₦airaland Forum

stuffs4me:
His Imam, brothers, sisters and other family members have been doing that for him long before he met you.

The question still remain. What do you contribute to his life that is unique? Because you will be the first to accuse him of not caring if all he does is to pray for you. Very likely, you get material and financial assistance from him

Contributing material and financial assistance to your woman's life is not unique either. Anybody outside can do same for her. What else can you contribute? Something unique

Drdreyy:
You don't know what you are talking about. The parts i cancelled are nauseating and shows your stark ignorance on the subject of reproduction.

You speak as if women are solely responsible for the act of duplication/replication as if they can produce offsprings without the contribution of a male. Are they Asexual species?

Bro, it's more like a 50/50 affair, without a man, there won't be a woman and vice versa.

Infact, this your comment makes women look nothing more than a sex object. So you want to tell us that women are just for reproduction and nothing more?

It is not a 50:50 affair. You contribute just your sperm. She contributes her eggs, uterus. During delivery, her vagina. After delivery, her breasts etc

schumastic:
the question is in a relationship not outside the relationship

Then what did I ask? What do guys contribute IN a relationship that a girl can't get outside?

STFUareyouG0d:
if I start listing, I'm afraid days and nights will come and go

Please go ahead

nortcentrallord:
And I am still single and searching

Lol. Its a common knowledge that "men fall by sight while women fall by touch"

Common knowledge yes. Doesn't mean it applies to all women

STFUareyouG0d:
his mum does that. Yours isn't necessary

What do girls offer in a relationship that a guy won't get outside relationship?

Likewise what do guys offer in a relationship that a girl won't get outside relationship?

Zceesneh:
I hate virgins, claim u are a virgin, i will delete ur number, after eating my money u will be claiming virginity, thunder scatter ur pu§§y

You're an idiot. Which money do you have? Broke asses be making noise upandan

mekonglobal:
The whole crux of the matter is that the home belongs to the woman, so if anything goes wrong? She should blame her self..

The home belongs to the woman? So she can kick out the man at will? If it doesn't belong to you then, what is ur place in the home? Onlooker, house boy?

nortcentrallord:
Women don't fall for what they see so 6 packs don't work there. I know what am saying... I think the pastor is only helping families to avoid getting into that trap so we shouldn't look @ it as him protecting the "men". I beleive he concentrated on that because the rate @ which that happens is weigh more that the case of a woman sleeping with the house boy.

Oga don't deceive yourself. Women are moved by what they see too. I can't count how many times I UnCloth a man with my eyes. Imagine if he now makes a move. I'd likely fall into temptation. It's silly to assume that a woman cannot be sexually moved by what she sees. Just silly

Hahahahahaha! I'm sure the OP didn't anticipate this type of lashing. Choi!

Can any one recommend an app that can help me zoom out in selfie mode.

I don't support her slapping her husband because even if my husband catches another man on top of me, he has no damn right to lay a hand on me, so the woman should have restrained herself. That her husband sha na bastard. He should go to hell. Instead of him to humble himself and apologise

Interested

amdo007:
I don't know about you but I will marry I woman I respect, because real love has respect. Secondly, no one is too busy to help their partner grow except they have nothing to offer. Quick question, isn't there a thing your partner can do to make you grow? If yes, so are you selfish since you do not want to reciprocate? Thats typical Nigerian girl mentality. Always looking for what they can get not ready to give.

Abeg abeg you did not see where I wrote about contributing positively to each other's lives? Don't presume to know me abeg. Did I say you shouldn't marry who you don't respect? That's not my effing business.

shaybebaby:
He is a house nah, lol. Without a mind or will of his own.

Lmao! As in eh

amdo007:
A person who does not have any positive contribution in my life has no right whatsoever to my greatness. It's a partnership not a one way traffic and if as a lady you do not have any contribution to my success please park well. The wretched mentality of only lurking when the work is done is part of the reasons Nigerian ladies cannot have my respect.

What I'm driving at is this - while I'm struggling to make something out of my life and be highly successful, you as a man should be doing same. When we then come together, we'll have something positive to contribute to each other, and not just waiting for who'll come and build you.
One more thing, who your respect epp?

Leez:
this dude is a clown
this is africa not america
the man is in charge and the head of the union

He's in charge and head of the union? So......?? He shouldn't treat his wife well or respect her? How does being the head come in?

