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light099:
I listen to all genre of songs son.
That's why I know good music.

So you think Rema and Young Thug is good music? You don't listen to good music bro, you listen to the garbage they feed you on MTv Base and all those other music channels.

light099:
Crap.

My Indian boy, Rema is doing well, same as Fireboy.
My son Rema with his nasal voice gives me those feel of foreign vibes similar to Youngthug, while Fireboy does good music with his sweet voice adding all the adlibs and vocal-fry. What more can I ask for.


All these stale froggs should be gone already.

You listen to Rema and Young Thug bro, you probably listen to 69. Your opinion on good music is not needed

Rilwayne001:
Didn't trend on Twitter, I guess it wasn't really that cool.

If you base good music on how much it trends on Twitter, your music taste must be really stale

SenorFax:
Sorry I called you out on those posts.

See ehn, the older guys get, the more we know how life works. I may not see perfect examples, I surely have good ones known to myself about companionship.
As the saying goes, he who travels alone travels far, but with companion, the journey is sweeter. Forget the fact that ladies are demons, yes, but they are necessary ones. We'll still be swimming in a guy's nutsack if that man didn't try to give life and love a chance. You dig??

That's it. I wanted to be educated and I asked a honest question. I don't mean to demonize relationships or make them look unimportant. I just need to know why people make them essential and you made a good point. Thank You

Callertunez:
jaycynic are you a musician? a producer?

Let's say I'm a beatmaker since I'm not into mixing and mastering and all those complex audio engineering. And I don't own my studio, I'm still a student though, just making beats on my system and trying to get my online beatstore. I rap too

SenorFax:
Another gay in the making spotted.
Looking at your pics, you look like gay or maybe bisexual

Simply because you are heartbroken doesn't mean others are too. Real men don't run from their problems (women), only pvssies does that.

Let people enjoy things and you enjoy your singleness in peace, or are you scared of your sexuality??

I really think you are confused going thru your profile

The posts you highlighted on moving to a Nigerian girl was made last year and it had everything to do with sex. And since the beginning of this year, I've understood what life really is, You don't need a woman.

The other post on Feminism is me saying every person should be equal.

SenorFax:
Another gay in the making spotted.
Looking at your pics, you look like gay or maybe bisexual

Simply because you are heartbroken doesn't mean others are too. Real men don't run from their problems (women), only pvssies does that.

Let people enjoy things and you enjoy your singleness in peace, or are you scared of your sexuality??

I'm not gay bro, I'm not heartbroken either. Matter of fact I'm happy and living my best life, I'm having sex without needing to commit to anything. I'm not trying to stop you from enjoying, I'm just curious why YOU enjoy relationships.Apart from having an orgasm, what do you enjoy about your relationship?

Apart from sex, procreation and getting money, there's really nothing essential or exceptional about being involved in a romantic relationship. I see human beings taking their lives or getting angry because a partner left them, and I wonder why people are so deluded.
I've been in many relationships and found it bland because there was no extraordinary feeling involved except orgasm. The same feeling I have when I'm single and masturbating is the same feeling I have when I'm dating and having sex. I can't seem to figure out why a broke man would spend his hard-earned wages on his girlfriend when he can easily have sex with a prostitute at a cheaper price while focusing his money on things that are more profitable and would fetch him a better living.

Companionship isn't a problem either because good friends and family are around to keep you company, who don't always need your money, and are constantly supporting you to become a better person.

I honestly don't understand why a human being needs another human being of the opposite sex to feel good or happy when you can actually make money and be happy by yourself.

blinking001:
Gosh. This is so disgusting. I cant believe a guy can be this ignorant. Anyway, stick with what ever rocks your boat. You disgust me.

I don't give a shit about you either

lilmax:
Feminism and Christianity do not mix
I can't take anyone who mix the two seriously

That means your Christianity is Sexist.

purpinkx:
Why call it feminism instead or EQUALism if it was about equal treatment for everyone?

