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missyadorable:
Not all girls are human beings na

Besides,he could have locked the door himself after the girl left and died

Hope u are human sha..

And are u the girl?
U sound as if u were there?
Tell us more....

Kennycyphers:
h CARRIED OUT ON DAY 3
The activities carried out in the 3rd day was mainly laying of blocks from foundation level to dpc.The labourers were paid 2000 naira each.

Nice analysis sir...
Is Dpc also required for fencing sir? Or u just used that to get a particular level?

Were each Labour paid 2000 naira or the mansions fee is also included in the 2k?

And why are the pillars one sided sir?

KINGOFJAPAN:
I know southerners won't have issues with birth control... But with the moslem northerners, it wont be easy.. Those peeps derived pleasure in breeding like rats and the fact that they are backed by their religion makes it worse..

U are absolutely right my brother....

Our Muslim brothers in the north are really abusing the purpose of procreation...
How can one man have 35 children! What for?

That is why boko haram keeps increasing on daily basis, because of the population over there. Even patience Jonathan once made reference to it. It's a great shame....

I know our government has issues, but so does our social perception of the situation, with regard to overpopulation. Nigeria will be a much better place with a few less citizens clamoring for resources. The needs of more children would be met, equal education could be a possibility, and we could possibly live up to the potential of our vast human resources.....

But with our present population, the above isn't feasible...

TV01:
On what basis do you claim "we are too many"? And what problems does our population size lead to?

This is at best histrionic. Nigeria has the land mass, natural resourses and human capital to sustain a population - to a high standard of living - much larger than the one we have.

The problems faced are solely down to mis-management of resources. And such problems, unless dealt with at root, will persist whatever the population size. And it's odd that the leaders who you claim to be corrupt, are the same leaders you espct to come up with policies .


Perhaps some data or facts to make your case? Emotional, assertions have little value here


TV

How else can a country of over 170 million people living within considerably less than one million square kilometers of land— 923,768 sq km to be exact —be explained?

Nigeria’s population has successfully surpassed that of Russia, the country that occupies the largest amount of land on earth. Put in scale, our entire population of over 170 million resides in significantly less than the area occupied by two states in the U.S: California and Texas. our entire populace is compressed into (more than 2,000 sq km less) area occupied by about 60 million Americans.

Even an article published just recently in The Guardian points out that Nigeria’s fertility rate is too high and nothing is being done to curb it...

healthyarena:
I don't think Nigeria has gotten to that level just yet!

I think we have past that level rather....

opeadura:
Problems are best solved between
you and your woman.
.

Not all problems...

RadicallyBlunt:
18)Chastise her in d right measure when she goes wrong. So does a responsible head of the home.

19)Don't let her seduce u with emotions to make regretable decisions. Its Delilah's emotions that made Samson take d wrong decisions, likewise Adam and Eve in garden Eden and Sarah's maid(Haggai) with Abraham

20)Be conscious of their cunning nature. Rebecca betrayed Esau by helping Jacob to steal his brother's blessings from their father

21)Be conscious of overpampering her to d point that taking care of ur mother would become something u do in hiding.

God bless u sir....

KINGOFJAPAN:
Even tho your comment reeks of spite.. I'll have to agree with you on dx one... We too many for dx country

My brother God bless u....
The govt should also come up with such policies, we are too many in this country...
Though I know our leaders are corrupt, but our population is also a contributing factor to the problems we are facing today...

How can only one man get married to 10 women, producing nothing less than 30 children....

