₦airaland Forum

Dpsychologist:
Say hi if you are interested so I can drop the link.

luminouz:
I have said this many many times on the thread.

No matter how angelic she looks or beautiful she is, unless she is a virgin... someone somewhere has fûcked,nutted on her face and had his diick returned to her pussy using her hand after it slipped out and that same someone...is very very bored and tired of her!!!

Anytime you wanna put that angelic-looking girl on a high stand... remember that and that when she farts after eating beans, that shiit don't smell like roses.

Martinez39s:
Gbam! Female nature is universal. Nigerian is hard, hence women put more effort in looking for a financially stable spouse for marriage. It is adaption to the harsh economy. However, their mating strategy is still the same as that of women all over the world, same as the sexcapades and sexual attraction. The fact that they are putting more efforts to secure a financially stable beta doesn't mean they are not still following their nature behind the curtains. The red pill truths that are valid with Western women are also valid with Nigerian women. I don't know if I have done a good job in conveying my thoughts.

Martinez39s:
A woman who has more money than you and has a higher status will not select you as a husband. Her hypergamous nature will seek a higher male. Women marry their best financial options higher than them.

If you started out higher than your wife and she started earning better than you during the marriage and her status surpasses yours, the disrespect and resentment from her towards you will build up. When a man has all the wealth and status, he tries to make them reflect on his wife and kids; in the case of a woman, she looks upon her husband with disdain and pride and asks herself "is he the best I can do?" It is what it is. A wife with a higher cash worth and higher status cannot respect her husband.

In other news, hear this:
Red pill: "Nothing builds resentment and disrespect to a husband greater than when his wife brings home the bacon (ie. when she is the breadwinner). The resentment and disrespect will come from the wife"

I am sure Hollywood, Nollywood, IrokoTV, romance novels and Disney have painted women to be beings who can love you as much as you love them, and they are equal partners who should run things equally in the household (no male authority), and they are selfless and considerate enough to lend you a helping hand in your down times and make sacrifices for you. This is BUUULLLLLSSSSHIT.

Edit: any gift or financial assistance she renders you comes with conditions: you must pay back or give her something in return. Besides, when she does that or some breadwinner role, she will continuously drum it over your head and to everyone when the opportunity presents itself.

Skepticus:
At the bolded, a girl/woman can be truly "in love" with you, though it is extremely rare to find such but when you do, count yourself extremely lucky. Here, my definition of finding a girl who is truly "in love" is not the nigerian man's "definition" of a woman that is truly in love with him. Most of them (Nigerian guys/boys/men) know NOTHING about females' truest attraction nor leadership in relationship. I'll get to that later.



At the bolded, I saw the whole discussions and drama that happened in relation to the paternity fraud trend on Social Media. What i found very worrying, that escaped the attention of most people on the issue of paternity fraud is that NIGERIA as country was mentioned (the only country in Africa) in ALMOST every documented research done on the issue of paternity fraud worldwide. The ones done in Nigeria put it between 50 - 75 percent of women giving birth to babies who are fathered by men who have no genetic connection to these babies. I saw one TEDx talk research putting it at a conservative 30 percent.

The disturbing point of these researches proves that a high number of Nigerian men (poor, middle-class, rich, old, middle-aged, and young) are mostly SIMPs who are also highly ignorant of the nature of women, and that Nigerian women (from the south to the so-called "prudish" north) are highly promiscuous or a terrible combination of both.

If you are a Nigerian man in the "business of promiscuity" whether as a gigolo, pim.p. player, religious leader (some religious leaders like pastors, imams, and those in secular leadership positions like CEOs use it to great advantages in getting women attracted to them) or just an average "fuûck boy", you'll slay a lot of pûssies (single, about-to-be-married, married, pregnant, divorced etc) easily because of the ignorance of the average Nigerian guy on what women do or are capable of doing.

I remember sharing the link of a Nigerian guy who revealed his escapades with so-called "decent" married women earlier on this thread. There have been many threads on front page of Pastors, Imams, Native doctors sleeping with women of all status and background without the knowledge of their boyfriends, fiances and husbands. I have had some personal experiences in this "promiscuity" too, and like most men who have been in my shoes, they stay off marriage because they see the nonsense that modern women are made of. I don't trust a woman telling me "Good morning ". I'll go outside to confirm of it is truly morning time. Like someone said earlier on this thread, most of those Saturday Marriages are just men saving hoes.

Ubunja in his miseducations and miseducashins, has revealed some of these, but the "moral" posturing (which includes some red-pillers) and blue-pill conditioning of nigerian men is so strong that the underlying message of these miseducations and miseducashins fly over their heads.

Skepticus:
It's a reason I don't envy half of these dude "saving" hoes every Saturday.

Make I "burst"people head here, "small". It may sound controversial to the religious folks around here but if you have an open mind, you'll get the crux of my point.

Some, who run to their religious leaders who they greatly admire to pick girls for them (in marriage) would likely be given girls that these religious leaders are tired of banging. The same girls get rewarded for spreading their legs for these religious leaders under the guise of "prophecies " "miraculous anointing" or "working for God". The man who is the admirer of this religious leader is the fool who is being played. These religious leaders would often sponsor the marriage while continuing with his banging escapades.

#InsideLife

Skepticus:
Jerking off to porn is not SIMPING because it reduces the need to put women on a pedestal while fulfilling the biological "necessity" of sex. Generally, it's frowned upon by men because of the bad side of its addictive nature. When done in moderation (moderation is subjective), it reduces the INCEL problem. In fact, the "POST-NUT CLARITY (Men returning to their "senses" after ejaculation) side of masturbation makes you realize that the "pedestalization" of women in porn and outside of it, is the nonsense made up in your head that has nothing to do with reality.

Like most guys, I'm no fan of it, but its "tangible" benefits for men is not one to be overlooked.

Skepticus:
I've seen the back and forth about the issue of masturbation here and you'll find same on every fora of red pill discussions. I ignore because i think everyone is entitled to their positions on it.

Among the popular proponents of TRP/MGTOW, there is no general consensus on being pro- or anti- masturbation.

The cons of masturbation are very valid from a health and psychological perspective. For some, the cons reach into the metaphysical (spiritual realm). However, the pros of masturbation bring a conflict, when you consider its benefits to men trying to avoid the distractions and pitfalls that comes with dating women or nutting off with prostitutes.

Personally, I'm against masturbation because of its health effect and prone to being addictive. I'm okay with masturbation when its done in "moderation" (whatever moderation means to you). Just like alcohol, it's advisable to stop or reduce it, when the negative effects begin to outweigh its benefits.

emmaodet:
You even gave her attention. She called me out also and called me monkey face but I am used to ladies like her here abusing me for saying the truth so I just skipped.
Come to think of it - if ladies who just came to this earth and for no reason have taste and levels, for no reason are been given gifts, money, helped with car lift and so many more. If they can be discussing among themselves about how Kemi shouldn't date Jide because he is not in her level, she is more educated, earn equally or more, beautiful or dated someone financially better than Jide in the past, So why do they think a man shouldn't have taste too?
Why do they think a man who has worked up the ladder without help and against all odds shouldn't have taste or class or levels or requirements?
If a lady without anything can have it how much more someone who has paid the price to have what women have for free?
So they expect him to be cheap? Without taste and just pick a random girl on the street?
Most Nigerian ladies who travelled abroad will never look back at their boyfriend in Nigeria and they justify it by claiming she has stepped up but wants a guy who travelled out to be grateful of coming to pick a local girl back home?