It's not too late to wake up.



Lol, don't mind the SIMPle guy!

It's called Feminism because men in the past have had the upper-hand in society and women have only recently tried to ascend to the same stratification. It's just like when someone says black lives matter, it doesn't mean all other lives don't matter, it just means that one group is asking for the same privileges enjoyed by others. It's a basic thing to comprehend

kazyhm:
Do you mean equality is a women in traffic expecting men to allow her pass just because she is a women but won't allow men pass because its cheating to do so ?

Feminism is equal to double standard

I didn't say that, can you actually read my post where I said I believed in Meritocracy.

Blackmoran:
don't bring race to the issue... Why we Africans are backward as nothing to do with slavery or colonialism.. We need to look inward and tell ourselves the bitter truth... On the matter of feminism please with y life experience tell me how women want equality? All I see is please "step down for me to rise up" how is that equality? Is my dream to see the feminist ideology, at least I will be free from paying of useless bills, my dream is to sit at home and watch TV, do a little bit of cleaning while my girl go out and work, my dream is to be treated like a child that has no responsibility and is not accountable for anything always pointing fingers,... Yea that's my dream . stop been hypocritical, how many women will fit my above mention dreams? Please I don't know who you are whether you a guy or a lady, but if you a guy please go meet your girlfriend or your wife and tell her you want to be a stay at home dad... When you get her response please get back to me.!!! What a simp

Your Point: Men have made groundbreaking technological inventions that have changed the world, so they have the right to be above women in society.

My Point: If we follow your logic, Whites have made more groundbreaking inventions than blacks, Whites have brought the internet, social media and everything that has shaped the modern era and Africans have been scientifically proven to have a lower IQ. Does this make it okay for white people to be treated above blacks?

Your Reply: A bunch of nonsense about being a stay-at-home dad.

Guess who is the real simp here

matrixme:
I didn't get to read your write-up. But many of you idealistic young men of nowadays advocating for feminism in Nigeria are still in your parents houses, receiving pocket money from your dad and mum. When you reach marriage age, you won't want a Nigerian feminist by your side as a spouse.
Especially those toxic feminists that are always saying men are trash. They are the ones that pray loudest in every year Shiloh.
Mind you, I'm not saying women should be denied their fundamental human rights, but it's unafrican for a woman to want to rub shoulders with men in our world. Just because you can don't mean you must.

What is a Shiloh?
Africa has remained a backward and a third-world society because of that type of thinking.

Blackmoran:
Feminism says man and woman are equal and should be treated equally I agree with that.... Me personally I don't believe that man and women are equal, I believe most people saying that deep down they know they are lying or living in delusion... I believe both sexes exhibit qualities that compliment each other, for example men are rational in thinking while women are emotional, women can multi task while it is difficult for men... All these qualities has help us to survive to this date.... I believe feminism is a lie women don't want equality, when they want is men stepping down for there cause which is hypocritical, in my own understanding equality means competition we are judged equally and treated equally which if you notice doesn't exist.... Op says he is a man feminist but I can bet my balls that he is among those people who believe " thy shall not beat a woman" even though she can do the opposite, how is that equallity? Is not double standard... Any body that believe in feminism is living in delusion... And for the op saying women have been treated bad time past.. All I have to say to the op is, tell that to men who died at wars, tell that to men who created technology for mankind to have a easy lives, tell that to men who created drugs and herbs, tell that to men who created contraceptive for you woman to be liberated for reckless sex, at time past it was humans against nature and both sexes played there part for civilization so for someone to wake up saying women as always had it bad I think is dumb... I want equality I want people to get the best jobs not because of there sexes but because of there competent which feminism is against, when you here words like " let give women a chance" which means guys step down let her have are way.... If you want to succeed in this life you have to compete and be among the best. But most feminist like the op don't see it that way, they believe life is like charity... My wish is to see feminism come to reality, but how many women pay the bills in a relationship, how many women ask guy out, how many woman want to carry blocks, women want the benefit but don't want to do the work.. In conclusion when you here feminism it is a hypocrisy....

