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Romance / Re: Should I Be Scared??? by Joshchi(m): 6:03am On Nov 19, 2022
Why not get a lawyer first. Do you have the papers to the land?


Rosaline5000:
I will make this short as possible, my Mom died about 8 years ago and she left a piece of land in a very good location like 24 hrs light supply in the area, before my mom died she has already built to window length house on the land.
Anyway I was in school and really didn't give attention to the property, one say my Aunty who I was living with said she want to raise the building up, I told her No because I know how family drag properties and I didn't want to have problems in the future since I was the only child of my Mom so I basically inherited the land.
Long story short my Aunty didn't listen to me and started completely the building my mom left behind, at first she was telling me her progress and making it look like we both are partners in this project.

Then for the last 4 years or so she stopped telling me about the progress, instead she was calling the property her own, even her own children was calling the property her own, something happened which made her stop the building 3 years ago but still she keep mentioning she is the owner of the property.

Me on one hand dont want to fight to drag property with anyone but we had a little misunderstanding the other day and she got angry that I reminded her of the land claiming that she has spend so much on the building that the house is supposed to he hers and if I want the house I will have to buy it from her.

I am so tired because I am currently staying with her and as much I dont want trouble I know that money can change people and make them do unthinkable things.
My thoughts now is Should I be scared in this house??
I am planning on leaving but it's next month before I can access my funds and to me it's a very long time
Romance / Re: My Experience Dating A Married Woman by Joshchi(m): 7:39am On Oct 25, 2022
You're overthinking this and probably dealing with guilt. Just shut it down and find a way to focus on your life. What's done is done. Forgive yourself and move on

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Politics / INEC Calls For An End To Misinformation by Joshchi(m): 1:42pm On May 14, 2022
By Calabarblog

The Independence National Electoral Commission (INEC) has called for an end to misleading information and fake news as the 2023 general election gathers momentum.

The commission’s National Commissioner, Information and Voters Education, Festus Okoye in a public lecture on the topic ‘political disinformation causing the spread of violence through the use of the media’ held in Transcorp Hotel, Calabar to mark Sparkling 92.3 FM four years anniversary, said the media, is the critical component of the society, has the key to make informed choices, responsibilities of awakening the masses consciousness, and bringing about societal cohesion.

He however bemoaned the misinformation against INEC, elections and voters registration especially in the new media, positing that citizen journalism has changed the context of the media and there should be a form of regulation of citizen journalism.

Barr. Festus opined, political misinformation is the grandmother of disorder and fake news especially with the use of social media adding that misinformation in present day society has led to specter of political violence where politicians and supporters misconstrue facts for selfish interest.

He sued media practitioners to be knowledgeable enough to know everything; not only identifying misinformation but also to authenticate information that comes to it especially pertaining to INEC and elections.

He charged the citizens to go get registered and obtain their Permanent Voters Cards, vote and protect their votes as elections are not held on social media.

Meanwhile, the Nigerian Broadcasting Commission (NBC) has warned broadcast stations of unethical conducts.

The State Coordinator of NBC, Mr. Peter Omamogho, while speaking, said as political activities in the country muscles up, it is important for broadcast stations to adhere strictly to the commission’s code of conduct.

Peter disclosed that the broadcasting body is geared to sanitize the air wave in this political festivity and any station which defaults to its rules and regulations will have no option than to “help the commission pay fines” that will follow.

Giving a pep talk at the event, the national president, National Youth Council of Nigeria, Solomon Adodo called on youths never allow themselves to be used for political thuggery, ferment violence among other vices by politicians.

Speaking with journalists shortly after the event, the General Manager of Sparkling Frequency Modulation (FM), Mr. Joshua Moses thanked God for the success of the event.

Moses said attaining four years of broadcasting is laudable and looks forward to great improvements.

The event which was highly interactive with panel discussion by Dr. Macfarlane Ejah and Mr. Jonathan Ugbal also witnessed the cutting of the anniversary cake and group photographs.

