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Though this man is dead now, events that popped up after his death suggests he might not be aware of certain things like this court case. A political jobber who felt he or she could be governor needed to get the then deputy governor out of the way. But plans failed

donbrowser:
Kuwait, Dubai, and Qatar are just for tourism. Nothing more

I completely disagree with you especially with Qatar. Its more than tourism. I have 3 friends there working there and when I was there last year, I saw for myself how comfortable they are living. There is a lot more than tourism. There are lots of opportunities there. You can go there, make your money and move to another country as they don't give citizenship (if you need another passport) but you will enjoy basic stuffs like free health care for kids

Amotolongbo:
November 18 is Obo day (ojo obo) in Atlanta.
Hope that doesn’t sound like “isokuso” in Yoruba language?

Lol. It's isokuso to an extent. Onisokuso

Sirheny007:
Look, Tinubu can make a Guinness World record.
If he can do 5 push-ups...

I don't think there's a president that has attempted that.

Where do you put Putin?

OmugwoAunty:
The relationship was already destroyed before the screenshot. They had already blocked each other because my mom had already accused her directly of coming to snatch my husband.

Still at that, it wasn't in your place to come into it. I feel you should have left it at that. Let it be between them without you sending the screenshot. Your siblings feel you took your aunts side above them by sending the screenshot which is your undoing. Like I said earlier, get an elderly person your mum respects. Godspeed

OmugwoAunty:
Nairaland, please what should I do?

I gave birth 9 months ago and for some reason, my mom never expressed interest in visiting me and my child. She is a new wife now and I heard from some family members that when she wanted to come, her new husband said ‘your daughter has other people around, why are you worrying yourself’.

I did not take it personally at all. My mother has never been a dependable person. Me and my mom still talk everyday and my child is always on her status. This is her ONLY grandchild.

My mom’s elder sister’s (my aunty) youngest child is moving to my area. My aunty said that she’ll visit me during the move, and come and hold baby. She reached out to my mom and even told my mom that if they plan it, they can visit me together. My mom and my aunty are VERY close. I even consider my aunty my second mom in a way.

Suddenly, my mom starts calling me, saying she wants to plan her visit. I say okay. But with work and everything, my aunty will get here before her. She started telling me not to let my aunty into my house, saying that my aunty is a husband snatcher etc. she said my aunty will destroy my home. I tell her I don’t care about that. She started calling their mutual friends and telling them to tell me that my aunty is a husband snatcher. I did not fall for that.

Frustrated, she called my aunty and said that the truth is that my husband is uncomfortable. She said that MY husband is not from our town and that my husband’s people don’t like visitors. She said that I did not tell her about this out of respect.

My aunty called me and was apologizing, saying that she did not know. I responded and said that this is a lie. I even put my husband on the phone. Here’s my mistake - I sent her a screenshot showing my mom saying that she’s a husband snatcher and that’s why I should not let her into my home.

My aunty and I now agreed that we should let peace reign and that she won’t visit. She said she will still like to see me and we can meet somewhere. MATTER SUPPOSE TO END.

My mom decided to bring my aunty husband into this. She told my auntys husband that his wife is not respecting my husband’s wishes. My auntys husband now sent her my screenshot saying that he knows the real reason and that your child doesn’t even support you.

The screenshot has shattered my mom. She feels betrayed. My siblings who live with my mother are calling me a betrayer. I want to salvage the relationship between my siblings and I, not so much my mother. I have not spoken to any of them since the screenshot.

What do I do? How do I approach this.

Sincerely, you made a big error by sending the screenshot. I don't blame your siblings for calling you a betrayer. You shouldn't have sent the screenshot to your aunty. Now you have destroyed your mum's relationship with your aunt and also your relationship with your mum and siblings.
My advice for you is to go meet someone you know your mum respects a lot and use him or her to beg your mum. Also, find means to get your mum and aunty back, though that will be hard. God help you through

I completely agree with you, most especially on borrowing money from in laws. I will forever regret that action till I die because I know the insults that came out of it when I had issues with their daughter. I didn't want to but my ex-wife pushed me to and I wished I never did. So [/b] DEAR MEN, NEVER BORROW OR EVEN COLLECT MONEY FROM YOUR WIFE'S PEOPLE. IT NEVER ENDS WELL[b]

FreeStuffsNG:
The narrator's Yoruba is so horrible that I almost puked. This is mediocrity at its peak and it is very disrespectful to release this kind of content when you can get a Yoruba speaker to do the narration for you.

Every Yoruba word pronunced in the video is really awful. Really really awful and disgraceful mis-pronunciation for such a sacred Yoruba event .

The Yoruba content creators must step up for this kind of reporting and save us native speakers from this kind of irritating embarrassment to our ears.Check my signature for free stuffs!

I equally stopped listening at a point. It was so uninteresting to listen to

Rayd502:
I remember when I once travelled from Abuja to Uyo for 10k in 2015.Now paying for flights in 2023 is someone's house rent for a year.

Even that 10k looked much then. Gone are those days gaskia

In 2013, Lagos to Abuja

Kingsmeal:
Like you don't know how past governors behave.

Governor Oyetola even left with curtains in Osun govt house.

