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erusen:
we protect peoples right and curb discrimination on race,sex,religion etc,but in the dially case of insurgencies in the country,preventive measures have to be taken,and the woman in question is a brat,first she wanted reg without a passport which nt granted then she started creating fuss and distracting the own place embarrassing her seft,threating every body that she is a ministers wife.

erusen:
what harass,can ur face be snapped when covered

powerfulsettingz:
then NCC too should shift the dead line a little bit
am an mtn worker I can imagine what I will be facing again today at work with the crowd

Wyttcat:
Does that thing last forever? I was around 14 years then, and I don't know if that was before madarikan or after. My great grandmother really tried for all around her though, especially me. That woman never allowed me to bathe with clear water, na so so agbo 365/yr. She was a woman like a man.

Wyttcat:
Even AGEMO sef!
That was how one skirt wearing man in full agemo regalia and known very well by my great grandmother as one of the Agemo followers was raining curses about having 7 days to live and all just because he met me at a secluded place, he said I should have stopped and turned my face. I was just looking at him like what the hell is this man saying. He died within 3 months of the encounter, and I'm sure he found out that spirit pass spirit and not to curse an innocent girl.

Oladipupo22:
I am writing this on a very sad note...

I was in the village this past weekend to spend few days with my extended family and to my utmost surprise, I was informed that there is an existing "oro festival" going on, and that I must make it indoors by 4pm to say the least.

Coincidentally, I got to the village by 4:35pm all looking empty and deserted like a grave yard. Out of intuition, I decided to start looking ahead of me before I walk down any path.

Three paths away from my Father's House, I discovered the procession was just ahead of me, I ran for my dear life. Three things happened to me while I was running for my dear life:
1. I misplaced my phone, a massive Tecno Phantom 5
2. I misplaced my wallet
3. I had to forgo my luggaes which they now have in their possession ( Luckily, I had ONLY new wears I've not even tested in it).

Now, here's my grouse with this evil, barbaric, satanic and extinct act: After loosing my phone which I had used to take beautiful pictures because of its picture quality and suave, my games are also gone, Is this ORO of a thing supposed to be continued in this time and age?

My money is also gone! I will so miss my phone because of its become my perfect companion


PS: For the non-Yorubas who don't know what an oro festival is, it is basically a festival celebrated in Yoruba lands either after the death of an Oba or a special atonement is to be made in the land and it involves sacrificing Humans!

kaziblake:
I'm sorry to say this but you still have slave mentality.
Pls go and marry the white girl you are advocating for.

coldsummer:
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I am strong member of APC but i dont allow party affiliation in the way of my judgment. That man is a good man and he truly represents what true leadership is. He's doneso well for his constituency that sometimes I wish he was the senator representing us.

This man should write a book on effective leadership.


Unlike David Mark the thief.



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Generalkorex:
I knew dats why I hate it bro

Generalkorex:
I hate the way olubadan is being chosen. That is why their Kings dnt live longer on the throne.
Congrat to the olubadan o.

BCISLTD:
younger men finish for ibadan?






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MarieSucre:
I only advised him based on this post. In this POST I did not see anything about the woman sleeping in a strange man's house or the like, so apologise if I gave him incorrect advise without seeing the whole. As you can see I did tell him at the end of my post that if it does not work out he should seek closure or do you wear glasses.

Me advocating for op to give this particular woman attention who is also his woman does not equal me advocating for MEN not to get attention. Pls stay on the issue. I can't help it if you have comprehension issues.

The rest of what you wrote is trash that I can barely deign with a response.

From a white ass licking man slut like you. I laugh in Swahili.

Na your kind dey bring shame on Nigeria like that stupid Ideye Brown. What are you still doing replying me on this thread. why don't you go and prostitute yourself for your green card. If you go hard enough you might become white soon. mtchewww


scantee I thought she was not cheating on you but just having a crush. I didn't see it as something to throw away something you have invested in in. But if she is cheating in you, dan Allah don't look back, just walk away. The world is such a big place and no human is worth such continuous heartache . Run!

edit never ever EVER listen to olodo jomoh.

viviangist2:
Am i right or wrong

blessedfavoured:
You are WICKED!
So much emotional manipulation to the point where it's not fair

@scantee She won't learn now. I've seen it happen to too many girls around me. The moment the boyfriend is trying to move the relationship to the next level is the time devil in the form of ex or another random prince charming decides to show up.