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Romance / Re: Your Favourite Radio Station by Joshchi(m): 4:53pm On Oct 20, 2021
Sparkling 92.3 FM, Calabar
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Just Scammed Me by Joshchi(m): 6:15pm On Mar 15, 2021
Hardgun:
Oga go police stationarrest her sister or her mum if she failed to show up

Did her mum or sister defraud him?
TV/Movies / Re: Why Big Brother Naija Contestants Are Not The Biggest Winners Of The Show by Joshchi(m): 8:28am On Oct 07, 2020
wallex1983:
So it's not Buhari's fault all the way?

Lol, Buhari can't be blamed for everything.
TV/Movies / Re: Why Big Brother Naija Contestants Are Not The Biggest Winners Of The Show by Joshchi(m): 3:35am On Oct 07, 2020
meobizy:
...and that is why educational shows hardly exist. The simple truth is, claim as we may, nobody watches them.

If educational shows get hyped as much as Big Brother Naija sponsorship will come.
TV/Movies / Why Big Brother Naija Contestants Are Not The Biggest Winners Of The Show by Joshchi(m): 3:02am On Oct 07, 2020
Brands are the biggest beneficiaries of the success of reality TV shows like Big Brother Naija.

Many people have wrongly assumed that it's the housemates. Not really.

Since their participation in Big Brother Naija, reference their Facebook and Twitter social media handles and you will see the level of engagement they have. Compare it to two years ago before they started leveraging the show.

“What these shows do for brands is to create the desired impact on consumers at the lowest cost per thousand.”



https://digitallagos.tv/blog/the-evolution-of-reality-television-into-an-advertisers-delight/
Family / Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Joshchi(m): 4:48am On Jul 01, 2019
Your Uncle wants to feel important that's why he's upset that you went over him to fight for yourself.

I advise that you keep your head down and deliver on the job but make it clear to your colleagues that you will defend yourself if they make the work place uncomfortable for you, this includes your Uncle.

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Romance / Re: Please Help!!! by Joshchi(m): 8:03pm On May 03, 2019
miib:


Go to the Police Station and report the case in order to prevent future occurrence from the same man and serve as deterrent to others.



Tell your sister(s) to start wearing something moderate enough!! Sometimes what these girls wear attract the opposite sex which gives room to what happened to ur sister.

Before a garage thug can start fantasizing about someone, if I may ask! What is their connection like! Does she talk with them or sell goods to them??

How old is she?

Very stupid post

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Health / Re: Blood In My Semen by Joshchi(m): 8:21am On Apr 05, 2019
Goldenboy333:
Re: Blood In My Semen by smithes: 8:09am
Most likely Prostate biopsy




Solution please

GO TO A HOSPITAL!! THERE'S NO SOLUTION ON NAIRALAND

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Career / Re: Sack Of Married Female Staff:Lawyer Establishes Facts Against Globacom,sues N50b by Joshchi(m): 7:46am On Mar 22, 2018
Millz404:
Madness must be running in his brain... I go hustle open conpany then you go come tell me who to hire, fire or retain because you dey follow me pay their salary

Don't be foolish. If you disengage a worker based on tribal, religious, tribalist or marital discrimination then you'd face the law. Grounds for dismal are usually misconduct or company's downsizing

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Romance / Re: My Twin Brother Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation. Help! by Joshchi(m): 6:42am On Mar 10, 2018
Nairalandtwins:
Seconded but I am afraid this will make things go from bad to worse

That's a risk you must be prepared to take. Fending for him and catering to his whimsical demands have not done any good. Let him chart his course and see how difficult and different life is. He might just wake up to reality or not. Your silence and financial support for his lifestyle seems like tacit approval. so cut those out.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Question An American Asked About Nigerians Stealing Their Jobs And Reply He Got by Joshchi(m): 12:00pm On Mar 04, 2018
t00dugged:
Do you know the funny part of it all, most of this immigrants wouldn't do the kind of jobs they do in their home country

While you still holding this thought, please tell me how much a dish washer in Nigeria earn or a Mason, and the other grueling jobs in African countries earn compared to their wages in America.
My point is you pay competitive rates for a menial job and that wage can help one feed, get an accommodation and an education then you'd find people doing it gladly.

