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YES YES YES YES YES!!!!! why on earth not? i really, really, hate it when i have to ask, but if push comes to shove i WILL ask!arent you guys supposed to be friends, and if u see a friend needing help u'll just stand by and watch? 4 all the women out there singing beyonce's "independent woman" na una sabi. good luck to u. i used to be that way before i wised up. Yes, i DEF believ a woman shld hav her own cash, but the guy too has responsibilities. you have to make him get used to carrying some responsibilities else u'll wind up like my nieghbour who's always whining that her hubby doesn't pay the kids' fees or give her money etc. And he's loaded! she too was doing 'miss independent woman-i can pay my bills-buy my own stuff-etc. i can't abide stingy guys, cos i happen to be generous myself. not with cash per se, but wot about gifts? seeing a nice shirt or palm slippers or something, and buying it on impulse even tho its not his birthday cos u know he'll love it? woteva happened to lovin and givin? |
Pastor done marry o. All him pickin dey VGC dey chop big life. et a hubby here on earth, Do worry, if you don't get a hubby here on earth, you will get as many hubbys as you like in heaven!@hixxx1 u no serious! |
sleekymag:Na wa o. i think this guy's brain is a pentium 1, or worse still, an abacus!! put a sock in it, bubba!!! Goodness, you are soooo pissing me off, who sed anything about flings? or you think the sistas who contributed to this thread are airheads with no control? this post was just meant to be humorous, and most peeps got that, chai! seun001:Thank you o!! |
yeah, i get it, but she should still chill a bit. if and when she needs to, she can always subtly influence her man to keep him at arms length. the trick is not to be agressive about it n put all parties on the defensive. And we women are good at that sort of thing, innit? ![]() |
Hmm. the famous female intuition. and no, im not laughing. i assume ur not nigerian right? i guess u feel left out not understandin the language. well, my 2 cents: i dont think at this point there's anything you can say that will not make u seem like a paranoid, controlling, clinging female. i mean, wot do u want to tell ur guy now? "keep away from him-he gives me creeps?". you cant exactly tell him who to speak to n who not to- u can only influence it, very very subtly. calm down. bide your time, u dont know 4 sure if they will be such great friends yet anyway. |
ruky_ivy:@poster & ruky-ivy 1.Kai!! i SO CANNOT believe ladies still think like this. U can change who? u can get him to be born again? na u be Holy Spirit?? chei, aanu e se mi! do you realise that even in marriages where both were unbels and one got saved, that one could spend the next 10yrs of his/her life praying 4 the partner to get saved? im not saying you shouldnt share the gospel with him and try to get him to God, but do that with a very, very clear head. afterall he can prtend to be saved just to get you. be careful!! 2.So wot if ur almost 30? should u be in a greater rush than ur maker? [b]3. Do u realise that the real deal might just be around the corner, and the devil has seen it, and maybe planted this unbel guy to sidetrack you 4 life?[/b]4. do you realise that this is one decision you cannot afford to muck up? 5. girl, always remember Jer. 29:11 : For i know the thots i think towards you, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. @ ruky-ivy, i hope ur married. if u are, case closed. if ur not, girlfriend better scrap the "i can change him" mentality, and real fast!!! forget xtainity now, even in character issues, if you cannot absolutely love a guy WITH his flaws, then just forget it. you will surely frustrate each other, and make him miserable because you will 4eva be trying to fit him into YOUR moldby nagging or woteva. evryone wants to be loved for who they are. still @ ruky_ivy just a question, im assuming ur single now, if ur dating a guy with a violent temper, the kind you know has a 99% chance of degenerating to physical abuse( assuming he never beat u sef), wuld you still marry him in the hopes of changing him, becos u don dey old? |
donpapa: cescky:Eeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!! una no well! |
@ poster 1. u sure say na u be dis 2. neck dey pain you? 3. wuld have been better if u sed ur lookin 4 missing rib, i'd hav bin interested. u no read shakespeare, abi u no know say the two of them die? i nefer wan quench so abeg change ur tiltle then mayb i'd reconsider!! ![]() |
