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RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 9:15am On Feb 28, 2025
A man would suffer through the hardships of the world and then lay his profits at the feet of a woman, is he mad?.

My achievements/legacy would live long after I’ve departed the realm and I should throw that away just because of a piece of waist.

The problem with men is we fail to see the dynamics of this world has changed, it ain’t what it used to be, since they fail to notice they get fooled into undertaking responsibility they shouldn’t incur.

Why dash a girlfriend a million Naira when I can be chilling on a beach somewhere and watching my investments grow. Why because I want to help a girl settle her debts, my account would now be debited massively.

The problem once identified no longer falls on the woman but the man who subjects himself under her. A woman would forever be a woman no matter what’s happens but it’s expected from a man to be able to observe and adjust accordingly.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 4:07pm On Feb 27, 2025
The reason why most men never know the true behaviour of a woman they're involved with is because of their moral and judgemental nature. You can know a woman in and out. All you have to do is gradually encourage her to reveal all her nasty behaviours while acting like you're cool with it.

99% of men, when meeting a woman, start dictating what they like in a woman and what they don't like. This makes the woman become a chameleon.
If you tell a hoe that you hate hoes, she will become a nun anytime you're around. Tell her you hate nagging and she will hardly complain when she is with you. If she hears you say you don't like club girls, she will act like she only goes to church vigils.

She will not change her behaviour. She will just keep you in the dark and show you mostly what you want to see. After marriage, after becoming comfortable with you, she will start feeling no need to be a chameleon anymore. She has you all to herself now. You're fully invested. So, now, she can be her true self, especially if she's had kids for you.

That said, nothing is set in stone. However, this understanding makes things, at least, a little bit
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 4:06pm On Feb 27, 2025
Being sexually active from a young age has a psychological effect on women. They tend nor to be able to control themselves again. I call it hypersexualizarion. Unfortunately most ladies are hupersexualized adultery prone and not fit for marriagr due to the free sex ideology. It has damaged them psychologically
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 3:37pm On Feb 27, 2025
With the level of Simping being displayed by 70% of men born from the mid-90s to date, it is extremely heartbreaking to say indeed the future is Gmail. Unless some kind of miracle take place.

The older Redpilled generation of men are dying it is just a matter of time before SIMPS take over the mantle of leadership in Africa and when that happens, I fear to imagine the kind of laws they will make and pass in favour of women/feminism. And guess what ? It will be worse than that of the Western world.......

With the level of weakasss men we have in this age and time, it is only a matter of time before the world is run and control by angry and frustrated feminists who sees men as the source of their imperfections.....

Do you know that most male children from wealthy and influential families are Glorified Simps ?

Do you know that our schools now teach our sons how to be SIMPs while at the same time they teach our daughters how to be entitled, aggressive and arrogant ?

