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iice:
I guess it is good to be one so long as you know where to draw the line. Turning into some possessive psycho is overboard oooo.

Cool when its still mere jealousy, annoying & pissing when it becomes possessiveness.

I ask the same question, whatever happened to your boyfriend, u've not written anything to indicate that he is doing anything wrong, only that he calls lesser than the new guy. I want to believe your guy is good to u because u've not identified any wrong thing about him.

You are a grown girl, & should be experienced to know that guys can go through extra mile just to get into your thighs. You say this new guy calls like 10times in a day, i'm actually surprised this is catching your attention, because i see it as a usual thing. That is a welcome package from guys, they could call as much as u want, get u the gifts & the best of them. Once they know u are already trapped in their closet, no matter what, this showers of blessings reduce---This is assuming he is even serious with u & not out to lay u. In the long run this guy might not be anything compared to your own boyfriend. Girl wise up. Its only few relationships that the guy still goes on with the showers of endless calls & gifts most times it reduces. He might even be worse than your guy. That is usually what happens.

You might think that your Guy doesn't care that much, some ladies don't even get a call from their guys in a whole day, Its just a good understanding that matters. Don't damage the trust your guy has for u. Cos with all this your skims someone is watching.

A guy that cheats on his girlfriend for no significant reason, will do the same to u.

I use them both.

Keep up ur part of the game & don't go digging the moment u go digging, u may find something dat may be detrimental to ur relationship, which might even be nothing to her.

Nautillus:
Have you gals/Ladies ever considered that guys are not just "Into jewelry"

Nah! i don't buy that, "wedding ring is no jewelry"

tumzy:
we forgot them in the bathroom

That's an unadulterated lie & highly used

i don't know why

I'm speaking for the guys

Becos, the ring is too tight.

Becos, the ring is not gold & has washed.

Becos the ring got lost, & no need of replacement.

Becos they don't love their wife any more.

Becos they just got a hot chic that must not know they are married so they remove it.


@ poster i don't think their can be anymore reason other than this.

Best advice Pray

If u can't pray, leave the place.

I want her jacket, dat's all i see

Hey Guy be careful here, cos ur friend might not have the same feelings like u claim to have. Maybe she did b4 but for her to have a boyfriend & let u know, then i think she knows what she is doing. Long term friendships like this often results into destruction when talks of relationship comes up. u should never have waited that long b4 letting ur feelings known. If u tell her, & she does not feel the same way, she might not know how she would handle further conversations with u, which leads to breaking her trust & ending ur friendship.

Be sure of what u want, u should never have waited that long.

There is no sweet words for this Ur Guy is cheating on u

He would lie though, but watch him closely.

whitelexi:
Point is, u don't always know what u currently have until u lose it. Sometimes, some tolerance or understanding is all u need to continue to go strong, consider that.

I'm sure we all know that, we are talking about things dat extraordinarily switch us off u guys.

U are not expecting too much. Ur boyfriend is a ninny.

Funny thing, one tend to like people like that so much. I'm sure u love this guy & i'm sure that if he changes those stingy habits of his, he'll be that perfect gentle man u want.

I think u should do the part of taking him out. Take him to like three nice places, if he loves u enough he'll shamefully reciprocate what u did. List down the things u don't like in his attitude & discuss it with him.

I get pissed off with guys like these, 'cos most times they spend their life investment on people that are not worth it

Bolarge:
Supplementary list dey now.

Anyway just tell Joey82 to watch his back. . .24/7

aint no supplementary list, He is on merit

Have u heard of only man standing?

Bolarge:
Met the first nairalander yesterday on a date. . .
None other than the delectable jkpretty.
She's much prettier than the name could possibly connote, and jeez! she is what I'd succinctly descibe as an ideal conversationist.
God knows 4 me,nairaland just got interesting!!!

Hey, twas really nice meeting u, one of some people i wondered their real person when reading their replies. Really a gentleman. Loved the conversation too.

Joey82:
its a network jam, please check your dial guy.

