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Aminat508:
Chai jaybee3

you suppose dey advertise for close up...

i been dey see my face for your teeth sef

Na you oooooo

Joy1706:
You will take your car to the car wash, and your gate will be automatic ba? You're a hypocrite. Aren't all these things meant to make life easier for you but ur wife commits a great sin by getting a maid to assist her with the chores. If a woman doesn't suffer, you guys won't be happy. I cant deal with your hypocrisy. Abeg! It's easier for a man to poke the housemaid than the the gateman doing madam? Ok na. Tell that to those men who don't know their raising their gateman's spawn.

And who says there aren't men who neglect their wives' sexual needs? There are equally millions of hotter and richer guys out there to service madam

Shouldn't proximity of the enabler be a factor?

A maid would most certainly live inside the house and would most certainly come into close contact with the man more often than norm

Whereas the gate man in the same context is expected to see madam on very few occasions during the course of the day

Creamish:
smh..

I feel sorry for whoever uv chosen as ur slave wife.

What's your take on this booboo?

Aminat508:
. Hmmm jaybee3 u don start am ba?

See as you take fine like .....

you come look delicious

Aminat508:
I no do again joo, u re my EX lemme say it again EX, read my lips EX!!!!!!!

See as you take write EX in capital letters sef... Are you on a heart breaking parole by any chance?

Adufetohposh:

person ask you question you come begin do shakara
wetin sef?

why una too like to dey show colour sef?

Adufetohposh:
Are you saying a man that sleeps with his wife's maid is doing it to prove to himself that he's still ahead of the game and cannot be caught Makes no sense to me really.

Where is the respect he's meant to give to his wife? Most women dnt bother if they dnt know their husband's mistresses, but it's suicidal to know that ur husband is sleeping with ur maid right under ur nose, the woman will look like a phool!

Like I said earlier "some men" will not phuck their wife's maid... They are just too proud to engage in such

You are already getting your knickers twisted gyallll.
What i said in essence was, most men that will cheat with their maid would do so because they believe it will be done under secrecy thus they never getting caught.
I don't believe any man would openly sleep with the maid and flaunt it in front of the wife. It simply doesn't work like that

Adufetohposh:
And some men will not fall for that Beyonce or Kim K's Body, not because they don't find her attractive, but because they are disciplined and will rather go out instead of sleeping with someone under their wife's nostrils.


So what if the maid falls in love with the man and decides to poison madam and her children so she can take over the home completely....

I will blame the man. if he needs to cheat on his wife, it shouldn't be with her maid.

You obviously would never understand why people cheat.

Here is a clue, most people cheat because there is the feeling that they can get away with it prudue to the false sense of assurance that they would never be caught.

It also doesn't help that the society (especially African) sort of accepts it to be the norm thus having no sort of repercussion that would otherwise have served as some sort of deterrent to would be cheaters.

So you know, some of the most powerful men in history have fallen for their maids. Case in point, the gorvenator Arnold

cococandy:
while that may be true, it still doesn't make sense to blame the one person for the other's betrayal.

At least some accepting responsibility for one's mistakes would be nice.

Accepting responsibility should be the bare minimum but you can't look at it from holistic view point in marriages. Success and failure in a marriage is a joint responsibility and should be treated as such.

If a marriage fails then both party involved must have failed.

If a child turns out bad then both parents failed

SAMBARRY:
ok so it is settled abi?

Yes ma'am

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SAMBARRY:
how can I contribute? Isn't that the reason for the thread?

We have already closed the case from our end. We used part of the balance from DJ's campaign to address her issues.

SAMBARRY:
ok so HOW can I help

You can help by helping us find our next intervention case

cococandy:
@bold. Of course.
@ the rest, how does one totally avoid temptation? To me that's not possible. That's where fighting it comes in.
If they can't control themselves around an employee of the opposite sex will they also not work with the opposite sex?
Ever?

It's impossible to totally mitigate againts possible avenues of temptations in marriages since the individuals are expected to have some sort of self control and respect.

Having said that, you also shouldn't actively ignore factors that can indirectly allow temptation to grow wings.

You don't go hiring maids with bodies like beyonce or tyson beckford and not expect some sort of temptation

cococandy:
@bold. Na so.

