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I say say it only when i feel it in me. I don't abuse it. i believe its illiterates & those that don't understand the depth of the word that misuse it.

I'm i the only one that has heard this? They say a guy known whom he'll marry, of course if a girl is not yielding it won't happen. But a guy knows where he's taking a relationship to. howbeit- marriage. A woman makes a home

I'm prolly going to be in the office almost thru out. After then i'll call my family, cos i'm presently far from them. Hanging out that day is still a probability.

You can't just easily forget people like that, since your mind is there it'll keep going back there. I think u shld get to know him. while getting to know him, be careful not to show any interest, just look forward to picking out the baddies u don't like about him, then its done. Just like fallen out of love is easier when you're with that person than when its already over.

But hey, be careful lest u keep seeing the goodies in him

R u sure she's ur girlfriend, or a girl that u really like & u freely assist with ur money. I don't get this, do we still have people like this? One of her boyfriends, did that to her? & u don't raise an eyebrow to that. Is this another Will Smith & Jada Pinketh with an Open relationship? I bow

tngtech:
what is the most embarrassed day of lives.?

Embarrased day Imfact right now i'm embarrasment

Guys i need answers to this, please, i want to really know if a guy is the determinant of a relationship

Nah! they had crushes on me from Primary thru University.

@pearldrops
Did u actually move on, i just wanna know

[quote author=onyeka_ng link=topic=107780.msg1883267#msg1883267 date=1201179092]with the zillions of gals out there, u want 2 risk loosing your job 4 a chic that you dnt love. honestly, sometimes i wonda if some guys think through their D**KS.[/quote]Sorry he's not thinking through his dick, joey is not a guy like dat. U can have feelings for anybody, anywhere & at anytime. Its the way u handle ur feelings & issues that matters. Don't play saint here.

Joey, somethings aren't just worth risking, does she strike like she's the one?, does she feel the same way, i mean is the chemistry really there? I'lld advise u stay & watch for a while, to see if the feelings gets stronger or weaker. Still give it time

By the way lets talk on YIM

But really if she persists with this goodly attitude. I don't know, but people like this can do very terrible things.

I once heard a girl i admired as good, gentle & many of the niceties, that made me even composed when beside her, say "If i get a good knife, i'll kill my uncle" When asked the reason, she said "'cos he has three wives". Till date i don't know how dat's related.

If this goodly attitude persists, Pls run. Yes of course we have good people but they get annoid abeg.

Lol, this is too funny. What a place make ur freaky fingers wonder to. But sha lets know the size

Yeah almond, it depends on the gravity of my love for him, Guys can never be the same, Just wonder why a guy would commit dat kind of offence & i'll walk him out of my life & some other will be forgiven. Hmmn who said life was fair?

And to u dudes saying Its a man's world, U won't take it if done to u. Well, i know of some guys like u, who knew what their chics did, she pleaded & got back together. so what does that mean? Isn't it that their world would crash without that particular girl?

Point: It depends on how in love the partner is. Kapish!

Oh this is funny, cos this is not supposed to bug u. Its only the elements of the first trimester in a relationship. Time will tell.

In my ex-relationship, we were like that for a whole year plus. We even talked about it. He was one day like "Jk have u wondered why we haven't had a single row?" I was just happy about it, but he just told me it's inevitable. When we started quarreling, it came in full force. It became hot, although more interesting!! We had stuffs to worry about & then one person starts caring more than the other.

I only see this as a good start, Just forget her birthday & see if she'll take it likely. Hmmmn, but if she doesn't complain again? Ha! i'll run

It is believed the success of a relationship/courtship lies in the hands of the guy, once married the success of the marriage lies in the hands of a woman. How true is this assertion? Guys/Ladies in the house

@Poster u don't have to like taking pic. Save some copies to show ur kids so they don't think u just appeared as a man.

It makes u able to think, & make right decisions when u are ready to hook up again.

