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Fade => Less stronger than it was when started
Expires => Non existence after . . . . .

The person you once truly loved wouldn't just become your enemy or would they?

u still in bed?

First and foremost, love ain't no product. It's an emotional feeling people choose to allow to roam freely once they meet that special person.
So does it expire? heck no it doesn't. True love can fade but doesn't outrightly expire.

What constitutes to family upkeep?
List all the key elements of the upkeep and assign the new prices to each and every one of the reasonable element i.e. food, travelling, toiletries etc.
Add the all new prices up and compare it to the old prices so as to get the % increase

@Q
The OP's grievance is not necessarily clear
Go through the thread again so as to get a feel of how it has evolved

kadarva:
Let me clarify: I don't mind if my husband sends money yo his family if we have money left. But like I said we hardly pay our bills on time. I pay most of d bills as my husbands has got debts which hopefully will be cleared next month.

I want to go on holiday with my family like other family's do. The last time I bought clothes for myself is more then a year ago. I know I might come across as a moaner but I'm just fed up. I used to be a parttime model in germany so I'm used to a healthy bank balance

Do you both contribute monetarily on a 50:50 basis?
If yes then you are free to moan when it comes to him spending some of the money on his family.

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=853380.msg10036942#msg10036942 date=1327414610]I don't see how people can equate excess of or lack of money to loving someone.  Money/wealth is material and it is an addition to things you need or want to survive in your natural world, however there are couples with excess money love each other and couples with lack of money love each other.  

The reason why most people are unhappy in their relationship or marriage is lack of compatibility or equally yoke-ness.  

Love of money is the chaos of many things.[/quote]Are we going by the book or the relationship journals again?

We are talking about experiences of the common man/woman on a daily basis hence my insistence on the view point of Nigeria.
Just do a basic research on NL to see the number of opened threads whereby Naija dudes have complained about how some if not most of Naija girls they ask out on daily basis have basic minimum requirement of their potential bf's being able to take care of them monetarily

looool

michelin89:
But na them dey cry pass. Me never see any rich and educated boy wey dey cry because woman don leave am. For NL I dey see the congregation of the the "Ajepkakos, dying for love" just too often!

Are you trying to analyse why people cry for love?
Poverty and education doesn't have anything to do with that though
It's all about maturity/experience.
It's a lot easier for a mature/experienced boy/girl to deal with a break up compared to a newbie who just fell in love for the first time

Ferrer is a grinder and extremely strong from the baseline which Nole is known to prefer on hard courts compared with the other top players that can mix the odd serve and volley with varying drop shots.
It's not going to be a walk over for Nole.
I just fancy david's chances

michelin89:
You guys are unfair!

The question is simple na: why are the poor always desperate for love?

Wrong assertion if in a general context
If you are looking at it from a Nigerian context, the reason wouldn't be far fetched from the fact that money is the single most important determinant factor when getting into a relationships.

If less privileged people don't have disposable money, it had only be natural for them to be desperate as the % of available women they are able to choose from automatically decreases

jay bee:
Murray has the easiest route to the SF

Murray will def steam roll into the semis

jay bee:
King Fed needs to bring his A game if he wants to reach the semis

He sure brought his A game. King Fed lives on

jay bee:
Nadal needs to fight as usual and i'm sure he will be well tested by berdych

As predicted. Nadal still a dangerous opponent for fed but this is Fed's favourite surface so hmmmmmmm

jay bee:
Nole might struggle to get past Ferrer

I'm still undecided. Something tells me ferrer might just nick it

No correlation

Any email received in your inbox asking you to enter your account/password details is most definitely a scam.
If in doubt, walk into any branch of your bank and speak to an advisor

Analyse the prospective's weight history and lifestyle

Cultural differences playing out here.
If you love your husband and don't want this issue to put strain on your relationship then you have to learn how to endure as well as paying less attention to these differences.

Murray has the easiest route to the SF
King Fed needs to bring his A game if he wants to reach the semis
Nadal needs to fight as usual and i'm sure he will be well tested by berdych
Nole might struggle to get past Ferrer

Can I suggest this girl is advised to go for serious counselling once a perfect temporary solution is formalised

Who be the minister sef?

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Chei see babes

BelaMorena:
Jaybee i was banned again (MsDarkSkin) by spamb0t when I posted in the Caribbean thread.

I'm on it

looool
u wan quench DK?
dat ikebe is duly insured by blazay's Oga
Blazay's oga dey enjoy wella

What happened to previous exposé's?
Ain't no nucca ready to fight corruption in Nigeria.
Status quo continues

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R u coming?
Lemme go get me ticket sorted pronto

You anywhere near NYC? I'm hitting that town next month

Trini chicks mehn
hmmmmmm yummy

pascal

Mehn Oga Saga, abegi where do you get all these funny you tube clips from? Abi you get secret Info bank somewhere?
I can't get enough of big lebowski

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U fit come UK?
I get them plenty for hiaaaa

Where else do you expect to find an unattached +40 year old woman?
Marriage is like a religion to most Nigerian women, they start singing marriage tune as soon as they enter puberty/uni so any unattached +40 year old woman out there would probably be living in one of 'em churches cos of peer/family pressures.

Besides, don't you just wanna get laid so why complicate things Mr?

Try MFM or deeper life churches