Em erm em Network's accessible to joey82 only. All applicants may resign.

cybersleek:
I believe most naija babes have marriage hot wired into their systems from birth, because before you start dating, they are already thinking of how many kids you are going to have together!

In answer to dat, no right thinking girl would enter into a relationship, Only for the word "dating". I for one, if i don't see the guy i intend dating like someone i can marry, then i'll rather not think of Dating the person.

There is no how u would date someone & would not have pictured a life with the person. even if its for a second. That is only natural with girls & i assume its with everybody. The rate at the thought could differ though, from human to human. U watch movies & u put ur girl or guy in certain positions and u try to see if they would fit. That is only natural. It can only be useless if the thought is about someone u don't have.

@Topic
Its every woman's dream

[quote author=Idera .N link=topic=31588.msg1730279#msg1730279 date=1196335162]there's a movie called "Never been kissed". has any one seen it?[/quote]yeah i've seen it. i loved the movie for a whole semester, Until i saw "save the last dance". and then others favorites followed.

My Kid what?

World war three. She can't kill my mother for me.

But really poster i can't come to the terms that she knows that "act".

Dear its not a crime? But if it's excessive, it could choke the guy.

If u really want to know what a guy feels for u, stay away as long as u can. He's reaction from this lets u know the manner at which he places u.

NextProdigy:
Most definitely. I'd sure be happy to see her at mine!

That way? very very cool

@topic unfortunately i'm very cool wit my 'ex, i guess he'll be the one to frown at ur topic.

olanajim:
Jkpretty,
there are still othere areas to explored. African pretends alot. They have these problems and pretend as if it never exist. The only thing they do is wish it away. "let this cup pass over me" is their characteristic slogan. Then when the cup drop on them, all you hear is "why me of all men!"

I guess this topic was well handled, as per this topic i don't know of any unexplored areas yet.

Yes o, "let this cup pass over me" Lol

but in all, i'm picking on these three:

Prayer at all times which is the key to most situation.

Investments tied to the names of my kids. for their future purpose.

The hope to move on, if the above topic happens & not wallow in the pains through out life.

Gebarday:
Thank u guys, she called me this evening to apologise but guess what i told her its over no long thing again, full stop na the end. i can't forget this in a hurry, i pray nothing do me oooooooooo

@ poster, she's apologizing & u are saying its the end abi. She's coming up wit another Jazz.

She sent 17 text messages, ha u'll be sending 50!

No fear, where u found her has spoken

klassyguy:
Not giving her enough attention, forgetting her birthday, forgetting important days to her, ignoring her when she complains, not smothering her with love and affection, the list goes on.

what can be so frustrating than these! U got it guy

@ Topic
Not remembering all those things she cares so much about can kill a girl. We are moved by what we hear so its so frustrating when a guy can't remember some things he said or somethings u both talked about. Which is stuck up in ur head. And u are probably fantasizing over. Kai!

@ Olanajim

Thanx 4 d prayer, & the topic, it is really an eye opener.

Not like we dint have the eye that saw those areas, but i guess the eye got expanded with the topic, moreso looking into diverse areas.

Almondjoy u rock!

Pathetic

almondjoy:
Hey! What can I say--you have to be versatile. My life would be very boring if I maintained a "flat affect" all the time. I prefer to "plateau" once in a while for a much more interesting life.

Thanks for the compliment! Happy Holidays to You and Yours!

Welcome. happy holidays too.

Olanajim, for posting this topic pray for all those that replied. We aint going to mourn over our spouses o.
Dablessed God is going to bless u with a sweet husband u truly deserve.

Bolarge:
I get vibes you actually here within my kingdom in Ib. You come put Lagos for profile.

Olodo, I'm based in lag, i was transfered to Ib, where are u getting ur info from. Lag/Ib or pit hole, don't care so far u make it a home.

Bolarge:
LMAO I'm here with the iro for the strapping oh! Won't miss this for the world.

Damn! I guess my joke was uncalled for, take back ur Iro, use it for ur first baby.

got ur IM.

grow fast:
l new you were going to come here to vomit Nonsense, you better watch your mouth before something funning clap in, l have a better work to do, hissssssssssssssssssss

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