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muller101:
u that will beg men to marry u

Is it your beg? Mumu

EgunMogaji:
1) Every single entity that has a hyphenated last name is a royal beyotch. FACT.

2) Every single one is married to a sissified man. FACT

EgunMogaji doesn't tolerate BS, marry me or stay married to your fathers name. Choice is clear.

I also hate those that keep it after divorce. I had to force the Ex in court to drop my last name because she wanted to keep it so people can know she's the mother of her black kids (she's white).

Awwww! No wonder you're divorced

jmichlins:
with this mindset just forget about marriage else

Are you the one marrying me? Face ya front abeg

januzaj:
it ain't our fault that you are suffering from extra large v*gina syndrome

At least it can always be tightened. On the other hand, your case is a hopeless one. Pray that you find a girl who'd stick with you and your finger sized preek. Good luck dear

Thunderlicious:
Then get ready to pass menopause with no husband.

That's the best your head could come up with. Is this supposed to scare me? Who husband epp sef?

Look at them. Small men suffering from small peniss syndrome. There's nothing to permit. It's MY decision if I decide to keep the surname I've been known with all my life.

sukkot:
not if you plan to be single forever it is not a crime. it is a crime if you expect a man to marry you

Majority of you guys are male oloshos. So yea it's no crime

sukkot:
anyway we can go back and forth all night on this here issue, point is the woman is an olosho. thats the bottomline. FOR BETTER OR WORSE

Is being an olosho a crime? Abegi

ronald4lif:
I'm still trying to figure out what will irk me more than a woman that will revolt or question my decision of my mum or any relative coming to live with us, whether short or long term basis. Except if I'm not the one offsetting the rents of that house. The man did well to ignore you, I'd do likewise.

You women always find it appropriate for your relations to come over but once it's the man's you rebel. And when the man insist and his relatives moves in you start creating non-existing problems. Nonsense.

Hope you'd be prepared to tend to your guest OYO long term or short term. As if ur d only man who pays rent. Nonsense

Kondomatik:
You dey laugh? I personally don't sub to the idea that a real man doesn't hit a woman no matter what.

No! A real man hits a woman when need be.

That's all.

Y'know, I was talking with a sister one day when this talk came up and I told her to goan and ask real women how to treat a man and then come back to tell me if a man in his senses will hit such woman.

You're a bitch but you want your man to treat you like a queen because you have breast? No way.

Work for it. Earn it.

A woman have to love a man first to know him, a man has to know a woman first to love her.

You see the different?

If a woman insults me all night long, I will shut her mouth with the back of palm and she dare not complain because we are even.

She lost hold of her tongue and I lost control of my hand.

End of discussion.

Nobody should hit anybody or insult anybody.

The rule is simple.

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

No preferential treatment because you have vagina.

We are human with blood not gods so don't give us more than we can take.

Often time we hear women say "Trust me, I finished him with my mouth".

You see? They know how powerful their tongue is and how to use it to be-little a man but when the finished man raises hand they scream woman beater.

Excuse me!

If a woman insults you, can't you insult her back? That's why you have a mouth. Don't go and hit someone who would take it a step further by stabbing you. Don't touch me for any reason if I've not touched you else ...... use ur mouth if u can't take the insults

Aren't you guys always quick to say 'na me dey marry her...no be she dey marry me'. Since u pple are the ones doing the marrying alone, foot the bills jor

Toks2008:
And Seun has the audacity to use words like victim for the female folks...i know one day he will eat those words and will regret ever apologizing for this title.

My first conent says...never beat a lady which is fair enough and then listed the facts that are as true as day and night but Seun is still naive so i understand his point.

There was a lady i dated and she told me that she is the type tthat needs to be beaten up but i said never will i raise my hand against her and when she showed her color i gave her some verbal lashing that made her cry and for 3yrs she left the affair just to call me this year to say she would have prefered that i beat her up rather than going verbal...can you imagine.

Seun is indeed a learner when i comes to he issue of women so let jim postrate to nland ladies to apologize for the truth he will latter realize and when he does,he will hate himself for making that unwarranted apology...im 41 and i have seen things in life but all these todlers on nland knows nothing about this matter until they get to a more mature stage in life.

Upon your maturity and upon all the things you've known and seen, you still couldn't keep ur marriage. Yeye dey smell

johnson232:
@bold perception i guess... the op got valid points...

caution should be applied by all...

Of cos they are valid points to you. When you're just as sick as the buffoon who made the post

cococandy:
no we can't. Your 'articles' sound like crap to us.

Articles indeed

Hahahahahahaha! Cococandy oooooo

makavel7:
From this your rant I dont need to be guru maraji to know that your woman wears the pants in your house. You definitely must be a jobless house husband to have enough time to cook, wash your wife's pants and diligently keep the house clean waiting for your emperor to come back from work. Pathetic!!! You said you have boys, I pray they dont end up like their father.

And women alone are verbally abusive? What do you call this one?

Toks2008:
When a woman wants to be wayward,she will look for dumb excuses.

This is why im so indifferent to any relationship right now...there is hardly one sexually decent lady out there but it is the level of indecency that now counts.

A man shouldn't bother getting married if he's not ready to deal with an adulterous wife. I'm happy u know that

hedonistic:
A MARRIED woman has the right and is "entitled" to seek sexual fulfilment elsewhere? Is that part of the agreement you signed at the marriage registry? Does this load of chap make any sense to you?