Miggs:
You are very mis-informed.
No man wants a strong and opinionated woman
If they did,they would have romantic relationships with other men.
Look at the two photos of barack and his wife on this thread.Can you see how she is holding him tightly with both arms?The woman is clearly submissive to the man.

Unlike many black women in the world today who expect to be treated like queens despite their cunty_ actions.

So men want weak and dependent women then? Okay

amdo007:
I can't say all Nigerian girls are trash because I have a mother and a sister and hope to have a wife and a daughter, however most girls I have interacted with have shown a great sense of impatience that cannot allow them build a man. Forget bright future, most of them are blinded by material things and are not ready to help a man grow. It is rare to see a Nigerian babe that is ready to suffer with you. They only sit down and expect to enjoy the fruits of your Labour without any help whatsoever. They are gold diggers, sluts, lazy, materialistic and demonic. Some will even bring you down spiritually if you entangle with them. They have made a lot of promising guys useless and they won't stop anytime soon. They should change for the better before coming here to say nonesence about respect. I cant respect people who do not respect themselves.

Why should you wait for a woman to come and build you? Who'll build her while she sacrifices to build you?

bettercreature:
A good example of woman rapper,I dont think a real man would have time to compose this nonsense

What do you know about being a real man. My friend keep quiet next time when MEN are talking. U still a boy

Acidosis:
Lol


It is women like you who, upon attaining greater heights in their career, run after small small sugar boys as you really can't survive without the RULERSHIP of a small boy (or a man if you're lucky).


Its been long I exchange words with anyone on Nairaland. The 'Acid' in Acidosis isn't for fun

Really? Boy, really? That's the best you could come up with? Acid my azzz

Acidosis:
We call them Career women. They need to go out there to compete with men, and pick up leadership roles.

He's talking about PARENTS, you're here talking about career women. If you want to marry, please make sure you marry a woman who has never been to school, then you wouldn't have anything to worry about. Cave man

uupgrade:
just laughing, haven't said anything yet but u r feeling messed up already.

Messed up? you must be the joker of the century. As in u no reach o, lemme burst your bubble. PLEASE say what you wanna say. Ain't stopping you. Lmao! Mkpo ke messed up. See grandiose delusions na

Xbox222:
You are paying all her bills and yet she is not using your name. Can't you see how weak and daft you are?

What is ur problem? Must everybody be as daft as you? Research shows that men who are quick to call other men weak are the ones who are actually half male/weak.

uupgrade:
n what happens if i returned all this sh*t u call insult to ur mama? Lol u see how its sounds? I respect women all women n i respect d dignity of women enough to not ulter verbal words on them no matter what... I don't expect u to understand. Just so u know. Am not a gentleman. I just respect anyperson that deserves to be respected n that includes the woman who gave birth to u. So incase u know my mouth is not inelastic to insults. Learn how to talk with the opposite sex politely even when arguing if not u will bring insults to d dignity of other women. E.g ur mum. N u will bring more insults to urself. E.g like d bashing u r geting on dis Topic alone. Be wise.

Oga PLEASE move along. Is that 'respectful' enough for ya?

edbor:
thinking joy1706 would have gotten enough supporters by now, i feel sorry for her and she even said "must i be like my mother" even more sorry for the pain you will cause to your mum. . .


I'm going to say a prayer for you so your twisted mindset will change.

Yes, must I be like my mother? Aren't we 2 different human beings? What's your problem? Feel sorry 4 urself and ur family. Who ur sorry epp? Mstchewww

Thunderlicious:
That is, IF you ever get married.

Oga is it ur marry? Free me na. Kilode?

Thunderlicious:
That's why u can NEVER find a husband. Menopause is going to be your maiden name.

you don't say

EgunMogaji:
Looking forward to it.

Would love to put you in your place again

Cause I have questions.

1) does the curtains match the blind

2) are you a screamer or a moaner

Hehehehehe! You have quite the imagination don't you. Put me in m place indeed. You didn't even come close.
Go jerk off or something. You sound like a bitcch in heat

EgunMogaji:
Okay let's get you unbored?

How are they hanging today?

Officially done engaging you. Till we meet again

uupgrade:
hope u get d supports from ur fellow creatures becux i can't call u a woman.

Then call me a lady

edbor:
joy1706 I'm really sorry for the half man that marries you, that's if you get married.

Shove your sorry up your black assssss