₦airaland Forum

Rollar:
Nevi12 the problem with Africans is our intolerance. We grow up and live under harsh conditions and end up being impatient and aggressive adults. Most of us live stressful lives and we have a way of transferring our aggression to our kids. Take that woman on the bus for instance, the weather was hot, the poor kid was likely tired and the bus was probably stuffy with so many people in it and had poor ventilation. The woman was probably stressed out herself and didn't have the patience to comfort her kid. That's why I always say if people believe beating their children is absolutely necessary, then they shouldn't beat them in the heat of anger or frustration. They should wait until they've calmed down, then let's see how many lashes you'd gladly give your own kid. The truth is that majority of parents beat their kids immediately they err, when the anger is still hot. Parents shouldn't gain pleasure or satisfaction from beating their kids. The idea is to correct them, not make yourself feel better by letting off some steam. I see cases where couples wait for 10-15 years before having a baby, then they end up mutilating the kid in the name of correction. What's with the desperation to have children, only to mutilate them? It just doesn't make sense. Africans are backward in this regard, because most westerners read books on parenting before they have children, so they know what to expect and how to handle their tempers/emotions. But Africans just feel once you're old enough you should have babies and 'figure the rest out' along the way. This is wrong. If you must have children, then you must be prepared psychologically and emotionally. learn to be patient/long suffering. Of course I'm not saying its good to spoil children, its possible to be firm without being savage. If your kid isn't old enough to be reasoned with, then that child should not be held accountable for his actions. If the child is however old enough to know right from wrong and despite how firm the parent is , they still stray, then maybe the parent is not living by example. You can't expect to be a lazy drunkard and have model, industrious children.

Ebayray:
Lol, some know, but think am lying to avoid them from dating me.. Only those who are close to me know
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Ebayray:
Lolz, I'm, I understand now...

I talk childishly, don't mind me jare!

Dorobuccii:
Awww *blushes*....Thanks
And YES, I am a proud Feminist and I feel everyone should be too

Anytime, dearie. And that reminds me, which part of the world are you?
Why do you think everybody should be a feminist

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]ROTFLOL!!!

We didn't keep contacts o! We just talked that day and that was it. Haven't set my eyes on her since then. Shey she's in her finals?

About that law babe matter..e nor suppose hard sha. but terms and conditions go apply sha. [/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Hehehehe...no mind those girls jare. Every guy na potential restaurant for them.

About your girlfriend I saw her too. I remember that day, I was about to buy something at agric when we met. She saw me first though.

Who come be the 400L babe na? [/color]

She said she was the one that walked up to you to say hi. Her balls were growing faster than I envisaged. Hope you two keep contacts?

Dee, I no go tell you the babe name. Figure that out yourself. And, help me find babe for that your faculty na, I wan date law babe. E get why

Ebayray:
Lol, y dat face?

Dyu think am lying

Dorobuccii:
lol...debates about gender and inequality typically tip me off. I have been keeping a low profile jawe. I just come here to read comments and then post whenever I am motivated enough to do so. I have been following ur posts and diary so I know what you have been up to

Back to the topic, racism and gender inequality are actually more similar than you realise. Both of them involve treating a person as inferior due to biological characteristics.

Now the existence of Ministry of Women affairs in Nigeria I believe is just for 'aesthetic' purposes. I still don't understand the function of that Ministry as women stilk go through a lot in the country. On a general note, assigning a separate ministry for women might be very necessary because women are not yet as entitled and opportuned as men in the society. When men and women become entitled to the same political, social and economic rights then we can decide not to assign a separate ministry for women. But until then, it might be necessary.

I missed you very much.

And, I just realized you're a lot more intelligent, smart and informed than I thought. And somehow, you sound like one of them...the feminists, are you?

Come around more often, will you, please

Ebayray:
OK, Alright.

Ebayray:
Yes

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Na them dey give a nigga wahala now o.

Person don finish exam but dem go dey find who go take dem go kada for flexing.

I don manage dodge two. I been no fit dodge one so I reach there today, remain small I for spend my transport to abuja join. [/color]

I had these two girls from my faculty then, anytime I dey enter faculty like this, two of them go rush me and knack me this better hug, that type of hug that makes all the dead cells to come back alive. Next thing one go knack me that "Joe I'm hungry" joke. Sotey I come ask one, "I be like Mr. MacDonald for your eye?" She say no. "I be like your boyfriend?" She say no. "I be like your papa?" She say no. Shuu! What's with the constant hunger each time you see me? I just taya.

I only took one girl out throughout my stay in UNIBEN...my then girlfriend. And that reminds me, she told me she saw you one day, true or false?

And I get one very fine babe like that for that your faculty oh. She's in 400L now and she's a very loyal friend. She stays in Ekosodin. Help me look after her. Hey, I said LOOK, no near her oh

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Lool...yea!
Except for the unclad pics though, I really don't know what he's talking about in that aspect.

The babes dem fine..but you know UNIBEN girls na. [/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Lool...baba all these ones na old news na! [/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]These "Truths" are not enough and they are not really hidden.

You can do better Op. [/color]

Ebayray:
Lolz, wat hapnd na

Ebayray:
Lolz, its funny bt it pained me sha...

Nah, nt 1999 o... Remove 1 from 9.

1998? OkBye!

Dorobuccii:
Weaker doesn't necessarily translate to being inferior. Feminists don't claim that women are physically stronger than men or other very apparent differences. The point is that we don't want our differences to translate to inequality. it's just like the racism debate. Blacks are different from whites but that doesn't make them superior. we are all human beings.

carlinks:
@JoeCutie..very valid points.That is what i stand for as well

castroevans:
Seriously That list isn't complete.

Ebayray:
OMG, Jeezy!!!!!!!! .
From Pol. Science to Phil?! Na wa o...

Just like my friend that applied for Mass comm. And dy gave him Adult education (I cried on his behalf).


Lol, ok, I was born 199H

Adult education? Lmfao! Laff wan tear my yansh oh!

1999 abi? I thought as much

Ebayray:
Lmao @ Lai Mohammed .

True tho bt I like trying things people tell me not to do. .
I also had a flair for Computer Engineering bt Law encompassed it! .
Wow, so u wanted Law too, is that why you switched to Philosophy or uniben gave you .

Lol, am not born 2001 oo. Haba!My dear na Uniben gimme Phil oh. I applied for Pol. Science, dem come carry me all the way from social sciences to Arts. Imagine! No be small travel I do oh.

I wanted to study something that'd give me the chance to argue for people and help them. I had my eyes in Politics, but...not late sha. And I somehow liked Philosophy sha cos it exposed my knowledge to a whole lot of things.

Okay, if you weren't born in 2001, when were you born then?