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You are not in love, na konji dey worry you

It is a red pill rule to get a woman at her best years. If she won't give you her best years or you didn't have her at her best years, don't take her at her decline. Put yourself first, go for the best and have some self-respect. If you are not yet established to marry a particular female at her best years, let her go to who is ready. When you are ready and established later, pick the one that is in her best years and makes a decent human being

Expect anything from any female, virgin or not, some virgins have also done freaky things too. However virgins are still the better pick.. Many females are more sexually experienced than males.. Don’t underestimate what any of them have done or presently doing as we speak, especially in this present days..You can only do your best to vet them and know what you could know, you may not know it all..It is what it is

It is not by seeing her speaking in tongues, doing evangelism, dressing decently, having good manners, rendering a spirit-filled song in the choir, and having a traditional background because guys who have applied the red pill and gone deep in their sexual journey know that it is common for a girl to fùck and suck your diçk on a Saturday and go speak in tongues on Sunday and roll on the floor during ministration and post scriptures and progress in her spiritual walk on WhatsApp. Even hijab wearing muslims and girls of other religions are not left out. A female is first a female before she is religious, same with men.

The main point in your post is that even the hoès and depraved women will still spin such rationalisation and blue pill crap to urge men to ignore their sordid past and take them seriously for relationships. This is a reality

With the rate a lot of women are even into hookups lately, not to talk of those that are repentant hos too.. Same women capable of sleeping with dogs and doing porter potty.. This is enough reason for people not to underestimate what women are capable of anymore in sex affairs.. Many females will do anything for the right price or any other thing that drives them or suit their interest. Some of those innocent looking young girls you see everyday have done unimaginable things like anal, three-some, fvcked in public toilet

the fact that with women, it's all about their feelings. If she cheats on you, she can become the best possible wife the following days, get you gifts, do that thing you always asked her to do, post extensively about you on social media, so that in her head she can tell herself that it's her apology/compensation for cheating and feel less bad.
That's another reason why it's important to not project our logical reasoning on women; we must incorporate that it's mostly about their feelings as we analyse women behavior

WOMAN IN THE SAME AGE BRACKET of 16-29 THAT HAS BEEN WITH OVER 100 MEN IN HER LIFETIME. SUBMISSION BECOMES EXTREMELY DIFFICULT. UNDERSTANDING YOU IS IMPOSSIBLE BECAUSE SHE CANNOT "LOVE" YOU (LIKE A PURE-HEARTED WOMAN CAN). THIS ONE MUST OF BE USED TO TOO MANY HEART BREAKS, HARD LIFE OF SMOKING AND DRUGS, VARIETY OF PENĮSES, DIFFERENT FETISHES AND CALIBRE OF SIMPS AND ALMOST ANY KIND OF LIFESTYLE YOU MAY DETEST. AND TRULY, YOU CANNOT MEASURE UP

WHETHER SHE'S 20 OR 28, IF SHE'S HAD 0 TO 5 MEN IN HER LIFE (AND VAGINA) PRIOR TO MEETING YOU, MY OPINION IS THAT SHE'S EASILY INFLUENCEABLE AND TEACHABLE, BECAUSE IT'S EASIER FOR HER TO "FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU" AND BOND WITH YOU. SHE WOULD EASILY MAKE SACRIFICES FOR YOU, AND HONOUR YOU BECAUSE IT WON'T TAKE TOO MUCH TO IMPRESS HER.

I ALWAYS TELL THE MEN THAT CARE TO LISTEN THIS ONE THING EVEN THOUGH I'M NOT NECESSARILY THE USUAL "VIRGIN OR NOTHING" PROMOTER. THE FACT REMAINS THAT: THE HIGHER THE NUMBER OF MEN SHE'S BEEN WITH, THE LESSER HER CHANCES OF FALLING IN LOVE OR MAKING SACRIFICES, OR RECOGNISING THE VALUES/SACRIFICES OF A MAN.

Always be brutal with women, never forego your comfort or happiness for any woman because you will surely regret it.

Being the nice guy and a sissy who wears his heart on his sleeve gets you no where with women

A woman must never be the source of happiness, I repeat again a woman must not be the source of your happiness


Majority of men even redpill aware will not heed to this

HOW CAN A MAN WITH FIRM BALLS ONLY SEEK TO VENERATE AND VALIDATE WOMEN, BELONG IN POINTLESS GROUPS WITH THEM SO AS TO ENTERTAIN THEM? THIS IS WHY MANY MEN SUFFER AND NOBODY RESPECTS THEM. WHAT ARE YOU PROFITING FROM COMMUNICATING ONLINE WITH WOMEN WHO DON'T WANT YOU? ERECTĮONS?

I GO OFF FOR A FULL YEAR AND THE INTERNET IS STILL THE SAME; WOMEN POSTING PICTURES OF THEIR TOES AND MEN DYING IN THE COMMENTS, BEGGING TO SNIFF THE LAST CHAIRS THEY SAT ON. TODAY'S WOMEN AND MEN DESERVE EACH OTHER. IT'S NOT ME THAT WILL GET INVOLVED IN ALL THIS MENACE

Be wary of the way you build rapport with females, to avoid things like this. familiarity gets into their heads easily; like play like play, dem no dey know their mates again. familiarity breeds contempt; avoid familiarity and see finish. If a girl appears to be rude, cut her off. No need to reply her impertinent remarks. Reserve friendship for your fellow trustworthy males. As for females, leave the ones that serve, or will serve, your aim as amiable acquaintances. Finally, don't talk too much each time when discussing with females, keep it brief and don't say more than necessary

Hoes excess supply

Virgins limited supply

Men limited supply

Simps excess supply.

