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Africa is the bed rock of civilization, as time went on she gradually lost it

this one don see say her colleague for the business don buy jeep, so she want her own too thats why she dey advertise her product

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Masonkaycares:
Going to church doesn't signify the fact that you'll go to heaven. Some people go to church based on the fact that " If I don't go people will talk" which is absolutely wrong. Go to church because you want to and not because you are forced to. She can force you to church but she can't force you to heaven

I like what u wrote, people that go to church because of what others would say and people that were forced to church are no better off than the one that stays at home, most times they all ended being a bench warmers. If you want to serve God do it with all your being, might and heart

chumaZ:
Nairalanders I need your advise, please pardon my grammar and my typographical errors as I am under pressure, I will try and make this story short in order not to bore you guys

I finished school 2016 and went for nysc at abuja 2017 unfortunately for me I ran into my best friend supposed fiancée since I know her too well, we bounded till one day she ask to know where I stay in abuja, but because I was staying with my aunty, I couldn't take her to my place.... One Friday morning I got a call from my bestie that his girl is down, that I should take her to hospital, I left whatever I was doing and rush down to apo resettlement. When I got there her fiancée was in good condition to my greatest surprise, she begged me not to let my friend know, that she needed attention and all that. she didn't know it will got to this extent, and I agreed with her and bid her a goodbye but she wouldn't let me go until I kiss her.... I swear I had no option if that would make her free me because she was creating a lot of drama already. I kept cool and avoided this girl till I left abuja after nysc and never mentioned anything that happened between her and I to my friend.

Fast forward to October 2020, my friend called me that her fiancée have an event to attend in yaba Lagos for a week and want me to accommodate her since I stay in two bedroom apparent alone, I refused and suggested it was better he get a hotel room for her, my friend said the girl have not been to Lagos that it would be better she stays with someone who's familiar with Lagos. I contacted a female friend I know to see if she can stay with her, but my friend's fiancée' complained the place will be far from where the event would be taking place, my best friend was now seeing me as wicked person and I don't wanna help his girl. I had no option than to allow her to come stay with me, I made sure I invited my sister to stay with me for the one week, to avoid temptation. But my sister couldn't stay for a week because of some personal issues, that's how I was left with my best friend fiancée, I don't wanna talk about what I pass through staying with her alone but I ended up having sex with her which I regretted bitterly, when she left Lagos back to anambra I pleaded with her not to chat me nor call me, but she wouldn't listen. She's always chatty and sending me nude which I finally blocked her. A week ago, my bestie called me that he was in Lagos and would want us to meet, I was reluctant, because I can't stand him after what happened between me and his fiancée, when I got to the bar(venue) the face I saw around his table were kinda strange aside one of our old friend who was with them. Uncle no even allow me finish greeting before I know it a broken bottle have landed on my hand, his target was my face but thank God I defended on time, that's how my blood spilled everywhere and his friends tried to calm him down while other ones was giving me general beating like a common criminal. Thank God police arrived on time, I might have been a dead man today over a girl I never wanted to help.

Please I need help on how to go about this and clear myself from whatever this girl told my bestie, from the little I heard, she claimed I raped her during her stayed with me. Although I have got a lawyer now who is handling this issue but I still wanna clear myself before my friends, none of them believes me maybe because of my lifestyle back in school. Even my family are aware of this ugly issue and are calling me bumper to bumper, because me and my bestie are from the same village and we are like family friends. I don't know how to clear my name. Please help me. I am depressed already, I can't believe my OG tried killing me

o since u said she sent u nudes, use that against her, send the nudes and chat u both have to your friend and tell him she seduced you

na Ogun go kill this man last last

damm just watched the video, whites are really crazy

Islam is a thorn to the world

Anoymus4u:
Good day fellow Nairalanders.

I don't know if I should ever trust my soon to be wifey. I proposed to this lady last month during the festive period, although I have seen a one or two red flags but I decided to ignore them and forge on because I felt every one had their own shortcomings. Including me.

One of them was, I read her whatsapp chat where she told about 4 guys that was wooing her that she doesn't want to accept to date any of them because she doesn't want to be in any relationship and she likes being single and she wouldn't mind having them as friends. It was a tale of mixed feelings for me cos I was furious with her telling those guys she was single and won't mind keeping them as friends when she was very much in a relationship with me. Why not tell them that you are already in a relationship? I was glad she didn't accept to date any of them. I went ahead to propose to also assure her that I'm here to stay and not wasting her time.

Second was that she had so many exes. She chats with them freely, and wants to hook up with them at any point. She's very vulnerable to compliments. All the chats I saw with her exes, they already know her weak point. Once they start complimenting her beauty, her features and the rest , she will to hear more and more and more. From there they would initiate a meeting. Your guess is good as mine.

When confronted, she begged and begged and promised that there was nothing between them blah blah blah. I chose to forgive her and let go.

Out of my curiosity, I decided to clone her whatsapp at least to get to track her and to know if truly changed because the wedding is coming up this EASTER. I don't want to make a life long mistake.