Unless something urgent is done if not, then the future is indeed Gmail
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 3:33pm On Feb 27, 2025
the traditional setting encourages people working together as a group in other not to weaken them because they don't have much finance or sophisticated equipment to survive much then else they will perish and collapse to the lurking threats.
Contrary to what most people believe that traditional setting created strong men who ruled and controlled their families effectively, i will disagree with them and say the men then were just very luck to have the laws in their favour. The traditional setting created a pillar and structure to disarm/dis-empower the women in the society thereby making the women to automatically be humble and subservient to the men.
Believe me, a large percentage of the men then were very very lazy compared to the modern man. Is it the blacksmith that barely makes any earning a month but goes home to meet a woman that respects him and manage whatever he brings, taking the remaining things she needs from neighbours, the fisherman, farmer with less than 1 acre of farm, the bricklayers, well diggers, carpenters, biker riders, civil servants (earning 70 naira in the 70/80's) who were all struggling to make ends meet but their wives all respect them, they there not speak when the men are speaking despite these men not worth answering or listen to on a normal day. It is a system that doesn't appreciate talents, skills much rather age.
The oldest man in the family automatically assume the position as the head of the family even if he is not educated, irresponsible in his own nuclear/immediate family, backward in thinking but the traditional setting accords him the position while more competent,vibrant , younger family member is there.
I do see how some of my family members - uncles staying in my village without really doing anything meaningful but you see their wives respecting them, addressing them with respect and humbleness, kneeing down when they serve them water or food - Do we all think the women are doing all these because the men had frames? because the are strong and can control their wives? we must be joking. The structures and pillars laid by the traditional setting did that for all of the. The weak, old, lazy, drunkards etc among them all enjoying the benefits they never worked for nor deserve.
The modern man is really trying his best but what does he get back? more shaming from both men and women for being useless, lazy and not hustling like his forefathers (people that never hustled like we)
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 3:29pm On Feb 27, 2025
Most online feminists will want to be in Regina Daniels's and Chioma's position but they don't want to get their games right. These women are gaining more than a career is a giving many feminists. Tiger Wood's former wife was just a baby sitter yet she gained over 300 million dollars from the marriage. Cristiano Ronaldo's girlfriend was just a clerk at a D&G store (I stand to be corrected) yet she is being taken care of and Ronaldo gives her $100,000 per month. How many feminists make that amount? grin Notice how none of these women are PhD holders. grin
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 3:28pm On Feb 27, 2025
Education and career are good, but, for most women, a wealthy simp will give them more than career can give them for doing little. It's better to be uneducated and have a wealthy simp than to be single and educated earning 90,000 naira per month all in the name of being a career woman. The life is hard and one cannot underestimate the importance of money. Our survival and comfort on this planet cost money. grin Without money, a person's life is like a black and white blurred picture, but with money, it like a coloured sharp picture fitted in golden frame. wink
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 3:27pm On Feb 27, 2025
From the onset till now, I accept that patriarchy is good for both genders, but in a time like this where the SOCIAL pillars ancient men had to enforce and protect their masculinity is almost nonexistent, the patriarchy that men of old had shall somewhat remain an unattainable ideal of the modern man
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 3:25pm On Feb 27, 2025
Some redpillers might call me a misogynist, but if you encourage women to take up positions of power, become judges/lawyers, decide laws, and even vote, you have no ground to complain about gynocentrism and the propagation of the female agenda. You know fully well, as redpiller, that the females in these positions carry their female nature with them and will always work in accordance with the female agenda. With females (about half of the population) being allowed to influence laws, and majority of men (simps) on the side of the female agenda, gynocentrism is sure to run its course; it's only a matter of time.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 3:24pm On Feb 27, 2025
Factors, which I will not explain, that ushers a society into gynocentrism
(1) A safe and comfortable time.
(2) A simp culture and the majority of men being simps.
(3) "Equality" in the constitution and the participation of women in positions of power and lawmaking.
(4) Lack of a manly fathers/strong masculine figures in the lives of children, especially boys. Your mother, female guardians, simp fathers/guardians, will raise little boys to be simps.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 7:13am On Feb 27, 2025
A woman breaks rules for a man she sees as her ideal, but creates rules for a man she feels is beneath her
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 5:53pm On Feb 26, 2025
CaveAdullam:
Nice one from pansophist.

A little add: women by default are machiavellians, they know when, where, and how to mimic to any situation regardless of whether it's good or bad. Women, especially those who are approaching the wall, hit the wall or past the wall will play the chameleon game effectively, pretending to pass your vetting scrutinization. Many of them at their epiphany phase or wall phase, will then discover a need for a religious salvation, and begin to act as wise sages. And any man that approaches them in their religious salvation phase will definitely fall for their whims, with little or no cognizance of their past.

We all have a moment of change, but women change not for the sake of change itself, it is a subtle act of game and manipulation; an attempt to eat their cake during the h0e/party phase, and desire it back during the epiphany/salvation phase. What propel this change is because of a decline in beauty, attention, age, fertility and to quickly latch onto a man for marriage.

Therefore, as a man, entering into a long term relationship or marriage, the vetting process for women should be between the ages of 18-25, using the "virgin/hymen" requirement as a prerequisite. If a woman is a virgin, there is a very high probability of passing other tests. In addition to the vetting process: stir all forms of emotions in her; anger, pain, joy, gladness, anxiety etc. This is to determine her balance and extremes, and how to counter it when you eventually commit to her.

You don't need to like this, a man that has upheave himself to a king standard will never find problem searching and finally engaged himself to a virgin with a high dose of femininity. Other lower men can settle for repentant wh0res who wear a facade of intellect, logic, good behaviour, good character etc.

So, as a man, become high quality in every areas of your life, and only commit to a high quality woman. Settling for less is an unbalanced equation and a waste of your resources. Take a detailed analysis of her past, her sexual escapades, her social behaviour, ideologies and belief system.