iykedee:my sentiments exactly!! ur girl wants to walk, i suggest you let her. pity is a very poor reason for stayg wit anybody, dont try 2 guilt-trip her into staying, u'll eventually hate it. and if she ever comes back after "sampling", ull be the world's greatest fool to take her back! if u were not good enuff to stick with, why shld u be gud enuff later after she's goten her fingers burnt? dont be anybody's shock absorber. all the best |
kai, which kain post be this. u people just dey make me salivate like anything! give me amala+ gbegiri + ewedu+goatmeat+cowleg any day! and i also looooove all those igbo/calabar soups-edikaikong, banga, afang, oha-the whole works!!! altho yoruba, i learnt to cook these igbo soups very well-i will not tolerate my future husband walking off to any yeye calabar kitchen, calabar kitchen go dey im house kampe!!!! ![]() |
my own personal grouse against omo OBJ be say she too dense. the gal too mumu.i mean if u go chop frog, i go chop the one way fat, well well! lol! i do not condone corruption, im no thief, but i tell u nairalanders, if i go chop gofment money, i'll go 4 it with guns blazing-no way will i go down 4 a paltry N10m!! you go thief the kain thing wey be say EFCC go fear to summon you. (just kidding!) |
begood1:spoken like a typical male- comot ya shirt go 'tanda' for main market- c ya mouth like fling |
Or maybe you're more interested in lusting after male bodies than commanding and enjoying the respect of other human beingscrikey, why are some guys so…, . please read the original post really slowly, maybe u might eventually understand. No guy was ever in danger of being ''jumped'' (I speak 4 myself and I believe at least 98% of the ladies. We leave such caveman tactics to u men. The ladies are just humorously trying 2 express themselves, that although they never show it, and most wuld rather be skinned b4 they’d admit it, that attractive men going topless gets to them. Which ‘result’ will be seen by all in some years? Chai, I tire 4 u o….loooonng hisssssssssss |
Bishop:@ Bishop, abeg, go suck a bug!!! ure reacting like a typical neanderthal man-missing the entire point of my original post and getting raw and crass When ths stick begins to react what will u do.into the bargain! |
joomiegirl eh yaaaaaaaaaasheniqua, na small e remain. but if i had, the guy no go survive am. he looked that delicious! ![]() Maybe girls should start grabbing men whenever they are attracted to their bodies.@ just good, guy,get a grip! im a perfect, well-bred xtian lady. and i never sed i was lusting after every topless male body, i simply sed i had surreptiously scoped some! ![]() spoilt:Girlfiend, you get the picture!! And yes, jokes apart, we are simply saying we've seen enuff. some of us really do want to live 4 God and ultimately make heaven. So,d next tym u go to those single xtian forums and the ladies are being diced for pushing brothers to perdition wit their dressing, please remember that the brothers are not 2 far from doing the very same thing. chikena!!! |
this remains one the most interesting posts I'v read so far, heard girls talk about their love for watching athletics, one of them was candid and said she doesnt watch it for the love of the race, its the guys in the tight stuff showing off their "glory" both in front and at the back!, More proof i tell yaHuh??, !!! wot in the world is tripping about a bunch of sweaty guys chasing a ball? well, each to her own, i guess! ![]() |
[this remains one the most interesting posts I'v read so far, heard girls talk about their love for watching athletics, one of them was candid and said she doesnt watch it for the love of the race, its the guys in the tight stuff showing off their "glory" both in front and at the back!, More proof i tell ya |
@joomiegal@ mohot, y'all dont need to get uppity. YOU sed it urself, people RAISE eyebrows when u mention that ur a Cele person. Beats me why. and girlfriend, i attend RCCG. all members in the house shout halleluyah! . and we SO do NOT use candles. c'mon girl you know u guys use candles, break eggs at T-junctions, woteva. ive met nuff cele people, lived beside some. As for forgiving me, aint nuthin 2 4give. As for wisdom, my humble suggestion to you is that you pray 2 God for it, at least to UNDERSTAND if there's really something to the "eyebrow-raising" that got u stumped in the first place. all the best!!! |
