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Why can't we just develop a motor sport in this state with the sand dunes like the way they do in Dubai and Co. So many potentials but many empty head. For those talking about side business by the road abeg no be all business go dey by the road side.

I need to do alot of traveling soon. Nigeria is one big beautiful land wasting away.

Why can't we just develop a motor sport in this state with the sand dunes like the way they do in Dubai and Co. So many potentials but many empty head. For those talking about side business by the road abeg no be all business go dey by the road.

The OP is neither right or wrong so as the other thread that support premarital sex.

The underline truth here is nobody trust each other. That is why some have sex before marriage while others due to their religious background won't have sex before marriage.

Sin or no sin do what works for you in your environment. To each his own.

Sarang:
Divorce won’t ruin anything!
Abandoning her kids would!
There is no responsible child who grows up especially Africans and abandons their parents who contributed to their upbringing!!
A parent is responsible for her child.
Who are you abandoning it for!
What nonsense marriage!!

@ Sarang


No one is telling the OP to abandon her kids but to work things out for the good of the family. What is best for her might not be necessarily good for the kids. One must becareful in what decision he or she takes.

His son is as important as his Husband. The love must be spread equally. She should continue to look for ways for his husband to accept his son into the family it very important no matter how you look at it.

Let be honest with ourselves the OP son is having behavioral and social problems due to the initial separation between her mom and his dad. He is yet to get to withdrawals mode where he will lock himself out on everyone. He needs a proper family that will show him love that's has both the mom and a dad not just the mom.

One notable trend about divorce I have come to see around as fact is that, when children grow seeing a marriage fail, they develop doubts about love and harmony in a relationship. They have trust issues and find it challenging to resolve conflicts in a relationship. Such children, as adults, will start any relationship with a negative mindset. I hope you don't want that for your kids. I am speaking as fact I don't do opinion shit! (And by the way children could learn from their parent mistakes and become better but who has time to wait for you when at the back of your mind life expectancy in this part of the world is less than 50 years. No time to check time!)

Your kids or children are not your meal ticket when you grow old that is a selfish act. They will have responsibilities to their families, please less the burden. That's why I said your kid are not your future build yours, plan for your old age.

Also I am not saying a proper family doesnt have their own problems but you have to choose either to be in the pan or in the fire. This decision only the OP can make. Marriage is bae no matter how you it term it as useless abi are you a product of a fail marriage?

At OP first of all keep your marriage and also bring in your son to your new family.

Divorce won't help you one bit, it will ruin the life of your kids trust me it always does even with the money. Your kids deserve a better life by giving them what a real/proper family is like denying them such will result to a guesswork result, you can't do it all alone. Kids formative years both need male or female figure no matter what.

This shit is just complex stuff. Single mom with 4 kids! You do be death in no distance time. Let me guess you also lives in Lagos. The slum will corrupt your kids faster than you know it and good neighborhood are beyond your reach, it just hard madam.

And why do people keep saying your kids are your future! That shit is archaic and selfish. They are human and will grow old and forget you, that the hard fact but it is your duty to take care of them not because you birth them or you love them it a responsible every parent must shoulder, you don't have to like it though.

WTF, do people really eat viper! One of the most dangerous snake in Africa. Viper snakes are not food no matter great it taste, please OP take yourself to any Medical Center asap. And if you can't make it tonight to any hospital or clinic please get any antibiotics drugs.

You are all operating in the dark. Use your constitution to fight back. Read up Nigerian law on transportation to avoid harassment by securities. Educate yourself

Beautiful and insightful! Now I have seen a church I can attend in Nigeria

Seriously! They had to come up with a distraction again this week to distract us from the real truth. This is a total disregard for the court, the judicial is bought already all man should be careful now. This coming week on radio will be did dss arrest Sowore in court or not. Radio Oaps and Co will push it to your face and Nigerian will be fighting themselves over dogshit as they did to word the revolution. I gives this government credit at last for one thing, they do know how to distract Nigerian from the main issues.