Do not commit to a woman in her epiphany phase, because it is foolish to buy the cow when the milk is free. If she freely gave the milk in the past, there's no need paying for it in the present. Do not be deceived by the appearance of the cow, it is a facade.

Thanks.

God bless.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 8:05pm On Feb 25, 2025
Kipaji:
Since this is how we win, how about we focus on this?

In realistic terms, how do we control our sexual urges?
Temptations are too strong
Sexual urge is like hunger
But the good news is that it comes in waves unless we directly go looking for it via porn, social media, it comes you relax, it will leave
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 12:18pm On Feb 25, 2025
Women or not, men must provide, either for their family or themselves. It is because of this eternal burden to provide that makes them dwell less in the emotional domain. That emotional plane is for women because nobody expects much from them.

Men must either provide or create or else, be considered a nuisance. A bigger nuisance if he opts out of the game because he will first be disrespected and later die of hunger.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 9:41am On Feb 25, 2025
Remember we are in modern times
Be data driven, follow logic, definitely you would be emotional in your dealing with women it's inevitable that is how you are wired but the redpill will aid you especially in times your emotions overwhelm your empirical driven redpill insights

Modern times equals new order
Traditional times equals old order
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 12:17am On Feb 25, 2025
Do not let the playfulness, respect, sex, show of kindness and present profession of love from women beguile you into forgetting female nature. Never get lost in the sauce, always be on guard that is why you are redpilled and different from most of the ignorant bluepilled mofos in the world, you know women inside out with redpill awareness
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 12:14am On Feb 25, 2025
If she has calculated that the vehicle is no longer needed, it will be brutally discarded, resented and/or snubbed, regardless of the "damages" and sacrifices the vehicle endured (willingly or unwillingly) to get her to her destination/objective. You become in her eyes a deadweight that slows her down. This happens when you are no longer needed; when you have landed beneath her; or when you financially depend on her.

You must take note of the last two paragraphs: do not let the playfulness, respect, sex, show of kindness and present profession of love from your wife beguile you into disbelieving them. Never get lost in the sauce. If you dismiss the red pill here and you succumb to the situations I warned you against after taking your wife abroad, you will discover real quick that you never really knew your wife. Also, just to add, the fact that some ladies spent their whole lives in Nigeria doesn't mean they are not aware of how domestic, marital and child support laws work over there.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 12:13am On Feb 25, 2025
Even your wives and girlfriends masturbate to the memories of the sexual passion and intense marathon fvcks they had with their ex-boyfriends even as they are in commited relationships with you their husband and boyfriend

Also, remember she would always cherish the memory of the man that disvirgined her
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 9:20pm On Feb 24, 2025
Remember

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 9:15pm On Feb 24, 2025
women know that what they want from men (money) they can't survive without, but what men want from women (sex) men can survive without. Women know that what women want from men (money) women can't masturbate and get, but what men want from women (sex) men can masturbate and get. Because what women want from men is a real thing, but what men want from women is simply a feeling. You can create a feeling from nothing but you can't create a real thing from nothing.

And the day men fully realize this is the day the Pussy Cartel will cease to exist.


But as long as men continue to walk in ignorance women are the only winners in this Game, because women get paid while men simply get laid. Women walk away with money, men walk away with mere memories.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 3:42pm On Feb 24, 2025
Martinez39s:
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... continued from HERE.

@UppaZakum

Your fears are valid, and it is a very serious issue that may not seem so at the moment.

Smart! Never give up leverage. Smart men who are red-pill aware and are deep in the game know that leverage is invaluable in long-term relationships. A man, however great his red-pill awareness, cannot operate effectively and unchallenged as the head and authoritative figure without leverage. Also, having leverage isn't just enough, a man must be aware of his leverage and wield it unapologetically to his benefit.

Leverage is important, it can even determine and regulate female behaviour and attitude in the relationship if it is used wisely. Change leverage and see a different version/attitude of your wife.

Men who think leverage isn't important or that much of a big deal —or that the issue of leverage is simply petty secondary school manipulation tactics— are just ignorant and know nothing. Never give up leverage by whatever means.


Hmmmm. You have carefully thought too deep strategically. Nevertheless, I would always advice a man never to move with his spouse abroad. If possible, go alone and improve yourself abroad; send money back home regularly; and come back after your are done. If you decide to act differently, ensure that if sh!t goes to fan, you don't lose all you have worked for, you are not financially blighted, and you can move your kids with you back to Nigeria. Whatever you decision you make, ensure you can easily endure and move on if the worse happens.

