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I think it can work, it just needs planning. We can't all come together to plan so i suggest we can pick a major spot popular at any beach chosen. & meet there.

Can this be possible?

I'm hoping for x-mas at its best, & so do think this is a lovely idea.

Nairalanders what's your take, 28/29 Dec!

Pick a beach in Lagos.

Can this be possible?

I'm hoping for x-mas at its best, & so do think this is a lovely idea.

Nairalanders what's ur take, 28/29 Dec!

Pick a beach in Lagos.

@Poster its working out for my best friend, she's marrying her american guy of four years or more, next year. Although i was glad when i knew he was black, at least! lol

Letter
Yeah ok, application letter. Yes months ago

But an informal letter? i can't count the years o

All i know is dat there is a thin line between love & hate.

Find the puzzle its usually lots easier than u think.

@Poster u must be really serious about this joke!

Is this another "How Stella got her groove back"?

Ok, that was 40-20.

hope for the best. But know that one of u will be hurting the other badly.

Do it if only u have the nerve & the strength to handle the consequences. Most times they don't work out well.

I'll say "NO". Although i believe u can find love almost anywhere. If u can't help it, I'll rather clandestine in the office & u see each other outside.

@echidime
start ur thread or go to religion post ur topic

@Topic
Don't know how, but i'm preparing to have a lovely x-mas at its best!

hip hip hip, hurray

I'm waiting for lots & lots of rice

funkydot:
@jkpretty

Don't take it personal, sis. There's no art yet to know the heart of a man. I don't believe there's any real fool-proof signs, tho! God help us!

I agree with u on dat one too. Sorry i was hard on u.

Some people sincerely like us also, but cannot show it becos of some barrier & we don't know they do. I think its more of a mind thing, we can't see what is in their heart so we can't sincerely tell. God help us.

But We just have to believe in some signs we see that we consider fit for us.

yimiton:
My Dear Madam, this boy is definitely not serious, things like that don't happen in Nigeria for love. It could happen for material reasons or for visa, but not Just for the sake of love.

Dear madam, note this point i just quoted & be wise. U don't need a soothsayer to tell u dat, this ur gentle man is out for u cos of what he thinks he might get.

funkydot:
@ jkpretty
He's just all over u.

your pix is all over his phone, his laptop, e.t.c

He wants to show u off, to everyone that cares

Bull, guys will do all that just for a lay!

Showing u off to everyone dat cares, Includes taking u to meet his parents. Does that sound better

If u may know, even taking u to meet his parents might even be nothing to some irresponsible guys. Agreed a guy could to through any length to lay a girl. But i'm not that irresponsible to be found with such an irresponsible guy.

As a matter of fact lets see ur own reply.

He's just all over u.

Ur pix is all over his phone, his laptop, e.t.c

He wants to show u off, to everyone that cares

Religion can break the deepest love felt by two people. & at the same time It might not just mean a thing to the two people involved. What matters is the attention both parties pay to their "religion" in quote.

It only depends on what matters to u the most, "ur religion" or "the love of ur life".

So what happens after one week?

But oops! i have more than two on my list

Yimiton Lol Hahaaaaaaahaa

Please let me have it when u've got it. He has this reverend attitude all over nairaland, I wonder why people don't see the ego & the flawless character he tries to portray & people usually stay aloof here in romance section with best regards to him. Yimiton go to politics & see how he is usually battered with words. No wonder his haters came up with various names to get at him. The likes of "FakeDavid", "Davidylan@yahoo.com" e.t.c Lol, Lol.

@poster
sorry i think we are done with fixing u as per topic, we are now fixing "Holydavid"

Yimiton u are feeling me girl You rock!

He puts on this holier than thou attitude. Oh! u said he had sex in his early teens . Haba! I thought his mama thought him better than that. Duh!

davidylan:
did someone say only men cheat?
Candies is an example of the type of woman that you don't want to marry if you want to build your marriage on trust.

You sound too overconfident in your reply, like u cannot ever have any flaws. Any body can be in this situation, its just the way u are sensible enough to maneuver your way that matters.

The lady u are dating or married to may be the last person u'll love but certainlynot the last person u'll like so much.

Don't be too sure of yourself. Judge not!

dhtml:
If you are tired of your b/f and want to ditch him, that is o.k, but if you are looking for a beta b/f, well, ask @jkpretty, i have been following her for sometime she has plenty of good brains and experience [thank God for people like her ]

wow, thanx i do appreciate.

iice:
I agree with Yimiton and jkpretty. . .lol
Depending on the person. . .sometimes it is better to withhold info. . .sometimes not.
Li'l white lies that you know will not escalate to big things. . .

Personally. . .instead of lying, i just tell you, i ain't telling. . .and you can take that to the bank

I actually prefer not to say anything at all than lying. Especially in my relationship o, to ur casual friends cheap or white lies could be used

yimiton:
@ aloib
oluwayimiton sounds cool, but no, it's just yimiton

So what's d full name?


@ Poster i must admit dat shukurat is best for u.

@ Poster
Maybe there wasn't much space after his ex girlfriend died b4 he met u.

I'm sure he thought an affair with u will enable him get over his 'ex which he found out wasn't possible.

But the most important point is that, he doesn't love u. The truth is, he won't totally get over his 'ex until he finds someone he truly loves.

U can't make him love u, but just stay away as much as u can.

i think likes to have a drink sounds good to me than likes to get drunk

The thing is, its not Ok when its on purpose, but very ok when its an accidental discharge or while asleep

I don't agree to lies in relationship, whether black, white or blue lies

Once started, it continues & there is no room of escape

And no matter what, there will always come a time when u will have to tell the whole truth u've always kept. Especially,when it eventually becomes a "solid relationship", u may even not know when the truth pours.

Point: never start with what u may refer to as "cheap lies" so that it doesn't become too "hot to handle".

Sorry guy, she's only there for ur money, she has noticed that u love her silly, so she believes she can always do things & get away with it easily.

She is making use of ur weakness. u need u brace urself up man.

Girls like that keep people like u to bounce back on when their richie-rich dumps them. Be wise