₦airaland Forum

Bellotelli:
Let me tell you. Abuja girls too like awoof, especially the Benue girls. They are easy prey to ritualists with way they quickly jump into rides of guys they don't know.

Says a man from the most righteous state

bukatyne:
You actually do not owe anyone an explanation.

You are worried that your sister wants to be a feminist at 16 because men are domesticating women as you should be.

You however need to look at it holistically; what is feeding her thoughts? And deal with it.

Thanks .

chiboycue:
I think you should allow your sister follow her dream of becoming a feminist/ an advocate of women's right. She may end up reading law in the university or floating a human right programme on the media. I don't think you have any problem. All you need to do is to support her.

As if you know. She has chosen law as her most preferred course of choice.

Hermanie:
She's a child. Her understanding of feminism is most likely what she sees on Twitter.

It is OP's responsibility to guide her and not even radicalise her further.

Unless you hate women including your mother, sisters and daughters, you should have no problem with women having what men have.

Does being born with a vagina make one less worthy to have good things in life?

op, I am not against the rights of women per se but I am afraid of her being infested with the toxicity of modern feminism most especially the one that is preached in this part of the world. We come from a modest home where gender role is clearly defined and compromises are made where necessary to ensure the smooth running of the home. Her assertion about the domestication of women was the stroke that pricked me.

Gov Alia of Benue State

bentenny:
Hmmm....OP let me inquire something from you!
Does ur parents practice patriarchy or matriarchy system?
If it's matriarchy,then that might be part of d problem....
Has ur sis been boarding right from her secondary school?
If true then,then is it a mixed or only girls school?
If it's an only girls school,then then that could also mould her mentality!

Boarding secondary school in my opinion is no longer like before whether mixed or single!

She is attending an all girls catholic school

GindoX:
Nairaland mods are really working, coming up with stories... .... Op made up those

This isn't made up op

tommy589:
Your parents are good example of how to help balance her opinion . I hope your mother is not domesticated

Our mom is a civil servant.

Tallesty1:
What exactly is the problem here?

Her idea of becoming a Feminist.

I recently went home to check on my parents. It happens that our lastborn who is in a boarding school also was around for a week break they were given at school.

On one of the evenings as I was talking to her and her dreams and aspirations this 16 old girl told me she wanted to become a Feminist. I was shocked but remained calm and gently asked her what she meant by being a Feminist.
She told me that by that she aims to become an advocate of women's right. She started narrating how men are domesticating women and whole lots.
I was marvelled at her passion and zeal and how convincing she was .
Deep down I knew that I have a problem to solve and I needs pragmatic steps in order not to cause more harms.

This girl has written her JAMB with nice scores and will soon be in the varsity.

Please, is there anyone with concrete approach on how I will go about this?

MaziObinnaokija:
KILL em ALL TERRORISTS

You are capping trash. Wait untill Israel start. They were also informed when Hamas attacked?

I pity those that will be shouting justice for Iran

Rumundele:
We need action ooooo, Not beauty photo of mirage flyover.
This Rev.fr has not done any project yet ooo, its almost a year into his tenure. Fingers crossed

he has completed 16 roads within the state capital as we speak and several other projects his poor media team didn't publish. The masses are happy with him

SoNature:
He should set up a state security network like Amotekun and send them back to Niger Rep. This is no rocket science.

By the way, project plans don't move me in Nigeria anymore. I want to see ongoing or completed projects.

His nickname is Talk and Do. He didn't have time for propaganda or lies.

happney65:
Lagos is even understandable. They make so much money and has you make you spend

But you see, Delta and Ogun has no business being in that list at all. Especially Delta with nothing, absolutely nothing to show for it and Dapo's Ogun..

Plauteu, Bauchi,Benue are states that should be in the top 30 and not top 10. There is literally nothing in those places at all yet they are full of debts

Anyways my Oyo is doing well. Not even in Number 10.

Ortom did Benue dirty. Dude was on a borrowing spree with nothing to show forth. Only God will punish him.

kuntash:
No disrespect for anyone from this state ..

This is not a border state , it's landlocked. I wonder how come very weirdly things emanate from there ..

Nothing weird has ever come out from your angelic state. Yes, your state is a paradise that have human angels. Everybody behaves right there. Awon werey. NNdi ara

BOSSkesh:
Death to Zionist nazi
Death to Israel
Death to Netanyahu

Death to you also. Terrorist.

God1000:
How can you ignore decades of systematic abuse, occupation of Palestinian lands and oppression by the Israelis and only be focused on the October 7th incident?

We are all humans guy

So we should forget about the October 7 incident that triggered the present situation? Hamas will pay dearly for their foolishness.

Nahunger:


Benue 🤣🤣🤣
Fish dey talk periwinkle wan raise hand 🤣🤣

Meaning?

SoNature:
What has he achieved so when the herdsmen are still killing his people in their numbers?

How about Sanwo-Olu, Babagana Zulum and Alex Otti?

Ask the reason why the party stakeholders are fighiting him. I blamed his media team for not being effective. That dude is a silent achiever.

christejames:
That's why the corrupt party officials in the state together with their Lord Akume wants to cripple the shine of this man.