Over there, there are many eventualities that can befall you in forms of opportunities for your wife to change, scheme and misbehave. I don’t need to explicate, do I?


E N D.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 3:17pm On Feb 24, 2025
Martinez39s:
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..... continued from HERE.

@UppaZakum
A nice plan. Just don't mind her; forge ahead with your plan instead. Let her sort herself out. If possible, don't take her abroad. Put yourself first and keep yourself safe.

Well, you know what's up and the right route to take, but for some reason something is holding you back. Could it be that you don't want to be inadvertently mean and cruel to who you perceive to be a good woman? Well, if that's the case, find calm in the fact that it is perfectly normal for red pill execution to demand some level of coldness and indifference from time to time to prevent you from getting fleeced, played and ensure positive/desired female response. Besides, I will always repeat that you don't take your wife to stay with you permanently in a western society.


Glad you are not easily carried away. You might think you know your woman, until certain situations reveal a beast and personality you never knew of.

Ask men if the version of their wives they saw in the divorce court, western environment (especially when the migration is permanent), or breadwinning position are the versions they experienced during dating (before marriage) or when they were breadwinners. Even western men who marry western women see a different version of their wives when situation changes... you grab? Even western divorce attorneys and divorced men have a saying: "you never know your wife until you meet her in court."

My point is, instead of thinking you know your wife and banking on that, just follow the red pill which never fails. Finally, I must repeat:
(1) Always put yourself first,
(2) Never put yourself in a situation where you depend on a woman's money,
(3) Ensure that you are always above and bigger than your woman. Never help elevate your woman's level to yours or above yours. If a women must grow, let it be without your help.
(4) To add, never put your safety, well-being, and financial situation at risk because you want to accommodate the interests of a woman. The games women can play are too inconsiderate and unforgiving for men who take such risks or give too much benefit of doubt.

typing...

Edit: next part is HERE.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 3:16pm On Feb 24, 2025
Martinez39s:
[2]
... continued from HERE.

@UppaZakum

Wise of you to realise where you bleeped up. A man must never ever let a woman have full access to how much he earns, has, or the flow of his money. Of course, they will try to find, but never let them... e get why. If they don't like it, they either hold their peace, or move on to a new husband that will show them his financial records. It is that simple.

By the way, I am curious as to the life you've led and, if any, previous marital dynamics in which you found it okay to let her in on your finances. Where you always a red pill guy during your marriage? Or did you just slip up in the moment due to ignorance or temporary weakness?

Well, redpillers know that you don't take what comes out of a woman's mouth seriously. Of course, she will give her best on this plan of hers and say anything to convince you to support her plan, even making promises she knows she won't keep. This is the feelings/emotions of the moment; even if she thinks she will keep to her promise, situation will expose her female nature and she will follow suit without remorse. All that really matters to her is her objective. It is left for you as a red pill guy to detect this and remain steadfast in not yielding to feminine wiles.

As for her plan to support you when she is stable and you need her help, I need not say much. You will see a different side of your wife if you find yourself in this situation, and you will certainly not like it. You will most likely not believe what you are seeing. Worse is if she happens to meet other well-to-do men that she feels are above her new level and better than her dependent husband.

Very good.


typing....

Edit: next post is HERE.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 3:14pm On Feb 24, 2025
Martinez39s:
THIS UppaZakum's POST is what I am responding to, bit by bit.

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As promised, I will now share my perspective. Also, for the sake of others that will hope to learn, I will delve into much details.

Great! Glad to see you are devoted to improving yourself and you have crafted a solid plan to undertake such improvement. Nothing wrong here.

Well, your wife has seen an unmissable opportunity to achieve financial independence for herself in a more successful, liberal society that gives women insane leverage in marriage... or more generally, the intersexual dynamic.

This opportunity deeply aligns with her personal interests, and as a woman, she will put her interests and feelings without regard to the sacrifices and costs incurred by her man. Afterall, in a woman's eyes, a man is simply a vehicle to her destination/objective in her survival script. You must have noticed this in the way she always remained unmindful of your logical reservations and possible downsides you will face if you strung her along. This is not a mistake; your wife knows what she is doing.