Toya_tc:thanks, toya! spoilt:Spoilt abeg no kill me wit laff! !!!!! my sentiments exactly!![quote My sister you've spoken well Personally I don't like seeing strange men with boxers. I'm a Christian too. It's almost impossible for your eyes not to zero in on his "arsenal" when you see such and their endless "abunna" grabbing just screams, "take a look at the actual size" It can be disgusting too. it's like they're checking if it's still there and at the same time showing it off That's just my guess. I can even handle all that,I'm covered by the blood the one that I find utterly disgusting is an overweight man shirtless and wearing little shorts. A big don't if you ask me For one the shorts at the center dissappear into the crotch area and they keep pulling it down tufiakwa!! then on the top,you are basically forced to look at the disgusting man boobs without an accompanying double D bra. the overhanging belle nko?. and then if he has bush growing on his chest,needing a lawn mower, that's a whole 'nother issue let me stop so far,I'm sure we all get the picture ] [/quote]@ snazzy dawn ladies, ladies!! I did not start this thread 4 us to drool, but while were at it , i am so feeling you! I love tall, lanky nicely built guys, and LEGS too. ( not the skinny N80 dried yam ones o!!) chei, I can never 4 get the day bak in schl then, I went to visit a broda, a great friend I’d always taken as a broda at his hostel and he opened the door wearing nuthin but shorts, an itty bitty apron(he loves to cook) and glasses Till date, this guy is my YARDSTICK for measuring sexy legs. Im serious. I never looked at him quite the same after that. Never told him either ![]() make no mistake about it guys, u don’t gatz a monopoly on oogling!! Make una just try help us reach heaven! |
@ Almondjoy its interesting how the sista called almondjoy who once described herself as "an avid sportswoman" in the area of bedmatics (more power to you, sista sista, i wonder if the reason ure so nasty 2 christians is becos a teeny weeny part of ur conscience pricks you? u dont have to answer that.but for ur sake, and for others like you, i hope u dont wake up one day on the very, very, hot side of eternity! And just for laffs, its people like you who when they do finally turn to God, end up being even MORE active in their propagation of Him. There's hope 4 u, my dear. |
@ evrybody: all u brodas out there campaigning 4 hair, make i ask you dis question (and iam yelling it): IF YA SISTER BRING THAT CRAZE PERSON WEY DEY PLAY KEYBOARD 4 DAT PHOTO WEY UNA SHOW NOW, COME YA HOUSE, NO BE BROOM YA MAMA GO TAKE CARRY PURSUE AM COMOT , !!!!!!! ![]() when i was a kid, dreads were wot we used to identify mad people. if im lying please feel free to correct me, anyone. personally, i feel even weaving makes guys look irresponsible, no matter how much of a rave it is right now. this is nairaland, and we are naija people!!. still at the brodas, would you weave your hair to a job interview? No? why not? becos it makes you look IRRESPONSIBLE!! that is the truth. Even white guys who we can say naturally have longish hair would PREFER to have a short cut before an interview, at least an interview they're serious about. why? cos even THEY know it makes them look irresponsible and unserious!! QED!!! ![]() |
®Th£ Sly®:@ the sly, u'll c nothing bad about them until you got some chick chanting 'sly, sly," over a red blue, yellow and purple candle!! donpapa:great idea!!! ![]() |
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@ poster: you shldnt be surprised pple are not replying. at the risk of soundins supercilious, i must say most maybe people hav finaly found the UFO topic a wearying, crashing bore. I mean, wetin concern ezekiel's wheel-within-a-wheel, and the reports of green men flying? Ezekiel saw a vision. simple. The foreign tabloids in the 80's were obsessed with the topic-everybody kept claiming UFO sightings, but with no substantial proof. im an avid reader, since childhood. i know man will always be curious, wanting more knowledge-we were made that way.and really, there are some very real, but unexplained phenomena-like the bermuda triangle thing. whole planes and ships disappearing-and NO debris wotsoeva from the vessels and stuff like that. some people say they were taken into anoda dimension. maybe. my point is, our mind, right