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Reason are epl don't produce players ad their mode of play doesn't allow players to play good football. They are too direct and have bad managers, no English manager have won won the premier league, it's that bad. Unlike other league that keep producing good managers after the best one have left for epl and cos they don't have so much money like the epl, other leagues groom players and allow them to play real football. Spain is very technical in football, Germany, Italy ad france are very tactical and less technical as well but good with players development. Players you hype in Epl are not better than Nkunku, Leao, Osimhen, Jeremy Doku, Rodrygo, Kubo, Pedri, Vlaghovic, Raspadori, Kvaratskhelia, Tonali and so many but you won't hear them in all media developing peace.

KGD10:
Apapa seaport was built by the SW resources before amalgamation yet pumps revenues to federal government. Tell me who should be screaming blue murder if not Lagos? You dey mad?

Apart from the airport the federal government built in 1980's after Awolowo laid the industrial work while Ikeja was under the western region in the 60's federal government did nothing in Ikeja.

You said some houses were in magodo and Lekki in the 90's... aren't there houses in mushin? Does that means it's developed? Heck, who laid the Lekki industrial lay out, free trade zone and seaport if not Tinubu? You dey mad?

Why wasn't Banana island built in 1983 until a year after Tinubu came into office? You dey mad? Meanwhile, tun was part of the nadeco team that outlined and supervised it before he became a governor.

Lolz seriously you no well. So you believe in one year Tinubu rush build banana island. An area that has been in construction before he become a Governor. Man you funny.

Magodo and Lekki Phase 1(Maroko)! This two places were highly developed. For Magodo, the Lagos State government then Gbolahan Mudasirua acquired the plots from the original owners on the pretence that it was being taken over for overriding public interest, same thing Razaq did to the people at Maroko now Lekki Phase 1 only to sell to their rich friends. Maroko can be like to be in the class of Ajegunle a big slum way back before razaq destroy the place. Ask the older generation about Maroko aka Lekki Phase 1

Apapa was built with South West revenue! Which south west revenue pleae. Please don't kill me with laugh. You seem to forget Lagos was a British Colony and then Nigeria Capital. I hope you know what that means. Please someone should provide a copy of the history of Lagos to this bro. I don't think you know much of Lagos cos if you do you won't be saying this. I understand you have to try and push a narrative for you candidate but please research wide before typing nonsense.

KGD10:
Asaba, Calabar were also the capital at some point. So what happened? You dey mad and you've got no one to tell you.

I repeat only Lagos Island was the capital. 97% of what became Lagos today was under the Western region under Awolowo. In fact, Ikeja was Awolowo's brainchild!

Also Before Tinubu in 1999, there was no development of Lekki, Ajah, banana island, Eko Atlantic city, Magodo etc

You are a liar from hell. You can only deceive those who don't know the history of Lagos.

Federal government develop all part of Lagos. Take that to the bank. Who do you think develop areas like Surulere, Apapa, Ikeja (Awolowo plan for Ikeja was to be an Industrial Zone, FG aided in building an international Airport that also promote growth of Ikeja to a high level), Amuwo Odofin (FESTAC) and area like Iyanu Ipaja axis (Gowon Open those axis). Those where vision from federal government all the way from Gowon down to IBB.

Magodo has be in existence since in the 80's. Banana Island started all the way back in 1983 first in V.Island but Lagos State did their nonsense before the guy had to move it to Ikoyi then no body believe it will come to fruition. Lekki Phase 1 was formally Maroko, do your finding bro. Razaq of Lagos State administrators then demolished every structure there claiming sea surge for his reason and Lagos State sold most part the land to their rich friends. The people displaced from Maroko move down to places like Ajah and co. My pips move to Ajah in 1995. Before the coming of Tinubu, Ajah was a busy axis already with it Market. Even if we are to talk about the Governor that bring development to axis like Lekki Phase 1 down to Ibeju Lekki, it's solely on Lateef Jakande. Without him Tinubu won't be able to establish an industrial zone in Ibeju-Lekki fo a start. Mind you they were estate on this axis before Tinubu so no even start to dey cap nonsense. Eko Atlantic was use to curb the ocean surge and why is it taking so long to be developed, It almost 23 years still empty as a desert. It took the whole of Dubai 30 years to develop. By the way Dubai is Bigger than Eko Atlantic and we both know in the next 7 years there will still be nothing to show for it. Stop hyping that very slow venture.