If she has calculated that the vehicle is no longer needed, it will be brutally discarded, resented and/or snubbed, regardless of the "damages" and sacrifices the vehicle endured (willingly or unwillingly) to get her to her destination/objective. You become in her eyes a deadweight that slows her down. This happens when you are no longer needed; when you have landed beneath her; or when you financially depend on her.

You must take note of the last two paragraphs: do not let the playfulness, respect, sex, show of kindness and present profession of love from your wife beguile you into disbelieving them. Never get lost in the sauce. If you dismiss the red pill here and you succumb to the situations I warned you against after taking your wife abroad, you will discover real quick that you never really knew your wife. Also, just to add, the fact that some ladies spent their whole lives in Nigeria doesn't mean they are not aware of how domestic, marital and child support laws work over there.

Whatever you do with your woman, ensure you always put yourself first and you are above her. Never raise her to your level or above it, and never be in a situation where you depend on her financially. If a woman wants to grow, let her hustle it on her own. If possible, don't take her abroad. Her behaviour (due to the Nigerian environment, leverage, and your masculine attitude here) won't necessarily be the same in the western environment. The Western world corrupts and embolden women with impunity. If things are working well for you here, leave her here and go pursue your dreams. As you get better, your family will benefit from it.


typing....

Edit: next part is HERE.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 11:44am On Feb 24, 2025
pansophist:
You have to leave your girl and your friend. Under no circumstances and begging should you accept them back. 

If you forgive a woman for cheating on you, you’ve proven to her that you’re a weak man, and you’ll be punished for it, only a matter of time. 

Also, you won’t feel like a man. Your pride, ego, masculinity will feel shattered, like a tamed lion, where a dirty pig can come and shit on, and you will pay fully (bride price) for it. You’re defeated. 

Deep in her psyche, she will feel like she is the best you can do, hence, you can’t act like a man and kick her out, which will embolden her. She will be tempted to push the goal post further, to see your breaking point. 

Your friend will not respect you, and every body that hear about it won’t rate you. You won’t even rate yourself. 

If you can’t reach her for hours (maybe because her battery is low), something in you will always suspect she has gone to cheat. 
Believing her on anything without verification will be difficult because the trust is gone. 

She will be tempted to overdo and overprove herself, because she knows the dilemma you’re in. You don’t trust her, and she won’t trust you either. 

With every child she begat, you’ll always wonder if it’s yours and if you should do DNA, especially if you think the child doesn’t look and act like you. 

With every small argument, you’ll say things that you don’t have to say, because you’re operating from a place of incurable foundational wound. 

The  persistence of the relationship will be an evidence that you are not man enough to call it off, and negotiate a better deal for yourself. You’ll both low key-hate each other for settling with each other.

The door of hell has being open and it must consume one person. If you stay in the relationship, then you’ve paid for her sins and it will consume you. If you let her go, she will pay for her sins and it will consume her. 

In reality, you’ve lost nothing if you let her go. The pain and emotional trauma you’ll feel after her departure is like recovering from an addiction. With time, you’ll feel better than before. 

Right now you’re fighting a one-front battle, which is to let her go. If you stay in the relationship, it becomes a two-front war, which is to forgive her, forgive yourself, and tolerate all the assault that comes with negotiating a bad deal for yourself. 

If she happens to cheat again (which is high likely), you will never forgive yourself because you saw it coming and decided that you deserve the worse. Hopefully it doesn’t lead to depression. 

Marriage is sweet, but hell if done wrongly. Hopefully you won’t find peace at a bar, than in your own home.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 11:22am On Feb 23, 2025
My brethren if we can be disciplined and control our sexual urges we have won
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 11:22am On Feb 23, 2025
Uptheante:
If you don't take your woman abroad with you, she will be fücƙed by other men as you are not around to monitor her.
You will be sending her money that she will be flexing with other men
Chai you have a valid point
It is a loose loose situation
Go abroad to a none gynocentric country best solution like middle East
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 7:34am On Feb 23, 2025
ubunja:
yes, men can turn down sex due to self-control and morality issues. That's commendable. The "but" here is that no man must think doing so has a bearing on how women view him. As concerning value and worth.
Because at the end how it plays out is That pucc you're passing on to appear special/different from other men, the lady is just going to take it to another guy! Usually some guy who's always available for quick cheap no-stress sex. Some guys just make it so hard and complicated to give them sex girls simply stop offering.