Most of them end up dumping the boyfriend for ex or the new guy and they get burnt really badly. That's exactly what your girlfriend is going through.

Just give her space, she'll come back to beg you herself. Trust me.

MarieSucre:
OP scantee pls I beg you. Ignore this jomoh fellow's advice infact throw it into a trash can till Jesus comes. You can see that he is also a "white people" worshipper and a bitter man. And I bet he is not even married or in a committed relationship.

Now to your issue.

This is one of the problems of long distance relationships. The physical side. Now I am not talking about sex, but the bonds that are formed with being in close proximity with each other. Its now even made harder with the fact that she is in a youth environment (university). Where all he needs to do is show her some attention and she starts having doubts, meanwhile all she is able to get most of the time from is your voice on the phone. Women like attention. Humans in general like attention. I will liken your situation to a child born into a family where the father is always on transfer or works on an offshore rig. He will bond more with uncles around his compound and in school than the father who is hardly ever around.

Now it is not your fault that you can't be with her as she would like, you guys are in different stages of your life. Marriage MIGHT harmonize that, but that is by the way. I am neither excusing her actions because she is in a committed relationship and if she had any misgivings about the relationship, she should have communicated with you. I am just trying to see her position. Communication, that is what I advice you to do now. Have a heart to heart with her now. Iron these issues. And if you have or can create breaks from works, spend it with her. Let her have your attention and not feel like she can get it from elsewhere.

Finally keep in mind that a lot of the guys on this forum(from their comments) are still in "sampling punanii" and "girls are bitchess" stage. You on the other hand are a responsible man who wants to get married. You can't run away from every problem or treat it like you're a teenager. Because that is what all that "make her jealous crap" is all about. Abi are you in secondary school? So communicate with her and try to make it work, if it doesn't then seek for closure. For both your sake, I hope it works. Goodluck scantee

DICKtator:
Good advice bro

But you lost me when you advised him to date a banker. Hahahahahahaha
Not to sound biased, but dating a banker is even worse. Either marketer,bank operations or management.
Most of them are "pass around", if you know what I mean!!

grandstar:
search "untouchables in india" or "caste system in india" on google

scantee:
thanx my Senior Special Adviser on women wahala matter.

tooman:
love Doc. you nailed it with "saying".

blackrules1:
Sahara reporters.....

Bayo Ajia was never an Aye.

safejo:
Bayo ajia was an Eyie @OP, but all in all the end result of being a cultist is death. its painful that the peace being enjoyed by the good ppl of ilorin as been shattered as the cultist are now on rampage, according to report reaching me 3 ppl as been murdered few hours after his death............ run away from cultism he who has ears let him hear.

grandstar:
India is a stratified society. There are 4 caste and each one knows his place.

You also have the untouchables.

Even Indians can't just marry anyone. Everyone knows his or her place

scantee:
just that the more she calls & text the more i feel for her and melt, and all these our outing/tripz pics on my phone & laptops is not helping matter @all, & i don't even have the mind to Del them..just can't believe this happning to me, but i have to face the reality.

scantee:
thanx bro much appreciated...sad reality of life, believe me some gals is the reason why many guys turn to playboy, seem few don't appreciate real love. What a wasted years. I think i just have to go & get tourist visa & get lost out of this curel environment 4 a while.

scantee:
i think i will bro, though she hardly admits having any suitor, she always make believe she don't give room for such knowing well that she with me already. I have to now just that it may not be easy, but i think is right time, though the two families is gonna be @ crosshead but i don't care anymore. All i needed now is someting to take away mind off her, unfortunately this is happning @ the wrong time because i am on leave now, & i always spent such my leave time with her. I think i just have to travel out for now.

scantee:
bro i understands u quite alright, my major concern here is that she seem to be confused about what she is doing as if she is under something, she is a different person when we are 2geda, we have issues mostly when she is school.