Pelecius: I don't understand. The honesty is that Christianity is shit? Like I said, it's just your opinion and is largely based on ignorance of what Christianity teaches.
Rather, you should be the one to heed your advice. Be honest Stop self deceit And be objective, instead of allowing emotion and prejudice rule
Stop self deceit... Christianity has done more harm than good in the world...stop self deceit.
ebijimi7: Good day guys I'm a single guy but I have a family to carter for, and that's my mum and sister. The problem is I earn 80k in lagos and I don't know its just not enough for me And I'm not paying a rent I live in family house. Can someone please tell me how to manage my resources because very soon I would want to stand alone and start my own family. Thanks.
I earn less but I live a better life than many rich boys and even yahoo boys,guess what!...it's all by God's grace,his grace and blessings is sufficient...just try find transactions outside your monthly salary...
Me I'm into electronics,so God dey provide me with runs once once when bills don wreck bank account,as I dey so,my last month salary don finish,but I still dey look God face,make e slap one customer to call me now make I transact and get that cheddar....No time..
koldej: I'm sorry to disturb you sir/ma, I'm currently in a position I feel I needed a serious advise. I rounded up my service year, Nov.2020, luckily I was able to secure a job in a construction company jan.2021 although m on probation (1year). I managed to secure an half plot of land this month somewhere around Ogun state from my little savings(as a result of this I don't have any savings in my acct) my probation period will be over by dec. With little chance of being retained. I'm actually planning to rough things through to Dec. again this year so that I can do the foundation of the land(which means I will not be having any savings) with high probability of not being retained. Is it advisable to do this when m sure I will probably not be retained or I should save to invest in a business? Still below 26yrs, pls I need ur opinion and suggestions..thank you
Business owners dey find ways to run comot from Naija now...bro,abeg gather money build small bungalow,just rough am abeg...that house will be your greatest achievement,you will be a landlord over your peers.
HonNL: Activist Deji Adeyanju has in a series of tweets, reacted to the abduction of the Niger State Information Commissioner, Mallam Mohammed Sani Idris.
Mallam Idris was abducted during the early hours of Monday August 9, 2021.
Kpobaridaniel: JMK Is Already Failing Before She's Started
BBN Fans has dug up JMK's twitter posts of her trolling WIZKID, LAYCON TACHA ERICA and BBN and its all over social media. I think JMK is already failing before even starting because you don't troll stars in naija and expect to survive!
Everybody she trolled is actually bigger than her...she's a bittered attention seeking hoe!
[quote author= post=104591926]Some Nigerians would have been apt! Stop generalizing please.[/quote]Yes though...sorry I hate "many" Nigerians,not all ... Nigerians follow cast the country with the way many of them behave abroad...Ghana don get levels pass us sef...so shameful.
Blurpy: I think the behaviour of Nigerians in diaspora needs to be curtailed or rather we need to caution them often as they are bringing more problems to us. I don't get how some people will be lucky to get visa to a more developed country and go there to constitute nuisance and commit crime to earn a living, some of them even plan before hand to go and overstay their tourist or visit visa and become illegal immigrants.
This is all shades of wrong, we are doing more harm to ourselves as a nation, we should stop that. Some parts of Europe, Nigeria is synonymous with prostitution, while India, South Africa, Thailand etc, a Nigerian is being looked at as a potential drug dealer, other countries like Turkey, Ghana,UAE etc, the scammers there have done a very good job in giving us a bad name.
Recently, some Nigerians in Dubai engaged in cult clash taking human lives in the process which ended up getting a direct employment visa ban on Nigeria.
Ghana, on the other hand has visa free access to Singapore, Dubai, South Africa just to mention a few, while a Nigerian passport holder will have to go through a lot of cash and stress just to visit these places.
I know the country is bad and most people are looking to leave, we should not go to another country to commit crimes, we are only making this harder for ourselves, we will all be stuck here with nowhere to go.
There's no reasonable place a Nigerian passport can take you without visa, even amongst the visa free countries and visa on arrival countries, there's still a high chance of being sent back at the port of entry.
Imagine Nigerians having to wait for four to five months just to get a response from South African embassy here, same Africa oh, just response, not that it'll be approved oh.
Please we should be good ambassadors of our country, there are a lot of Nigerians doing fantastically well in various sectors as medical doctors, nurses , in academia as lecturers, engineers etc, let us not allow the bad deeds overshadow the good deeds.
You'll hardly hear of a Kenyan, a Senegalese etc being caught in a crime outside of their country. The pressure to make it big and fast then come back home to pepper others is a contributing factor! We can do other legitimate business and still make money.