If you believe that men and women aren't equal simply because they have a different mental wiring and because men have died in wars, then a white man can also say he's greater than a black man simply because the white race have brought civilization, they have contributed more to modern technology and they have introduced the internet which black people benefit from.

And if you think women haven't had it bad in the past, then you don't know your history. They have been denied education, they have been forced to marry people they don't want to, they have been reduced to the lowest strata in society. If Men died in wars, how did that make women incapable of fighting in wars? We have female Army Generals today, we have creative women who have made a difference.

Read my post, I believe in meritocracy, everyone should get what they qualify for and gender shouldn't have anything to do with it.

Feminism is a postulation that has seen adverse criticism and alienation in the Nigerian clime. While there has been a lot of misconceptions and misinterpretations of the ideology by some Nigerian women, I am of the opinion that the belief is a valid one if we use a logical path to approach it.

The General law of feminism is that Man = Woman in society, and nobody should be discriminated or disrespected on the grounds of their gender. If we go by this definition, everyone with a good sense of reasoning should be pro-feminism. The female gender has experienced a long history of discrimination and abuse which has caused women to be overlooked, belittled and disregarded in society. We are in the 21st Century and I vehemently support the cause that women and men should be accorded equal rights in society.

However, we have seen a new wave of Feminism in the past decade which could also be viewed as "Feminazism." This new theory literally alludes that women are better than men, this theory believes that a woman who cooks for her husband is a docile slave, this new theory pronounces all men who desire their wives to be submissive as "Sexists," this new theory calls J.Cole a misogynist when he humbly advices Noname on how to speak to black folks, this new theory states that all men are rapists, this new theory is anti-matrimony, this new theory accuses men of objectifying women while praising Cardi Bs and Nicki Minajs, this new theory accuses you of "mansplaining" when you argue with a woman. This is an ideology in gross disorder.

While I believe marriage shouldn't be a bondage, I believe the head of a family should be chosen by the religion or institution which establishes it, I believe that cooking and house chores are flippant issues and can be done by any partner who chooses to, I believe that Daddy can bath or change Junior's diapers if he wishes, I believe that there should be no rule as to who does the household duties but there should be a common ground on who does it.

I believe that women who desire to own big businesses should put in the same hardwork put in by men who own big businesses and stop the self-victimization, I believe that women are as smart as men and intelligence does not lie in gender, I believe my wife can be my boss while at work and still respect me as a wife when we're back home, I believe that my wife has the right to earn more than I do, I believe in decent dressing for all genders, I believe that we shouldn't see women as sex-slaves, I believe that the man is the head of the FAMILY, and everybody is equal in SOCIETY, I believe that marital status isn't a proper benchmark for judging a woman's success in life, I believe that every woman has a voice, every woman has a choice, every woman has a say. No woman is a slave.

I am a Feminist not a Feminazi.

Any government that prioritizes the well-being of crooked politicians over the health of its own citizens is irresponsible and isn't fit to be called a government. Nigeria is a FAILED State.

False rape accusations is the main reason rape stories are not being taken seriously. It's sad how they make the real thing ridiculous. The new feminism order is a big joke

Nbote:
Blacks kill blacks more in the US and even here in Africa.. While dey were busy protesting about black lives matter, a fellow black molested and probably killed her.. If a white man molests or kills a black man, it's termed racism. But when blacks keep murdering and ruining demselves, it is jus crime

That's a fact but it's a different pain knowing you were killed just because of the colour of your skin. If a black man dies because of gangbanging and street violence, atleast you know it's a choice and can be avoided, but if he gets murdered for his skin color, how do you avoid that.