now, becos of our fallen nature is quite finite as compared to the way we were made, it simply cannot grasp the infinite-we will be able to that when we recieve our incorruptible bodies @ rapture. St. Augustine, was walking along the beach one day trying to grasp the concept of the Trinity. he saw a little boy playing in the sand; the child had dug a hole and was scooping water into it with a shell. when St. augustine asked him wot he was doin, the child replied, "im trying to pour the sea into this hole". That was when he(St. Augustine) realized that he was trying to the just the very same thing. I find the UFO concept quite ridiculous-the suggestion that there are little green men on mars or whatever. my bible doesnt tell me that. Equally ridiculous is the notorious big bang theory. only a fool, looking at the design of life, could assume anything happened by accident. Nuff sed!! my point is, there is enough of the mysterious around us, that God only can explain-thats what makes Him God!!! so relax, when u get to heaven u'll know all!!!! good luck! ![]() |
you are worthy to be glorified, where would i be if you had not been by my side, how would i rise to meet the dawning of the day, your tender mercies always caliing from behind me, at times ii could not see you, even though you are close by, Lord you are good, you are good and your mercies forever endure!!!!!!!! |
Guys And Their Indecent Exposure - The Flip Side (From A Female View!) As a Christian, I've often gotten rather sick ova guys whining and blaming ladies' dressing for their sins! yes, i know som of my sisters out there are rather wild, but i always felt the guys should get a grip on their own hormones. when the topic of dressing comes up, all attention shifts to the ladies, n then WE take the bashing endlessly. wot about the guys? why do they feel its ok to prance about in nothing but boxers, do they think we're made of wood? Face it 99% of guys will think nothing of sitting with a lady visitor in just boxers and chatting 4 hours. they feel just because they don't have boobs its ok. my neighbour just the other day innocently changed his top in front of me, and left me struggling 4 air, the body was, wow. now wot if, i'd grabbed the poor guy and blamed it on indecent exposure, harassment, oppression etc, nko? lol and thats wot u guys claim we do to you.they feel just because they don't have boobs its ok. well its not, and me i am protesting!!! You guys need to start looking at how YOUR dressing affects ladies, and while you're at it, please lose the drooping jeans - it aint sightly!!! |
@ syrup girl more power 2 you. e be lyk say u really hav power in ur fingers to keep typing to this jagoon person. @jagoon i gat just one verse 4 you, wen u stop trying 2 justify (or Pacify) ur screaming conscience, you mite wanna read it. its Rev 22: 11, n lemme quote it 2 u anyways: "He that is unjust, let him be unjust still: and he which is filthy, let him be filthy still: and he that is righteous, let him be righteaous still: and he that is holy, let him be holy still. V 12: "And behold, I come quickly; and my reward is with Me, 2 give evry man according as his work shall be". To chikena!! |
em bros, my last post wasnt finished, the "wonder how u got from scoping a nice body to making love" part, i meant in my Mind ooo. biko. just read my post n saw it came out sounding like i did it. nah. still holding on fast to those hormones (and my Salvation!!!) ! |
@ phizzy i feel you, it aint easy. im born again-tongue speaking-sanctified-spirit filled- the whole works!!!! but my body? doesnt seem to know it smtyms. i gat this neighbour, cute dude, poor guy doesnt hav the foggiest idea wot his walking around topless does to my mind. he's a christian too, and a friend. the first time it happened, i spent the next few weeks dreaming of those arms, flat tum and chest, (can u see ive started again!) wreaked havoc wit my prayer life 4 weeks cos evry tym i got down 2 pray, it came up n off my mind would go!! u get the picture. the thing is u cant stop birds from flyin over ur head bt u sure can stop them nestin in it. once it starts, just squash it fast or else u'll keep savouring it, n like me, wonder how u got from just scoping a nice body to making love, lol! |

ure reacting like a typical neanderthal man-missing the entire point of my original post and getting raw and crass 
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