Once upon Ghanaians were shoe cobblers, hairdressers, water Vendors in Nigeria. Although that didn't stop Nigerian from doing those jobs.
Health / Re: Dr Linda Ayade Performs Surgeries With Her Medical Team In Cross River (Photos) by Joshchi(m): 6:08am On Feb 24, 2018
mazimee:


She is the wife of the State Governor, you don't expect the media to ignore her . It is just Like Wike and Tambuwal attending NBA meeting, you don't expect them to be out of the sight of the media.

Odili and Wike's wives are Judges why do they not have the media in their court rooms? Moreover, why is she doing this now? Election period. Ask your self kwestion oh

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Family / Re: Man Dumps His Blind Wife In Port Harcourt, Packs Out Of His Home With Housemaid by Joshchi(m): 8:43pm On Feb 22, 2018
canDy4eva:
I know Emeka idika from childhood and would categorically say this story is false. Madam Margret please stop this thing you are doing and sort things out with your husband that loves you with his life. Why dint you tell the media how he bought you a car and gave you a personal driver, why dint you tell those that care to listen how he opened a shop for you so that you will be comfortable, did you tell them the Lion you are and how you suspect every move Emeka makes knowing fully well that he is a well known media personality, am a woman and would NEVER stand to support a man maltreating a woman but in this case you know you are lieing and only want to destroy your husband's image by all means. EMEKA may have his own but not what you are telling the world. God is watching.


I just confirmed your story from someone who knew them. I guess the woman's insecurities reared it's head and she became volatile leaving the man with no option but to leave.

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Romance / Re: 'Thank God You Didnt Have Kids For Him-hubby's Family To Wife Mins After He Died by Joshchi(m): 7:14am On Feb 19, 2018
Chicagoesontop:
After reading this i noticed 2 things, 1, the OP does not like Igbos, because nobody forces anybody to drink water of a deceased, for instance my dad is late but nobody asked my mum to sleep with my dad's corpse or drink water of his corpse.

Secondly, that guy might have committed a secret offense to his family members, who knows if he wanted to use any of his family member for rituals and died on that process when they found out, hence no chill from his family members. Am just thinking aloud !!

You made sense until the second paragraph

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Gone Rogue. by Joshchi(m): 7:38pm On Feb 18, 2018
Taiwofait:
Hello everyone,

This is the 1st time I am posting something like this and it's because I don't seem to know what to think or do anymore and I strongly hope this get posted.

I am sorry, but the epistle is quite long. I just have to try and explain as explicitly as I can.

I am a 27 year old guy, a Bsc holder. I am in a relationship with a 24 year old lady who recently had her masters from my school as well.

We are both in love with each other however we have trust issues.

On my part I used to be a flirt but I immediately dumped that character immediately I met her. She became everything to me. Our 1st few months of our relationship I was very loyal, caring and I was everything I should be, unfortunately along the line I started discovering some irregularities and after some investigations I discovered she wasn't as clean as I thought. She's still decent though but truly it affected me because I had total trust in her.

I didn't exactly go back to my former ways but I did started trying to find an alternative should incase she disappears on me [something I later discovered was a bad move] because she kind of found out and that made her distrust me as well.

Consequently, we didn't trust each other anymore, but every other thing was in place. We loved and cared alot for each other.

Our relationship lasted a year with a whole lot of drama, so many break ups and make ups and very recently something happened and that is the reason I am here to ask for your help.

During one of our misunderstanding periods, I met a lady in traffic and gave her a lift, no bad intentions though, we got talking and became good friends. I told her about my girl and the issues we were having and she empathized with me, gave me some tips that can help us. She was just my friend, nothing else, as at that time.

