₦airaland Forum

samuelpeters:
Men dn suffer for women hand.

Lol
One thing I admire about black women is that they play their games very well, they leave you to be deceiving yourself by 'loving' them while they play games. Men better keep the same energy, men are just waking up to the harsh reality about women.

michaelpop50:
Make money or not, just avoid Naija ladies, 70% are now prostitutess including the working class own them.

FACT

Ifeoluwav:
Since money became a big issue in the society that is one of the consequences the society faces, and it is getting worse as time goes. If the wealth gap between the upper-class, middle class and lower class reduces with other things put in place, this consequences will reduce.

True

Nackzy:
I just tire for them, the other one bought IPhone 11 for one girl, while the wife is using an old generation Android phone

This is very common now. They don't care to spend anything just to get the coochie. They don turn most girls to runs girls finish.

Just make money for your own good(not because of any girl), money is what most of these girls know. Romance is dead a long time ago.

Jannuxajj:
That's not the issue. it stems from decieving these girls. They end up wasting their time

Some men even lie to them that they aren't married. These girls will start looking guys on the streets like she's above their level. Well this is what most fine girls do in Nigeria now anyways, dating G guys and sugar daddies, it's the sad reality.

humilitypays:
Women love sex more than men but hypocrisy and the way men pester them for sex won't let them confess or show how much they fantasise about wild sex experience.



Modern ladies are more wayward than guys but very good in hiding their true color.

Many of them now have sex for a living.

Notoftheworld79:
This era is characterized by highly rebellious women. This times are the worst times for a man to find a virtuous woman to marry. The modern woman is his competitor and saboteur, yet needy. It is foolish to marry this type of woman. Only men who are afraid of celibacy will marry these types of women.

So true

HeliotJ:
I know I have to make money because she need to care and her child, but she is not sex with me. I want her to love me but how can I to do that? Please help me already I use to spend all my money for her but she doesn't show appreciate of it

Help yourself by reading this thread from page 1. You'll get the answers you seek as you read. Read and learn.

Skepticus:
You are a good guy. You both deserve each other.

Make more or borrow more. Steal, if possible.

Train her further to be better than you in English even though you need it more.

A man must sacrifice everything he has to make his woman better than him to show that he truly loves her.

You can also, try making moves to get married to her as soon as possible. That way, she would give you sex.

Trust me, I'm an experienced dating coach and marriage counsellor.

Loool Abeg no finish this guy. He seems not to understand your sarcasms .

TheRollingStone:
Just as they say “women drag men to redpill”

This one loud oh
Some of these women are ready to push men to their early graves if care isn't taken, now we know how to at least manage them at any given circumstance, thanks to trp for enlightening us to use our 'heads' instead of our 'hearts' to deal with any woman. How can any sane man with 2 balls intact have issues with trp. A big shame on all white knights trying so hard to derail this thread.

Martinez39s:
SMH.

Don't mind that one.

dajobi:
I'm burning.

I'm in pain.

The reality hit me hard the past few Weeks.

How do I heal from this?

No job any longer.
Broken to pieces by the same woman I've loved all my life. The same woman I dated for 4 years before we got married in 2018 just after my 30th birthday. Gave me a baby the same year we got married but need I say the baby and her were never mine? Got pregnant for the same ex she claimed was a deadbeat and good for nothing man ( too much stories here that I can not say here for some reason)

I've been deceived by everyone I've ever loved. I'm not worthy
Nobody can give me love

I've been somewhere reading all these things after a friend refer me here, the more I read, the more I hate myself and what I've believed of her that she can't do no harm.

I need directions. I'm so lost. How can I even come to terms with all the things I've read here?

In my Next life, I'm not getting married again. Marriage with her made me empty

Lost my family, friends and everything cuz of her

Sorry about all you've been through from this lady. I'm glad someone referred u here. I'm sure some positive impacts will be made here. I hope you get the help you need here. You may start from reading this thread from page 1 to the last, and u follow up everyday. Read and learn from here everyday. You will feel better as time goes on, you're not alone. We live, we learn.

Limitless72:
Finally someone that understands..
A woman would come up and say " I'm not ready to suffer or struggle for/with any man. I don't have that strength. I need a man that would cater of ALL of my needs because that's what men are meant to do. They are meant to work,while we(women) are meant to relax and eat"....