We had a little issh this weekend, she had to find solace with her ex. She started painting me wrong to her ex, saying that I don't appreciate her, and that she could have chose the ex instead of me. Her ex started persuading her and start complimenting her. Before I knew what was happening. The guy start sending romantic pictures and sex videos, telling her he wish he was there he could have used sex to ease her pain. She also responded by sending sex stickers back to her ex.

They have fixed appointments by Friday evening 4th Feb. They are to meet at a bar/lounge. From there, they would surely want to make out. But it wasn't stated in her chat with the guy.

I don't know what to do at this point. Should I confront before the D-day tomorrow or watch as things unfold? I love this girl and practically done the best I could for her. If she eventually goes out with this her ex. That's the deal breaker right there. She's a gooner.

Also should I be worried because of her vulnerability? She likes to be complimented. I give her tons of it, maybe she enjoys outsiders the most I don't just know. Won't this be a problem if all this storm is over and I decide to marry her? A little compliment she's hooked. I could go on and on.

with the chat I'm seeing if they meet they will definitely fucck.

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ShackWes:
this gender is so useless


now imagine men uploading their pricks to seduce or what's the fûcking purpose of this?

they do that because they know men likes it

SpicyMimi:
I enjoyed my stay in the school hostels, it was really fun all through.
At one time, I had these roommates who were fond of farting, and I ain’t no learner in this, so it was a farting war and we enjoyed it

My roommate had a squatter, who sleeps a lot, it wasn’t my business until I became a victim of her slumber.
I usually go to the bathroom without towels, it was fun as it was a female hostel.
This day, unknown to me, men were working in the hostel and I had just finished taking my bath. Then, as I was about leaving the bathroom, I was informed men are on the floor, so I ran back to the bathroom. After a while, they left then I walked to my doorstep...lo and behold, the door was locked from inside. I knocked and banged the door, no one opened, few minutes later, I heard “Men is coming o” Ah! Men coming ke! I wasn’t wearing anything! The bathroom was far away from my doorstep, So I started to bang the door even more harder but my roommate no wake up o! I was even crying, wondering why this had to happen to me. As the voice of the men grew closer, I ran with speed to the bathroom, unknown to me again one of the men was already in one of the rooms I ran passed and he saw me...I almost fainted! I cried so much after the men left, went back to my room again, this time with intentions to bring down the door, then my roommate opened, yawning like say naa mid night we dey! I was sooooooooo pissssssed!!!!

eyaaaaa sorry nextime wear towels

dinosaurs are such a magnificent creatures, I wish they were not extinct

see belle

dry bones walking, the way she pose self she think say she sexy

oluayebenz:
School resumption can be suspended but NIN registration continues......

FG is doing wonder!!!

Covid-19 indeed

they have not suspended school resumption bro

u are reaping what you sowed . u have gonorrheastaphnylococushivcorona virus, visit the nearest hospital

Watching, i think this new decade is going to be intresting, the world we knew before can never be the same again

Ryan03:
are you into it? From what I got from friends who run the same stuff, they open by 7:30am and close 6:00pm. That is one secure way. But then, some areas are just death traps expecially in Benin

Yeah in Benin, but I don't know about other state

all I know is that its an eazy spot for armed robbers. but the business is lucrative

its nature

mtn worst. dem they really dey exploit nigerian

praying for Nigeria is like praying for a fowl to grow teeth. churches have been praying for Nigeria since 1960 but things are getting worst. there are some things that does not need prayer. Nigeria needs sacrifice and effort

its so because they have made men to think they don't like it, that men do enjoy it more and thats a lie. women enjoy sex times two more than men. t

motherofperpetu:
WHAT THE ROSARY IS

FIRST ROSE: PRAYERS

THE ROSARY is made up of two things: mental prayer and vocal prayer. In the Holy Rosary mental prayer is none other than meditation of the chief mysteries of the life, death and glory of Jesus Christ and if His Blessed Mother. Vocal prayer consists in saying fifteen decades of the Hail Mary, each decade headed by an Our Father, while at the same time meditation on and contemplating the fifteen principal virtues which Jesus and Mary practised in the fifteen mysteries of the Holy Rosary.

In the first five decades we must honor the the five Joyous Mysteries and meditate on them; in the second five decades, the Luminous Mysteries, in the third five decades the Sorrowful Mysteries and in the fourth group of five, the Glorious Mysteries. So the Rosary is a blessed blending of mental and vocal prayer by which we honor and learn to imitate the mysteries and the virtues of the life, death, passion and glory of Jesus and Mary.


From St. Louis De Montfort's The Secret Of The Rosary.

bunch of idol worshippers

IntersexSherry:
So una look me finish talk say i resemble man with breast. Lol.
In wat way i resemble man? Not in my voice, not in my hairline, not in waist, not in my hips, not in my thighs, not in my backside, not in my laps, not in my hands, not in my face, not in my feelings, not in my steps
Make una take time oh..
Stupid blind men full this nairaland thats why i prefer white men.. Infact i don't do naija guys, i find them too narrow minded. Only 5% get sense.
Thats why we women just use you guys for money .
Recieve sense.
The serpent herself.
To my fans who got eyes, enjoy viewing my feminine beauty...

something tells me u have no friends, and u are very depressed.

pls continue