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apkpromise:
check it here(http://btc4rusx.com).thought they have trail access.i contacted the admin they said i have to buy. I don't do my thing that way.Anybody who have tried it should post it here.

I m using paid id. but the fact is one needs to commit alot of time before one can start earning high.

cindybaby22:
Working, but somewhat difficult to use.
How do i set it on weekly auto run? Wasn't included in the tutorials

Have u been able to set it on auto run?

fayded:
okay,so I gat this girl and we gat this fwb situation although we both love each other,but nobody wants to make the first move.
anyway,today her friend's phone gat missing in her room and we all tried to find it but couldn't,apparently it was stolen when she went out,forgetting to lock her door.
this situation made her angry and she started snapping everywhere,tried to calm her down sha.
anyways,this night I saw her with our lodge security men as she was reporting the phone incident. I tried to ask whatsup and show care and she just nodded her way.
now later,I saw her on d staircase as I was going out again..she put her head on my shoulders and told me that her elder bro blames her for not locking her door.
anyways,this night I went to her room to ask how she was doing and I knocked but she didn't open.
I just angrily left and went back to my room,now she came back to my room and knocked d first time, I didn't open..she came back again and this time I opened and she found out that I was around but refused to open door for her.she angrily left..I later tried to apologize but she didn't open the door.
well..next thing I know,she knocks on my door and dropped my bucket that she was with,my shirt that she likes wearing and also drugs that I bought for her(she didn't even take them).
now I don't know what to do,I do like her,but I don't want to act as a pussy..and I'm really angry that she didn't even take d drugs I bought for her since Thursday..
harddon,realpoacher..
abeg una advice is needed

@ bold apologize for what?
Wasn't she d first person dat refused to open d door when u knocked?
Did she apologize? Why are u apologizing?

reminiscing:
This relationship thing is tiring. Guys prefer slay queens and miss tourism snapping pinchure Upadan.A girl that keeps requesting for money for everything including pad, but when they find the one that isn't demanding they think she isn't exposed per say. I have just resolve to praying hoping I will meet MR RIGHT, the way it happens in Nollywood.


Pray for me

The bold is not true...

SPEEDEPITOME:
Thank you. I owe you a drink. �
You just captured everything.
Sometimes I go through the posts of the sender, I'll see that this will not get us anywhere- Not dating, not even friendship. So its pointless exerting your energy on something that will come to naught eventually. It's not a nobody-somebody thing.
This is just one of the one million reasons possible.

the bold is very true...
this can also be akin to leading someone on when u have no intentions of dating them, it is better to be upfront with them...

henryhemon:
Most ladies here think the guys here are nobody's hence they ignore PM's.

This is not true....There are countless reasons why one may decide not to reply PMs...not because they feel the sender is a nobody...
The lady might be in a relationship, & wouldn't want a male friend...
Some are married...
Some just don't like having many friends....probably because of their nature & so many other personal reasons...not because they feel u are a nobody...
There are so many wealthy people on NL, how would a lady seperate d rich frm d poor & conclude they are nobody by PM alone....

Daboomb:

What baffles and annoys me the most is that most of our neighbours build houses valued close to #70M, yet they cant spare just #1M to construct a frontage, street Gutter!

Every House owner should at least do his/her own frontage gutter to a prescribed 'standard' size so that rain water can flow easily.
Greedy b@st@rds!

Abi ooo
they can spend 5m on high roof...just for people to see they have money...
Advise them to spend just 500k on drainage posing great threat to d building worth 70m....they won't...God help us in this country...

Imagine an area like lekki where rich people reside is flooded like one small rural town with only farmers...

KolaShangOne:
Not possible bros..
This looks like it's just an experiment in alternative building practices and not a cheaper mode of construction if you understand what I mean.

With those equipments in use, etc, it will probably cost more to build this in Nigeria than our usual bungalows.

My thought exactly...no be something like steel i dey see so....

jashar:
Na wa ooo

It's like some people are just suckers for punishment sha....

Why your fonts small like this? Lol
na so u like small small things...

Fkhalifa:
I want to disagree that a political confidence might not be enough to combat romance or other circumstances, they vary one might have the confidence to rule and direct armies, but find it hard to get balanced in front of a 19yrs old Lady you in deep love with.. I think you are right.

the bold is true....It varies...

SPEEDEPITOME:
Now there's no such thing as political or romantic confidence, is there?
Your confidence, or lack of it, affects all aspects of your life.

