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naturefellow:
my dear, I'm disappointed that you talk like this. Sorry, but you don't know anything. Mostly, It's actually when one is half deep into the marriage proceedings that you these red flags begin to show!

It is a big lie
Most men that end up with domineering women are timid & incapable of making decision on time...Some won't even be able to make certain decisions all through their lifetime, thereby subjecting themselves to unnecessary sorrow...

Nutase:
Where is mama peace and diezani?

These two names ruined GEJ second term presidential prospect & made many Nigerians to hate GEJ....pls don't mention those names again....

Reference:
Suspend it. Your courtship is not over yet and a broken courtship is better than a broken marriage. Sort out this matter before going before a judge.

Exactly!!!
God bless u.
At dis stage things can still be controlled, but when kids start coming in, it becomes complicated.

Op i know u are a weak man, that was why it got to this point.
I will advise u like a brother, DO NOT PROCEED ANY FURTHER, HAVING PEACE OF MIND IS PARAMOUNT....

I leave u with these bible verses;
Proverbs 21:19 Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife.

Proverbs 27:15-16 A continual dripping on a rainy day and a contentious wife are alike. Trying to keep her in check is like stopping a wind storm or grabbing oil with your right hand.

Proverbs 25:24 It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife

PaperLace:
Dear OP,


The early days of most marriages are like this. One person will always see the other as a demon, while painting him/herself as the angel. You are not an angel, I am sure your wife would sound just as bitter as you, if she creates her own thread. What you have to do is win your wife to your side. Once you genuinely win your wife to your side, she would handle her family.

Captain your ship as best as you can _all with the dignity of a king.

Wetin this one dey write?

What do u mean by most marriages?
Early days of marriages aren't riddled by troubles, advise like yours made weak men like op that are incapable of making their own decisions to end up with overbearing women...Early days of most marriages are filled with love, at that early stage the love is still intoxicating the couples, troubles start setting in at the later stage. If op is already sensing trouble at this stage, it is better he halt's every further action before kids start coming in....the further they go, the more complicated & more messier it becomes....

stancydg:
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This your design so....rain no go spoil the building...

Most of all these contemporary designs don't work well with our kind of climate....

tevanso:
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Sir i thought it was necessary to do a head beam since u used columns in some parts of the bungalows?

AngelicBeing:
Hmmmm, the law of retributive justice, some others call it karma or the law of sowing and reaping, it is a universal law suspended / hanging like an umbrella all over the universe, some people are ignorant of its existence but the law is there with koboko flogging humans who misbehave and also recompense everyone of his misdeeds

I have always heard about people talking about karma, used to doubt it existence...Not anymore...
I am now fully convinced the law is very much in existence....We just need to be very careful of what we say or do to others....

BlackZuko:
all niggaz shud check out my signature on my
profile...I REPEAT INTERESTED NIGGAS ONLY

You posted this on the wrong section & thread bro
Pls take it to romance section.

okikigsm:
Yes I can but the person must have wood and roofing sheet or money on ground even when bit is raining heavily.

It stayed 2 years because I used mud block made with machine not hand made one.I could have repair the bad section but I don't like substandard structure / management.

I thank God today I have made deposit for roofing sheet, wood is also being arranged.God will finish it for me.

okay
thanks alot

mofeoluwadassah:
oh lawd as i go today on nl dont let me come across trash like this again ijn amen

You are praying not to come across trash & u are posting trash for others to come across....How will God answer your prayer?

Quality20:
most bossy women only cause a man to be belittled by friends, neighbors and family members and even cause chaos in the house. it's better to go along with an illiterate submissive village girl than these bossy madams

@bold...True
Having peace of mind is paramount...

Op it is either u are lying or they wanna use u for ritual or something, because nobody got a job in a oil & gas company for u? unless u are talking about a job for filling cooking gas....They are all gas jobs....& your story sounds too lame...

Nice write up...

davidif:
I tire o. What's the big deal about cleaning as you cook? Don't they both go hand in hand?

Don't mind the man
Teaching his son a wrong thing
When that guy cooks in the future, he would be looking for someone to clean.
Because his father is infusing in him dat cooking & cleaning are two different things...

Who cooks & don't clean?

