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big_bumper:
Why should i drop the allegation of being called a scammer, everyone here is saying that was not what Chelseabmw meant despite the fact that i figured this out myself, yet the emails that has been doing the rounds is indicating my hunch was right. Jenny abeg free me joo

No one called you a scammer and i don't understand why you are still going round circles regarding this non issue

here is chelsea's post which he has rightly apologised if it was interpreted wrongly

"Ify had already made provisions to get help to chioma but she bite the hand that feed her.This poster is just looking for unnecessary attention. . . .Guys,just know that anyone that sends money to this girl has been scammed/Deceived/Conned/Fooled.


My 2 cent"

sexkillz:
[color=#000030]Smh!

You can only ban the username sexkillz, now can you ban the person behind it? I guess not![/color]

Oga Sexkillz,
Can you please refrain from insulting thread openers when you are not in agreement with their respective threads.

Thanks for your anticipated corporation

coogar:
jupiter's c[i]o[/i]ck!

how about venus prick?

Let's do it again peeps

big_bumper:
OAM4J, una see Ifyalways dey holla say I wan thief her account oh so she has to know by fire by force how I got Chioma's email which was on her profile! Plus what was all those about Aunty Kemi's school mate, shuo, na which one be that, adult education!!!

where or when did she make that claim.
Any straight thinking person wouldn't just drop their account willy nilly without checking/confirming what it's meant for and how it's going to be used.

Is it fair to conclude that this is being blown outta proportion cos of prior history between the two of you?
At the end of the day each and everyone of us wanna help so why don't we just focus on that

coogar:
abeg jaybee, send me the details of the chioma babe.

I don't have her details. Not sure if she has an email addy on her profile.

Why are we even dragging this?

Ify rightly declined to go further with the help agreed as the OP moved post in the short space of time.

BB has a right to help whomever she wishes to help either via the anonymous route or out in the open.

Are we helping a girl that made a mistake in having an unplanned baby or we want to help someone who made the first mistake then tried covering it by spending her school fees to solve the problem?

What gives? We have a duty to apply wisdom to this rather than just throwing money at the problem.
It could be our own daughter tomorrow so let's not condone her actions by just jumping to help remove her from the self positioned predicament.

Most people agreed to help because she was feeling suicidal about a baby so if that's still the case then let's manage it accordingly via the right channels

It's pretty simple to be honest.
Let the OP come out and ask for the specific help that she needs

It's even more necessary to involve the parents or insist on seeing any family members of hers if any help is to be rendered.

Madrid butt  hole suppose don wide enough, free for all barca players

Missy b all the way and it ain't got anything to do with the jara i'm supposed to be getting behind the kitchen doors

moremi2008:
Emotional abuse? How?! Who born am?! Who born her father?! Her father no get house? As soon as I get tired of her foolishness, out she goes, back to the father who forgot to give her home-training! I'll only take her back after produces a signed and sealed certificate of completion!

Why would your wife be emotionally abusing you in your own house? You no get balls? Even if the house belongs to her, you no fit comot and leave her to continue abusing the empty house? Life is not that hard oh, my bros.

dude, are you married or ever been in love?
A friend of mine almost killed himself because he loved his then gf too damn much.
It happens and it's even more deadly when you don't know that's the case

suffering in silence isn't necessarily synonymous to being walloped by the opposite sex.
They could be suffering from emotional abuse or whatever

pslm23:
what is the website for NL Charity?

We currently don't have a website as we are still kinda operating under an unstructured but highly effective mode.
We are all volunteers coming together to help alleviate needy people from poverty
Your donations/moral support to the cause will be well received

Power couple
me likey

How about those in Ogun state clubs?

hmmmmmm

American politics is very very interesting.

Mrs, Chima:
LMAO@the definitions  How do you think things expire if they doesn't become weakened or faded?

Are YOU still in bed? 

I'm now utterly convinced you're still in bed.
Since when did emotional feelings starts to equate to things off chemical/man-made components?
Emotional feelings now have a sell by date?

Does the love to your parents/immediate family/siblings alike have expiry date?

SMH

Fade => Less stronger than it was when started
Expires => Non existence after . . . . .

The person you once truly loved wouldn't just become your enemy or would they?

u still in bed?

First and foremost, love ain't no product. It's an emotional feeling people choose to allow to roam freely once they meet that special person.
So does it expire? heck no it doesn't. True love can fade but doesn't outrightly expire.

What constitutes to family upkeep?
List all the key elements of the upkeep and assign the new prices to each and every one of the reasonable element i.e. food, travelling, toiletries etc.
Add the all new prices up and compare it to the old prices so as to get the % increase

@Q
The OP's grievance is not necessarily clear
Go through the thread again so as to get a feel of how it has evolved

kadarva:
Let me clarify: I don't mind if my husband sends money yo his family if we have money left. But like I said we hardly pay our bills on time. I pay most of d bills as my husbands has got debts which hopefully will be cleared next month.

I want to go on holiday with my family like other family's do. The last time I bought clothes for myself is more then a year ago. I know I might come across as a moaner but I'm just fed up. I used to be a parttime model in germany so I'm used to a healthy bank balance

Do you both contribute monetarily on a 50:50 basis?
If yes then you are free to moan when it comes to him spending some of the money on his family.

Mrs, Chima:
I don't see how people can equate excess of or lack of money to loving someone.  Money/wealth is material and it is an addition to things you need or want to survive in your natural world, however there are couples with excess money love each other and couples with lack of money love each other.  

The reason why most people are unhappy in their relationship or marriage is lack of compatibility or equally yoke-ness.  

Love of money is the chaos of many things.

Are we going by the book or the relationship journals again?

We are talking about experiences of the common man/woman on a daily basis hence my insistence on the view point of Nigeria.
Just do a basic research on NL to see the number of opened threads whereby Naija dudes have complained about how some if not most of Naija girls they ask out on daily basis have basic minimum requirement of their potential bf's being able to take care of them monetarily

looool

michelin89:
But na them dey cry pass. Me never see any rich and educated boy wey dey cry because woman don leave am. For NL I dey see the congregation of the the "Ajepkakos, dying for love" just too often!

Are you trying to analyse why people cry for love?
Poverty and education doesn't have anything to do with that though
It's all about maturity/experience.
It's a lot easier for a mature/experienced boy/girl to deal with a break up compared to a newbie who just fell in love for the first time

Ferrer is a grinder and extremely strong from the baseline which Nole is known to prefer on hard courts compared with the other top players that can mix the odd serve and volley with varying drop shots.
It's not going to be a walk over for Nole.
I just fancy david's chances