Most times, the governors don't go away with such things like curtains, pots and co. Its usually done by the workers who know that the incoming administration will not want to use such again but rather bring new ones. Do you think a governor will carry mattress or pillow? Or an incoming governor will want to sleep on the same bed as his predecessor. The normal thing is for those items to be auctioned but workers as per sharp ones will clear everything but the public will think its the governor. On a normal day, he won't even have time to pack. He will be more interested in pension and co

So that she won't later on say I was there for you when you were broke when things go south. The whole world will know that and for the sake of not having our ego bruised, we dont like to ask. We may ask a female friend rather than our partner

You are very correct. My ex wife blocked me from seeing my son. I remember going to her mum's house to see him, i was prevented from seeing him. I stood under rain for over 1 hour. Or she would not him to school when I inform her I was going to see him. I had to use elders to appeal to her not to use our son to fight me. I recall her telling me she would use everything in her power to see I pay heavy child support every month. I pay his school fees and send money every month which is never enough. Its even funny when she says I need to pay for his accommodation. So dont blame men who leave out of frustration. I just decided not to allow her and just play along with her. Las las, myself and my son will align in future no matter how much she must have painted me black. I will advice children from broken homes to always seek their fathers and hear from them too. Not everything the mothers say are correct.

agabaI23:
No, it is because most times, the women don't want them to be part of the children's lives but they will want them to be financilly involved fully. I doubt there is a father that will abandon his children because he is divorced.

For the interest of love, stability and peace, SPOUSE

For the interest of clarity and purpose EX

For the interest of family unionism, INLAWS

For the interest of substitution BESTIE

🙈🤣😊

taylor89:
Useless meeting that will end up fruitless and harden the hardship of ordinary citizens

Seems we’ve entered into another photogenic government

Useless old men on diapers

Remember you will grow old someday and also remember you have a father if alive will also grow old too.

As I type this, my salary is finished already

I had something similar. I insisted on meeting the father at all cost. I did meet the father with my parents. In my own case, what I was told was very different from what we found out from the man. Extended members from the father side gave us more gist later on. Guy, look for the father. Even if he is a deadbeat, look for him and tell him you want to marry his daughter. He should be informed no matter what. Never get involved with the step father in this matter. All the best

Thank God for saving his life. But NOBODY CAN ESCAPE OR CHEAT DEATH

Uyo is a beautiful place to live in Nigeria. I always look forward to going there for events but I cant say much about jobs there. Though I know there are jobs but if they are available for non-indigenes, especially civil service jobs. But pray about it, and put your faith in God. Uyo is good, peaceful, quiet, serene to live in

scholarshipbaze:
I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate.

So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room.

She said she can't, please what does this mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad?

If you want to live long, have piece of mind and satisfaction, move on without delay.

treesun:
https://www.thecable.ng/after-saving-governors-from-embarrassment-buhari-gets-betrayal-as-reward/amp

One thing I am 100% certain is that Bashir Ahmad never wrote this piece like this. He cant express himself as smoothly as this. Someone must have written this for him

THIS IS RCCG Trinity Towers, Lagos, Nigeria,
a building of 14 floors. It features an auditorium seating 4500 which can also be hired as a concert hall. It has a multi-storey CarPark that can take in 673 cars, rooftop terrace, helipad, automated and integrated lighting, sound and video system, electric car chargers and smart access control. Currently the building offers short and long term leases for the commercial spaces including a gymnasium and wellness centre, medical centre, recreation zone, ATM gallery, A-class restaurant and food court, and more.

PrinceOfLagos:
This one don collect brown envelope

Tinubu will be jailed after APC is out of power

Why was he not jailed when PDP was in power?

slimfit1:
We know the US military will never ever join unprofessionals to rade. they would have invaded at night pick the terrorist up then disappear. They know that Bihari's government is a terrorist sympathizer. We know that the US Government can never share security information with Nigerian security agencies.

And you think the US soldiers can enter Nigeria without the knowledge of the Nigeria govt and arrests people? They can't invade just like that. Make we try to rate our country nah

WibusJaga:
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"Rico was drunk" - Hospital
"Rico was not drunk" - Family, Uber Driver
Whose report do we believe now?

Anyway, prevention is always better than cure:
1. If you Drink, Do Not Drive
2. Avoid or Minimise Night Driving
3. Avoid Overspeeding & Cut Down Speed at Night.

Even if he was drunk, does that mean he shouldn't be attended to immediately. Thats gross carelessness and ineptitude from the medicals. Normally, they ought to be sued and have their licenses revoked

How do you mean Daily Trust is a bokoharam newspaper?

TooMuchStuff:
BBC ! How dare you to EXPOSE Buhari boys in action inside Jungles for the whole world to see and know what is going on in Nigeria??

Even you Daily Trust too wey be Bokoharam people newspaper too?.... Habaaaa!!!!

avsadeeq0:
What makes you think I'm not from kano ?

Alright then, you will know better than me

avsadeeq0:
He should choose Lagos , north is not safe

Who told you North is not safe? I'm Yoruba and I know well that Kano is safe to a very large extent. Its not as bad as it is pointed in the media.

ArchiLimited:
Sincerely whenever I check into a new hotel room these days, I first switch off the lights and scan the room with my phone camera. So many sick people out there today.

How does this work pls?

Bashir that I know can never write this letter. His lawyers or someone else must have written this. To smooth, flawless and direct for him to compose and pen them down.

I suspect one of them is a Senator Bala Mohamed

All of a sudden, Putin is a dictator. Before he was called Russian President