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AndreSalvatore:
"if she likes him glory be to god" ??
Like she's some kind of trophy to be won?
Mehn, pusssyy worshipping is real.

Op, she's attracted to u already n all is left for u is to go with the flow! never act lovey dovey just to attract a puzzy!

Exactly

RedPhoenix:
Letting the emotions do the talking. This is the maximum straight route. It's drying and crazy, doesn't need explanations of any sort

Exactly. They respond to that better. No time to waste.

RedPhoenix:
Hahahahahahahahaha

Yeaah, it works. If he finds it hard to go directly for the kiss, he may hug her at first, then kiss her on the neck and then graduate to the lips. If the girl is truly feeling him, trust me, she'll let him, since they will both be in a private space. Except she's not feeling him. You can't be a slowpoke with these girls and you can't be chasing them as well. You get the drift.

RedPhoenix:
Gbam


That's why I counselled the Op to drop the hint and walk away. It worries them more than anything when they don't know where they stand. That's how it should be, let them feel the pain males feel with them doing the pursuing.

Exactly. Yeah op should drop the hint, in fact inviting her to a private place and trying to know her is enough for a smart girl to catch the hint, he shouldn't hesitate to go for a kiss when he gets the chance to kiss her, ladies like that action, that confidence in a man. That was how I got a girl claiming to have a boyfriend sometime ago, tho what we had was very short, she literally cheated on d guy, I only invited her to a very private cool spot, and I went for the kiss when I had d chance. Boom, that was it, rest is history..

If he has the chance to sleep with her that same day, he should go ahead but he shouldn't commit immediately. She'll be the one chasing him up and down that way, she'll chase for his "commitment".

RedPhoenix:
My new goal with women is simple, you do the asking me out, and use your emotions, I keep mind and do the playing around. No time, bro. I don't do anything with a woman that doesn't do the asking or labor for winning over my heart. That way, she bleeds and goes through rigours that'll make her behave well whenever she thinks of misbehaving.

You're doing it the right and best way. Men are the prize, once you get that, you won't stress yourself anymore. Any girl that can not fit into your rule can go away. The only thing a man needs to do is approach and make your interest known, she has to do the rest by chasing you directly or indirectly. No more attention to undeserving females again. Men are the prize. When you're a high value man, a lot of them will come around. Just approach, subtly make your interest known and you choose from those that chase you. That's the logic bro. You're doing it right!

RedPhoenix:
Well, many ladies are being more straightforward o. Despite being engaged and all, I've had atleast five females approach me directly within just the past few weeks. Na me dey run now.

Let them be straightforward with you, it's left to you to accept their offers or decline. They approach me all the time as well, they come in different form, age and shape. But that won't make me be straightforward to the ones I'm trying to woo.

RedPhoenix:
I agree too, you have cogent points.


But even in a relationship ladies will always be ladies. Ladies are never straightforward. They like to be in the position of pursuing than being pursued technically so one doesn't come off to cheap.

Yes. Exactly.

RedPhoenix:
How do you get see from any woman without emotional connection and getting to talk?


And what's the difference between both things, what you said and what I said?


I actually deliberately asked him to ply the route of the straight and direct way so he won't waste his time not that I'm unaware of the circular activities ladies play, I just don't want him in that loop as from what I discern the Op wants to be in a place of certainty. This doesn't need any more confusion to add to his present confusion


If it doesn't work out, he bounces. It's not a death sentence na

The straight forward and direct route is not advisable for anyone. I learned that d hard way about girls. Females love the mystery and I'm sure u know that. You just don't put everything out like that to a girl that isn't your girlfriend yet.

RedPhoenix:
She likes you already

Why complicate things.

Just get her digits and write how you feel for her telling her you have strong feelings for her. And that you respect her and that's why you didn't want to take it up with her personally

End the note by saying you'll understand if she doesn't feel the same way you do about her. But can't keep it to yourself.


Do this and keep mute she will continue from where you stop

Lool. This is so untrue, isn't it a Nigerian girl we're talking about here? Like u guys still haven't learned enough?
See, women don't like u to be so straight forward, either they like u or not. Especially when she's very attractive. The moment he pours out all his strong feelings out like that, the girl will start to find him unattractive and may start to ghost him. U forget it's all games to most of these girls, and u have to play it with them to score.

He should simply get her number, invite her over or visit her, they should be in a private space and discuss and get to know each other more, he should maintain eye contacts, touch her often, be confident, get to know her, crack little jokes and all. She'll let him kiss her if she's truly feeling him, and they can move further from there. Simple, no need for any 'loving you'.