And anyone who believes that dss did not invade the court, will also believe the bull story of the unknown soldier that kill fela mom 1978. Go figure history is repeating itself

This is an Igala name. Kogi State to be precise. God please send more angels in human form should go to that state. So many are suffering.

About marrying a white lady. Making sense!

Guess what! They are the marlian

Jeeeesssoss! Some of you here are freaky mad. The lady is dam wrong. You take your waste with you, not litter it in someone car. If the car was dirty won't she have complain about it. So not throwing it through the car window is now an excuse for her to litter someone car? Waste bill in a car! This is crazy, I understand some of you don't own a car but it not an excuse. How do you place a waste bin in a salon car. Gawd nairalander are crazy people.

Nigerian need a re-orientation! God who do us.

OmoOshodi:
The man is lucky... Uber is more safer

He's advertising for the ACHAN or whatever

Uber will provide driver's phone number , identity etc...

He may not be lucky next time and he shld stop deceiving pple


As a uber driver I've returned $4,500 without making any noise about it


The woman called me before I even reach Lekki phase1 to check my car after dropping her at chevron drive.. I saw the parcel saw the money.

It's not that I really wished to return the money( sent by God)

But I dnt want become WANTED and front page topic on Nairaland( she's got my details ). I returned it jejely and she gave me 10k for my inconveniences

Na who know, knows. From their write up you would have seen/see the angle where they are driving at. No be today dem Don dey return money for airport. Uber is really taking up all their passengers so they had to come up with an advertising strength to get more passenger on their dying business.

Invest on transport business. Buy okada, give it out for higher purchase.

Solstice:
When you read your Bible as a child of God, you will understand what is happening here. The message was from I Peter 2:11-the end. You will discover that this is the will of God for believers. If you are indeed born again, you will do nothing but obey the Word of God. The Bible that says if your enemy hunger, give him food (not poison). Do you now jettison this and poison your enemy? You might kill him but that is not an example from the Bible. And for your information, you can't see another standard for yourself apart from the dictates of the Bible and claim that you are serving God. When you are a true child of God, you will do as God commands and watch God take control of things. You are to pray for men in authority, Buhari is in authority and needs our prayer among others. You just obey the scriptures and trust God to deal with someone designing evil for you. But if you are a sinner, you have every reason to fret and be scared and even go on criticizing clerics and men in authority as this is a norm for the world. As a believer, you can't be part of this as it is against God's will and it will hinder your prayer and you will go to hell if you die in that without repenting. And lastly, I am bold to tell you that there is no other religion, traditional worshipper, or sect that do not know how powerful a genuine Christian is. Strive to be a genuine believer.

Bro I can't argue much but nothing will do me. What give you the authority that your religion is greater than mine! Same thing a Boko Haram member will say and same goes for every member of every other religion. God didn't not create any religion neither the Jesus Christ create any religion man's did . Jesus Christ himself criticise during his own time, bro I follow Christ and Peter that dude that almost took us back to Moses law if not for Apostle Paul who openly criticise/attack/reproach/ _______ (fill in the gap your choice word) him "Galatians 2:11-13" Peter wey no get liver, that dude betray Christ. By the way we are in democracy the people are the government maybe you have to readup what democracy is all about. Your pastor is wrong, he need to sharpen up his skills, we are no longer in the Middle Ages where power belong to a set of bloodline. I won't go to hell for criticising anyone not even KUMUYI your pastor

NonsoWow:
[s] You are very stupid. Jesus was considered an enemy of his people because he was not telling them what they wanted to hear.

Wow, I am not surprised because I touched one of your anointed. Christ was criticise even being a son of God let alone a Kumuyi a "Nigerian" for that matter. No Nigeria pastor is worth what they claim to be. Yar Adua was Oyedepo, Jonathan was Ayo Oritsejafor, Buhari is Kumuyi.