We breed anyhow in this country, birth Control will go a long way in solving this nation's problems...

beansandgarri:
Cost from excavation to dpc.
1013 blocks were used for the 6 coaches.
Excavation 39,250
53 bags of. Cement 74,000@ 1400 to site.
Water 10400
2 trips of 911 truck sea sand. 31500
20 planks. 19000 @ 900 to site.
15 length of 12mm iron rod 19500@ 1300
17 length of quarter rods. 6250
Binding wire 2000
1/2 bag of 3 inches nails 2750
5 pounds of 4 inches nails 1000
Capenter workmanship for boarding the pillars and capping the dpc. 20k
Iron workmanship for 23 pillars 11250@500
Concrete work/ Casting of pillars and dpc capping/labour 132k
15 tons. Of granite 65k
Supervision 15k
Micelenous 8000k
Total 438,200.
The above amount excludes the cost of blocks.

This is nice....
Is the money for supervision from setting out to this stage?

Thanks...

beansandgarri:
Cost of moulding 3700 blocks

100 bags of cement 145k at 1450 to site.
30 tons o cutter sand 24k
30 tons of sharp sharp sand 25k
4 trips of sea sand (911) 62k
Water. 27k
Moulding 50k @ 500 per bag
:watering of blocks 4k
Miscellaneous 11k
Total 348k

Well done madam...
This your moniker funny sha....

Were the 30tons of gutter sand and 4trips of sea sand also used for the block making? If yes, were there some left? Because the total combining the sharp, gutter and sea sand is almost going to 100tons....

Thanks....

dangotesmummy:

falls from the bench

Your mate dey sit down for sofa, u dey sit down for bench, u no dey shame...

Abeg remove dang-OTE from your moniker, put igbo for there....

Igbo mummy...

amtaken:
My training has made me to always wanna hear from the other side.

I know your husband cannot come here to state his own case but you should at least tell us the names you called him also.


Am glad you said the truth albeit partially when you said that both of you used nasty words on each other.


It is very wrong of him to call you a prostitute but what did you call him? Who knows if you used his inability to satisfy you in bed to diss him.

When he said you couldn't satisfy him in bed, you should have known he was only saying that to spite you.


He knew deep down in his heart that he was the one with such a problem. He probably didn't want you to tell him that first, so he had to quickly say it to you as a form of pre defence.


Both of you have wronged each other.

It's not the kind of fight you settle by just having sex.

You need to sit down with your husband and tell him calmly how deeply sorry you are for the nasty words you used on him, and how deeply aggrieved you are about the ones he used on you. He needs to apologise to you too. I bet he will, because men cannot withstand the heat of spousal fights for long (except irresponsible men who have concubines outside).



You both also need to address the cause of the fight.

Why did you fight that way in the first place?

What is the root cause of the fight?

Whatever it is must be resolved to avoid future reputation(s) of the ugly fight.



You should forgive your husband ok.

Don't stop making good love to him or do you want him to start paying for sex outside? You know the type of girls that sell sex, you don't want your hubby to mess with them, do you?




Finally pray for God's love and unity in your home. Build your home and be submissive to him like the Bible commanded us to.

It is well.

God bless u my sister...
U are indeed taken by God's word and spirit...

With this coming from a lady, it means there is hope...

Because women of this generation are rebellion against God almighty...

Joy1706:
Lol so now u know cheating is not the way to solve issues. Meanwhile u NL guys, ur wife does not cook all the time, u threaten to cheat. She does not say yes every time u want sex, u threaten to cheat. She is not totally submissive, u threaten to cheat. She wants a maid to help her in the house, u threaten to cheat WITH the maid. Mstchewww. I thought cheating was the solution to marital issues

What are u saying....
Must u exhibit how senseless and foolish u are?
What has this got to do with the topic?

A woman is about heading on the part of self destruction by cheating on her husband, instead of advising her, u are busy posting rubbish....

Senseless house wife...

itstpia8:
Regardless where the partner is from, ko kan mi jo!

wss i there when they were dating, se mo mo adehun tan se ni?

Even if una date because of me, I no send!

because of me is different from i was involved!

What are u saying?

lielbree:
Shut up and mind your business. I was not talking to you. Mooron

I don't quote senseless liars like u as well, just that your lies were absolutely repugnant...