Most of you don't know anything in this Nigeria. The game is different at the top. How do you think most of your billionaire acquire loan without collectoral in Nigerian banks.

Of all places to travel to please not Northern Cyprus. I have never head good stories come from that sides from friends and others. Always about one bad vices to another. Worst than Nigerian. Very useless place to go in the first place. I do rather be in Nigeria or any African country than being in Northern Cyprus

GavelSlam:
He didn't do it before they complained yet the problem predated him.

Come on now.

Okay but please you guys should campaign with something different. He is not going to be the president of Lagos. He is going to be president of Nigeria. And by the way he didn't build Lagos. He should campaign with something different other than that. He should tell is his plan for Nigeria not from his supporters what he might do but from him, on live television. So that we won't have a repeat of it wasn't that said this or that.

GavelSlam:
Nobody invented land.

I proved to you how Tinubu by his action of concessioning that road opened up a vista of business and explosion in real estate business on that axis.

Deny this as much as you like.

It is like somebody pointing to the BRT lane, then another saying it means nothing.

Innovation is what changes the world.

Come on nah. It was due to the explosion of businesses and residential building that lead to population explosion along lekki-Epe Express way which then lead to pressure on the road where we have long traffic and the likes. Seeing the complain and suffering of the people he then decide to expand the road. He didn't do it before they complained. A Governor ought to be proactive before it becomes a problem but he didn't, until people complain before he reacted to their plight. Tinubu did it after Lagosain complain about the long traffic experience on the road. Without him or not that corridor of the island will explode due to it location. It has nothing to do with Tinubu. He wasn't innovative as you want us to believe even from the the write up you stated it yourself Lagosain complain first. And remember it was toward the end of his tenure that he concession that road, if he was so innovative and has a forsight as a leader he should have done it in his first tenure.

I am so dam sure Fashola would have fix it in his first tenure.

GavelSlam:
The Lekki-Epe Expressway, built in the 1980s during the administration of Lateef Jakande and when the axis was just a rural settlement, became one of the busiest and congested roads in Lagos at the turn of the 21st century. Then, workers and school children had to begin their journey as early as 4am to have any hope of getting to their work places or schools in Victoria Island or Marina by 8 or 8.30 am. Commuters and motorists along the route groaned in pains for many years until the Lagos state government, in 2006, heeded their call and concessioned the reconstruction and enlargement of the 49.4 kilometre road (and the building of a 20 km coastal road) to the Lekki Concession Company Ltd. (LCC) on a build, operate and transfer basis. The government justified the Public Private Partnership deal as a strategic partnership with the private sector to ease the discomfort of Lagosians and boost the economic prosperity of the Lekki-Epe vicinity especially as the road will serve as the gateway to the proposed Lekki Free Trade Zone, new model cities and residential accommodations, business centres and financial and tourism hubs. Guarantee was provided and work began in 2008.

From this your write it show it wasnt Tinubu that open that axis. It was Jakande that open island down to Epe (although Epe has been open for a long time) Not his policies and what not. So cannot be a creator of a modern Lagos. He did his part and left. That he created Lagos to what it is today is total madness. He is in the same class as buhari. He can claim he is the brain behind Eko Atlantic and Lekki Trade Zone same as Buhari can claim that he built the Niger Second Bridge and Sign the reform electoral bill into law.

Guy rest

GavelSlam:
Your parents moved to Ajah with which roads?

Can you lie about the roads that were constructed from around 2005?

All those estates that spring up require Governor's consent and without that you have no estates.

When your parents moved to Ajah they moved to Bush.

Lie about that if you like.

