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shegzy23:
ok, he should also wash her pant abi?thank u, u speak well, nonsense

And if he does nko? But you'll keep your boxer for tour wife - maid to wash for you abi?

johnson232:
Amen

Yeye girl...

Amen oooooooo

Mumu

johnson232:
This thing still dey alive?

This gutter rat still dey alive?

johnson232:
Na dem francis tony be dey open this kind of thread, op use to be a correct gee...

op NL women don dey threaten u?

this thread get as e be bros....

Why e no go get as e be? Any post that does not attribute suffering to women will not be favourable to you na. May your daughters marry men like you. Amen

RoadsAndGreen:
there are some chores you can ask a man to do as a married man and there are some exclusive to women. A man should have little or no business in the kitchen. a woman on the other has no business cutting grasses or changing light bulbs.
that's how I personally see it. if you think differently please don't try to bite me lol

But when it's time to eat, you can open your mouth and eat. Exclusive my azz. What's there in changing bulbs?

wrongnumber:
Hog wash.

A wife must still play her full role even if she is the full breadwinner.

If I like I help and if I like I won't .

Oga toks I be your fan but i don't agree with this one.

What role would you be playing then? Couch warmer? If I hear say you no put hand for house chores eh? Cooking o, cleaning o every every. Or you sit there and starve na

Toks2008:
You nailed it. Most Ladies have the wonderful heart of forgiveness but guys have a terribly hard mind which made Jesus allow them to divorce their wives on same adultery that a lady is expected to keep forgiving him for.

Where in the bible is it stated that a lady is expected to keep on forgiving her husband's infidelity.
Wonderful heart of forgiveness my azz. Anyways thank God you said MOST ladies not all

OPTION 2 - Tell him that you ain't no fool. You can't keep being faithful while he buries his preek in any available hole. Tell him you have admirers and toasters and that the next time you catch it, you'd take it that you guys are in an open marriage. If you do catch him, my dear give your number to every guy that says hello to you, go on dates, go to parties, flirt with any hot guy you meet, fucck them too if you want or else you can stop at flirting. If he tries to chance you, my dear chance him back. Does he take you for a fool. Get your groove on. When he's ready to have a normal marriage, he'll let you know

Honey, your husband WILL NOT change cos he knows he'd beg and his sweet, soft wifey will forgive him. You can't pray this away either. The change has to start with him. Tell him in strong terms that you're done with his infidelity and that the next time you catch him, the marriage is over. If you do catch him at it again, my dear, stick to your word and take a walk or at least separate. When he sees you won't tolerate his rubbish anymore, he'll have a rethink. 5 years? Frankly, I'd have left his silly azz ages ago if I were you. He's not ready to be a husband. No one should have to put up with an unfaithful spouse

gbengaoa:
i believe you can talk without making use of abusive word. i dont know you, you dont know me, its my opinion and u also have right to yours.

I'm sorry for being abusive but I'd love to hear your answers to my questions please. Thanks

Toks2008:
LOL! At least i have walked that road before so i have an experience of the road map innit?

And i don't need to walk that road to have common sense

Toks2008:
I have explained the road map to marital happiness or maybe tolerance in the thread i pointed her to which a certain Joy1706 asked her to disregard when im 200% that she has not even read and comprehended it.

Look at the OP story again and you will see where she said she gave up her job and the second point in that thread says MAKE YOUR OWN MONEY

So i honestly dont know how to explain to ladies that no matter the fantasy they have about marriage,there are some realities that they can not control and if faced with such situation they must be ready to face it head on.

If any lady reads every thread i create about romance between aman and woman and deeply understands it, that lady will never have issues in her marriage.

There is more to life to marriage and man woman matter please.

There is no happiness a woman can find in a marriage in which the husband is not faithful. Take it or leave it. UNLESS she stops loving the husband or she gets a side bobo too

Toks2008:
Are you married sis?

If NO please just keep off my mentions and if YES please what would you advice her do?

LEAVE THE HUSBAND?

I hate it when i read comments from some ladies on nland who have no scruples. Most teenagers and unmarried ladies will come online to start advising a married lady about marital matters..iranu

Err...... He breaks his marital vows (infidelity), doesn't provide for her or his baby, completely useless as a husband and a father, he is emotionally abusive,irresponsible. Yes my dear, SHE SHOULD LEAVE THE HORSEBAND. She is a 'married spinster'.

Oga you that you're divorced nko. What business do you have advising a married woman? If you were so wise and experienced, sheybi you'd still have a wife?

ayodeji200:
Young lady, don't listen to all these sad single mothers or raised by single mothers children, they ll destroy your home. No pain no gain; patience is key in marriage.

Find a quiet time to speak to him about all this and hear him out. A good hubby today might turn bad tomorrow while a bad hubby today might turn good. We have seen many stories like that...

For the sake of that child, don't listen to these miserable single mum who had fvck every dicks in their neighbourhood. The next dude might even be a devil at the end of the day

Do everything within your power to make it work before leaving your marriage oooo.

Is he violent? If not, just chill for now and keep talking to him, trust me, one day you ll thank God you listen to this advice.