Every president since the dawn of democracy chose their sidekick well like Batman and Robbin.

Buhari is a sadist, blunt, ignorant and self acclaimed saint of Nigerian poltician same goes with Kumuyi one of the self acclaim holiest pastor in Nigeria again a "Nigerian" for that matter. Both don't give a flying fvck about you. Who build a cathedral among poor people homes psychologically he is a self made God, education nah bastard for Nigeria. if you don't see anything wrong then you wouldn't even understand what I put up there. Peace!

Note: Anyone who doesn't obey Jesus Christ instructions is his enemy. And for calling me stupid you are Christ number one enemy and my enemy too

Any pastor that is not for the people forget it nah scam. It amazing how all these pastors turn a blind eye to what is happening to in this country. They have travel far and wide and see how good it is to have good country unlike ours that is so behind in everything. Kumuyi is human, he is fallible like every other person, respect or not, called or not, the moment you see nothing wrong in this government and the moment you start telling people to stop talking either constructively or not is also in support of the evil affecting the masses. A wise man once said All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." (Edmund Burke). And one said pray! Prayer without working is death on arrival. Simply Kumiyi is an enemy of the people and enemy of the people is an enemy to God

I thought Sanwo-Olu will be an upgrade to Ambode, well I thought wrong. A graduate does not necessarily translate to a good, skilled and well mannered driver. It takes lot of experience to drive long buses. For Bleep sake where will he get these graduates from to drive these BRT buses. Do we have school where you can source out for bus driver? People think for once for God sake.
Most of you can't take the rigous of the road of Lagos State. It is so hectic, and not properly organized even with it dedicated routes.
What Lagos need is to carryout proper test on all it BRT Drivers and anyone who fails should be relieved of his job and this should be done periodically and retrain the drivers to meet the current challenges from time to time and carryout routine inspection on all the buses at their various station across the state.

Some of the graduate on this forum shame on you all. You know nothing about driving. Driving is tasking if you don't know. Your passenger life is in your hand that alone is a big task especially on Lagos road

What most you all don't know is that the dude crying has invested alot in the relationship. The dude is not weak just don't know how to bear the lose. He will get over it but the next girl that will come his way I pity the most, this is how demons are created.

For those who don't know what slay queen mean is here is the urban dictionary definition of it below

From what the OP wrote up there is total thrash. If you want to know a man true character gives him power. So if the op blows tomorrow he will leave his loving uneducated/educated wife to one that meet his taste. No love, no loyalty. Wawu, pure greed, he want a sophisticated wife that will add more to him. He always want to take, take and not give. My advice for the OP is change your circle including your church you are heading to a wrong path. No man will leave a loyal girl because he has upgrade, and if he does they almost end up regretting their actions. I have friends and even one currently still regretting his actions for leaving his loyal girlfriend (just girlfriend o, not wife yet) to a more classy one. He is still begging her till today.

Am not surprised. It mostly in Kogi State I have seen animals grown to their full size. They got so many animal not documented in our books. The day I killed a snake without knowing where the head is, was the the day I begin to fear How biodiversity that state is.

Seriously this another stunt for people to talk about them. They are wasting their time showing us now, there is election next week please go outside and play like my parent will say not to disturb them.

Toks2008:
I laugh to your ignorance.

Yes if you answer calls and foolishly listen to the incarnations of the caller you can be spell bound.

Only if you are strong with Christ can you be immune to these things.

Stop writing in ignorance...as long as there are evil forces in this world they can use anything that has close contact with the person to harm such.

Your cloths, hair, pictures, sperm...please stop displaying your ignorance.

Ignorance! I give up. You know nothing about black magic or Juju. Do you think is that crap you see on TV or carried by people who attributes circumtances beyond their reasoning as juju or what your pastor told you. It more than that. They are set rules, their don't and do, step to be taken, cleansing, food you must eat and one to avoid. Night you have to keep vigil, lone time with their gods, understanding how nature works, understanding plant, communicating with animals and how to use the heavenly object to work in your favour, for good or bad. Not this cloth nonsense you all believe. I repeat no body need your clothes to perform money ritual.