How is your slave of a husband?
Senseless liar...

lielbree:
The same thing u do for your family is the same thing my husband does for his. And I NEVER said it's his duty. He does home chores because he likes it. Not that he is trying to pls me. I respect my husband a lot for your information. Back to the issue at hand, this woman should keep off her brothers marriage.

All these are lies....
Which man like home chores se ef?
Home chores na better thing make person dey like?

If u as a woman don't like it, why screaming my husband like home chores....

I pressume he also likes going on errands as well...

Lies....

daretodiffer:
You don't have a wife

Yes, I am all of the above

Why are you wondering whether I would be a good wife or not? Do you want to propose to me?

How I wish u can meet her...

My wife is a true definition of pure humility and what a virtuous woman should be and act like...

I recently developed great respect for her when I saw comments of some married women on this forum, most especially comment like yours, devoid of respect and sanity...

I'm not wondering, I know u won't make a good wife, unless u drop this attitude...

Characteristics modesty and diplomacy are part of every good woman, which u obviously lack...

The break up thing isn't true....

daretodiffer:
Can you please shut up?

Wife ko wife ni

How can this ever make a good wife?

No modicum of diplomacy...

I'm proud of my wife, she is decent and respectful, not as abusive, arrogant, disrespectful and senseless as u are...

Silly thing...

naughtynaughty:
Why cnt guyz keep der hands off der pants especially wen dy r relaxing or wen dy r alone? Fantasising or wat?? Jump in2 a male frnd's room unannounced and prrrrhhhh his hands r deepd insyd his shorts.

Wt r those hands doin der criosly? Jxt touching d Johnthomas or stroking it? D funny tin is sumof dem will remove d hand and still smell it talk abt a reason not to shake guyz


Its nt hygienic abeg..

Are u contesting for the NL 2016 president of silly thread openers?

If u are, u already got my vote....
Do remember to pay homage after ur victory...
Goodluck...

Askseek:
Yes mind your business is applicable in this instance. How a husband and wife interact is not your business. If it bothers him that much with no eyeservice involved why did he not ask his uncle or say something to his uncles wife. No the best way is to put it out here. If he was also talking about his personal business then with all pleasure let's break it down. However he like the other person are just tojubole eyeservice peeps. So when you chase the non-kneeling wife who cooks and makes him happy away, who will he bring to marry his uncle. For a young man that is not married, isn't it cheeky to determine what should or should not occur between husband and wife? And those who are married know one thing, and that is that no two marriages are alike. Lets mind our business when we should and make things that should be our business our business.

What has ever been our business on this forum if I may ask, that we can't resolve within the family and associates unit?

U simply don't support a woman serving her hubby on her kneels without reservations...

Why not disclose your reservations, that is how courageous women act. instead of hiding behind the mind your business wall, while u subtly portray your points...

Because u know most of the issues u have commented on has never been your business..

Askseek:
Lovely, your wife derives joy in doing it does not mean others will. There are probably a few things your wife will not do for you that another man's wife will do for him. The issue for me is not whether she kneels, bends knee or not. The issue why won't you guys mind your business? It's not your home so mind your business. When you get to your house then do what you want with your wife or husband. Is that too hard?

When normality becomes abnormal, it becomes everyone business...

Stop using "mind your business" as smokescreen...

All the issues that has been discussed on this forum since inception has never been any one's business..

Has all the issues u have commented on any of your business?
Why the sudden mind your business on this one?

So even if the uncle is killing his wife he should also mind his business, right?

The young man saw something unusual from his own perspective, the least u should do is to make constructive input, cause u and I know that all the issues that has discussed on this forum has never been our business...

So why the mind your business thing...
This is a public forum, designed for issues of all sorts...

Estharfabian:
You should also create a thread about this...
Lemme give You some insights...


"10 Things All Guys should fix before A Responsible Woman Could Marry His Ass..."