Those men raising their gateman's or driver's kids without knowing nko? The fact is anyone can cheat with an employee under them and in that case, the blame belongs to them fair and square.
No need trying to justify or rationalize.

Yes anyone can cheat but there has to be some sort of attraction at most times to enable the temptation come into fruition.

It's very easy to avoid temptation but plain stupid and unrealistic to expect temptation to be fought!

Time is a precious commodity so give it to her in abundance

Loyalty being rare should also easily come natural to you

Your relatiosnhip should be based on Honesty and Integrity

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SAMBARRY:
Tehn I don't understand are you the man in that picture that wants to sell stuffs or what? Please enlighten me what you are on about?

That's Monsurat's brother. The picture was taken on the day the stuff was delivered

What if the person is a look-alike?

1bkaye:
Why would the wife be to blame?

Any man that will damn consequences of his actions and proceed to sleep with their maid would certainly have shown prior signs during the course of their marriage.

She should have simply rejected the idea of employing a maid with big melons and/or massive batty

How is it an anomaly if it's also long standing?

Large percentage of the blame should be reserved for the husband for stooping low to the extent that he allowed the maid rival the woman he got wedded to.

Small percentage of the blame should be reserved for the wife allowing temptation creep into her home knowing fully well that the husband is anything under skirt

temitemi1:
Lots of senses!

Rètarded Billygoat

temitemi1:
Agarawu, ti aba fi odun mewa pile were, odun melo lama wa lo ninu were na 2019 is here already man!

Dumb Bleep, maybe you need to reason along pareto's principle before you start commenting on things beyond your mental capacity.

It's not how fast something is done but how well

MrCcf:
Mr. Daura, while u keep enjoying the President fleets u criticized Gej of buying, don't forget that ur oga President Obama nominated his cabinets during the transition period and signed the document appointing the members of the cabinet and other two document immediately after being sworn-in.
Mr. Daura, you made us believe u are prepared during the campaign, but what have we gotten, a snail and tourist as President.
Mr. Daura, don't forget we now have South and North Sudan, because it is just a matter of time for u to embarrass globally again, and again, ur accent is so embarrasing. All those talks u made there, no single head of state understood u and when u return, do something about dollar, because it is not yet = #1
I wish u goodluck during your tenure.

For your mind you don make sense be that ooo comparing America to Nigeria.

Did obama have to similarly satisfy our need to have representation from all geopolitical zones/ethnicities?

No brainer i tell ya

Their attempt to control flow of traffic with roundabouts is just laughable...visionless leaders

saints2:
Na you sabi, dey take panadol for another person headache, maybe you get yourself busy and make a name for your self as Toke and her husband did... No quote me again ooo

I go quote you and nothing you can do about it.

Just relax yourself jor

It's not that serious

Oya sorry for calling you stupid

saints2:
I used to respect you as an intelligent person full of wisdom until you show your stupidity, cant you for once be reasonable when replying an aguement, must you take your foolishness for the world to see, I stated my observation and you reply with insults.

The heaven weeps for your sake, you better go and do brain testing, na like this e dey start ooo

Please keep your respect bro.

I don't understand how you can type such by absorbing the dude of his failings as a husband.

Now get this into your head, men cheat because they want to and certain societies somewhat accepts it as a norm not because the wife or gf pushed them into doing it.

The dude was probably attracted to her fame and of course comfortable enough with it to go ahead with the wedding so the issue of availability due to tight work/busy schedules shouldn't even come up.

You guys are being fûcked/ràped by the same set of people irrespective of the government in power

saints2:
I have always asked, what time does Toke creates for her husband, she too dey waka waka, today in UK, tomorrow in America, next in weddings etc, when does she have have time for her home, her husband is a human with blood flowing in his vein na, but once you abandon your duty cos of fame, you definately face the results, I am not trying to support infidelity, but Toke messed up big time, to our ladies... Face your home and create time for your man.

You are very stûpid for blaming the poor girl

You really should try to engage your brain sometimes ya know. Toke or whatever her name is certainly wasn't all that busy 8 years ago when the dude started dating the other girl as reported.


Rubbish!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z0rCxn_30ew

Adufetohposh:
You have a good wife that cares about u sooo much, please cherish her

Uhn?