Calabar General News
The University of Calabar (UNICAL) School fees schedule for the 2019/2020 academic session has been announced. This shows a break down of the fees payable by new and returning students of the university in the current session. Check the break down of fees and charges below:


S/NNATURE OF STUDENTSPER SESSION
1. Fresh Students
Science Students 55,750
Non-Science Students 55,750
MB Bch Students 50,250
Nursing Students 43,250
2. Returning Students
Science Students 32,000
Non-Science Students 31,000
MB Bch Students 39,500
Nursing Students 39,500
3. Final Year Students.
Science Students 35,250
Non-Science Students 34,250
MB Bch Students 42,750
Nursing Students 42,750
ACCEPTANCE FEES-FRESH STUDENTS25,000
PROJECT SUPERVISION 3,000
PORTAL CHARGES 2,500
LATE REGISTRATION 3,000
ACADEMIC GOWN 2,000




ACCEPTANCE FEES-FRESH STUDENTS25,000
PROJECT SUPERVISION 3,000
PORTAL CHARGES 2,500
LATE REGISTRATION 3,000
ACADEMIC GOWN 2,000

How To Pay UNICAL School Fees
1. Students (Fresh and Returning students) should log on to the portal with their Registration Number or Matric Number
2. Generate and Print Bill
3. Check the list of Banks for payment according to programme of study
4. Go to the bank and make payment on e-Transact Platform
5. Collect bank payment slip which contain payment details and confirmation order number
6. Go back to the portal to log on with your Registration Number or Matric Number
7. Then input your BILL NUMBER (located on your bill) on the next page to enable you gain

dave4rella:

There's no particular way of approaching ladies
But always make sure you're unique, don't always use the regular lines guys make use of.

For me, I'm a reserved person and I can never see a girl on the road and try to hi or talk to her, unless when I know that I might not see her again.
So I take my time and strike, I'm not boasting, I have never lost a girl I tried to woo

There are things that get female attention, especially when it's coming from a guy
For instance, I could see a lady and politely tell her that she should not be offended, but that I'm not sure she's wearing the right bra size, automatically, you will have her attention, discuss abit about that and go to your main aim.

You can also admire her eyebrows, like asking who drew it and all that! You will have her attention immediately.

Never admire her beauty! Don't ever do that atleast for the first time of meeting her

Finally, the most surest way of getting ladies attention is by being successful, have a job or career, business etc and be good at it
Take good care of yourself and watch wonders happen... Stay blessed

Bra size? That's way too forward bro

dave4rella:

There's no particular way of approaching ladies
But always make sure you're unique, don't always use the regular lines guys make use of.

For me, I'm a reserved person and I can never see a girl on the road and try to hi or talk to her, unless when I know that I might not see her again.
So I take my time and strike, I'm not boasting, I have never lost a girl I tried to woo

There are things that get female attention, especially when it's coming from a guy
For instance, I could see a lady and politely tell her that she should not be offended, but that I'm not sure she's wearing the right bra size, automatically, you will have her attention, discuss abit about that and go to your main aim.

You can also admire her eyebrows, like asking who drew it and all that! You will have her attention immediately.

Never admire her beauty! Don't ever do that atleast for the first time of meeting her

Finally, the most surest way of getting ladies attention is by being successful, have a job or career, business etc and be good at it
Take good care of yourself and watch wonders happen... Stay blessed

Bra size? That's way too forward bro but I feel you on the being successful bit, that's the surest way

themaestro08:
Look, let's get this straight. There is no single sure-fire formula when it comes to dating. Why? Because people are different and diverse. What is important is make a polite approach and see where it lead to. Its either she accept or decline.

However your personality you will definitely meet your miss right soner or later so my guy chill.

it's all good bro. thanks for the words

cerpvad:
Approaching is the easiest science in the world.