Nature always find a way to balance itself.
Excess hoes for excess simps.
Just as limited Men for limited virgins.

Some guys get all wimpy and weak when they talk to a new attractive woman, and literally forgetting they are talking to another human like them. The exact same humans that they have spoke to all their lives

a woman loses all sense of dignity when she's obsessed with you , she can't control herself and her emotions around you, you are her mini god, she worships you, she submits and defers to your authority and leadership


Remember with all these genuine desire, it doesn't change female nature, she can loose attraction, you can become betalized and loose frame, she can cheat on you for whatever reason even as she has genuine desire for you, she can disrespect you and show you shege, she can starve you of sex after acting all NAWALT

You see, you can only be 5 materials to a woman:

----Bf material
----husband material
----hook up material
----friendzone material
----utility material

The worst kind is friendzone. The best is hook up material. I have repeated here more times than I count the importance of becoming a man women want and love to fùck. Because everything starts from sex.

Realities of a simp
He is a provider in a relationship and he still suffers in the relationship. smh.

If women were judged by the same standards women use to judge men:

- Height
- Fitness
- Humor
- income
- Exciting life
- Emotional control

Almost all women would be considered failures.

For love/marriage, let a woman choose you, but for lust, you can decide to go fishing yourself.

green light guarantees high investment, high submission, high respect. But it doesn't in anyway guarantees that a woman will stick to you forever, because hypergamy is an inherent female nature. Although, the relationship can tarry for a long time depending on your frame.

Nature is harsh to men, but easy on women because evolutionary they are the reproductively critical gender, even for marriage especially in their prime women have abundance of options, same with sex they have options, but most men don't even have options for marriage they are too poor, low value, even the ones with resources have onetitis, bluepilled idealism, Disney and iroko programming, hence they don't maximize their SMV worth, again men are moralistic and religious we hold on to honor bound values and are willing to sacrifice

A woman bombarding you with love, sex, feminity and submission can make you loose frame easily because natural hormones of oxytocin are engaged and you fall in love deeply even the most strongest redpilled veteran

It's nature
It's biology

Redpill preparing for anything to come doesn't mean you won't feel the pain and betrayal if negative outcomes happen like cheating, paternity fraud, disrespect, branch swinging to a better option, sexlessness, and many other things we discuss here regularly


You might even cry, feel depressed and suicidal depending on the level of the pain, but remember you have a community of brethens in the manosphere on these thread, online and offline who can weather the storm with you

Nothing builds resentment and disrespect to a husband greater than when his wife brings home the bacon (ie. when she is the breadwinner). The resentment and disrespect will come from the wife"

I used to be like you growing up, but experience and understanding have made me to unapologetically prioritise sound decisions and my well-being at the expense of emphatic/moral feelings or blue-pill mindsets that may sabotage me. Don't get me wrong, I am still a kind fellow, but logic, reasoning and truth must come first.

Truth and sound reasoning may be ignored, but the consequences of ignoring them cannot be avoided. Finally, take calm in the fact that it is perfectly normal for red pill execution to demand some level of coldness and indifference from time to time to prevent you from getting fleeced, played and ensure positive/desired female response. What's best for us may not always resonate with our feelings.

Men who think leverage isn't important or that much of a big deal —or that the issue of leverage is simply petty secondary school manipulation tactics— are just ignorant and know nothing. Never give up leverage by whatever means.

Smart men who are red-pill aware and are deep in the game know that leverage is invaluable in long-term relationships. A man, however great his red-pill awareness, cannot operate effectively and unchallenged as the head and authoritative figure without leverage. Also, having leverage isn't just enough, a man must be aware of his leverage and wield it unapologetically to his benefit.

Leverage is important, it can even determine and regulate female behaviour and attitude in the relationship if it is used wisely. Change leverage and see a different version/attitude of your wife.

Whatever you do with your woman, ensure you always put yourself first and you are above her. Never raise her to your level or above it, and never be in a situation where you depend on her financially. If a woman wants to grow, let her hustle it on her own. If possible, don't take her abroad. Her behaviour (due to the Nigerian environment, leverage, and your masculine attitude here) won't necessarily be the same in the western environment. The Western world corrupts and embolden women with impunity. If things are working well for you here, leave her here and go pursue your dreams. As you get better, your family will benefit from it.

(1) Always put yourself first,
(2) Never put yourself in a situation where you depend on a woman's money,
(3) Ensure that you are always above and bigger than your woman. Never help elevate your woman's level to yours or above yours. If a women must grow, let it be without your help.
(4) To add, never put your safety, well-being, and financial situation at risk because you want to accommodate the interests of a woman. The games women can play are too inconsiderate and unforgiving for men who take such risks or give too much benefit of doubt.

A man who has a sexual past is not doing anything amiss or being hypocritical when he wifes a nonvirgin. His past doesn't matter, and women and men are not the same. Get this through your dense skull.

Finally, redpillers unashamedly want virgins and there is nothing you can do about it.