I'm sure we've all heard of a situation where some morally upright gentleman of a guy had a lady always visiting him acting funny for him but the guy was always "controlling" himself until the lady gave up, stopped visiting and somehow ended up getting pregnant for some clown.
What the gentleman did is really not playing hard to get in the dating sense, he just missed opportunities.

Okay let's switch genders for better clarity.

How does a woman play hard to get?

We go back to the foundation of male/female dynamics: Men love sex, Women love money. Men want sex, Women want money.

A woman then plays hard to get by being stingy with SEX. Cause sex is what men want.
While a man plays hard to get by being stingy with LOVE aka commitment, cause that's what women want.

A man doesn't play hard to get by refusing sex just as a woman doesn't play hard to get by refusing love/commitment/money. A man takes the sex but refuses to give the woman that one thing she wants (love/commitment/money) -that's him playing hard to get. Because until a man is in love or committed the woman hasn't actually got him.

Same way,,, a woman takes the love, commitment and money that's offered to her but denies men that one thing they all want: sex. Cause until a woman has given a man sex, the man hasn't actually got anything worthwhile from the woman. He hasn't yet "got" the woman.
The moment of truth for women is when a man finally commits. And the moment of truth for men is when a woman finally gives sex.

If you're a woman it doesn't matter if Davido or Chris Brown wants to sleep with you. What matters is Do they want to commit?Do they want to marry you? That's the question cause that's what really determines your worth IN THEIR EYES. Being good enough for sex is inferior. Being good enough to committment is superior. Its when a man commits that you have got got him.

That's why when a woman cheats a man's first question is "Did you sleep with him?" Cause for men there's nothing serious until sex happens.
And when a man cheats women's first question is "Do you love her?" Cause women understands that men will fucc anything, its when a man commits that things become serious.

Men and women are looking at sex and love from opposing sides, so what they value, what they see as valuable, is also opposed.

When a girl tells her friends "Moses loves me!" What do the friends ask? They ask, "What has he done for you?!"
Meanwhile, if a guy tells his friends, "Dorothy loves me!" They're going to ask "Did she let you smash?"

Which is to say, A woman can't say "Moses loves me cause he had sex with me". Not really, cause sex is not something men control. Just as a man can't say,"Dorothy loves me cause she bought me this and that". Cause a womans commitment is worthless. As long as he hasn't smashed Dorothy, his friends can't really be convinced Dorothy loves him. Cause the only thing of value Dorothy has is the pucc. Until she puts that on the table, she's holding back.

All this is to illustrate both men and women understand the "moment of Truth" concerning each gender. A woman can't use commitment to show a guy she loves him, just as much as a man can't use sex to show a woman he loves her. Women express love by sex, men express love by commitment. Hence that woman who's hard to fucc is the woman everyone fights for cause she has value.Just like that man who's hard to commit is the man everyone fights for cause he has value.
Which brings us full circle back to the virgin and the Bad boy as the most valuable in the dating field.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 7:31am On Feb 23, 2025
Western society is messed up,there's a part in the documentary where it was revealed that under Canadian law,a child can undergo sex change without the permission of the parent.Theres a children's book for ages 10,which had the illustration of 2 men having sex undecided WTF.

These people are messed up beyond messed up,now we're dealing with feminist bullshit and emasculation of men,in the future it will be something more terrible
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 7:29am On Feb 23, 2025
ubunja:
okay here's one of the unfinished Miseducations i left hanging when i abruptly stopped writing. I wrote this I think a year or so ago, I hope it makes sense:

THE MAN WHO SITS AT THE TOP OF THE SEX PYRAMID.

There's a sexual hierarchy in society. Levels, if you will. Like the levels on a pyramid. The Incels sit at the bottom getting no pussy, above are the Simps, used for their resources but getting breadcrumbs, above them sit the Betas, or the "patriarchy" - our fathers and most men. These are the "alpha providers" women settle down with. Above this group sit the PUAs, the Pick Up Artists who trick women into bed. Women have a special kind of hate for these fellows. Above these fellows are the Alphas, the Red Pillers, many of whom are former Betas played by women but who now know their worth. Above them are the Players, Thugs, Bad Boys, Chads, Tyrones, criminals and all those men in prison, these are the sexual alphas, but social failures. They get the best and the most sex but manu are uneducated, broke and jobless. They have the best genes, and are the most gorgeous and the most fertile of men. They're the Sexual Imprint of virtually every girl because girls lose their virginity here. Women want to get pregnant here. Single mothers are made here.  And wet coochies go here. When women are younger and fresher and wanna experience life they go here. It is women's previously unknown preference for this group that is pushing many men to the Red Pill.