Land has always existed but it is what people do with it that matters.

You eh! There was good road from Victoria Island to Epe/Ibeju-Lekki/Ajah (Langbasa, Addo, Badore, Owode) without Portholes and they build in the 80's before Tinubu left Osun State. Did my Primary Education in Addo Primary School and Did my Secondary Education in Osapa and lastly Laspotech in Ikorodu. Just to let you know I am a thorough bred Lagosain.

There were estate here already way back in 1995 when my parent move down to Ajah. Notably V.G.C, Coorperative Villa, Abraham Adesanya Estate, Lekki Phase 1, Jakande Estate, Ikota Estate, and others then before Tinubu.

On road Tinubu himself refuse to dualize Addo - Badore Road, the gist then was that Eti-Osa was under PDP and that we got rich people in our axis that can fix the road without allocation from Lagos. Finally it was done under Fashola. On Victoria Island Road to Ajah same was done under Fashola not Tinubu if I am not mistaken.

Guy rest. All your mention that Tinubu did was way in existed before he became a Governor. When I wrote my first GCE in Ibeju Lekki before Tinubu ever think of opening free tade zone in Ibeju Lekki, that axis has a good road and a fishing industry already, a busy market at Akodo, La Campaign Tropcana Beach, Amen Estate, eleko beach. He didn't open anything, he only improve on what he met on ground.

As I told you earlier the development of the island has nothing to with Tinubu. He was not a factor. Razaq destroy Maroko that lead to creation of Lekki Phase 1, Jakande build the road down to Epe that open up all these places on this corridor. Remember the people whosebproperties were destroy in Maroko were resettle in Jakande Estae, Itado, Ikota housing Estate. As house was getting expensive in both Ikoyi and Victoria Island it is natural for people to move down which give rise to the numerous housing estate on the island. It is not the work of Tinubu. Those were vision of the previous administrators to open up Lagos not Tinubu. And do not forget Lagos is the commercial hub of Nigeria before Tinubu, it got the population, companies, embassies and so many private coy. Lagos was on the path of greatness even if Tinubu didn't become a Governor.

GavelSlam:
Tinubu opened the Lekki-Ajah axis from which several billionaires and millionaires have been made and that is not in dispute.

The EPZ, the Lekki Seaport, Eko Atlantic are all examples of his vision.

The developments in real estate found across Nigeria were predicated on Tinubu's formula.

When you look at the likes of LASTMA, LIRS, LSAA, RRS, They not only bring sanity to the metropolis, they provide employment.

Tell us what new age legacies your preferred candidates are responsible for.

Market your candidate for a minute if you can.

Tinubu didn't open Lekki-Ajah axis and Free Trade Zone in Ibeju-Lekki local government. My parents move to Ajah in 1995. Enough with the lies. And he got no formaula for estae boom in Lagos. Get it into your brain, Lagos was a commercial hub of Nigeria way before Tinubu became a Governor. The only notable thing he did was to expand tax collection and releasing mayhem on the citizen of Lagosain by bringing back tout in our bus stop thereby increasing cost of transportation.

So please stop the lies. Some of us grew up here and saw what he did. Oshodi got his highest notoriety under his administration, same as crime leading the arrival of OPC snuffing out people life without trials by competent court.

Even in transportation, some of you think it the likes of Fashola that brought Mass Transit like Macopolo and the like. Before Tinubu and his stooges there were Macopolo and Coaster Buses (New ones) moving round Lagos.

As for Lekki Free Trade Zone if the like of Jakande have not open that part of the world I don't think Tinubu will have the idea of creating a business hub there.

By the way. Everyone keep saying Tinubu brought Fashola and co who built on his legacies, can we also say same thing for Maruwa that Maruwa created a condusive environment for Tinubu to work on? Thereby it was Maruwa lagacies for a better Lagos that Tinubu is building on. Come on guys, enough of the lies that Tinubu built Lagos , it no longer funny.