PaperLace:
Please, quit unnecessary arguments. Male lions hunt larger preys like buffaloes in packs. Haven't you also watched a male lion killed by a mature buffalo too? Did you read the post that warranted that reply or not? That'll aid your understanding of the conversation.

African lions hunt larger preys in groups, it increases their success rate! That's the point, if it roars or is fearful _ isn't entirely my point.

https://www.nationalgeographic.org/media/buffalo-v-lions/
Go through that, then tell me what exactly is the argument in regards to the first post you decided to oppose .

Your post was specious....so i had to correct it...

I don't need to read any article....i watch it everyday....

PaperLace:
Please, quit unnecessary arguments. Male lions hunt larger preys like buffaloes in packs. Haven't you also watched a male lion killed by a mature buffalo too? Did you read the post that warranted that reply or not? That'll aid your understanding of the conversation.

African lions hunt larger preys in groups, it increases their success rate! That's the point, if it roars or is fearful _ isn't entirely my point.

@bold...i know u would get sentimental...

Bravery doesn't mean something won't get killed...We have gallant soldiers fighting in the north, that doesn't bespeaks they won't get killed...

So bravery makes lion...anytime lion issue is discussed, fearful and fearless is likely to be involved....

PaperLace:
I've watched several documentaries of mature male lions attacking buffalo(s) in group. A lone male lion can't take on a mature buffalo successfully. I don't know what you're talking about either.

@bold youtube is your friend...i nor fit talk...

Just the way we have cowards trying so hard to please their wives by cleaning the kitchen & doing house boy work is the same way we have fearful male lions who go in a pride of 2 to attack buffalo. Fearless male lions go alone, go watch more documentaries....

Pride consisting minimum number of 6 lions method of attacking is for female lions, not male. Female lions attack virtually everything in pride, not male...that is why female lions move in group....Mature male lion don't move in any fvcking group...

I have watched several single male lion attacked a buffalo, the lion came for the resue of a female lion almost killed by group of buffalo, immediately the male lion roared, they all dispersed & only one was hesitant...the male lion attack am....

i am a lover of animal world...

PaperLace:
There is nothing funny about nature in this case. A single male buffalo weighs a whole lot more than a lion. The lion knows this, the buffalo knows it too. It's actually stronger than a SINGLE LION.

Why the buffalo allows the LIONS to eat them is the power of numbers. It takes a team of lions (the pride) to overpower a single buffalo. They trail them long enough to weaken them, then chase and the moment they disperse, the go for a LONER as a TEAM. The idea is to bring it down on its knees and even the buffalo knows its over.

If there is anything your illustration teaches, it's the importance of teamwork. If a husband and wife can work together, complement and not compete with each other, they can conquer any marital buffalo.

Wetin this one dey talk?
Only female lion go in groups to attack buffalo
A mature male lion does not need any fvcking group to attack a buffalo

Once buffalo hears the roar of one single male lion....they all disperse...

jazzyjazz:
Please I saw this same job advert on jobberman and I applied there. Should I apply by sending then a mail too?

u wanna apply twice?

abdulwastecx:
I'm still giving him the chance to redeemed himself before I come out fully on him

That is like giving more people chance to fall prey bro...
These trictsters are like boko haram...they don't change...
U will save alot of people from falling prey if only u can mention his name

Remember this was how brabus was given chances till he ruined many projects on this same thread...Stating his name won't stop him from turning over a new leaf....

abdulwastecx:
Please, I want the house to be aware of the action of this dubious supplier on naira-land.....
He will borrow money from Paul to pay Peters, I want you all to stay away from him

This your info no complete ooo
What is the name?

optional1:
Another great lesson alwayz keep in touch of others..

At least have up to 5 nairalanders contact and have that one you can trust and drop your words with...

We should show each other some love and care no matter our difference here..



One thing i learnt from him offline is he alwayz apologise when he feel he has hurt you.... He doesn't keep too much in his heart..

I will miss him forever...

Of what use is the bold?
Were u guys able to stop their death?
Whether their death is discussed on NL or not doesn't change anything...

cosby02:
No 1 is interested in this thread cos its not Kanu,Fayose,FFK, Buhari's health or one actress diplaying nude.

Exactly my thought.
That is why negativity will always thrive, most people have corrupt mind....

uboma:
@ dxeom,


It takes quite some time for a newly established school to break even.


