₦airaland Forum

@pOSTER

Since u have refused to answer my question about the kind of REL u had with her.

Well, your sins of the past has caught up with u. You may have thought u had a hit & run, or u had a taste of some naive girl & crept away. Cos i believe if u were in love with her then or she had been someone meaningful in your life, You would have included that in your Initial post.

Karma has a way of catching up, Now its your bro in love with the same girl (u probably have abused). Get off their case & seal your lips like she said.


Hmmn I love that bad girl, lol , lol.


Forget the story of telling your bro anything. Cos if u do, i'm sure she can't be that dumb not to be able to produce a simple answer as "I was naive, i thot he loved me, i wanted to tell u but couldn't find how" & your brother is so in love he'll believe, move on & maybe hate u. So why don't u seal your lips from now & wait for your own dream girl. LMPAO!

My brother, e don tey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dewaledeyi:
jkpretty, what do you mean?

what do u mean by, what do i mean?

@ Poster really did u guys have a relationship or u just had sex
Was there something that spurred an emotion in her that led to sex, or u just had sex, it could also be that u forced her u know or played on her intelligence, cos as far as we know, she was younger then, than now. Tell us the kind of affair u guys had.

Lol, i'm throwing a bomb

Tell me. who has never stolen a meat from the cooking pot

rufaai:
Wanna know my age? well, I am 18! that was just the last November I got to that.

U still have a lot to learn

Ay, u are the only one i can apologise to, u sincerely showed me the heart of a man in love. Thanx for the endless calls, money, gifts. I guess i got the most expensive gift so far from u. Well, such is life. But u knew the truth, i was in love with someone else & u knew it. U wanted to forcefully take me from him but u 4got the heart is not easily given. I'm so sorry for all i did, so very sorry , & i believe i've been beaten in my own way. But why should u have asked the question "If any guy came the way i came or even bigger would u have turned in?" that statement annoid me & i thot that in future u might eventually say it to my face that i went after ur money & luxuries u splashed. Nah! there were too many pressures from people to be with u, i was feeling stupid becos that's how friends made me feel when i said i don't see the connection. Yes i knew u had a good intention but i couldn't give my heart. U wanted to use all u had to have me. U asked me to ask u whatever i wanted, i think that was the height. But i kept mute. U just continued giving. Thank God i also did something remarkable in ur life (i hope u remember?)

I threw away the promise ring u gave to me some time ago. I kept it for two years, but i couldn't keep it no more. U told me many times u loved me. But i couldn't say it back, u repeated it so that at least i would say something, but i just lookd at u & smiled but could not be returned. I went back to my then boo. (Sure u hated his name).

I didn't love u. But at least i gave it a try. Once again i'm sorry, so sorry & i pray God gives u someone that will love u & treat u good.

A man that would treat me the way i deserve to be treated

aisha2:
Nikke ould love to help but am finding it challenging to understand your posts

same here

TKb

U just broke my heart

@ibkaye
No amount of scrubbing, or cleaning will erase the memories of the tongue, lips & touch.

I'll rather not venture, cos it could change many things.

@ Poster
Now what makes u think the guys r in the best position to tell u how to break up. And also what makes u think there's a simple way of breaking up without anyone being hurt. There is no break up dat doesn't bring hurt, that's if u were truly loved.

U have two options, Come out & tell her the truth & reasons u can't be together instead of claiming busy or accruing it to net work problems. This is the best option.

or u be a coward & create stories like:

I got born again!

I have HIV

I had a dream dat u're not my wife

My pastor says we can't be together

u ahould have checkd the "ridiculous break up reasons" thread for ur answers, instead of putting up this thread. duh!