Let's move on,,,,Above these men sit gigolos, male prostitutes, male strippers, exotic dancers, massage therapists and personal trainers, - men paid by women for sex.  Where men traditionally are the ones who buy sex, the sheer sexiness and bed skills of this group is enough to flip the script and force women to break with tradition and pay for sex. 

AND FINALLY, OVER AND ABOVE EVERYONE, sitting at the very top of the sex pyramid, dominating the sexual hierarchy, chosen and tutored by prostitutes and dealing only with them, is a Man the French call the Maquereau. Or the Mackerel. Who is known in the west as the Mack. But is universally known as the Pïmp.  

Beyond this Man whom prostitutes pick, build and then pay to have sex with, who moves in a world opposite every man's - there's no one. He is the best of the best. The Game in the flesh. PUA and Red Pill philosophy is actually a watered down version of Pímp's game.

But hold on,,,, while there's no one greater than the pímp in the game, while no man is better than him when it comes to women, there's Someone equal to him. Someone who matches him and with whom he shares the top spot. Someone who knows what he knows and who moves how he moves. This Someone inhabits an entirely different world, but that is as filled with women and pussy as the pímp's own world is. Time and again this Someone hits the news for his sexual debauchery and scandals but is judged far less harshly and always given a pass. And it's not surprising that many pímps when they retire, they become him.  

This Someone is the Preacher.  

Outside of the Pímp, no son of Adam dominates women as completely as the Preacher. Besides the pímp no other man understands female psychology as intimately as the Preacherman. 

Pímpíng and pastoring have so much in common that it has been said "If you can pímp, you can preach". And many times Preachers have been likened to Pímps. Both in how they present themselves and in their habit and ability to excessively extract from their followers.
(1) https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110607110416AAAP0oQ (2) https://day1.org/articles/5d9b820ef71918cdf2002bb0/just_say_no_when_preachers_and_pímps_have_too_much_in_common (3) https://www.lipstickalley.com/threads/most-black-preachers-are-nothing-more-than-poverty-pímps.1485778/
NB= THE LINKS WONT GO THROUGH BECAUSE I DELIBERATELY MISSPELLED PÍMP. COPY TO WEB BROWSER AND CORRECT THE SPELLING.

And it definitely doesn't help that many pímps have preacher-like monikers, eg the pímps Archbishop Don "Magic" Juan, Minister Seamore and Pastor Troy:
Video title - "Pímp Interview: Pastor Troy"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aR2_D6ieGWc

Add to that the pímps' penchant to use the Bible to justify pimping:
Video title - "The Bible Is A Pímp's Manual"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mpyJmbLrhOA

Video title - "West Oakland Pímp Compares Bible Verses To Pímp Commandments"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B9u2wrmqcv4

Add to that the pímps' penchant for quoting scripture and oftentimes referring to the IZM as the "gospel"; hearing a pímp talk is no different from hearing a preacher preach. 

But it is the pímps who retire to be preachers that is the master stroke. This is an impossibly genius move that takes the pímps from one world of women to another world of women. From pussy to pussy. It's almost as if women escape the pímp on the streets only to meet him at the pulpit. And terrible is the financial and sexual exploitation women have experienced in the hands of the Pulpit Pímp. 

He has more power over their minds and emotions than their own husbands. And they would rather disappoint their husbands than disappoint him. You only have to see how women's faces light up when they talk about the preacher, fondly calling him, "my pastor" or "the dear Man of God". You only have to see the massive female following preachers have. How women vastly outnumber men in their congregations. Then you'll appreciate the scale of the pímping that is afoot against the female gender. Observant men are starting to joke, "if you want coochie, start a church!" It used to be, "If you want money start a church!" 
Now with the nonstop rumors, sex exposés and scandals it's becoming clear that churches are as rich in pussy as they are in money.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 7:28am On Feb 23, 2025
The company of any beautiful woman is pleasant to me so long as I don't love her
- Tristan Tates
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 7:27am On Feb 23, 2025
Hypergamy means women dating higher, and they date men that genetically and financially appeal to their nature and also based on status, looks, power, intelligence, dominance, and adventure

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