OMG! Likewise any other circumstance…didn't u read the bold part in my comment...

SPEEDEPITOME:
So confidence is only needed for relationships? Because that's what I deduced here. Your point was centered around wooing and making advances on the opposite sex.
There's more to life than that.

Lol...I saw this coming....I had to use relationship because we are discusing this on romance section...If it were to be in politics section, i would have used a political scenerio. Likewise any other circumstance...

double0seven:
You are not fucking making any sense. Don't men abuse you verbally? Why not best them up

Haven't u seen two men fighting before?
u people make it sound as if men don't fight themselves....
If a man abuse me verbally, we will fight...

SPEEDEPITOME:
This is not my business but errrm, any downside overconfidence has is not gender specific. So just say 'overdose of confidence can be destructive for ANYONE if not well managed...'
Thanks.

The bold is wrong. Men & women weren't wired to share same level of confidence, else the world would ve failed. Lets approach this issue from a realistic perspective. What actually do a woman need confidence for to make it her most top priority even after NYSC? I believe after NYSC a woman should have been able to acquire the basic confidence needed to live a normal life. Now lets start with wooing, u will agree with me that 95% of guys does the wooing in every relationship that has led to marriage. I once read in this same thread how a lady was making a mountain out of mole hill because she sent a pm to only one guy & he didn't respond well....she vowed she would never send pm to guys again all because of that & a lot of people were encouraging her not to generalize....i just laughed, because this is what guys face on daily basis, & it never deters them to woo another. Sex, most guys initiate the sex in relationship at initial stage, some women do this only at the later stage. Anything u can think of, guys take the risk, & the ladies follow. So when i say a lady shouldn't make confidence building a do or die affair, i know what i m saying. What will she be using it for? We know she isn't gonna use it to woo any guy....which is the least thing any guy can do with confidence. Or do u ladies also need too much of confidence to say no to a guy's advances? i really don't think so....

Overdose of confidence for ladies is destructive because there is a thin line between overdose of confidence & pride. Imagine the instance she gave; someone tell's u how beautiful u are, courtsey demands u reciprocate with a thank u, not saying u know u are beautiful....it is just like saying he should keep his compliment to himself. Ladies should focus on building manners & character...not confidence. Because every lady will be needing much of character & manners than confidence....

cuteme88:
Thanks though for your words of advise!

jilted by a guy in my early 20s? is a No, No, No.

I never dated any Man,boy or guy all through my school years until during my service. broke up with him on my POP because the relationship isn't worth it and i was been used by him. Since then i never involve into any relationship until 3yrs after. But I really don't know where it was heading to and i ended it this year. My love story History will tell u that I was very much mature in age before i even got involve on the first relationship not to talk of the second. so now i just wanna let the thoughts of going into another relationship sleep on till I could gather myself again to start all over.

I'm the type that don't rush, I could be patient for all i care but I'm doing myself good. Right now i am seriously and crazily working on my
self-esteem and confidence. It should get to a stage whereby i can't fall for any Man that appreciate my beauty and claim he loves me. Let me first appreciate who I have become and love myself so as not to fall on anyone's trap because of a mere appreciation of who I am.
I should get to the peak of my life in which a Man or anyone will tell me that i am beautiful and my reply should be, "thank you, i know i am beautiful"

I'm not saying that i won't embark on another relationship or give it another trial. But i will not be involve till i learn to appreciate myself and build my confidence to the highest peak. If I had know what I've known now! I wouldn't have given anyone the chance to rubbish me, abuse my emotions and feelings. But thank God i get to recognise that after two failed relationship.

Some never did until after MARRIAGE!

Hmmm....Easy with this your over confidence building...because i am not really understanding the essence of it...overdose of confidence can be destructive for a lady if not well managed...

Easy easy ooo.....& u seriously need to forget about ur past relationships....it will do u no good...trust me....

fresher123:
ME: "this one u are doing ur mouth like this, me I am not ready to kiss jare".

HER:"what kiss"

ME: "I knew u will try to deny it Oya wat is the pout for nigbayen"

HER: " I don't get".

Seeing that the conversation was getting boring. I went offline.
fast forward to today, I holla her

ME: Lady on pink
HER: Awayu
ME:I am not talking to u joor. I am talking to the girl @ ur profile pics

HER: OK
ME: Do u knw her? Cos She looks familiar
HER‬: No o i don't know her
ME: She looks like the girl that was disturbing to marry her in my dreams. I am pretty sure she is the one
HER‬: It's seems ur dream is dcving u
ME: I wish it was, the disturbance wasn't pleasing at ALL. Anyway aw did it go today.