Actually among the governors that did well in Lagos, Tinubu is one of the least. Nigeria just got democracy then and all investors were investing in Lagos cos it was a commercial hub of Nigeria. It has not to do with Tinubu, he didn't woo those investors to Lagos, Lagos was alread a big market before he was born. All he did was to create agencies to collect tax and steal properties for himself.

Uniquekriss:
Most parts of the state is submerged in water and you're here doing mass protest. Dangote is Government, government is dangote. Know this and know Peace, regardless of who the president is.

Stop nah. How can the most part be submerged in water. Do you think Kogi state is like Bayelsa or Lagos State that is mostly surrounded by water. By the way the flood in Lokoja didn't start today it has always been there whenever they release water from the dam. It kind of some usual occurances in that axis. Way back in 2005 the people of Kogi State felt cheated about Dangote, I did my secondary school there didn't pay much attention but I can assure you they were not happy with the deal as far back as 2005. It much more than what you people think here. The little gist I could get then was all the limestone in the state has been given to Dangote for little or nothing to write about. What do I know I was a child then but I could tell no one likes Dangote in Kogi State. I am not surprised with what Yaya Bello is doing. Ask anyone from Kogi State you will still get same resentment for Dangote on Obajana or limestone deposit in Kogi state.

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einsteine:
A gate man asked a Nigerian woman (his boss) out and she posted that now she is scared for her life.

Loud am. People for back no hear you well.

Same scenario different reaction, psychological! When I tell my friends in this society of ours a man and woman can never be equal e get why. We have not develop that level of reason yet.

richkal:
She doesn't love him, it's his status she got attracted to, not him. The guy will later regret his action if he marries her out pity. If the coin is flip and a house boy professes his love for his Mistress, everyone will call him names. Hypocrite everywhere you go.

Gbamest!

Why is sex the most talk about among nairaland Christian as the biggest sin, when in-fact it is the least if we are to go by what sin is. What happen to JUSTICE. What's with Christian in this forum with someone else sexual orientation? I am speaking to you Christian in this forum, is it that you guys are missing out in the action or you don't see the bigger picture that there is so much injustice in the land than sexual sin. Corruption upon corruption and man inhuman to another man, starvation, wars, social instability, high unemployment, environmental degradation, etc in the cover of out newspaper and all you Christian could talk about is how one person should stop having sex.

You guys are beginning to look like suspect, most Christian if not all has weakness for anything call sex, you guys are always Hot. Just accept it and move on already. That is why you talk about it more in your gospel than anything else. The criteria to make heaven has nothing to do from you abstaining from sex. If you like die a virgin or marry right and don't show simple love to humanity, you are just wasting God given time.

Nigeria is reek with all kind of problems and sexual sin is the least of it. There is a saying that says "That the opposite of poverty isn't wealth. The opposite of poverty is JUSTICE. That the character of our nation isn't reflected in how we treat the rich and the privileged, but how we treat the poor, the disfavoured and condemned." From Just Mercy

You Christian and your churches even the Muslims need to do more in nation building than this charade gracing the front page of nairaland from one sexual sin to another. Nah no dey tire, go see a therapist if you feel you are excessively Hot whenever you see a girl or woman. If there is no justice in the land you are all fighting or preaching in vain. If there is justice, there is peace in the land and if there is peace there is progress and from there things will fall into place. You don't need spiritual divination to know this. It there in your front

Coinwarrior:
my wife may not give sex throughout a month and she is not cheating or taking dick anywhere she just has very low sex drive

Set up cam around the house, e go shock you. Sex is not just about meeting other men. It also involve masturbation, Same-sex things and what not. If she got free time in her hand she will tend toward that road. Except she is extremely busy even at that during her month before flow she will be sensitive as hell.

MrBrownJay1:
bro, you are highly confusing the issue... just because women can stay off sex does not mean they dont want sex, it means they can CONTROL THEMSELVES AND GO WITHOUT, while for us men its a different ball game.

