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Mynd_44: You might be right with the last sentence but consider this. If someone poisons your food or shoots you even though you did not die from it are you likely to give the person a chance to do it again?

Key question is the intent bro?
Can i prove beyond reasonable doubt that her intention is to kill me?
Food poisoning could have been as a result of her sub cautiously using used by products

Being shot could be as a result of accidental discharge

You don't act on impulse when love/family is involved. Decisions that has negative outcome on a marriage should only be taking after every available measure has been explored

Mynd_44: I am not blaming her for forgiving him of a transgression but the transgression is too huge to forgive and walk away from. He willingly put her at risk health wise and she forgave him and gave him a chance to do it again.

How do you know it was a wilful act?
Besides, each family is unique and thus forgiveness threshold shouldn't be benchmarked

Mynd_44: Now you mentioned they might have stopped intimacy and stuff while living together but do you really believe that's true considering the nature of Nigerian marriages where the family and church has "settled their ish"? Cases like this abound where she keeps forgiving and he comes back to infect her with HIV

Mynd_44: seriously. This goes beyond cheating to total disregard for the woman's health. If he got the maid pregnant then he was obviously not using protection, which means he could have gotten HIV and sent it to his wife. Such men are dangerous and dont deserve second chances

The woman is silly because she gave him second chance?

How do you know the woman didn't stop intimacy with the man after the first ish?

Besides, they could have been living together whilst being separated emotionally since the first ish

Anyhoo, marriage isn't necessarily something you can just pack up and go after any transgression whatsoever

Mynd_44: Silly woman. After the first one got pregnant, she should have learnt her lesson and thrown the dog out

Seriously?

Gloximazz: tnx.but i dnt knw how to approach him though.dnt want to make him feel bad.

Just tell him politely that you'd appreciate if he addresses you as jane/helen the next time he tries such prank with you

You a boy or girl?

He is only trying to be familiar

If you don't like being addressed as such then simply let him know

Post on topic henceforth

Harbosede02: Op,u are daft#no offence,u knw y i said so?cos of d way u tink,wtf!!how dare u generalise!itz nt all naija babes dat ask their guy 4 tinz,every1 has a different way of thinking some gurls tink wen they are dating a guy d guy sud spend all he has on them,while some tink d orda way round!carry out ur research very well next tym b4 u cum hr and start spitting awt trash!
#compliments

Phew

Can you not type with a lil textspeak?

xynerise: Rastaferian hair is rare

Tears of joy na good thing oh

xynerise: Mongolian hair?

who wants to look like Chinco?

Mongolian => peruvian <= obvious similarities

The rarer the better

I'd say greed

Those in poverty don't worry about recharge card or Mongolian hair

Stop trolling

https://www.nairaland.com/1481057/just-one-night-stand-should

What's there to discuss?

If you are in a relationship because of the sexual benefits you are to gain then Nope


Determine and define boundaries of relationships before getting into one


It's as simple as that

Elli-dude:
Can i say something MOD JAY-BEE? With your permission..

Go ahead boss

Sorry?

Are you seriously getting worked up with what these characters post online?

Experience they say is the best teacher. You should know that mondy

Foxy_Flow: Jesu...

You!!!!

**Faints**

TrishaP

Yo boss, still waiting on you as per that ish