My advise is, don't quit the school at least for the sake of your family since daddy is not disciplined when it comes to managing finances. Without you, your dad may probably run down the school business. While at this, you also need to look at your competitors around. what services can you improve on or even introduce to make your family owned school really stand out?

Your experience at managing the school will boost your Curriculum Vitae and also come in handy when a job eventually comes your way. this is where you have to multi-task. Most job applications are today are usually done online. this you can create time for out of your busy schedule. You could devote the weekends to look up and apply for vacancies released during the week and that matches your qualification and experience.

Do not stay idle while job hunting though.

Manage the school well and you could hit a goldmine in the long run....

@bold which family?
Op is even the one benefitting more from that school
His experience there will broaden his administrative knowledge
& more importantly, since it is a family business, he is gonna be getting away with many things, which he wouldn't have done while working for some else.

Afam4eva:
You need to find your own way. If the business has not been making headway for 4 years, what difference will it it make if you leave? Not much. You have to sit your people down and tell them that's its time you found your own way. The time is now.

Was he lost before that u are telling him to find his own way?
It is tough out there
Searching for a job is not a work u gonna be doing all day.
It is a part time thing
I don't see how managing a school stops one from finding job
Op sustain yourself with anything u get from that place till u get a good job

U can leave if u wanna start begging for change from your parents & friends
We don't value what we have till we lose them
Many graduates with masters are looking for school admin work pending the time they get a good job...here u are forming jamesbond...e be like say e ton tey wey hungry beat u....

Great!
Very mature & simple...
This is how pre wedding pics should look like
Not the childish stuff most couple exhibit

gtb02:
Good day gentlemen. first off, I am a novice in the building industry. I have a little project that i just recieved a quotation on and will appreiate if you fine gentlemen can help me decide if it is a fair deal.

This is for the foundation of a 4 bedroom (small) duplex building. Project is in the south East, land is dry and solid.

Thank you for your time and expertise.

Here goes:


QTY DESCRIPTION UNIT AMOUNT

SETTING OUT
MATERIALS

2 bundles of peg 900 1800
30 pcs of purlin 300 9000

LABOUR

2 MASONS 3000 6000
16800

EXCAVATION
25 partitions trenches 1100 27500
2 masons 3000 6000
17 base 500 8500

42000
BLINDING
MATERIAL
40 bags of cement 2700 108000
2 trips of sand 10000 20000
2 trips of gravel 25000 50000
1 tank of water 5000 5000

LABOUR
40 bags casting 700 28000
4 masons 3000 12000
223000
IRON WORKS
MATERIALS
40 lenghts of 16 mm 2800 112000
17 lenghts of 10mm 1250 21250
1 roll of binding wire 9800 9800

LABOUR
20 base 800 16000
20 columns 900 18000

177050
MASONRY
MATERIALS
1800 blocks 140 252000
26 bags of cement 2700 70200
2 trips of sand 10000 20000


LABOUR

1890 blocks laying 30 56700
15 labourers 2000 30000
428900

PILLAR CASTING
MATERIALS

20 pcs of 1*12*12 900 18000
10 bags of cement 2700 27000
1 trip og gravel 27000 27000

LABOUR
20 carpentery 700 14000
10 casting 700 7000
1 mason 3000 3000

96000

CHAINING (LATERAL REINFORCEMENT)
MATERIALS

36 lenghts of 12mm 1980 71280
15 lengths of 8mm 1080 16200
0.5 binding wire 9800 4900
50 pcs of 1*12*12 900 45000
20 bags of cement 2700 54000
1 trip of sand 10000 10000
1 trip of gravel 28000 28000


LABOUR
20 casting 700 14000
30 pt iron mongery 600 18000
30 pt carpentery 500 15000
1 mason 3000 3000
279380

FOUNDATION FILLING AND COMPACTION

5 trips of sand 10000 50000
1 labour 60000 60000
110000

1 SUPERVISION 250000 250000

Looks fair though
But some are not clear
Like the Blinding & Filling.
I doubt if 5 trips will fill the house....but how many tons is what i don't know though.

I would advise u to use stonebase in place of gravel, if u can't afford granite.
This is a duplex, not a bungalow. The quality of coarse aggregates shouldn't be compromised.