Control what! I think you should hang around women more and understand them. Them no dey control any shit. Men got more control than women. My ex almost messed my head while I follow the rule honestly, she was taking the D behind my back and finally got married to her sugar daddy. She was so holy and all that, when I told my friends they were shocked. A man can go without sex for months than women. I am a classic example of such simp way back then. No married/single woman can stay without sex for a month without show. No let anybody lie to you it biological as long she get her central flow.

I can make excuse for pregnancy, infection, illness, multilation (castrated woman), Stress from work, raising kids and house chore sometimes religious rite like during fasting and co. Anything outside that Nah story.

MrBrownJay1:
come on bro, women can stay off sex for years and be cool with it, while for us men its a different ball game, if we aint got sex after 3 days.



you are partly right on the above....some women aint into sex like that, some women are different and only communication can bring this to the light. you have to give her the benefit of the doubt and confirm whats going on. some women would pretend to be who they are not in order to desperately be married, and as soon as they get married they turn right back to their natural self... you do know that:
A) some damaged married women out there dont even like sex;
B) some married (undercover lesbian) women out there aint even attracted to men but married to men;
C) some women out there cant handle being raped having sex every night with their uncaring sexually brutal husbands etc

Bro at the bold sentence, you have been lied to and also you dont understand how women body work. No woman that have had sex can stay without sex in a month. I repeat no woman can stay without sex within a month except the dick is not readily available highest Nah masturbation. I am stating fact. Before or after their period they are highest at their mood and looking for mate to sleep with. They won't come out tell you this cause they dont want to be seen as being loose or something. Another info women have more sex than men and enjoy sex than men. What men has is initial gra gra.

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djkirkoo2:
hmmmmm. Wonderful. Me I earn 63k as salary and my rent is 210k annually. Below is how I disburse it:

Kitchen stocking - 25k.

Soup for the month (we cook soup 5 times in a month) - 15k.

Baby mama - 5k.

Light bill - 2k.

Purewater - 4k.

Stew, Beans, Moi moi: 5/6k

Gas - 5k.

Fuel: As the Lord leads but I do put on Gen almost everyday as far as there's no light.
Now if you observed you will see that I don't have any money for myself nor my baby, make sure I run other deals to meet up my rent and cater for my son.

Yet my baby mama go out to tarnish my image outside saying that I am treating her as a house girl, saying that she's like a slave, that she's in an abusive relationship this and that all the young ladies around my vicinity are all keeping malice with me because of her stories, they all believed her story.

Even when I try to talk people don't believe me. I got tired of the quarrels and nagging so I had to throw her things out and asked her to leave my house. Neighbors came in and intervened then asked me to consider my son that he's still a baby. I succumbed and left for work only for me to come back home that evening the 22nd of July and found out that she have left with my son that I love so much and yet all her things are still in my house.

Bring my baby sef all to no avail, oya let me be seeing him at least still no way. I've talked to her mom and siblings and all of them are taking her side saying a man is not supposed to throw a woman's things outside (even my family blamed me for throwing her things outside) oya I don agree sef still dey are hiding my baby that will be a year old on the 29th of this August from me.

Honestly her family wants me to settle with their daughter but to me I am no longer interested before I die of BP, so now they are using my son to blackmail me emotionally to accept their daughter back because they know that I love my son. If really I am suffering her and treating her like a slave like she always claim then I wonder why her family would want her to come back to my house to suffer.

Mind you, I don't even beat o, I only have bad mouth to reply her if she pisses me off. Honestly I am confused and don't know what to do because I really miss my son.

She will come back. Just chill no bother yourself much. If Nah because of the baby, he/she is in good hand. No let anyone talk you down. Try improve your income. Just leave her bro and save for the future. She will come and so for upkeep for the baby, I can bet you that, she will come looking for you even if her family is well to do.

Troubledman:
So this night. I did a horrible thing. I stuck my wife thrice on her back. Yes, I know it's horrible and I should be burnt at the stake. And I am truly sorry for it but... There's always s back story.