Green light at first sight ---------

A Spark at first sight-----------

Attraction at first sight-----------

Lust at first sight-------------

But love at first sight

Abeg this topic is no issue

In my friends' car sef i sit in front talk more of my boo's car. Some guys need not be told they would open the back seat fast fast for themselves. Its only guys that are egocentric in nature/feeling like best friend, that lunch for the front seat.

if the two of them picked me up from somewhere & were already seated. Of course i have to sit at the back, but if we are all going out & three of us approach the car at the same time. I won't look at anybody's face, i'm heading for the front

A man's bond with his mother knows no bounds. You were making mockery of his mother's illness & to add to it she dies. I don't know any advice to give u. If u were still dating him, I'm sure that would have been the end of it. My advice-- if truly like u said, that your "laugh" was not to mock her, which he hardly believes. Map out your own strategy in Begging him. If its cry u can cry, if its petting him, show your remorsefulness in the best way u can. But know this u can definately not fake remorsefulness, except u truly mean it. your hubby knows u enough, we nairalanders don't, if he can deduce its a mockery laugh, how much more we. You need to check on yourself. But i doubt if that memory will ever elude him.
If it were your own mother would u have laughed, how would u feel about anybody laughing that your mother's head turned 360degrees

Sure, why not, i'll holla u. Hope u had a wonderful new year & xmas break?

Fight or no fight when u are done fighting with ur self, I'll ask for my gift. So face it now, buy something cheap but meaningful.

Sup Olanajim, yimiton & Almondjoy happy new year!!!

I think u are guiding ur heart jealously. But i think that happens to people hurt b4. Or u are scared of Commitment. How old r u Poster? Or maybe u are out for sex & sex don't bring love.

@yimiton
wasup girl

ifyalways:
its not a new thing,its not out of place,it doesnt be-little the guy,it doesnt make him a maga/mugu.
what really matters is that the apology is coming from the heart.the guy is really sorry and repentant and not just kneeling just to flatter the girls ego . _{but i can't wait for a guy i trully love to kneel before i forgive him sha,there are other ways to apologize too.}

down with dat!

9star:
Dat another igbo chic talking,

sorry i'm not igbo or igbotic in any way, my linage has no connection with the east either. I'm not hungry neither i'm i one that dates to acquire. I have only just taken a look from another perspective. Why have u made this your business anyway. This is a new year. I move in peace.

@Poster I have questions to ask u, if you're willing to answer

I don't see anything wrong in what the poster has said. She doesn't get an x mas gift & not given transport to Igbo land. I'm not sure u guys know how much it cost peeps from that side of Nigeria to get there this xmas season.

Point: For her to have brought the topic down here. Its must have choked her hard, the guy must be basically stingy.

Its not secret, its everyone

Where u meet isn't the problem, who u meet should be the issue.

If i fall for his personality on net, & fall for his personality again off net. Dunno what the problem is

There has to be a reason for malice. I find it hard to keep one, even if i do i find it hard to keep, i always want to run back. I can only keep one when i'm determined to move on.

He means "fire in between"

Be his friend & be fired with erotic bullets.

Depends on where u are from, ur race/culture/beliefs. I won't go with dat, its wrong by my standards.

to brush the teeth


Did u brush today?

tkb417:
this coming from you. . .
i wont be your friend again

i didn't see this in time, seriously toks. U guys are real pants. I'm just waiting to have a huge nerve. Lol. I want to be bad.

A cheating guy may change, a cheating guy, may never change.

U have two options,1. stay & hope he'll change/ live with it. 2. pack ur bags. Its pretty difficult to do the 2nd tho, but might be the best option.

Their r stories tho, but i'll tell u the good one. I have a friend that hoped her guy would change from his cheating attitude, then at school i told her she was too young to go thru such, we told her several times to leave him but she stayed put, saying she can't give it up. But good for her when the tables turned, she was just too sure of him. But believe me she worked hard & the guy is good. His the one doing the chasing now, they r tying the knots this year.

Lol infact LMPAO

@Topic Women forgive easily, becos they are hoping to get back at u, with the worst u can ever imagine! Have u by any chance seen the movie "The Best Man" If u haven't, well, get the details.

When ladies do theirs back, they hit it on the head, real hard. When u think they r stupid or dumb, u've got to look for other words worse than that 4 urselves.

I was going to make a thread "i want to be bad, i'm tired of being good" i guess i'll let that rest. I'll find my solution.

Have u done some telling that has put on in deep trouble? I have, & i've learnt so i do no telling, watch with ur own eyes & listen with ur ears. Opari!