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emmaodet:
The earlier we start getting used to debt/loans use, the better for the continent.
I understand people fear what they don't know or have skills about.
I will suggest they take a course or watch a lot of YouTube videos on how to use a debt to their advantage.
2/3 years ago, I would have called trading stocks a gamble but after enrolling in stock analyzing and valuation course running to 2m, my confidence has increased and I now trade far better and have made a good profit trading it.
People fear what they don't know.
With my little experience on stock trading, I will never call trading crypto or forex a gamble because what you don't know, you tend to dear it and rubbish it as gamble.

emmaodet:

You can't really go that far without using other people's money.
How much do you have enough to expand? When you are neither a sport man earning a lot of major drug pusher

KennethIbe59:
@JESHAL007 WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE ON This sir

NaijaNaWaa:
There’s a level of debt that’s manageable. Most of your so called “African billionaires” are wallowing in unsustainable debt. If Otedola didn’t tell you guys that he went bankrupt in 2008, none of you would ever believe.

fabolouz1:
wealthy people are not wealthy as it seems.
A man can't be wealthy while in debt.

Walai:
African nations borrow to consume while the China you mentioned borrow to invest.

emmaodet:
We fear debt like kilode and try to avoid it.
I guess because we are mostly bad managers and very poor in paying back debts to even family and friends we do owe

Gerrard59:
Most billionaires are in debt, including Dangote and Elon Musk. No billionaire is without debt. The goal is to service the debts consistently in the best-managed form. No business grows without leverage which is known as debt.

Nigerians don't know entrepreneurship walai!

NaijaNaWaa:
My heart goes out to my brother, Obijackson at this difficult moment in his life and business.

This underscores my assertion that most of the people the media and the Otimkpus promote as a billionaires are too neck deep in debt. This applies to most of your favorite top richest men and women in Africa. If you see their liabilities, you would thank God for the little you have. There is one of them who has been hiding from creditors for over 20 years, yet the media keep singing his praises all the time. May God help them.

franchasofficia:
If you are born into a poor family background, as in, your parents are not rich, please don't marry just because of love.

Love is a fallacy that led so many men into marrying ladies that ended up hampering their lives and keeping them poor or dragging them backward on daily basis.



If your parents are not rich as a guy, marry with purpose and future in mind.


Go for financial, career, business focused lady.


Marry a lady with the potential of helping you become better financially not one that will drain you and take you back to square one.


In summary, if your parents are not rich, when you want to marry as a young man, consider:


1.) The girls family background

2.) The girls career or job

3.) Her source of income

4.) Her academic background

5.) If she have a western country passport to help you Japa if push comes to shove

6.) Is she financially wise and smart


7.) Is she a money maker or a layback, lazy, unambitious girl that just want to eat, sleep, have sex, get pregnant and give birth and be monitoring you her husband to know how many girls you are chasing outside. If she is one run for your life

8.) Until you have secured a good job, career or established a thriving business, don't ever keep a girl in your house. Don't have a live in girlfriend. Let her come and go. She must not spend more than 2 days in your house until you re ready to settle down.


9.) Make use of condom a habit as a single guy until you marry to avoid marrying the wrong girl out of pressure of "I am pregnant"

CaveAdullam:
DAY 74, REDPILL 2021

Harry is the father, son and spirit of simphood, who was thoroughly taught efficiently in the gynocentric college, passing all his feminization courses in flying colours and undefeated. He is the king and god of betaness. All hail the beta king!

Many thinks "Nigerian women" are the only types of women that act with wiles and caprices, and yearns to engage with foreign women, not knowing that AWALT all over the planet. A man can only manage women responsibly only if he knows their true nature, therefore, TRP!

Meghan, is a typical example of what women are capable of eliciting if the men around her or her husband allows her to wield her internal chaos by granting her explicit independence and impunity. She's efficiently manifesting her hypergamous nature and she's not stopping soon. The straw that will breaks the camels, sorry, Harry's back is the forthcoming divorce papers. Meghan is really doing the Lord's work, as per she's taking no chances in leaving any card behind.

Harry choose a single mother, an alpha widow over royalty and royal privileges. He muffed his ears to one the most wonderful and powerful family in the world because of a woman. He forsaked his allies. He decided to lose quality people and opportunities in order to prove a useless point. Like Candace concluded: Harry is the victim not Meghan. By the way Meghan was never a victim but a storm that was earlier forecasted.

Lessons learnt:

1. Never think twice, it's family before any external woman.

2. Never commit to an alpha widow or single mother.

3. Never jettison any quality opportunity for a woman.

4. Never engage with an unhappy or unlucky woman. Watch out for the traits she exhibits and endeavor to see if there's any simulacrum in her history.

5. Always be the decision maker. For this to be possible, you must be a man of wisdom, courage and intellect. And if you are not smart, you will be oscillated by every winds.

6. Women only come for themselves, you must make sure you don't lose your time, energy, resources over them. Women are consumers, you must treat them like Pavlov did with his dog.

7. You've come a long way, never let a woman make you become jaded. If you notice any sign or symptom of belligerent behaviour, victim signalling, dump her.

8. See beyond a woman's body. Women are in motley, if you lose one today, you will get another better package tomorrow. But if you lose your dreams and time, you can never recover. Let your focus be above women.

9. Women are for fun and relaxation. If you quid pro quo quality and productive time for leisure, at the end you will lose both women and your objective.

10. Don't expose your dirty linens. As a man you must resolve internal problems internally. Rather than showcasing in to the world who will not help you but use it as an advantage to exploit you and identify your weaknesses. Only women does that, never go along with her.

11. Have options in every areas of your life. Option is the predecessor of confidence. Your ability to ignore or exit any termite work, relationship or people is a superpower. You must used your quality time in creating or seeking options. Don't live life by chances or luck but by the opportunities you've laid on ground.

12. Flowers are beautiful and precious, women much better. A gardener don't spend his whole day manuring and trimming flowers; act like him. Give a little tender here and there and face important task mano a mano. Remember: flower fades.

13. Take the REDPILL to eviscerate all traits of simping and betaness in you.

Authority: You first.