I went through university without ever getting into a fight. I swore of physical violence since 2005. I havent raised my hands at anyone ever. Not to defend myself. Not to fight. In those years. I don't even let people fight aroujd me. I am known everywhere as the peace keeper. Which is why I feel very horrible about my action tonight.

Since we got married. I have noticed this trait of aggression in the person I married. Always quick to anger and insults everytime. In the last couple of days. We've had course to stay with my mum.

Earlier in the day. We were arguing about something (not so important to be honest) and my mum remarked that we should do better that were a new couple and we shouldn't be arguing like this all the time. She even joked that she was going to buy a cane for both of us.

Barely 2 mins later another discussion came up and this lady started raising her voice again. This time in full view of my mum. I just kept telling her please take it easy, take it easy. I even mentioned to her that this was what mummy was just telling us about. She would not bulge. Eventually my mum chipped in and said to me to keep quiet. So I did. When she finished shouting she stood up and left for the room.

After a while , my mother went into the room to talk to her. Even asked her not to be annoyed. Invited her to eat. She brought the food to me but I was too annoyed to eat. How is my wife shouting at me in front of my mum ? So I walked away, went out for a stroll. When I came back. She was in the room, she I stayed back in the living room. She came to me, started telling me that I should not let her be angry at me, changing the story that I was shouting at her earlier and she didn't say a word, I was livid but this didn't tip me. I just told her off and went back to do my work. She came back again started off another tirade in the middle of the night btw and ended it with saying "your mother is responsible for this"

Now, that's what made me mad. From the start I have warned my family not to interfere in mine. Not my dad or my mum have ever told me or directed me on how to do in my marriage to her. I imagine that because her display was in public today that's why my mum commented. Even on Wednesday she was talking to me harshly in the car and my mum was there and she never talked.

So anyway I stood up from where I was went to meet her and struck her about 3 times in the back warning her never to involve My mother in our talk again.

Then she shouted screaming at 2 am. Cursing me. Mt mum came out to even try to calm her down. She turned to my mum as well. Saying she knows what she'll say. That she supports me etc. Even when the poor woman didnt say anything. She's gone off now. Milking it. Saying I beat her. Should I add that she came back slapped me square on the face, hit my chest. Even dragged my mother to the floor

But everyone is on me. I'm the woman beater. Domestic violence.

Honestly, I'm just tired of this marriage. I married for peace this woman gives me trouble everyday. I chose to stay in the living room for peace tonight. She brought her madness to meet me.

I agree I messed up. I perhaps shouldn't have hit her. I regret it. It's going to go with me. But I was too pushed. She continues to do this knowing I wouldn't talk and st the time I believed that's the only thing she'd respond too. I know this could probably get me a lot of hate but I'm also hoping someone could see reason in what's happening

Im sorry it's so long. I didn't think about it. I just created this account and started writing. Apologies for likely typos too

TroubledMan

Treat women accordng to their environment. It a simple wisdom. Don't use an American rule for Nigerian rule, their environment are different. Am not saying it can't be better but women here want strong men that struck fear not love I mean FEAR then before love. The formula here is FEAR then Love. Your woman do not fear you, she is taking advantage of youu. You can be nice without being taking advantage of. Struck fear in her, in one hand and use the other hand to spread love to her. She want a challenge give it to her. It human nature.

Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

At Op. You are really a great guy for being calm up till now, you have done well. You have passed the first phase of the difficult situation like not making a hasty decision. I understand you are trying to understand the situation has a whole before you take the next step. The easy way out is to divorce your wife but there is much more.

If you still love her, keep her. But call a family meeting and make everyone know what has happened say everything that you know.Also call the ex to join in the meeting too he is part of the problem. From there make your decision. Anything done in the hidden filter away when they are exposed.

Do not spare anyone the agony and shame of this disgraceful act. Also note that women hate their secret being exposed.

Cancel all emotion from today hence fort. Also do DNA on your kid.

And I will advice most guys here if you are in a relationship with any woman either married or courting or serious relationship always routinely check your woman phone. There is nothing like privacy in a relationship. Don't let anyone deceive you with that privacy nonsense as long you can see her unclothedness privacy is of the table.