And no one can invoke your spirit man without you agreeing first. That's number one rule to all this spirit stuff you have to agree first and about hypnotism not everyone can be hypnotise even without Christ.

I bet you don't even know how Christ work?

Jeez, this is crazy. You can't get rich by using any piece of clothes for rituals. What is wrong with us as people. We have voodoo practitioners around, go figure and you will get a definite answer. Just like physic or engineering there are laws or principles to this things. Not wishful thinking. Must we be so daft all the time from Buhari being a clone, to eating human faeces with bread for rmoney ritual, using salt to bath against Ebola, not answering strange calls cos you might get hypnotize and be use for money ritual and so many. Why are we this stupid. We virtually lack everything, this is not just poverty any longer we are sick people.

Teni is better than her sis Niniola. Teni is just good. First time I heard her song askamaya, then fake jersey then I knew she is going to make it in this Music Industry. Love her voice, style too and for the first time I found a female musician in Nigeria that sing pop and her body is not the center of attraction but her talent. She is good. She should not change for anybody except for health reasons. She will go places this year, good business for her.

oseiwe:
why Lukaku and Mayweather still black? Them still dey inside poverty?

You too go far, even our big men with money still remain the same e.g. Tinubu, Otedola, Dangote, even our own Genevieve. Almost our entertainer dey bleach. Money won't make you bright in complexion bleaching na bleaching

Herhmjay:
i can authoritatively state that your quote was unprogresive

How is what I said nonprogressive? Tell me if what is stagnating the people is not pure Greed. Nigeria is underdeveloped today all because of Pure Greed.

How can someone build 118km road for 20years (Lagos - Ibadan expressway) if I am not mistaken.

Nigeria Airways is long death and gone

Ajaokuta steel complex will never grow

Lagos has no rail system with such huge population and at large Nigeria rail system is undeveloped in this modern age where we should have gone pass that

Health care system is a capital No

Security that has collapsed. Nigeria is in war if you don't know just because it has not gotten to you doesn't mean others don't feel it

How can one of the largest producer of crude product kill all it refineries and take it out to refine and don't even care to build another one for more than a decade

We export religion yet corrupt than a war torn countries Where there is total collapse of government. Note: A country that can't protect it's borders is a weak country

No electricity in more than 50 years

Tell me one single breakthrough we have had after telecommunications boom which is also basic though.

No proper database for her centizen

There are so many more, which kind country be this? And people fill cool This is the best we can get. NTA was the first TV in Africa today it total nonsense I can't even watch that station for minutes.

Simply put Most Nigeriab are not well informed about their basic right which is not negotiable no matter how hard the economy go low. Please it has nothing to do with illitracy or one not going to school or pointing fingers at the northern part of the country, it all of us all. We are really bad people, we have no will and critical thinking as left us since the first republic. We are the shame of Africa, with our exposure some African countries will be like Europe but what do we do as a people Greed not religion just pure greed. We turn anything Gold to GREED all for for food.

Comparing Wizkid to Fela is like comparing a danfo to a Ferrari. Just because the danfo can go through bad roads than a Ferrari, doesn't make it better than a Ferrari. With Wizkid level and exposure at best the only artiste we can compare him to from the past are Charley Boy, Chris Okotie Blackky, maybe Majek Fashek (though Majek Is a better musician than wizkid anytime any day.) all are handsome and popular and sing pop (popular) music too in their prime and also reckless and have great appeal.

I am so sorry to all Redeemer and all those who respect Adeboye. He got this wrong. He said virtually nothing. Maybe if there is someone in the house that can explain better. I am waiting plss. Cos I am sure even those against or in support of what Pastor E. A. Adeboye put up there don't understand one bit what he is saying. I dare anyone to put it in summary for us.