Stop going to Ghana, Kenya, South Africa, Malaysia, Thailand, Turkey etc all in the name of collecting UPDATE to make it!. Please!
HustlePro: You go just open mouth WAAAAA.. like your mama pussy...
There is a difference between Igbo masses and their leaders... 90% of Igbo masses are solidly behind MNK, they corporate with one another. Were you not here when they Igbo people chose their governor in Imo State but Abuja removed him? My friend go suck your mama breast!
Daddysidhan: If obj is a demon? What do we call your almighty devil incarnate buhari.
Lol....abeg o...I hate Buhari with passion abeg...I hate him with all my life,body,soul and spirit!!..Evil lives in him,Satan dey learn where im dey....OBJ own na greed and corruption,but Buhari own is pure evil and total wickedness!!...tueh!...That man no go die better atall.
Awoleesu: To be Frank he's a better devil than his compatriots! He's far ahead of the likes of IBB, Buhari, TY, and even Gowon in conflict management and economic management.
Ah!...you see that IBB and Buhari eh...they dine with Satan,wickedness runs in their DNA....obj Na king demon of corruption...All of dem Na Legions from the bottomless pit including Atiku and Tinubu.
Irijosa777: I'm the last born in the family, all the members of the family had gotten married except me. I'm 32 now, just rounded up my study. I'm into farming, school works and doing catering work as well. I'm financially balance. I have not gone into a relationship before, I just ignore that aspect because I believe in the principle of "one thing at a time".
Now that I'm through with my study and I have something doing, I'm planning of going into a relationship and get married at least by 2023 but I'm perceiving there's going to be a problem between me and my family.
My family is very selective, very selective... There was a time a friend started visiting me anytime I went to the village, my mother notice it and told me that the girl is not welcome in the family, she gave me her reason too, I told my Mom she is just a friend and nothing more.
Today my neice got married, I invited my crush and she came to the wedding and I introduced her to my family as my friend, when the ceremony was going on, my sister told me and I quote "this girl you brought is not acceptable, she is too old for you, "common" she is just 27 and am 32... I told my sister that we are just friends and nothing more, then she said better...
I don't want to have any issue with my family in marring a girl but I'm afriad problem might be inevitable because I won't want my family to choose who or who not to marry, I have never had issue with my family before, they love me very much and we are living happily.
One mind is telling me to follow my heart another mind is telling me don't let a woman bring issue between you and your family... Gosh! family get wahala! What is wrong in marring a girl of 27 years and I'm 32. (5years different)
I'm not ready for any family wahala... Please how do you handle this kind of issue.
Bro...follow whom your heart chooses and choose she that chooses you too...family can be problematic atimes...it's between you and her till date do u both apart not your family people...Na u and your wife go dey,not u and your family,Na that special woman u go marry,not your family..
Militant30: The Yorubas are so matured in there doings unlike my neighbors from the East who are looking for a way to suffer their people the more.
They don't know how to play politics,they don't know how to apply diplomacy in the time of crisis always chest beating like gorilla.
My only problem with the Yorubas is skull mining
People from east are divided,Wicked and selfish...reason being government no send their papa...they hate their own,yet Na dem bark pass... I'm "my mama say I be Igbo",so IDGADF!!...
binarymachine: In reality, man will always find ways of coming up with schemes and attitudes that are way distant from the expected code of conduct. At times, what is today called fun and joke are very serious issues with great consequences.
Promiscuity and infidelity have risen greatly in human society. It is becoming increasingly difficult to trust people and to find those who do not engage in one form of insincerity or another. Loyalty and faithfulness at present are very rare and scarce commodities.
What does it Mean to Double or Multiple Date? Well, with the ever changing trends of events, new terminologies and concepts are being formulated. Double dating refers to when an individual is keeping two lovers or partners at the same time. It is when one is juggling two active relationships at the same time.
Accordingly, multiple dating refers to when someone does this with more than two persons. That is, when an individual is engaged in a relationship with more than two persons simultaneously. To most persons, there is absolutely nothing wrong in keeping more than one committed relationship at the same time as far as you can handle comfortably without any issues.
So others opine that, if one is smart and wise enough to ensure that there are no clashes of interests among the various partners engaged with, then such a person can proceed and keep as many relationships as possible. Obviously, there are still a set of persons who are bothered greatly by this concept. They keep wondering why some many persons involve in double and multiple dating? What is really the attraction behind this?
1. The Feeling Of Control And Conquest
A lady or a man who is involved in two or more relationships at the same time feels he or she is in control. These persons see themselves of having power to do as they please as they hold stakes in their various partners lives. There is also that feeling of having conquered your various dates. They feel they have been able to subdue them to their whims and have them hovering all around them. This provides an impression of control and conquest which makes the person feel good.