The man is working in Benue, paying salaries and gratuities, construction roads and even two flyovers, the first in the state.


My grouse with him is neglecting Otukpo town a major urban center of the Idomas. Idomas really need to come together for a common goal in that state.

Same here. i have not seen his developmental inclusive plan for Idomas. I just hope he correct that.

Naijanascam:
Over what ?..... This leadership newspaper self needs much explanations regarding this particular award

Cultivate the habit of asking questions.

By Comrade Asortar James Asortar

In a distinguished ceremony held at the Congress Hall of the Transcorp Hilton in Abuja, the Executive Governor of Benue State, His Excellency, Rev. Fr. Dr. Hyacinth Iormem Alia, was earlier today, awarded the prestigious title of Governor of the Year 2023 by LEADERSHIP Newspapers. The accolade, bestowed upon Rev. Fr. Alia, was in recognition of his remarkable achievements and transformative leadership since assuming office.
The decision to honour Rev. Fr. Alia with the Governor of the Year award was driven by his outstanding contributions to the development of Benue State within a remarkably short period. His commitment to governance and dedication to uplifting the lives of the people of Benue State have earned him widespread acclaim and commendation.
The ceremony was graced by critical stakeholders and prominent figures within the ruling All Progressives Congress (APC) in the state. Among those in attendance were Sen. Barnabas Gemade, Maj. Gen. Lawrence Onoja (rtd), Sen. Akaagerger, Rt. Hon. Emmanuel Jime, Acting State Chairman of the APC in Benue, Hon. Benjamin Omakolo, members of the state working committee, Dan Ashiekaa, Engr. Peter Ashiekaa, as well as all principal officers of the administration, commissioners, and advisers.
Rev. Fr. Alia's receipt of the Governor of the Year award is a testament to his unwavering commitment to excellence and service to the people of Benue State. Under his leadership, Benue State is poised for greatness, with a renewed sense of hope and optimism for the future.
In his acceptance speech, Rev. Fr. Alia expressed gratitude to LEADERSHIP Newspapers for the honor bestowed upon him and reaffirmed his dedication to fulfilling the mandate entrusted to him by the people of Benue State. He reiterated his commitment to advancing the socio-economic development of the state and ensuring that the dividends of democracy reach every citizen.
As the applause echoed through the Congress Hall of the Transcorp Hilton, it was evident that Rev. Fr. Hyacinth Alia's leadership has not only captured the attention of the nation but has also set a new standard for governance in Nigeria. With his vision and determination, Benue State is on the path to greatness once again.

JASONjnr:
Nigerian girls, especially Benue girls will marry this man, even without a bride price on their head .....

please where are you from?

Seefinish:
a drugs traffickers who is alive and in prison is better than a dead terrorist because one day he will be set free

And probably become the president of Nigeria.

colestephan86:
Ogbeni don't be stupid, list all his appointments and let's see the total number of yorubas in it

Tinubu is a disaster abeg

Sirchiboy:
So sad.
This woman just spoiled her name.
I heard she is not married and still single.
Very bad

She divorced her husband

BoldBrainz:
Young man, give your opinion on the subject matter and refrain from quoting me. What words I decide to use should be of no absolute concern to you.

I think with proper usage of words such a scenario can be avoided. The man to the best of the knowledge of an average Benue indigene is trying. Father is for the people and is delivering so far.

UncleKoboko:
Really?
So if ya mama be mommy g.o, she go off pant?

Don't mind him. His heart is as dirty as the devil's.

[quote author=Ameduedwin post=127701583]It is Abia state, Alex Oti, I have never seen nor heard anything from this Benue Man, [/q okuote]

He is a silent achiever. Dude has completed 5 out of the sixteen roads he has awarded. He is nicknamed Mr 25th for his prompt salary payment. All the pensioners in the water are smiling every month something uncommon in the state. Ortom called all the pensioners dead people and never cared to pay them their pensions.

To every average Benue indigene father is like the redeemer who has come to redeem the state from its history of bad leaders. Just help us commit him in your prayers so that he will not deviate from the path he has taken this far.

Watcharena:
why are the terrorist not attacking ,Russia,china?

Why is the attack always against the US?

Maybe because the US left their continent to go and impose their will over the weaker nations maybe because of other reasons we may not know

Maybe because of the population of Jews in the USA

WesternPanzer:
Nigeria is burning and the concern of this very useless animal is winning future elections

Peter Obi if you see this, I beg you in the name of everything that is good, find a way and save the Igbo nation from that cesspit called Nigeria. Let Ndigbo decide their future. We can't continue sharing same nation with some of these animals from the North.

We need to start thinking of how to save our future generation.

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This is too harsh. why call northerners animals?

Flat lie. Akume used the Rev. Father to rejuvenate his grip on Benue politics. The masses voted for the Rev father without recourse to Godfather or any influence. In fact, he never needed APC to win the election. He could have chosen any political party and yet defeated any of the other candidates. What Akume and his political cohorts are doing is just a mere whinning of teeth. Nobody but the Benue people make the Rev. Gentleman governor, and the Benue people are so pleased with him.