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Zabiboy:

Sequel to this thread https://www.nairaland.com/5983205/dont-think-ever-love-lady and also the Ugandan Lady that said "Marriage is Women's Retirement Plan after sleeping around", i decided to create this thread..
WHILE the Ugandan lady is 100% Correct, there is a twist...
Now here's the thing...
Marriage is the union of two people Right?
Wedding is just a celebration...and we all know the cycle; Men use Relationship/Commitment/Marriage to get sex While Women use sex to get Commitment/Relationship...
THE TRUTH IS THAT MEN CREATED THE INSTITUTION/ILLUSION CALLED MARRIAGE WHILE WOMEN CREATED WEDDING ( to celebrate holding down a man who would work for them till infinity) ....
There's a whole lot to this but i'll just keep it short and simple...
Women dont need marriage for anything at all...Infact, marriage sorts of reduces their access to freebies...They can get unlimited supply of sex, give birth, receive all manner of freebies, money and even investments without getting married BUT they marry just to make sure they have someone to work for them, provide and also give them freebies even after they HIT THE WALL ( OFF THE SEXUAL MARKET )..
For Men, the reverse is the case...They cant get unlimited access to sex ( infact, research has shown that the amount of sex SOME women get in a day or two is higher than the amount ANY man can get in his lifetime) and so they see marriage as a direct access to unlimited and unhindered sex ( when in reality, it actually reduces their chances)...Since men use relationship to get sex, once a woman is willing to offer them sex, they then want to/ see the need to tie down the pvssy as thiers so they can get unlimited access, hence the creation of the illusion MARRIAGE...
The truth is WOMEN BENEFIT MORE FROM MARRIAGES(which is why- as the Ugandan lady said- they see it as a retirement plan) BUT IT WAS AN ILLUSION/INSTITUTION CREATED BY MEN.. ...
One of the biggest FALLACY i'v heard is that Marriage (Women) CAN bring you favour, good tidings and so on BUT let me tell you something,
THE MOMENT YOU THINK YOU ARE "ACHIEVING THINGS" BECAUSE YOU HAVE A WOMAN OR WOMEN, YOU STUNT LIFE .....
NO ONE....ABSOLUTELY NO ONE CAN LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOURSELF AND NO ONE CAN MAKE YOU "ACHIEVE THINGS" BETTER THAN YOURSELF..
Like i said, there's a lot to this...But i'll stop here so it wont be too long..
Check out this thread https://www.nairaland.com/5928588/take-responsibility
#Redpill
#StaySafe
#StayPilled

pansophist:
As I big reach, I do not mind chasing a woman, but she must be virtuous.

Infact chasing a widow who was married as a virgin is virtuous because she lost her virginity to her late husband, a man who paid her bride price and complied with religious, cultural and legal duty.

But to chase a girl that her only achievement in life is ''I am a fine girl"', lack manners, a double-digit or even worse, tripple digit body counts, have series of abortions with high taste masked as ''high standards'' is an insult to masculinity.

The very fact that I will chase a woman that lots of men have seen her unclothedness makes my stomach sour.

Give me a young, attractive, virgin with good character, and I will chase her. I promise. I don't mind chasing, but I do not want to chase nonsense.

As a man, I didn't fail myself, which also means that I will not fail you. I worked hard and can beat my chest that I can give you a 1% lifestyle, and for that, I deserve a woman who did not fail herself either, by preserving her virtue, since it hurts to think that you have had sex with folks that will call me sir, and I can pay their salary for years without feeling it.