2. The Availability Of Options
Anytime one is endowed with more options to choose from, there is always a certain sense of joy attached. Knowing that there are alternatives to pick from makes one enjoy a particular thing. As it is, if one partner tries to act up in a certain kind of way, you can easily turn aside to the other for what ever need you may have. This reason fuels most persons desire to have more than one partner at a time. The concept of not putting ones eggs in one basket is used to justify this. The excitement Variety, it is said, is the spice of life. Little wonder why people obtain so much pleasure and excitement in keeping more than one relationship at a time.
3. Hanging Out With Different Persons From Time To Time Is Fun.
That way, you do not get bored or tired of seeing a particular face or spending time with a particular person. The Feeling of importance and being wanted Having many people flock around you all seeking your attention is a big reason people double date. That feeling that one is being courted by multiple persons and is being showered attention from all sides drive some persons to engage in multiple relationships at the same time.
4. The Bragging Rights.
You may not be new to the concept of body count especially among the male folk. They love the numbers as it massages their ego whenever They are sitting out with fellow men. At times, the number of women in a guys control is used as a measure of manhood by some persons. Ladies use this to rate how trendy and current they are. Therefore, the fact that this multiple dates accords a kind of prestige makes it an adventure for many people.
Somehow, we can agree that those practice double or multiple dating have their reasons and to some extent, they derive some benefits from it. Till tomorrow, there will still be those continuing in this practice not interested in its moral rightness or wrongness. However, good virtues and attributes are always better. Thus, we should all be thinking of how to be faithful and loyal to one sole partner which is the ideal thing to do. Source: https://flipmemes.com/2021/06/30/reasons-some-people-think-double-dating-is-fun-and-adventurous/
Double dating is good...I got two big mamas as girlfriends,one knows,the other one doesn't,one gives me that perfect vibe,we smoke weed,do few drug shit and vibe positively,she's fit for me,like she was made for me,the other one gives me unconditional love,love that I've never seen before...I might marry both Las Las...though fight go dey,but a man must control responsibly....but after marriage,please no cheating abeg.
XperienceNaija: In our last street interview, we felt that despite the bad narrative about Nigeria and the inconsistency of our government or leaders in particular, there are still some things that looking at other countries, Nigeria and Nigerians are by far performing best at. We've heard a couple of success stories from different sectors in Nigeria despite the hardship in the nooks and crannies of this nation. Then, we decided to ask this simple question "What do you love about Nigeria?" A lot of responses we got proved that Nigeria can still be developed if well managed by the right set of leaders. This is a 2 minute brief of what several Nigerians told us about what they love about Nigeria. In your own opinion, what would you say you love about Nigeria really?
If I see Satan and I see Nigeria,i will choose Satan...I just love our food,Igbo food specifically..but I hate and detest Nigeria so much that I hate almost all Nigerians because of their hypocrisy level.
SlyDev: One of the problem? Is he a governor or president or local Govt Chairman? If you don't wish him, million will do so keep your yeye wishing to yourself
All bunch of f**ls, including the d*mb heads saying osinbajo or whatever the name is is Nigeria's future,Una say old man Na Nigeria's future?...Una daft!!
Shayron: I have been on this forum for quite sometime, I have been a guest all this while but my friend is in desperate need of help so I figure out it would be better if I seek you guys opinion.
I have a friend who's uncle is a well to do man works in a big organization and can use is influence to secure jobs or loans for my freind.
My freind has been at his Mercy for quite some time now, she is very hard-working though but she has witnessed the man help those who ain't even family members secure jobs in great places.
This is someone she calls family and uncle. This is not the first time of seeing this, I have seen this quite a lot it's very common amongst our people here in the south.
My question is why do family members turn your backs on you even though they have the power to help you out of your current situation. Blood they say is Thicke than water if I can't help my cousin or nephew then why are we family. She has been begging this man, and this man clearly can work things out. She has a work herself but it's not self sustaining coupled with the act that she has younger ones to look after.
I have told her to look elsewhere that sometimes our helpers are not close as we think? What kinda advie would you give her
Time's changed...Buhari government made it worst,worse and if there's a word like worstest!!..everybody is all about money money money,and it's really sad,no care,no love,no genuinely act and kindness,everybody just wan extort,steal,use brain deceive innocent person pikin...Things don cost, EVERYTHING don change,men just wan survive and oppress...Too bad....only few genuine,loyal and humble ones like me around...we make money still but we no dey shout.
Christianity Etc › Re: How Do I Explain To My Parents That I Don't Want To Belong To Any Religion by Johel(m): 6:10am On Aug 10, 2021