As my younger brother use to say NAH NOWA SEE ANYTHING! When we were shouting that bad leadership will affect everyone, you all were forming big in your space that it won't get to you guys. Look at Lekki everywhere Nah gate full a with securities everywhere starting from the estate main gate to the street gate, then finally house gate. Couple with the high fence and also police escort. See wasted fund if you would have just gotten a good leader. Weti concern me we are all in it

Coldie:
Apostle Suleiman no reach to sleep with nengi take it to the bank.

I can vouch for her anyway anytime anywhere.

We have heard things like this before, there’s a level someone especially like nengi got successful that they think as hot and beautiful as she is she is fvcking one somebody.

If she fit become SSA to Bayelsa state governor without toto works who be apostle Suleiman?

You are wrong bro. If tiwa and Linda can be slam nengi s a small fish swimming in a pond. Don't ever trust anyone that can't explain his/her source of wealth e get why. Trust only yourself.

GardenGreen:
I thought you said you don't insult. Running mouth like leaked tap. Start your own company first. Pay 10-20 people salary let's see if you can handle it

Empty barrel. You wey no fit take care of woman satisfactorily dey criticize people leagues ahead of you


I spit on your existence

So what happen to the likes of Dangote, Jeff Bezos and the likes. Please don't encourage firm to treat their staff like slave and if you have one strife to run it properly so that your legacy can live after you.

And by the way e no go surprised me say nah all these sex enhancement med you dey sell for traffic since you dey think say satisfying a woman is proportional to running a firm. Come sell to me make I satisfy my woman like you. ( I mean no disrespect to those that sell sex enhancement med love you guys, all na hustle)

GardenGreen:
Yawns. Typing all your tedious soliloquies doesn't mean anything. You're one of those who think they're all that and are nothing. Absolutely nothing. Create your own company. Employ 10-20 person's. Pay salaries and bear the burden of the cost of running em enterprise, and you'll speak less brash. Adios

Then if you can't run a company properly close the damed company and concentrate on other kind of trade where you don't have to emlpoy anyone. Wèrè dey disguise.

GardenGreen:
I can see you're not wise.


We're saying it's okay to reject an offer you feel substandard but not call-out. Use your senses


Why didn't she reject from the first day. If she's rejecting, calling out deems unecessary. She needs to just move on


Of course. Your kinds make it sound easy. I can't work this, I can't work that. Create a business if it's easy

I won't result to insult but how I wish you know what I stand for.

I resign from my work place in 2016 or 2017 can't really remember the year cos of condition that was not stated in my contract. I will state the company name for you to walk down there yourself to ask about me from the CEO (He is into politics now and please provide your mail i will send you the address of where I worked and asked about me from the CEO himself) Today the kind of respect I earn just standing for what is in my contract or common sense at workplace no be small because I stood my ground.

I understand you lack self worth even if you understand what that even mean thats for another matter. You employed a staff who saw the accommodation in bad state decide to fix it even using her own money and then it made it known to the firm about it that they should fix a part of it twice and which they didn't and decided to sack her without being paid for the time being and for freaking 5 days before she blew the whistle. Abeg bros who wise between the two of us cos I want to know how do you lay someone off without paying her immediately. Please I want to learn cos if nah me own you money and I didn't pay you at stipulated time as at when due that your hand go dey type all over nairaland say I be fraud.

Jesus is Lord! Look at people making excuse for the employer, no proper thinking and them call themselves learned people, no wonder they all lived in such condition how can they think well.

I doff my hat for that Lady that reject such condition even if she is living in a slum it no excuse for the company to provide such dirty accommodation for his/her employees. It is wrong in all shade. It dehumanizing to place someone in such condition and expect the person to do well in her workplace. What the employee should have done was to clean that place up. Now she has put it in-order with her own money will they pay her back? The company should be called out, it very bad even if some of us have accepted such conditions to meet end means that doesn't mean it right to stay in such condition.

