have to consistently deal with unhealthy worry which in time will ignite the rage that would have built up over time.

2) Divorce - This will certainly let you regain some level of sanity but at what cost?. If you live in Nigeria then you will have to worry about the following:
Stigma
Financial hardship as a result of you being a single parent
Stereotype
Difficulty in being able to find someone that will accept you and your circumstance going forward


Above all, never ever contemplate killing yourself over a man!

How come?

mbulela:
It is excessive. 30 percent for 4 year old cars is way too excessive. 50% would have been understandable.

According to kelly blue book

"New cars fall precipitously in value almost immediately after purchase. In fact, on average they lose about 9 percent of their value the moment you step in and drive them home for the first time and 15 percent per year after that. Over the first five years of its life the average new car will depreciate 65 percent in value according to Kelly Blue Book. That means if you purchase the average $20,000 new car today, it will be worth around $7,000 when you go to sell it five years from now. No one could call this a sound investment, and unless you plan on keeping your car for an extended period or until it just stops running, new cars are not the best way to go."

http://budgeting.thenest.com/much-car-depreciate-27381.html

18 freaking billion naira annually

Choiiiiii....i'm pretty sure some of the money will be rerouted back to those that helped draft that ridiculous contract for tompolo.

You can't be effective with any strategy to deal with noisy neighbours without having them evicted but you can certainly control the accessibility of your nosy neighbours

The expected year on year depreciation factored into the final valuation isn't excessive so i have no problem with that. However, they need to be transparent about the deductions made as stipulated so we can be absolutely certain they aren't just handing over the cars for free