I couldn't tell my girl about it because I knew she was just gonna assume she's another side chick [remember we had trust issues] unfortunately for me she found out about her and she fought me over it. Eventually she decided she was gonna break up with me again just because of the lady who in the real sense of it was actually my friend and not a side chick. It was painful though because even this time I was innocent.

I got pretty close to this my friend to the extent we more or less started dating. Unfortunately, I discovered this girl was best kept in the friend zone as I discovered some things I can't cope with as a man. Also I couldn't get my mind off my supposedly ex girlfriend. So I called her back up and tried to settle things with her.

I truly love this girl and I don't seem to be able to get away from her. I had quite a number of issues I was dealing with but then, I also understand nobody is perfect. She's someone I would love to spend my whole life with.

She came back and we picked up again, but this time, I determined not to try anyone else even if she's not being straightforward. I decided to put in my all once again, be faithful and loyal to her only. [although it was difficult to convince her about that because I have said that to her a couple of times before, meanwhile, I didn't mean it then, like I do now]

I told her about my friend and she supposedly forgave me. We have been doing fine for a couple of weeks now, no distractions, nothing, coz I cut communication with all other girls including friends. But sometimes she would just act up, insultively and at the end she would say she just remembered some of the things I have done to her in the past. I don't get angry, I always stay calm and I believed it was just a phase and I believed she would come around with time. And then the worse happened.

Today she was going through my gallery and she came across some of my pictures and videos with the lady, nothing erotic, just some playful pictures and videos together. Truly, I actually forgot I had it there. That probably got her really mad and before I knew what was happening, she was hitting me, repeatedly, it ranged from slaps on my face to real punches, she broke me nose, I even bled quite seriously. As I type this epistle I have pains all over my body.

Now, I am not a weak guy, I am quite a strong and muscular guy, I can take her down with just a punch,

But I did nothing, in fact I deliberately allowed her to hit me because I believe that would help her let her anger out. But she proceeded to pick up the pressing iron, she tried to destroy my phone, she even tried to pick up a bottle until my neighbor stopped her. She's been threatening to kill me. Now shes a masters holder, not the oshodi kind of girl so the reaction really baffles me. I knew she had anger issues sort of which is one if the things I have been battling with her.

Now here is my dilemma, with all the drama that has happened between us, I really don't know what to do. I truly love her and I wish I could have her, she's wonderful in many ways but this recent outburst is scary. I want her but at the same time, I have to be happy. We are just dating and we have all these dramas, what would happen when we get married?

As a lady, is it worth it, hitting till I bleed just because pictures reminded her of some girl I supposedly cheat on her with [Even though I already ended everything, weeks before now]??

Would you advise I still continue or should I just put on a bold face and walk away.

Please advise me, I am going crazy here and my nose and head is hurting badly.

Thanks in anticipation. angry angry

She has shown you all the signs you need to see for you to walk away. The other woman that killed her husband was a lawyer. Education does not cure anger oo

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Jobs/vacancies Section Chatroom by Joshchi(m): 2:55pm On Feb 16, 2018
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Celebrities / Re: Bovi And Wilson Oruma Hang Out Together by Joshchi(m): 11:41am On Feb 16, 2018
coolfredo:
I rather be great than looking great....

Get the context of what was said and stop trying to sound woke.
Family / Re: My Younger Brother Is Addicted To Sports Betting, Please Help!!! by Joshchi(m): 7:43pm On Feb 13, 2018
nwakibie3:
free the guy jor grin grin

If no be sports bet my last Christmas for no make sense but thanks to that late hit grin grin

bet9ja has paid me vey well so I wont quit it.

OP ur brother is a greedy punter grin grin

he should contact me to teach him how to make money in betting.

Bros, Abeg me too I want to know.