Nobody would see anything wrong with that statement she had made. Some men would even come up and say- that's true, we are meant to be 100% responsible for our women

Then a man shows up and say "Hey baby girl, you're the perfect slave and slut I've been looking for and you must serve me all the days of your life"

People would begin to channel all manner of anger to the man response. "Why would you talk down on a woman like that", "Nobody is a slave to anyone", "Then your sisters are slaves too", "Women are equal to men", "Just because a man had a dick doesn't make him better than a woman"...

Lol..
Nobody reasons what the woman said that triggered the man's response

It's sad. I'm still baffled with the way some white knights still criticize us when we say the harsh truth. They don't see any problem with what the materialistic lady says, if all ladies think like this, even the white knights will find it hard to marry. They're quick to mention ones 'sister and mother'. No one is hating on women but the truth has to be spilled.

Limitless72:
Actually I don't need to tell people to go through your profile. People virtually view it everyday

Yes you're right. You know who you're. You know you're not strong, you know you would need to depend heavily on a man to survive, you know marriage should be the saving grace to your financial incapacitation.

You know you see marriage as a way to escape poverty.

But when a woman talk and admit that's the kind of person she is. It's not a bad thing, just that women like that would be seen as lesser human or slaves to men.

I don't know why you're not happy with what I said. I wasn't trying to hurt, or insult you. I was only saying the brute truth.

Thank God she confirmed she's not strong enough to withstand a broke man, the weaker vessel. Then she shouldn't have a problem submitting to a man, she should look men like kings instead of bullying them on here. The hardworking women that are ready to pull their hardworking partners up in tough times instead of discarding them are the real mvps cos they know being broke is only temporary. A man just needs a little support and motivation.

Many of these ladies want rich men yet same women flare up when men demand for 'submission'. You haven't said anything bad, it's just the harsh truth.

fabiano09:
when you have just a little money ,have a car,stay in a nice estate ,you'll then realise that all you've been reading on nairaland is true ,women worship money ,even men ,everyone respects money too much ,especially in Nigeria ,they want to greet you they'll call you boss ,or they bow. Women's love for money shows more maybe because they depend on men for their survival

This is true. I can relate.

anochuko01:
Funny thing is that brokenness can happen at any stage in life. The worse is when it happens after marriage due to unforeseen circumstances. Where would you run to?

Though it's important, but Ladies shouldn't see money as the most important thing in a relationship. Don't leave a wise and hard-working guy simply because he doesn't have money yet, rather play your part to make him great and enjoy the rest of your life in the arms of he who's gonna cherish you for the rest of his life.

You get sense. This is exactly my point.

CAPSLOCKED:
RICH PEOPLE SUFFER INFIDELITY AS WELL.
IF SHE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU SHE WILL, DOESN'T MATTER IF YOU'RE DON OR NOT.

Fact. We have very few girls like this lately.

paulolee:
nothing bad being broke but staying broke is the worst...was dead broke tru out db first month of lockdown bt na still dt first month I burst kpekus pass..
my point is dt if ur package legit, babes go still believe u die even if u go broke n e go even ginger u nt to stay broke

It's even normal, a lot of ppl go thru this except we're lying to ourselves. We are in a country with a dwindling economy, being broke will often surface except you're into some deep illegal stuffs or you have a very good paying job(which is hard to come by these days). Nigerian girls aren't just considerate and they hate the reality of things, they want things rosy at all times because of the illusion of social media and how yahoo boys have made everything look so easy, they're quick to broke shame ppl doing well than them. Ppl get broke from time to time, staying broke is what is bad.

ReluctantAdult:
I know a guy whose girlfriend told him he isn't supposed to get angry when she's seeing other people. Her reason was because though she's seeing all these people who give her gifts and money he can't afford to give her, he's the only one she loves and that he should be grateful she's still with him even as he's broke.

Guy bought the story completely, and now he's okay with other people fccking his girlfriend so long as he doesn't know them.

When he asked me what I thought, I told him I needed a very strong drink, because that was a lot of bullshit to listen to at one sitting

She should have just broken up with him instead of stringing him along. If the guy becomes very successful and dumps her now, this same girl will have audacity to tell everyone that she stays with him when he was broke, but he leaves her when he got rich. Good riddance to bad rubbish!

JOACHINpedro:
Brokeness(assumed or real) is not a permanent stage of life for men, like a sensation it comes and go. The amazing thing is that it is the time men separate parasite from host. It's like the moment of truth
They won't tell you this

Exactly. This is the time to know who is who.

