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KASTIEL:
did you even read this before you posted it?

Ask me again

iykedare:
How are Nigerian men nothing to write home about?
Nigerian men are finer than Nigerian women. Drop the make ups. Most Nigerian men are hardworking and do not rely on anyone to feed them. Your kind trade pv$$y for some few naira notes. Most Nigerian women behave as if they were born with fish brains.

So how the fvck are Nigerian men not worth it? Speak now or remain a dunderhead.

Look here boy! Don't even go down that road with me o. Did I call you names? Don't let me say what's in my mind o.
Is it about being fine? And here I thought you were matured in thinking. I'm talking about loyalty, responsibility, human consideration. Most Naija guys are nothing to write home about abeg. It's you people that will cheat and beat ur women and still have the nerve to brag about it. It's still you guys that want to be turned into a mini god.

bxcode:
Fabulosity, opinions are like noses, everybody got one. But any human being that makes his opinion to be sacrosanct to everyone is simply not being smart. You are meeting the wrong type of guys because of how you comport yourself and because of your value system. Pull your thumb from your mouth and grow up my dear and stop calling everyone a devil because of one or two experience.

Its not a matter of meeting wring guys. Most naija men are just nothing to write home about sadly

Stupedinluv:
You are so stup1d i dont even know where to start from. Which yeye statistics, they one conducted by pink swollen white american men? who no black woman wants. LMao. For your information, hate to say this but real whities/europeans have this fetish for african women. And guess what these ones are 100 times more attractive than those fat pigs.

Have you forgotten the only white women black men can "afford" are usually fat or obese? We see it all the time. The left overs of white men are your pride. If they were slim and good looking they wont even look at you twice BECAUSE MOST DON'T FIND BLACK MEN ATTRACTIVE. Sorry but that's the fvcking truth right there. You asked for it.

You should have kept quiet if i were you

One more thing white men often go for dark/caramel black women if they are going interracial. Now kill yourself monkey.

Black women are really doing black men s favour. Normally they should be the last pick of every woman.

Dang girl! We have to be friends jor

thelish:
I like u because, u nor dey disappoint me. lol

Hahahahhaa! I trust you too babe

utenwuson:
he ll help surely but not under duress, u cnt simply mk it obvious

He WILL help as long as he stays in my house and eats my food. What kind of ill mannered boy is that?

Babe tell ur husband u won't put up with his rubbish anymore. If he can't respect u he has to leave. If ur husband refuses, yell him since he feels he's a big boy he can sort out his meals himself. Stop cooking for the silly boy

PresVA:
Just a wife abi? Kids of nowadays, ewww

Mr man, if you wan form big boy, GO AND HAVE YOUR OWN HOUSE! it's that simple na..

Byeee#

U dey mind am? Shameless squatter forming boss in someone's house

utenwuson:
keep yawning! am not her maid either! my match? lol she s jst a wife

And ur just a brother

utenwuson:
I grow up wt my elder bro, we live 2geda b4 he even get married, I don't c y d wife should send me on errand, I do things I want 2 do, like take my bro cloths to laundry, wash his car @ tyms, I even cook cos she was friendly, d moment she started seeing it dt is mandatory I help her I quit helping her, I will voluntarily mess up d whole place dts how we guys tend to grow, even mum cnt send me wen she s hard on me, but I can do anything 4 her wen she sound nice n friendly

Ur parents failed in training u well. Failed woefully for that matter. Ur wife will end up cursing ur mom cos of ur lack of training

adorablepepple:
Are you kidding me he doesn't What? The next time he disrespect you maje sure you deal with him. I can see you have been taking all this insult for a long time. Speak up,it's your husband's house ooooooo don't allow anyone bully you,if he won't stop start making that house hot for him

Its her house. Make una stop all this husband house tin

utenwuson:
if he s not living with u, u won't cook? who fetches d water wen he hasn't come? leave dt boy mk he groove no be house boy

But he's living with her? And he would like to eat ba? She is not his house girl either. He must help

Chanchit:
It depends on the tribe, if you are Yoruba, then I'm sorry, he can only fetch the water If he feels like it or you beg/ask politely. But if you are Igbo, I think you have the right to ask him to fetch the water, I do see many like that here.

Eh? A small boy in my house? I can't give him duties cos hez yoruba. Rubbish!

Sunnynwa:
And what is the right thing?

Right thing? No proper marriage, no cohabitation or pregnancy. Personally anyways

Sunnynwa:
Are you for real?

When there are thousands out there willing even to cohabit without any formalities.

Well I know thousands out there who will insist on the right thing being done.

vanbonattel:
with una kind of desperation to get married you will not even wait for traditional marriage before getting pregnant for him

Not all girls are desperate. You need to upgrade the kinda girls u hang out with. When a girl knows her worth, she will insist on the right/best thing for her

Good luck with that. I don't think any sane lady will marry a man in this era without doing registry marriage. I for one will do all three.

Fanirandele:
The law will give primary custody to whoever is deemed to be in the best position to take care of the children while the other party will get visitation rights. It ends up being women more because they are usually the ones who have been doing most of the caring while married e.g bathing, cooking, homework e.t.c so it's easier for them to be able to carry on versus the judge giving the kids to a man who may never have changed diapers before or cooked for the children. Men who are hands on with their children while married are better prepared to take on that responsibility full time but they are few. Nothing wrong with paying child support, why would anyone not want to keep his/ her financial responsibilities towards their children Either married or not, both parents still have responsibities towards the children and a major part of that is financial. I don't believe alimony is given to spouses in Nigeria. Divorce laws are actually pretty much in the man's favor here because even when the children are with the woman many dead irresponsible men still get out of paying child support since there is really no system in place which means many divorced women end up as the major financial providers for the children and in many cases sef they are the sole financial providers.