He shouldn't pour out any feelings o. A guy chase sex first, the rest will follow. She should be the first to pour out feeling, not him. My 2 cents.
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MadeMan01:
You women don't like truth. That is what Reno is saying. Go to your baby daddy for assistance simple.when girls are young and prime of their beauty, they feel, the world revved around their ass and say no romance without finance. When they get used pregnate and dumped, they remember Philosophy, God and nice guys

Exactly. At least if they stick to a responsible guy that truly loves them, if she gets pregnant, he'll most likely accept her(even if he's not rich), marries her and take full responsibility of her and the kid. He'll go to any extent to provide. She won't be begging random men all about.
But NO! Most of these girls are after highest bidder and get pregnant for him knowing fully well that he doesn't love her like that. Highest bidder will flee, abandoning her and d baby.

RavagedHeart:
That's just it. They always had their chance to choose the responsible guy, but no. They'll always make the wrong choice and expect another person to pay for it in the name of help.
I don't know how the men folk degraded to this level of women pleasing

Don't mind the weaklings. They forget women play games all d time even when it seems they're on the loosing end, it's all games and manipulations to attract pity from men and use men. She knows how to sort herself out.

A lot of black women are never nice to men, they only show fake love to the men that are winning. Women are users and they're so ruthless to men in their primes. I don't know why these weaklings of men are trying to play Mr. Nice guys to these women that don't give a fk about them.

RavagedHeart:
Reading through the comments here I can only conclude that we have just a few real men in existence.

What Reno said may sound harsh, but it's the truth.
The type of men we have here will always bend the truth whenever the truth is making the womenfolk uncomfortable.

Exactly. Same women that wouldn't look their way before they got pregnant. Same women that go for d highest bidders until highest bidders use and dump them.

smadav:
my lack of patience have cost me a lot of pussy, I no fit pussue you pass one week, are you queen Elizabeth abi u carry gold down there.

Same here. And you should know that you're doing the right and best thing. Your lack of patience isn't what cost u a lot of pussy, she wouldn't have agreed in the first place even if u chase her for months! or she'll agree based on conditions u wouldn't like at all. When they don't agree on time, it's a way to finesse u and expect u to simp, while they profit off u, stl doesn't guarantee that they'll give u the coochie OR she's in a serious relationship. If a girl doesn't let u in within a week, I suggest u leave her alone, a girl that truly wants u won't give u a tough time, she'll not let u go even if she has to call u or text u.

Their problem. They should keep doing it. They should deal with anything that comes with it too.

dederocs:
Its funny how they think a man is a fool,when only trying to be decent.

Yup. They even term u as 'maga' for things as little as 'dates'. It's that bad.
Take them out on a date at ur own peril. When u planning to get to know her, she's planning to come eat free food and ignore u after she has eaten what she came to eat, and call u 'maga' to her friends. You may stl see same girl with another guy(maga) the next day on another date. It's why I'm skeptical about taking any girl out on a date these days, they've abused everything.

dairykidd:
You got some points tho.. and funny part was these girls were not even fine or sexually appealing to me in any way. I just did what i did.. but i come observe them dey communicate with their eyes after eating to their fill.. I almost laughed out loud watching them

It's actually not about beauty, it's more about personality. It gets worse when they are two, three or more. They'll attempt to play u and make u look like a fool no matter what u feel towards them. All their lives is built on games&manipulations, nothing more. Even their love is fake, cries..fake, emotions..fake, spirituality..fake, appearance..fake, and more. it's all an attempt to get something from u. That's why I don't get bothered or surprised with anything they do anymore, I've seen enough and I now understand the female nature to a fault.

dairykidd:
Some girls dey fuckup sha.. still remember one December night back in Bcity about 3 years back i was just taking a walk when two girls stopped me n complained how they came to Benin from asaba for an occasion n they're stranded blah blah.. my hand soft so no issue. I asked them what they wanted and they said food. I needed company not even sex n besides they werent my spec at all...so i took them somewhere good that i know and they ordered wtv while i was on green bottles. U need to see how these babes where rushing it i asked them to even order more n when they were done i asked them to join me in drinking n they declined. No qualms i started a convo with both of them but i noticed their countenance changed after eating to their fill. Before u know it they started saying they're in a hurry and had to go find their friend. I didn't even bother that they left without a simple verbal appreciation. For their mind them done catch uncle mugu for ordinary food. I still help out if i can although i prefer helping out niggaz more n it never gets lost..

Not surprised. This is how a lot of them do if you give the room for it. Most of them just feel sooo entitled and they feel they can use guys as they please, snub&ignore those they feel can't be beneficial to 'em. Men just need to wise up, it's what we've been preaching... Females are playing their games smarter tbh. It has always been manipulation&games with typical Nigerian girls since childhood but some guys don't get that. Females are just soo fake with everything and it has always worked for them

Romance is dead in Nigeria now.
Girls manipulate men all the time but simps don't learn on time.