When you spot a lady of your spec, Put a smile on your face. Walk straight to her. Mention your name
(When she sees the smile on your face, or see that you are in a good mood, she must reply by mentioning her own name too)

When she tells you her name, don't stop smiling and make sure your energy and vibes are not on the lower level. By your energy and vibes, I mean your body movements, such as smiles, pitch of your voice, hand gestures, head control, eyes movement etc

After replying you with her name, then compliment her name. Examples, oh sweet name, wow, nice name, that sounds like a the name of an angel, etc. She must reply by saying thank you. NB. While complimenting a lady who you are meeting for the first time, avoid any words that suggest sex.

At this stage don't stop smiling. Tell her it's a pleasure for you to meet her. Don't tell her she looks beautiful or sexy, hundreds of guys have told her that before and the moment you tell her that, she intuitively groups you with those guys who had told her the same thing and ended up disappointed with them.

She must reply by saying thank you or you are welcome. Don't stop smiling. At this point she is likely to be returning your smiles, but if she doesn't, don't worry, keep shooting your shots.

Say something cool about her look e.g her hair style, clothes, jewelry or something. But don't make comments relating sexy body, hot body, boobs, or butt.

She must smile again and say thank you.

After this tell her a little bit about yourself and request her to do the same. She is likely to tell you something about her.

Tell her that you like the way she talks and will like to go grab some lunch together with her sometime so as to know her better.

She is likely to agree to that.

Then ask her for her number. She will give you. But if she is hesitant, stretch your phone to her to type it herself.

Don't be offended but I find this style a bit corny, I mean that's what everyone does and that's what is done in most Nigerian movies. I can't get myself to complement a girl's name, its awkward(like a name is simply a name) and I think it also sounds flirty when you compliment every move. But Thanks anyways

Kingsteve:
Wrong move!
So basically, he has to spend on meals for every girl he meets for the first time?

I was thinking the same thing, but it's not too bad.
Do you have any ideas?

Originalsly:
Lol..... Hi... can I talk?.....only prostitutes would listen to hear your offer.

Easiest way to start a conversation is asking for direction.... is up to you to build on that... what you say can open the door... or shut it in your face.

Miss...excuse me please.... can you direct me to a good eatery around here? (depends on your location). Chances are good she would immediately take in with hunger and tell you the direction would be confusing.... that it is better if she goes with you. And just like that..... she is willing to engage you in conversation.... while on the way....and..... until the feast is over and plate licked. Mission accomplished.

Great tip bro, you sound like an expert on this

Any advices from the pros?

Prettiedame:
Was she ever in it? I don't know her.

So you know every single person who is into music?

Angelfrost:
Currently??!.. Or are you talking about a decade ago??!... I personally think they are both distinctive in their lyrical approaches to the rap game. Different strokes.

Yeah, different strokes bro
But, M.I has always had more influence, for instance two years ago, even when his career was at dusk, he dropped "You Rappers Should Fix Up Your Lives" and commanded heavy critical acclaim, numerous covers and won the Lyricist on The Roll at Headies.

Technically, I believe they are at the same level or Vector might even be above M.I(Vector really has skill) but M.I has an edge because M.i is more refined and more creative, his contents and concepts are always mindblowing compared to Vector's, I think Vector needs mentorship, he really needs to work with a creative producer to bring out the best in him. I respect them both though.

Wiifesnatcher:
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it's obvious 80% of those hating on this king Rap are yeebos who hate people that progress even though their hate always bounce back on them. they hate Tiwa because of the same Yemi that's a Yoruba girl, hate wizkid against same Yoruba Davido when their attempt to use religion divide West failed



these people are pathetic in life. no wonder Fulani reduced them to nothing

Why do you people always have to turn everything to tribalism, this is rap and there's always been beef, Igbo artistes and the Yorubas have always been collabing. Y'all keep creating division but don't want it to happen. If Igbo people say they want to separate, you guys would conflict that and scream one Nigeria, if they try to stay on their own, you'd be the ones brewing hatred. Lets forget our origins, we are Nigerians first.

Angelfrost:
Decent rapper... Just wonder why he needs that fake beef with the "short chairman" to get more recognition...

He needs the fake beef because the short chairman is better and more influential than him in the rap game