Pretender! Your mother was also a sad single mother who fvcked every dicck in her neighbourhood. I know your family very well

ikp120:
Some women don't know what marriage is. In a marriage, the man is the boss while the woman is the baby. Naturally speaking that is how it is. That's why men pay before they marry her. It is simple common sense

Even a stupid boy like you wants to be boss. Hahahahahaha! . God save women ooooooo. Hahahahahahaha

ikp120:
The woman's actions caused the man to get frustrated and give up on his family. It caused hatred and bitterness. Please when 2 elephants are fighting, the grass will suffer most. Children are the ones that suffer when there is parental misunderstanding
You want your hubby to baby you while you man him? Smh

Dude! YOU ARE DUMB. My God!

Olufemiolaolu:
U dont know what u re talking walahi. It hasnt gotten 2 dat now.

Really? Infidelity, emotional and financial abuse, neglecting hos own child and you say it hasn't gotten to that. Is it when she is hanging from the ceiling fan that you will realise the gravity

Toks2008:
This is the reason why I create the threads on my naira land wall so go read them and you will find succor.

https://www.nairaland.com/3336311/every-lady-wants-experience-happy

Please kindly shove this retarded article where the sun don't shine. If you will not 'expect your wife to cheat' in your marriage, why should a woman expect such rubbish. You really think this is what this woman needs to hear at this point. Gosh!

gbengaoa:
the home belongs to a woman. if things are going wrong, she feels it more. i have given her my honest advise and i believe you can do thesame and leave me with my opinion.

The home belongs to the woman? So the man is a tenant or what? Can she kick him out at will since the home belongs to her? You mofos will be claiming HEAD upandan only when it's convenient

Talasuma:
And na so u go old 4 ya family house, wake up girl we are in the Men's world.

And so?? Na death sentence? Mens world my azz

Toks2008:
This is the reason why I create the threads on my naira land wall so go read them and you will find succor.

Succor my azz. Ma'am please if you love yourself, don't read his threads abeg

nellybadas:
Wicked person. I.m sure you are not married and there is no hope for you Why not try to help remedy a situation. It's people like you dat cannot last in a relationship. Get a life.

Oya what is your advice? She should stay there, pray and die of heart break and STDs? The era of women suffering and praying in a yeye marriage is gone o.

Decryptor:
Your wife put her life on the line just to procreate which is a normal thing female species do?

The thinking of some men are really warped!

You do realise LOTS of women die during child birth right? You think it's a walk in the park? Ask the numerous people who have lost their wives, daughters, sisters, mothers during childbirth. Mstchewww

schumastic:
so I thought until the day I found out that, no lady wants to date a broke guy...am very sure if I ask you, if you can date a broke guy, you will say no..so my dear, money means everything..funny enough I asked a female friend what is her definition for the word romance and she said, a guy that is rich. I was pissed af first, but after giving it a second thought I found out she was right..cus a guy can't show how romantic he is through words but action n 80% of it has to do with money n the other 20% is his attitude and the rest...so you see that money means everything to you ladies with you included.

You're right tho. Why would I want to date a broke guy? When I'm not broke myself. A broke guy would be a liability. Trust me, I know. Been there, done that and I wasn't even appreciated. So never doing that shit again

stuffs4me:
At least he does that for you (which you don't even appreciate). Say what you do for him or shut up.

Gold digger

Lolz. Me? Gold digger? Small boy e be like say you wan chop spiritual slap? You don't know me o so don't go assuming. What can a guy give me that I can't get for myself. Nada! I'm not an orphan. I don't need financial assistance from guys.
My first relationship eh, I gave him love, my cash (the guy never bought even 100 naira credit for me in more than 1 year of dating), support and encouragement.
So bobo wetin you dey talk?

schumastic:
Money, Ego, Owo, Kudi, we make more sacrifices than ladies this days and go extra mile to prove how much we love them, just so they don't look outside but at the end they will.
the only thing i know ladies bring in a relationship is drama, sex is out of it cus both parties enjoy it while doing it and funny enough, the guy does most of the hard work in that area as well lol.
you saying a lady can get them outside simply shows that a lady can't contribute anything both in and outside the relationship if she doesn't offer sex, shikena.

Money is all you contribute. And your money means nothing

Drdreyy:
And are you proud that you contribute more? I hope you know it's a curse on all daughters of Eve? I see no reason why someone should be delighted under a curse!

Now do me a favor, shut the fck up and get out of here!

Delighted? It is what it is my dear. And don't tell me to shut up. Are you high?

STFUareyouG0d:
which still means, girls have nothing to offer but sexxxx

Which is the most important

Sheybi NL boys say in nigeria women who are divorced cannot remarry. Hahahhaha

STFUareyouG0d:
cuz he's not even offering the most important; Fvck!

So fvck is the most important ba? Why are you guys complaining then. Sheybi your girlfriends dey fvck you na. That's their contribution which is the most important according to you

stuffs4me:
Go and sit down. You are no different from the rest of gold digging paracites.

Mention what you do for your so called boyfriend and you are telling stories. Mention or shut up.

What do you do for your girlfriend asides giving her money that you don't even have sef