Potbelly×× just thinking about it gives me the creeps! ugh..
No packs/Muscles--Another big Turnoff.. Is Treysongs not A man too? his packs Are amazing!
Snoring In bed×× We already have enough noise pollution as it is.
Too much beards/untrimmed goatie..A huge turnoff..××
Too Much Sex..×× Girls are Humans people!! not sextôys!
Grumpy Attitude××
Too many Social networks..×× one humanbeing would be on Fb, whatsapp, bbm, Nairaland, IG, Yahoo, Twitter, snapchat, Skype, IMO... ugh! it shows you're very unserious..
Bad Cook... It's Imperative that A good husby should learn howtah Cook...Not just indomie!

Good hygiene--its No news that guys wear their boxers twice a year? y'all need to change that too.. Girls have nose!
Unwillingness to do chores--He should also learn Howtah do laundries.. e,g his wife's undies and all that? very romantic...
ugh!! the list is endless!!!

I think I'm done? thankme later?

A casual comparison between ur points and that of the op bespeaks how senseless u are...

Silly girl...

Why are woman all over this thread....

Are they all scared of kneeling down....

It's simply a sign of respect, not slavery...
My wife derives joy in doing it....
Don't know why those here are grumbling....

MemphisDepay:
I aint begging for love o.. You don't even knw me.. I don't fall in love easily. But dis girl question seems to be d one!

Peruse ur last paragraph...
It exudes fear...

MemphisDepay:
Fellow Nairalnders, my question now is, am I on the right track,? Will she gimmie a chance? What are the other things I need to do to make her say Yes!? Matured Advices please. Love you all!!

U are a coward!
U really need to drop this attitude...


Don't beg for love.....
If she accepts ur proposal, fine...
But if she doesn't, cool.
U don't need to beg....

Relationship last when the feeling is mutual....

EgunMogaji:
He knows that I don't need a supervisor on my site. I'm hiring him as a bricklayer.

It's a 24x24 feet open foundation with no partitioning.

Okay...
50k is too much then....

Degis:
The social media has been awashed with the Baby drama of a young Nigerian Musician, named Davido and his former girl friend, Sophia Momodu.

I have watched with utter dismay the way the issue has been handled with utmost ineptitude displayed by both the relatives of the 2 young people and have put myself in the shoes of the 7 month old baby in about 21 years from now whenever she googles her name and read all the sordid drama surrounding her past.

Please, lets have your say on this matter could have been handled better.

What actually happened BTW them?

Divafaith:
It is not a crime to help your spouse.we are no longer in 1977. ;DIt is not a crime to help your spouse.we are no longer in 1977.

What happened in 1977 if may I ask?

EgunMogaji:
I recognize you Sir and I thank you for your time.

I absolutely want people that work on my site to be happy and contented with our negotiated rate but it's this Americana pricing that they give me that causes me concern despite the fact that I plead with them that I don't want to bargain.

The builder wants N50,000 and Iron bender wants N35,000

50,000 naira is much...
But maybe your builder included supervision...

adebaxton:
The outline below will make them work happily.


Pegging and setting out- NGN 4,000
Digging foundation- NGN 8,000
Setting of foundation blocks (I calculated approx. 60 blocks per course and 4 courses)
60blocks x4= 240 blocks( Mason NGN 35 per block,labor NGN 15 per block) 35+15= 50 X 240 blocks= NGN 12,000
Casting of pillar- NGN 7,000

What should I pay an iron bender for:
Setting up nine short pillars- 900X 9 pillars and mat = NGN 8,100

What should I pay a carpenter for:
Framing the 9 pillars- NGN 6,000

Thanks.

Nice analysis sir...
But is the 4000 naira pegging money for materials or Labour?

And is the 50naira Manson Labour for 6" or 9" blocks?
Will the 900 naira work for short pillar height of 7 feet?
Thanks.....

naughtynaughty:
wetin dey ur eye o

Ana xes dey ur eye...
Why not discuss it with ur man...
U gonna like it...

Only when the position is axial torsion like sha o..