Sometimes u enjoy being single such that u don't want people to know u've broken up. So they don't give u advise u don't need, to make u hook up again

zheroes:
if you were full of gifts like you claim, you wont beg for a val, and as far as nairaland( all the chicks for you street don finish) its obvious you are dry!!!!!!!!!!!! i mean no harm pal.

perfect answer

@ Seun iyanda
Duh!

I enjoy the freedom, its like u've been choked for ages & just allowed to breath. The feeling like nothing matters to u except making urself happy. It can be so cool. i love the air.

Live with it or opt out, some people r just pathetic. They see those things as being weak. Its so hard for them to say sorry, i love u or show any emotions. Highest u see is their smile. My very good friend told me her sister was crying with tears of joy some days to her wedding when her hubby to be finally told her He loved her. She said that her sis thot it was never going to come. i mean those words "I love u". It was really stupid to me, infact nauseating.

@TKB Motara in Abiku Abiku
Auntie Caro wasn't the pastor's script/movie name o, Its her real name. I just happen to know her.

Woah! there's fire on the mountain

get ready to play hide & seek

@ yimi
i dint bring a new dimension, i'm only thinking loud that the Abikus/Ogbanje would have developed new strategies to things. That was just a chip. i wasn't diverting. But yes o they choose a day to die. They know when they are coming & they choose a day to leave. They could now be forced to stay if the parents are able to chain them down by prayers & deliverance. But just like in those days not many people were familiar with the word of God, they used what they knew which is their charms. And as such when the awareness of Christ came, people used this as a weapon against them. So i suggested they too (Abiku/ogbanje) would have devised another strategies. Which is stronger than the local charms. (Only thinking loud).

I'm suprised u r still asking the question whether they choose a day to leave for the world I thot i explained that ealier [b]"ageless though i puke"[/b]

Just as we have medical explanation to things, there is also spiritual explanation which may not be known to us. Don't get me wrong like i'm in support of a negative thing. I'm just trying to prove the fact that Abiku/Ogbanje ideology is no myth.

I'm tired sef

@TKB
Lol, na u sabi, i enjoy working with my excel spreadsheet any day anytime, without the unreliable calculator. Hope u r good?

yimiton:
lol, now that was a very funny one.

@ tkb417, I agree with you that maths is a great course. I just don't understand it. Try as hard as I did, just couldn't grasp why -2x2 should be -4, or -2/2 should be -1. I hated all those theorems and thought they were madness, but I respected and held in high esteem *I still do* people that understood it like it was so easy.

Oh my God, this is so funny, are we going mathematical now, I hated math like i hate my shit, ok i think i prefer my shit sef. That thing, dang! i just had to pass it to enter the University. Those things were jargons. I prefer to read the whole encyclopaedia than solve one math. I think the ones i prefered were the maths that led to graphs & construction. But b4 we get there nko. Na wa!

As per the Ogbanje/Abiku thingy i still maintain that they are not in any way related to SS. I only feel that the reason why they are not so rampant like b4 is because just like the world is getting civilized they have also gotten sophisticated. They wait till older ages before they die now. Have u wondered why people have accidents, all survived except one that didn't even have a scratch. Or why a woman died after giving birth to a child, or died on the wedding day, just slumped on xmas or birthday? whatever! My question now is: Is it only women that are Abiku/Ogbanje? Becos this happenings always revolve round women.

Another thing i found out is that not all Abiku has the aim of inflicting pain on the parents. Some purposely come to the world to help their parents to become rich & releave them from their suffering. my 2 cents

ufobabe:
@ poster

yes!

but 2 the deserving and appreciating type.

how can someone ask 4 money?

personally, i don't know how 2 ask my guy 4 money.

is anything wrong with me?

NO INSULTS PLZ.

Nothing is wrong with u. Its normal, i had that problem too. Still do anyways. Its because u love him, u find it difficult to ask. your lips simply seal up. But note that not every guy deserves that, they could take u for a ride. If He truly loves u tho, u need not ask, they know. & they provide

by the way, why r u not on your IM?

@Sauce Kid i told ur GF before u, that u are rich, they r coming after u, in full force