That happens because either the women don't know their right or they just choose not to push it

seaga:
Well you don't sound like a wife, let alone a mother, No offense,because if you were, you would be more cautious in your approach . Besides your attack is similar to the recent and growing rebellion by some so called feminist, who re usually young and single.

Oga na u sabi abeg

Sheybi you guys like carrying 'head of house' on your head like a karaoke. Carry the household responsibilities 100 percent without complaining na. Abi head of house na 4 mouth. She's a very submissive woman sha. OP don't let go of her. She will submit and let you lead her esp. In all financial matters. She will stroke ur ego by making u feel like the man, by letting u handle all the responsibilities 100 percent. You should be happy o.
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Ok. I dey find trouble but na true o

oloyede252:
okay.bt you knw this is online where a rat can be a lion and i hope your behaviour online is different from real life,if not you are nothing to write home about.

That's true sha. I just get really mad when I see some shitty views online. I'm actually a really nice gal oo . Lol.

seaga:
Tried to ignore all your abnoxious statement all along, why re you insulting this woman, she is a mother of 3...., you say you are a lady and fighting an unrealistic course for the womenfolk. She is matured enough to see the real world, not that bodacious fantasy running in your Head . You sound so bittered, your hatred for the menfolk, i sympathize with you, because it's obvious you had and still badly hurt by a guy.Let it go before it ruin the remains...

I don't need to be hurt by a guy before I feel the pains of numerous women out there. I don't hate menfolk. It's jst that a majority of u naija men aka cave men irritate me. So cos she's a mother of 3 I should like her feet. Do u know if I'm a mother of 5 myself?

jrerico1:
Retard demsel I just hope you get a brain some day.
Don't ever quote me again, because I won't reply. The truth is bitter

You quoted me first you bastard. Neva u try that again. Stay in ur lane. Ode

oloyede252:
oh God."to a nigerian man".i want to believe environment influences perception,so if the male relatives of you family and enviroment are bad example just say so...anty joy the way you reason ehh God wil vex...so if at a point there's a problem the next thing is to start cursing abi..the way of your family is not universal bt limitd to you only so find some wisdom when interacting with other people from a stable home..

Actually I'm surrounded by wonderful men. Judging from the comments of NL guys only, I've given up on naija men. Judging 4rm these comments, naija men are nothing to write home about.

obstead200:
we dont need to die for u to see the better ones.
Just obtain a visa and travel to europe/US. Or if u cant afford a visa, become a refugee.

As long as u remain in africa, Na like this e go dey. I cant change it. U cants change it.

Just a matter of time my dear

bebe2:
Gal there is something wrong with u , unfortunately I can't help u.

Just read other ladies comments in the whole of this forum and u will realise u have issues.

Maybe time will heal u. Whatever it is u need to take a chill pill no one is fighting u.

Mama there's nothing wrong with me. Abi you don't see/hear numerous cases of domestic violence, rape, kidnapping, ritual? Better open ur eyes and don't delude urself o.

Ain't fighting with anyone too

AVRecruit:
men do not marry women legally again. the smart ones!

So many men are still doing registry marriage my dear. Don't deceive yourself

linusbnn:
Woman who is well to do without a husband is an unfulfilled woman. My wife can only give me reasons not to do what I intend doing,but if I chose otherwise,she has no say.

Are u a woman? NO. Let the women speak 4 themselves. Better look 4 a quiet village girl to marry cos if u marry a girl like me and u think I'd have no say in my own home.......? Hehehehehehe

AVRecruit:
You talk like the senseless feminist you appear to be.

The OP is only advocating that marriage have a power structure. Democracy does not exist my dear; did nigerians vote on bvn? it was imposed. You cannot take decisions together in authority, inputs can only be entertained. i can discuss with my boss but he ultimately says what needs to be done.

It is a man that marries a woman not the other way round. the man can send you packing anytime.

most wmen forget this!

U guys feel it's every woman u can send parking. Better look at faces. You mean I will marry u legally and u can send me parking at anytime? Hehehehehehe

bebe2:


Why are our women so crazy these days,

U cheat on them they kill u,

U don't sleep with them they burn u,


May God deliver our sons from these evil demons.

As if ur sons are not the evil demons themselves

Timbuktou:
Men are getting weaker, as a result women are getting bolder. Me, I don't understand the sort of liver that will make a man come into my home and my wife will introduce me as her cousin, in my house fa . Na police go end that matter finally. The guy himself will be stretchered out. I will buy him beer while digging his grave. The woman can forget about the marriage. She has shown she's ready for other men. So be it. I fùcked up, but I will not be dragged in the mud. So, because husband cheated children will suffer? Adasun, it is possible your wife has snapped. Take her to a psychiatrist for mental evaluation.

But u fit get liver to cheat on ur wife?

Toks2008:
I guess i have lost count on the number of times you have called me out using unprintable names.

I am forced to curse you but i dare you to use one more vulgar word on me and i will use the prophetic anointing on my life to place a curse on you...a curse that will plague you for the rest off your life.

You think you can leverage on the facelessness of an online social forum to curse at will.

I have been ignoring but dare me one more time and you will regret it for the rest of your life.

Are u done? Deal with the curses over ur own life b4 thinking of laying one on me. Yeye dey smell. Prophetic anointing my ass.