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Do i get an e-kiss now that all the above is off your heavy chest

The answer to your question is embedded inside us.
These are some of the things we do to them;
We stereotype them
We don't appreciate them for who they are
We expect them to be superhuman
We cheat on them and still expect them to accept our cheating ways

Now tell me, have you ever been with anyone that just get angry for nothing? We spite them and they respond so absolutely nothing to do with the colour

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Point is it will still be understandable. No substitute for motherly love but each individual once married should rise to any challenges that such brings.

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=572294.msg7395830#msg7395830 date=1293110739]And Jaybee, it happens the other way oh, i have never had any issues with anyone i have dated, infact i end up being closer to their Mums than them and get told thngs they have never told their son's, but the fact is that you guys Mums are the worst of the lot. Plenty stories abound yafun yafun, hence the numerous proverbial wicked MIL stories Talk to your Mothers to handle my Sisters with care oh [/quote]I'm with you on the above. I know ma mum's capability. . . .Being the only boy and last born, if i just allow my mum into ma mum kpere hell will break loose. That's why we men have to be strong.
We should run our own home. Dude is weak and he needs to get on his feet to do the right thing. No point feeling sorry for him or what-not

PS: I won't even allow my babe be closer than necessary with ma sisters. If you are marrying me then please marry me ALONE
I want no outside influence abeg

chaircover:
Jaybee LOL - He cares

If he didn't care, he would have hired 10 hefty looking area boys and thrown both the MIL and his wife from the balcony & wont be asking questions here on what to do.

I sense that the poster is looking for reconciliation with his wife but without the MIL.

Wrong . . .
Dude is weak.
We really shouldn't be confusing obvious weakness for care.
The wife is just lucky that the dude is an orphan cos if his parents are alive then surely they wouldn't be allowing such injustice.

[quote author=cou-gar link=topic=567773.msg7395697#msg7395697 date=1293109502]big four: man utd, chelsea, arsenal, liverpool
big five: man utd, chelsea, arsenal, liverpool, tottenham(now a champions league team, topped their group too).[/quote]GBAM
until man-city achieve any notable success then they are still tagged as second tier. Media hype is not enough to get tagged. Success on the field is all that's needed

Liars rot in hell

chaircover:
If he unceremoniously throws his MIL’s suitcase out into the street, that is no guarantee that his wife will love him more & unless there is any other ulterior motive, I would have thought that all the guys wants is to live peacefully with his wife. Do you see where I am coming from?

who cares? Isn't it obvious that the wife has obviously chosen her mum over him (Nothing wrong with that though just not in a matrimonial home).
what will she do if the role was switched? The wife is selfish as she only cares about how her mum feels.
Selfish people are meant to be treated harshly.
This is not a case of 1 or 2 months inconvenience, chei it's even years. Just beyond believe

I don't date hood rats so hell yeah.
Ma kinda babes have their own money so no reason to allow temptation be the order of the day

snowdrops:
u serious? do you mean catch him on top of her, banging each other.

Yes i am dead serious. Personally, i would be needing hard evidence before breaking my home.
Texts could have been from an admirer or what not.
Best way for him to confirm his suspicion is get the wife do a pregnancy test

Any game between any of the big four/five in the premiership is a big game.
Question is who are the big four/Five?

Help you to do what really? How pathetic  
you need to substantiate your suspicion. Text messages could have been a prank so have her confess then send her packing.
No two ways about it.

She doesn't like me

Get down to heavy business

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=572294.msg7395061#msg7395061 date=1293103288]Chei, you be angry man oh


Biko, abeg don't take that course of action at all, I have modified my last post and added to it. You have to go back home and take the advice of the dude that said you should show them the silent treatment, then if all else fails, you could move out after your rent expires or if you own the property, sell it and add money and buy a smaller one for her so your children would have a roof over their head and then set up savings account for your children as well as give her money and provision for their upkeep. I sincerely hope and pray it works out for you. Olorun a fun e ni okun ati  alaafia, amin.[/quote]why must he continue to suffer all because culture or religion asked us to be nice? They don't care about him so why should he care?
The woman should carry her mum and go stay with her abeg. What would have happened if it was the other way round?
Another lesson for us men mehn.
Don't marry a woman that's potentially going to make her family's responsibility yours

Ok here you go:
I will get outta the car to stay with the perfect partner that i've been dreaming about and let the old friend drive my car to drop the elderly woman at the hospital.

I know u r hun.
don't lemme gate-crash the dude's parole.
Enjoy hun and merry xmas

Dude,
Why open a chit chat thread under sexuality section? If you wanna get to know NL's own resident Sexuality Queen then please do so under the dating and meet-up section.

Hey Inky

Have you tried renting a place for your MIL?
If you currently don't own your own home then stop paying the rent and see them get kicked out.
I won't even allow my own mum live with me talkless of a MIL

Your MIL is not your responsibility. It's the responsibility of her children and you shouldn't be burdened in your own house.
Go be the man that you are and stop whining.

Do these things actually happen in marriages for real?
Are men now too dumb or powerless to act as the leader of their household.
Any woman that tries all these rubbish with me is definitely getting ready to become single.
Marriage is so not a must but a privilege given to someone that truly deserves it.

Question is didn't your so called wife exhibit all these traits why y'all were still courting?
Why are you using your relative as a househelp anyways? If you want to help her then help don't go using your cousin as a househelp. That's just gross and shouldn't be encouraged

I despise liars especially those that lie about age.
Geez what's the big deal about letting someone love you for who you are.

Question is how many other things has she lied about?
As for me, that will be enough for me to dump her sorry as.

She all grown

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=572973.msg7389058#msg7389058 date=1293029777]Bros . . . You no need money? [/quote]I get shame bro

It's a massive disrespect for the ex-whatever to approach me with any offer.
If the girl in question talked to me about the offer then i will probably say yes, though not to the offer of money but the offer of him taking the responsibilities off me cos for her to even discuss it with me means she has most probably made up her mind.

[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=572025.msg7387200#msg7387200 date=1293012663]Jaybee, am I a troublemaker [/quote]Offcourse not. . . .
you is a sweetheart. . . .
U just get overly excited MOST times u get a lil high on peanut butter

Howz our meaningless reassurances going to help you in the real world?