The chat was obviously tailing towards a boring end, so I went offline. As I didn't want to indulge in the( aw are u? aw was ur day? chat)

NOW DON, I wud love ur view on how best I could have taken the chat from there.
And also I am a bit confused on whether to divulge my identity to her, as she has surprisingly never asked. Mind u, We never had a convo on the WhatsApp group as she hardly interacts on it, same as I. so I can't say if she knows who I am or not.

My motive is plain: I intend to hone my skills in this area better, and if she deserves it, i wouldn't mind going intimate.

For me i think u guys should stop imposing certain things on ladies...It should be sequential.
They are humans u know....

@bold 1....confusing...
@bold 2...super confusing...

pweetiedee:
Lol..

what is ur problem?

U don beat woman before?

See, I don't have ur time. if a man beats me, that will be his last, Insha Allah.

If u don't want to be beaten by any man...Don't abuse any....No sane man will walk up to u & start beating u when u haven't done something wrong....


Only a madman would go about hitting women without cogent reasons...As humans we have limit, if only women can address this issue from the root, verbal abuse begets physical abuse. But u people don't talk about it...but keep screaming no man should lay hands on a woman?
Why not scream no woman should verbally abuse her man & see if domestic violence won't reduce drastically....Women are free to abuse men verbally, but men shouldn't abuse women physically…does that even sound right?

Selfish gender....

Hotshawarma:
Madness everywhere....na this kind of lady Evans suppose kidnap

All these kind of ladies no get money to pay evans....

pweetiedee:
Women run mouth. I am.a woman and I know sometimes we can be very annoying and I'm.not saying "spoilt" and yes, some of us are very spoilt. But there are other ways to teach a woman lessons. Not beat her. Men that beat women are cowards. These men cannot face men like them when it comes to physical.

How can u beat the mother of your child. think about menstrual pain, all the sickness and discomfort that comes with pregnancy and then labour pain. and then taking care of the kids/kid. A man that beats a woman is cursed for life!

Its not like u men are not annoying. After all some husbands sleep with their wives friend, house girl, neighbor etc and women still take all these shit.

if we can take it, men should take our shit too and not beat us.

Any man wey touch me peke....well lemme just keep quiet.

@bold what will u do? U can only cry, nothing more...
U women are very selfish, that is why when u people talk about no one should hit a woman i just laugh...u think men are f00ls?
The root cause of physical abuse is verbal abuse. U women don't talk about this, because u people do it all time. Then it leaves me with only one answer that it is because u people don't have strength like the male folks, yours would have been worst...selfish things...

Papiikush:
So anyone who have a handkerchief and oil with him is now a baddo member?

What If a random clean guy with dreads and tattoos is cruising in his ride will they attack and burn him to death too?

Seems those living in ikorodu are mad.

I just tire....na innocent people dem just dey kill so...

Evablizin:
[b]Money still remains the root of all evil[/b]some people's conscience is just dead you paid 500k to get blood you recieve 500k to kill chai where is Buhari oooooooo

@bold...not money, money is good....It is the love of it that leads to evil....

tevanso:
the depth is 450mm

Okay...nice.
Same depth was used for my build.

tevanso:
pix

The exterior trench on the right of d foundation kinda looks shallow to me. what is the depth sir?

Emmahunk:
Na only the face small, the chest no small Lol

Lol...bahd boy...

TinaAnita:
Why are you questioning my temperament?
Banana fall on you!
Meanwhile, you didn't answer my question. I'm sure you can't delete a short tempered relative from your life.

@bold....i nor be woman ooo...Lol

TinaAnita:
What if the person is your brother, sister or something? Easier said than done. What you should have said is that you would be extra careful with the way you relate with such a person. No one chooses to be short tempered anyway.

are u short tempered?

Extra careful don't work with most, but they can work on their temperament....

Evablizin:
i'm a small girl nah that's why i'm small,for my parents the are not monitoring spirit like bloggers

@bold...Lolzzz...It was just a raillery...
U re actually a big girl...

Lol...Wetin u want make we tell u now....

OrestesDante:
Nigeria is finished.

Lol....Na now u dey know...

olatola00:
Abuse of power sha

Abi ooo

annnikky:
No gud news anymore in 9ja na wah ooo

.blame APC...
U will agree with me dat when jonathan dey...it wasn't this bad....