Zzor:
Why should a broke guy reason relationship to begin with.A broke man should choose his priorities right and not to stick his neck around a woman who may frustrate his life due to his financial situation.God bless all men and women hustling in a proper way

Wait, think about it critically. What if he was doing well financially and wasn't broke before they started dating. What if things just went south all of a sudden.
Typical example is those ppl their stores were looted by hoodlums, I personally know some guys that have hit the rock bottom as a result of d aforementioned, should their women now start to cheat on them or they should leave their women because they're broke now?. Ppl also lose their jobs and all...We're in Nigeria, anything can happen to anyone just anytime and there is no financial support or backup from the govt.

@ Limitless72 I even responded to her comment with this. She ignored it. We men just need to be careful with who we have a relationship with, many of these modern generation women won't stay if things change(which may even be temporal) hence the high divorce rate in recent times. Many of them are just incapable of love. Men should be careful out there.
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PresidentJosh20:
Only poverty can push young damsels like this one to marry her ancestors' mate.No single fear at all for the prick of the igbakeji orisa!It is well.

No fear at all o, a 31 year old girl. A lot of women will marry/sleep anyone for financial security. It is what it is.

luminouz:
Lol... Then there is nothing like love.

Abi o. Looks and money get u sex. In fact, money alone will get u sex, I disagree if anyone says money don't get you sex. Even rich simps get sex with their money eventho they overpay for it. Also money get u fake love. Love is overrated.

Riener:
Simp GOD

Yet none of them will date the simp lord . Just like some white knights here on nairaland.

GLYCOLYSISS:
I may probably not know much about redpill teachings, but one thing i know for sure is that no man that genuinely understands women nature and the tenets of redpill teachings is going to have anything serious to do with a hoe, let alone go as far as walking down the aisle with one.

It's an action that contradicts everything being taught in the manosphere, every single one of it.
He just literally fulfilled her second phase of her mating strategy, by being the guy that finally got to pay for what most guys got for lesser amount ,or even free, went as far as hosting expensive wedding for it, paying bribe price and whatnot.
That certainly don't sound OK to me, but certainly way less when compared to you actually trying to rationalize it!
Damn!

And lastly, you got the message pansophist was trying to convey totally wrong.
You totally missed the message in that write up, and will appreciate if you could go back and read it again ,maybe these time everything could fall into place.

Lol. Reminds me of Ice Prince that his flashy ex gf was cheating on him with one rich Mr. Akin in some hotel, she was really exposed that year . A big slap on my nigga's face, imagine if he married that slut, what will become of them? I hope he wasn't really serious with her tho. U can't turn a hoe to a housewife, it goes against the redpill theory.
Many foreign and local rappers are simps tho. Tho we can't judge what anyone truly is through his music until we know them personally, we can only get a glimpse through their married or dating life.

So funny

Telegram234:
i follow the studies of Ubunja, Harddon and Dpsycologist.
The rest redpillers are quacks. .

U forgot to add Glycolysiss

Ogaga87:
Reno should calm down....

Abi, he's becoming rebellious. Make them no go wound am. He's not that hard to find, no one is. Buhari and his cohorts are ruthless. They just never get him time.

favor914:
Somewhere in the United States purportedly shadow boxing? When the cat is away, the rat will come out to play, I am sorry for Reno Omokri, from Aso Rock to his self imposed exile is affecting him, only the guilty run when no one is chasing, most definitely he is guilty of something, to the best of my knowledge 99% of the people that worked with Jonathan did not runaway, there is nothing like political prosecution in Nigeria, we have freedom of speech, so why is Reno running?

Lol. Make he stay, make Buhari treat him fvck up.

jodpoundz:
well you know am not really that experienced with women, so far have only got one rejection about 6yrs ago and it didnt end well with me cus i felt so bad that i never spoke to any woman for about 2yrs exept my mom, if i have numerouse rejection i dont think i would even seek for help here cus i'd be experienced

Be ready to get a lot of rejections from girls. Everyone can not like you. That shouldn't bother you tho, just work on being a high value man by focusing on your goals and girls will flock around you. And always remember there are a lot of girls in the world.

lanrefront1:
To some people 650k seems like a money out of this world..

So somebody of his status cannot move around with 650k in his car?

Abi. It's not even up to $2k. Considering the society we are, he shouldn't have still moved with that amount of money tho.
Maybe they would have believed if it was a Nigerian actress.

slawormiir:
damnnn niggarrrr
Nice

Where is the real Slawormir?