I still have more payslips but these are the ones I can post now.
Family / Re: I Am Pregnant. Should I Quit My Job Or Not? by Joshchi(m): 11:38am On Feb 04, 2018
edoman2016:

The school proprietor could be right to sack her for getting pregnant out of wedlock. A teacher is expected to be a role model to pupils. I can not allow my children to be taught by a teacher that got pregnant out of wedlock because it is a bad example of morality. A child born out of wedlock is a bastard.

Such a foolish opinion.
Family / Re: Story Of A Depressed Comedian. Shares Story To Celebrate Birthday by Joshchi(m): 4:55pm On Jan 30, 2018
What a story. As someone who has battled illness I can relate with your story. I wish you more health and thank you for those you have made smile
Family / Re: I Am Fed Up With My Wife's Shouting And Emabarrasing Character,what Should I Do? by Joshchi(m): 6:54am On Jan 30, 2018
Ishilove:

I sincerely hope your sisters end up with men who will beat them blue-black

How does his sisters come into this? You're someone's sister too. Address the guy and leave his sisters.
Family / Re: Sincere Advice Needed by Joshchi(m): 10:13am On Jan 29, 2018
blank:
Grow a thick skin. This would soon blow over. Since they have agreed he moves to his sister's house, don't let what they think bother you. Make sure you change the locks on all doors and ensure your HH deadbolts the door once she is indoors.

If I was the one, from the first day he did such nonsense, I would have called his mum, his sisters, my husband and every family member that night with plenty drama. That he brought cultists to my house by 11pm and they were attacking me. That I can't stay in that house with him anymore. We would have sorted it out that first day.


Must you falsely accuse him to prove your point?
Politics / Re: Aishatu Jibril Dukku: "Nigerians Eat Maggi So Much, That's Why We Are So Edgy" by Joshchi(m): 10:55am On Jan 19, 2018
omowolewa:
This woman thinks we are still in the precolonian era.
A little understanding of the world order would have told you people are more enlightened, well informed and leadership is less mystified.


Maggi is a brand name you know, I hope they make monies out of a case with you at court of law.

She can't be sued for whatever she says in the house.

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Romance / Re: Is he not Cute,black Is Color (pic) by Joshchi(m): 10:01am On Dec 24, 2017
Divay22:
Lol..
Low self esteem people..... Lemme give you my validation maybe that will boost your esteem grin cheesy tongue

And you think it's okay to mock and bully someone with low self esteem? I hail your "full current esteem". Well done ma.
Family / Re: Marriage Palava part 2 by Joshchi(m): 1:58pm On Dec 23, 2017
deleSayo:


I find it difficult to tell him to get out since he's my elder bro and I wanted to respect the age gap
one thing is, my brother can be very manipulative and has a way of turning people against you. sending him away will give him a narrative to use to tell our family members that my wife and i threw him out when he needed help. he can do no wrong in my mother's eyes and she will definitely believe him
was only trying to protect my wife's image by allowing him to stay

This is the most annoying and shallow statement I have read today. Common man! Your brother has not done you any favours, rather he has destroyed your family and you're here wondering what your family will think. Well done sir!

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Family / Re: Should Parents Consider Their Children As A Retirement Plan? by Joshchi(m): 7:30am On Nov 20, 2017
I agree with the op. Every child grows to have and pursue their own dreams and maybe raise families. So it's not a healthy for a parent to risky planning for their retirement in hopes that their children will see them through. What if the children die or are not financially stable enough to cater for them. Everyone should have a plan for their lives. depend on others at your own risk.

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Politics / Re: President Buhari Sacks Babachir Lawal And Oke, Appoints Boss Mustapha As New SGF by Joshchi(m): 3:15pm On Oct 30, 2017
Yes it is serious. He has finally woken up.

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Politics / President Buhari Sacks Babachir Lawal And Oke, Appoints Boss Mustapha As New SGF by Joshchi(m): 3:11pm On Oct 30, 2017
President Muhammadu Buhari has sacked suspended Secretary to the government of the federation, Babachor Lawal.

According to a tweet by Femi Adeshina also sacked was the former DG. NIA. Amb. Ayo One.

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