Some of you have never lived with women's or take time to understand women personal hygiene. Most women don't share toilet and bathroom with more than one person who is not family or a partner. You are telling a female employee to share toilet and bathroom with six people, it almost close to impossible for any woman to accept that. Personal hygiene is key to work success. A healthy staff is a healthy firm/company.

I can't work in any work environment that don't provide clean and condusive environment, tht doesn't take safety serious at work. It will affect the work growth no matter how you put it. It will hamper on the staff quality to succeed thereby leading to low production output no matter how you put it.

When they say most Nigerian graduate are unemployable it because they don't know what to add to the company for it to grow even if they lives in slave conditions and how can you make input when you lives in slave conditions by the way. The employer just lost a gem that will add to the company, do you know how? Since she is the cook of the company she cares more about her personal hygiene and the hygiene of the staff/MD and how it will affect the quality of food to be served, a healthy meal means a healthy staff/MD then a happy firm/company. Yet the company haven't paid her after 5 days, haba nah. Anybody supporting this is wicked. And if anyone is saying I should go open mine, no be all of us go fun a firm. By the way I will prefer a 20 proper run firm than a million slave firm with bad conditions in this country.

Note: Nigeria has long way to go with the kind of response I am seeing on this forum it shows again we have no will power to make things right, we are anyhow people once money is involve we don't care. I now understand where someone with a job of 24 million per annum and his wife a Branch Manager to a bank will resign and sell his properties and leave this country for good, it is not about the pay it about the slowpoke who hate living a good life and keep repeating same old trick and expecting different result thereby keeping the sane and bright one in the same spot. We are not poor because there is no money we are poor because we have no self worth, we are too greedy and shameless lots in short no Justice. All the bright mind leaving to other countries who do you think will suffer for it? I guess you know the answer, make nah get out.

Maverick777:
and what is so different about the ones you exempted?

The one I mentioned are better organized with better pay and comes with HMO. Good organizational policy where their staff are protected and also the customer. Avoid too much exposure of staff to client, cash payment are at their nearest minimum, for some tips are calculate base on the number of service render to a client while some are direct and also staff bus. Not all these big for nothing hotel that don't respect the staff well being. Even expect you to trade your body for cash and also freaking delay your salary as when due. No hmo, no leaves, shift is irregular, no periodic training like in a year or every six months. God forbid bad thing.

Capital No and if she decided to go ahead with the job divorce her. Except Eko hotel, Radisson Blu, Intercontinental Hotel, Four Point, etc any other hotel either beautifully big is a Capital No. My woman tried it, if you see the kind change am wey I change am for am even the manager for the hotel shock cos she told the manager and she was like is it not human that also work in the hotel? I told her my mind. Nigeria hotel no get proper/ no regards for human. So I am not taking chances. Some risk are not worth it.

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Your list failed woefully. Avoid the gym at all cost, any man or woman looking for a partner in a gym is in real trouble that is the hub of Playboy and loose women or man-eater. The religious center 50/50 maybe the location might help better. A church girl at somewhere in a town like Abule Egba and co is way better than a church girl in the city like the island, just understand the terrain. Football center at best you will make alots of friends too many suitors will spoil your choices ( I don't feel this English is correct) but know your game.
You can meet your dream man anywhere even in your compound and place of work, sometimes in traffic/transport buses, just anywhere.

PDP ain't serious, if they think they want the vote of the youth by bringing in Funke they have lost it already. For those supporting Funke I want to ask what is Funke contribution to the grassroots in Lagos, how many times have you see her on political discuss even to profer solution or even constructively criticise the current government. We forget in a hurry that she broke the covid-19 rule where she was serve a community service. She might be a good business woman, she has been on the the screen for years and recently just cliche the A-celebrity status through Jenifer Diary. Politics is about leadership either good or bad on the grassroots level, she should ask her colleague Kate Henshaw no be beans. This is Tinubu territory you gotta come with your A-Game. PDP F-Up. I was having a high hopes untill this combo. Lagos remain APC till another 4 years.