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Sagamite:
Speak to your husband ASAP.

If you are starting work at 8am and finishing at 6.30pm, it is unreasonable to expect you to cook or even do major childcare task after work.

You should both sit down together and see if you can hire some to do the cooking. Even if it is someone that will come in for 2 hours a day Monday to Friday to cook you guys dinner and get paid anything from N200 - N1000 per day.

I bet there are thousands of people in Nigeria that will bite your hands off to do it and be employed. Maybe even University or Polytechnic students that need to supplement their schooling funds.

If you work that much, you should only cook in the weekend or on special occasions.

Sit him down and talk to him reasonably.

Wow Wow Wow Wow
What got into you Saga?

No two ways about it.
He has to either join in with the house chores as well as learning how to warm/cook foods in the oven.
If he doesn't want to do that then let him employ a full time cook.

I'm guessing you don't have electricity issues

hmmmmmmmmm

Goldieluks:



Like seriously I want to become a MOD, so that I can sue that counter wareeva.



I have a complaint to make. Why is mr cork allowed to log in to NL?

Fortunately for some (cos of his highly proclaimed 17" and unfortunately for many, he appears to be a virus/bot that was created to annoy nlers.

Your husband has gone missing or perhaps he his hiding in captain draft's house?
I'm confused.com

I met dyt through NL

[quote author=~Killz~ link=topic=639119.msg10191659#msg10191659 date=1329201975][color=#000030]Two threads that has absolutely NOTHING to do with Romance![/color]
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-870394.0.html
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-870466.0.html[/quote]Threads moved

Thnx bro

Yes I CAN

Ibime:
Im playing the punk next week. . . . I figure Ive got the luxury of spending 4 points on a transfer. . .

Looks like someone got thumped
who's tha punk now?

Goldieluks:
How come my post records 10092 when its obivous that am rarely on NL?
Where is jaybee, I think I deserve an explanation.

Counter probably malfunctioning

Na wa oh

can you both just get a room?
thread officially derailed
SMH



OK i'm jealous

rokiatu:
LOL if u are talking abt me, I spend so much yrs with my bf before finally getting married to him. So we know each other inside out and things are going smoothly, but I need more tips up my sleeves.

And others may also find this thread helpful. So more replies please.

You don't need any tips if you already plan to get to know him enough before you go ahead and say "I do"

Never worry about the unknown simply because you don't have control over it.
Marriage is a worthy risk but you have to be sure you are ready for one.

rokiatu:
Yea I want to think that also but having seen so many people changed after their wedding is scaring the crap outta me.

I have seen so many loving couples become boring and downright depressed after they got married.

And the stories on NL doesn't help either. "My wife is this, "My marriage is boring"  "I am thinking of breaking my marriage"  "My husband beat me up"  Etc etc can only leave one to believe that marriage is the death of romance.

Do you have anything against spending extended time period with him before the wedding?
If you are dating someone and they get upgraded to a fiancée then it's only natural/normal for you to spend quality time with them so as not to get the shock of your life.

I can only think of people changing in the instance that you haven't shared his/her personal space with before and the other party ain't really accustomed to either one's short falls.
It's somewhat difficult having to share one's personal space hence the reason why couples are advised to court before getting married

hehehehehehheehhehe

More like the common sense angle

Yes as long as the debt wasn't incurred whilst she was trying to live above her means.

I'm always for worthy causes so ain't got a problem with footing bills

Engage in exactly the same protocol as it was before the wedding.

If you married a boring person then don't expect them to be transformed after the wedding.

Wedding is just a ceremony that doesn't necessarily change either couple

Might be different for people waiting for the special night until they pop that cherry

Baawaa:
You dont know what you are saying,as far as Buhari is concerned his [b]less [/b]corrupt out of our leaders of today.Buhari is not a saint but he is better Tinubu,Obasanjo,Babangida etc

Wow wow wow
So it's acceptable to be corrupt  

yipeeeeee

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I'm international
Smiles

London dis week, NY next week and ,

I'm highly skilled and certified

Dyt:
y d tongue?

Just a stylish request to get tongue locking

I'm right here

we are here

Thnx sweetie pie
Ur da best

[quote author=Missy_B link=topic=812506.msg10164567#msg10164567 date=1328867543]Lol!What would you have?[/quote]I'd go with anything your highness put on the table for moi

Sorry bro, I'm highly allergic to male processed foods

What's on the menu today?