Xavin:
In my own opinion, wooing/Greenlight don turn trap. Imagine say woman woo you or give Greenlight u come Gree. Just for it to be a trap, so she can use to foot her bills. I dey get Greenlight on a steady, but I just dey wave am

You're right about this.
This made me remember a girl that came to meet me in the mall theater, she even acted like she wanted to pay for my movie ticket but I declined, we watched movie together and joked together all through. We decided to meet the next day at my place, she came over and we started touching each other and all until I got my biggest shock when she billed me 5k before she can have sex with me, I was like 'what' . I declined and told her to go. I don't do oloshos. Tueeh.

Onuhgabriel:
i can't just do such pure wickedness and hurt her emotion, it's better i let her go "nothing last for ever"

Lol. Wickedness is fvcking her? don't worry, another guy will help u out in doing that. Most of u young boys be treating girls like saints, like they don't like sex. Lmao

If the roads were good, this wouldn't have happened. Bad roads everywhere, you can't even drive without fixing your car every now and then.. yet police, road safety and d likes still want to extort you. #endbadgovernance
RIP to this family.

CosmicPhoenix:

if they are almost worth the same thing, there will be most likely no divorce settlement but your logic of marrying a hardworking woman who is below your level won't work, she will get divorce settlements.

TRUE

Plead:
Bruv,the most common excuse used by these women during divorce is that you upgraded them and made them live a life of this and that so you must pay them to enable them continue living such lifestyle.
A woman that's as rich as you that you didn't upgrade and has her own shît won't be able to bring up such excuse.

She has her own properties on the same ratio as you too. She won't be able to rip you off because both will be shared equally and both of you will have nothing to lose or lose together.

You still don't seem to be understanding me but it's okay, every Mallam with em kettle according to Erigga. You can go and marry a woman who's way below your earning level because you want someone to Lord over.

Okay. I get your point.

CosmicPhoenix:

Hardwork did not stop Jeff Bezos ex wife from sinking her teeth into his fortune during their divorce

Will she do the same if they're in the same financial status? Maybe, I don't really trust women as they're never satisfied. Marriage is just simply overrated over there. It was designed to ruin the male folks.

Plead:
Lol, you're the one who didn't understand me.
Marrying a hardworking woman who's way below you isn't any different from marrying a jobless one because during divorce you'll be taken to the cleaners. As long as you're way richer than her there'll always be enough reasons for her and the judges to rip you off.

"Hardworking" is about her zeal, her mindset to be productive and not being lazy, not by what she earns. A low-income hardworking woman is million times better than a jobless gold digger(even if this gold digger has a small job). When you get closer to them, you'll spot the difference.
If that is the case, what makes you think a woman you're on the same financial level won't divorce you and rip you off?

Pstarogood0100:
You are right bro.

From my own point of view. Marrying a richer lady is not a problem if the guy is equal to the task. Some guys have what it takes to handle a rich wife.
Some guys would marry a lady below them financially yet they flop.
I know some guys who has what it takes to handle any type of lady. If, the rich lady can play by their rules, let her close the door behind her, SIMPLE.

Yeah, people are different. To each with his own.

Plead:
Then stop wailing when those ones way below you take you to the cleaners during divorce.

Read what I said clearly. An hardworking woman is different from a jobless woman, get the difference. I'm talking of marrying an hardworking woman who isn't as rich as you. I hope you understand now.

Plead:
If you don't want a woman to cripple you with divorce it's simple, marry your class. But no, these folks keep marrying women that are way below them in earning and social status.
A woman who's as rich as you can't bring up some shitty reasons as to why she wants you to give her this and that, it won't work.

Don't wail after marrying a jobless lady and upgrading her then she turns around to rip you off during divorce.

I'll agree with you if you had said one should marry a hardworking woman but not necessarily as rich as u tho. I don't think it's advisable for a redpiller to marry a woman with same financial status as his. A woman who is as rich as you will find it difficult to submit to you, it's the fact. Submission (not enslavement) is compulsory for a relationship to work.

aminu114:
i used her to test what u hv been posting on this thread and i found out she is hypergamous prosttute

Lol. That she is

aminu114:
few moments ago i was chatting with a girl on whatsapp we exchange pictures she im handsome and cute we continue chatting i asked her if she come nd spend time with me in a hotel room she said no problem she told me on tuesday she will be free from 10am to 7pm so she will come i said no prblm but im sorry the picture i sent to u wasnt my pic i will send u my real pic to avoid further prblms when u come nd find out im not on the pic that i showed u i send her a picture of another the guy is just normal regular guy dressed in a normal way but not as handsome nd rich looking guy like the first picture after seeing it she started insulting me and asking me she looks like a prostitute to me nd i should go and have sex with my mother nd she blocked me

All this you are doing here, including your chats isn't redpill. You simply lied to her and sent her someone else pic. Maybe you were just trying to push her buttons. She sure wouldn't come again when she realized that you have lied to her, she will not trust you again with that move. U should have simply used ur own pic and smash her, she's probably a runs girl. U can not confess to lying and expect ppl to take u serious again. Well maybe u were just using her to catch cruise anyway.

Harry00:
Me too, their boobs are alike

That is Cossy