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EgunMogaji:
You're right.

We shouldn't be exchanging words because apparently I'm having an issue translating your gibberish and lunatic ramblings.

But you'll tire yourself soon and pleasure your self to sleep as usual or run out of data

EgunMogaji:
How dare you? My dear old mum is a staunch church member

Have you kids picked your father out of the gutter this evening as he fell drunk. Again

dinachi:
Remove your head from your ass, you are full of sh1t! You cannot even comprehend simple logic! Walahi your papa drink too much brukutu before them born you. Let me rephrase it for for a dullard like you to understand. You should start your crusade from your mother who adopted your fathers own surname. Idiot go and tell your mother to dump your father's surname and start bearing her maiden name anuofia! It was okay for you when your mother adopted your fathers surname but you want to go to another man's house with your maiden name, abi? You are cursed with a curse! You will never marry in this life!

hotspec:
Chicken brain with low self esteem. #GetBusy

uupgrade:
look at ur mouth, u should work on ur mentality instead becux i got points to defend my claims. Not ur lame so call I Do.. Who asked ur hand in marriage from ur parents? Me. Who paid ur diary? Me. Who bought ur wedding dress? Me. Who bought d rings? Same me. Who bought d cake? Me. Who bought drinks for ur family? Who went for introduction. Sometimes arguing with persons like u is useless. Please hear dis ur husband is ur new world once u get married.. He decides if u work or stay at home n take good care of d kids.

EgunMogaji:
You can't smell stuff on the web do how do you justify using the word reek?

That's what you get when you're a half educated dweeb.

Not to worry, some okada rider guy will make a good 3rd wife out of you

EgunMogaji:
Me, bitter?

I just arrived at work in Los Angeles after a wonderful ride

Try again. Iyawo sara.

EgunMogaji:
How's business today or market dey dry?

EgunMogaji:
Likewise, hopefully you can get a gynecologist that knows about cave exploration that'll work on that putrid disease infected oozing hole between your kwashiorkor bow legs

hotspec:
RECEIVE SENDE

EgunMogaji:
Don't worry, I live in a progressive country not that piss hole where you live. Here we don't carry divorce on the head like shame.

Yep, I'm twice divorced like I sad and very proud of it

I'm a real man who talks the talk and walks the walk, my way of the highway.

EgunMogaji:
It's what's called a change of assets.

I have a new younger and hotter wife

Besides, I'm in very good company with Prince Charles, US vice preside al gore, millionaire Donald trump, etc

Go mount your corner on Allen avenue

vodutive:
How would you feel if your husband bought a property and never told you about it after all it's his money he uses to buy the house. Would you not begin to think he is up to no good? What if your husband decided he wants to change his religion, I guess he doesn't have to consult you because by your logic, it's his religion not yours abi? I guess your husband doesn't have to tell you if he is traveling, after all traveling is a small thing and he will be back home in a few days....abi? It's clearly a big deal to you otherwise you wouldn't make a big deal about it or be offended if he insists on you changing your name, if keeping your name is not a big deal, then why would you jeopardize a marriage based on a "small thing"? You really don't understand what marriage is about!!!! So please stop trying to play mind games by saying "every little thing". Your comment "Who is the one bearing the name? Is it not me?" shows you don't get what marraige is about, that you are one of those who enters a marriage for "I" not "us". Every decision you make affects your partner, if you don't know that and are not ready to think for 2, you aren't ready for marriage!


Like I said the problem is not keeping the name but the attitude and I must say although I don't know you, this kind of attitude is a recipe for a problematic marriage. What's in a name, it's not a big deal but you make it a big deal with an attitude that says "my name is my business and not my husband's", because you reveal more about yourself, the direction and your attitude towards your marriage.

Just as women don't have to change their names, I hope you know you don't have to be married...it's not by force! Whether you keep name or change name if you enter with the attitude of "me", "my", "I" , that I am seeing, your marraige is dead even before it starts whether your husband has no problem with name change or not.....and that dear Women is the real issue!

doll912:
*Rotfl oh gosh, u even had to go check my dp, u are so jobless and pained. Maybe I should place a dp with my ring. I'm not even gonna check your profile to ascertain if you are male or female... you are that worthless. Last time I checked one out of 7 billion is very insignificant... yes your opinion is.

SWITANN:
Yes dear. Thank you too












thank u joy...

elsomm:
Smh
As if she's not working hard where she is laying a strong foundation for her own family too? You made it seem like you're doing her a favour. Like the family revolves around you. If my wife (the future wife I dey eye) chooses to add her father's name then let it be. You forgot that her name does not comprise only of her first name but includes her father's name and which she can simply add urs to get her new full name.
Men should learn to loosen up. Happy wife...Happy life!
While you're laying those foundations, leave a few blocks for her to add so that you give her value and cherish her. Your marriage will be better if both contribute no matter how small and this little is genuine appreciated.

dinachi:
You are extremely silly! The surname you are keeping is it not your father's own name? So that means your father is also suffering from small penis syndrome abi? If you really want to show your independence and lesbian feminism why don't you keep your mother's maiden name too? Or convince your mother to keep her own father's name.

Randy91:
GO AND DIE JOOOOR!!!!!!!!!

enoch273:
Suffering from bore hole pussy syndrome, just stay in your fathers house and get old with his properties.

OlafenwaMoses:
As it is wrong asking a prospective husband for Bride price... Or is she a being bought like a ram? or paying for traditions?

OlafenwaMoses:
It remains just a bit of sense for you to attain wisdom.. I wonder what genitals has to do with name issues....

Ralphdan:
Hmmmm nawao na xo e pain u rech?

uupgrade:
God bless u for that sentence.. Can u imagine? My choice gini? Na u d marry me abi na me d marry u? I don't just know when this immature creatures will stop calling theirselves women, its an insult to d real women out there.

uupgrade:
i don't wana say something trashy to u.. But hey don't u ever use that same mouth to tarnish d dignity of anyman becuase u don't agree with dem. I just hope u r a NUN.

edbor:
my mum dropped her maiden name which is a very prominent name to answer my dad's which no one knows . . let me see the lady that will voice that nonsense of keeping her maiden name, let it be dangote self.

love4rent80s:
Easy.....u are on a public forum
And no matter how a penissss small reach, when e enter, u must moan

hotspec:
When i married my wife, d pastor said ure now Mr. and Mrs. X, not X-Y. If she wants to go back to her maiden name Y, she needs to divorce me first and go back to marry her father

johnson232:
smh for u

EgunMogaji:
Yeah, you can typically tell girls that have big caves between their legs, they usually have big mouths to match it

vodutive:
maybe you should stay in your father's house you have known all your life because you sound like you will only bring trouble to any marraige!

A marriage is about 2 people coming together and making decisions TOGETHER, if you are making unilateral decisions of this sort and you feel you don't need permission, then what you want is a husband and kids not a marriage.....many womben don't understand the difference!!! You want a husband and kids so you can feel complete and fulfilled as a woman but you are clearly not ready for the commitment, sacrifices and rigors of marriage.

EgunMogaji:
You've proven my point #2 from my previous post.

Your effeminacy oozes across the screen.

PS: Someone please give this man a medal, he has a lengthy 2 year marriage

Nnam36:
Any woman that choses that is likely not going to respect the husband and won't value their marriage because retaining that name means that she's not married to him totally and that she can go any time the man offends her etc so let such woman complete my insinuation by telling us her fears and what she intends to gain by that.