What happened to filing for divorce if you're not getting the so-called sexual satisfaction from your marriage and think that that is the most important thing you need as a dog constantly in heat? Must you stay in the marriage by force and ridicule your husband by getting fuc.ked like a dog by his own friend... of all people?

Goodness.

The hypocrisy of naija men will never cease to amaze. So now there's an agreement which does not include the right to philandering? Oh! I guess it only applies to the woman

johnson232:
the husband is both her father and her master..

Always a mumu

KINGinVAHALA:
The emboldened isnt necessary, beautiful miss/mrs.

Learn to show respect to our loving and caring mothers, yours inclusive.

Good day!

Oh! My mom is a QUEEN. I know that. Unfortunately, same can't be said for the ashawo women who cld nt bring up these scum they call children well. They should learn how to talk about women if they respect their mothers

fexyrich:
a shameless hoe detected.. Red alart

Have you detected the hoes in your house first? Starting from the hoe that gave birth to you

colabotu:
Ashawo, e pain u?

Come up with something better than ashawo. That one no bi insult. Block head

fexyrich:
Any girl quoting d op defensively is a confirmed chea2 and hoe.men beware!!!!shameless women every were

You think throwing words like ashawo and hoe moves anybody? Lmao! When we all know ur mama na our chairlady. Hw her business dey go? More grease to her p.....

colabotu:
educated idiot, nobody is doubting the fact that sex with one person for payment is not prostitution. my point is that any form of sex with the expectation of being paid in cash or kind is prostitution.

Gosh you are dumb. Just shut up already

Youngpo413:
where are the ones who have morals, have you seen any yet? #just curious...

How will u people find girls with morals when ya'll don't have any yourselves. You guys deserve the kinda girls u keep coming across. Hehehhe! That's the universe maintaining balance.

Naija girls don deal with una well well . Thumbs up sistaz. Una neva see sometin.

priscaoge:
Refer to Ur first comment, the very first time u mentioned me. U can drop Ur opinion without spamming or quoting me. Stop speaking from both sides of Ur mouth madam. When I made my comment, I NEVER mentioned or quote anyone. As for d definition of a woman, there are many ways to define an African WOMAN, which will never be complete without been DOMESTICATED!!!!!!!! Stop quoting my comments, there are other ways to remain relevant on NL rather than looking for who to pick on. I'm done with u #OkBye

Ok ma'am

priscaoge:
Obviously U have been dating d wrong guys out there, that made u believe that once a girl washes her guys cloths or cooks for him, She's a slave! Change Ur circle of friends and I bet u, u will worship d ground he steps on.

Yes I was brought up to be homely, To be a well DOMESTICATED African Woman! To be an Igbo girl! Most especially to be a WOMAN! I believe u don't have problem with that. Biko stop spamming my comments, I have every right to drop my opinion and I NEVER mentioned Ur moniker! I don't have problem with people that has low IQ, my problem is U mentioning me! Stop already Madam! Thank U!

I never said a girl is a slave if she washes or cooks for her boyfriend. I said it's not my place to do that but if any girl chooses to, it's her business.
Lol. You were brought up to be a WOMAN. I never knew a woman is only one that can cook, clean or wash. Maybe that's your version of being a woman. I have a different view on that. Not that there's anything wrong with being able.able to cook or wash. But I know a woman is much more than that.
Yes you dripped your opinion and I dropped mine. Why is that a problem? And I beg you, don't refer to me as one with low IQ. Don't even try it. Even with your high IQ, you don't know that the sentence should be 'I don't have problem with people that HAVE( not has) low IQ'. Thank you too

priscaoge:
So after cooking his food I should live it in d pot? That's what I mean by stocking his fridge and of course na em go bring money for food



Madam calm Ur nerves, he's not handicapped or can't wash his cloths, if u believe that when u wash Ur boyfriend's cloth u are a slave then so be it, me I see absolutely nothing wrong in that. I have elder brothers n their Babes do come around once in a while n do stuffs for them, that doesn't change anything.



And I'm relaxing and seeing a movie with it already ... Thanks jare



They are two different things. Relationship is all about Respect and understanding. Like I said, what rocks my boat might sink urs. My previous comment is my opinion

Well if any girls decides to turn herself into dry cleaner for a guy even b4 marriage, na her business. I wasn't brought up to do that rubbish

daretodiffer:
You should be

You haven't answered simple questions. This is not about men vs women. It is a bout a man who decided to cheat on his wife with another person.

He didn't cheat on his own. It took two of them of a break the marriage. The man did his part by looking at her or asking her and she did her part by encouraging him.

Who said it's about men v. Women? As far as I'm concerned, the responsibility of being faithful lies on the man and the man alone. I don't think the mistress made any vows to the wife. It was the man and the man alone that broke the marriage.

RadicallyBlunt:
Oya why?

First, the way you guys beg and beg for this sex shows how much you guys need it. Some girls may prefer not to indulge but so that they don't lose their men, they succumb which makes it a favor to the men.
Secondly, how many women truly enjoy sex/climax? It's a fact that most of you guys are 1 minute men. In such situation, what benefit is the girl getting? She ends up doing it just to please ergo it's a favour

Some women just irritate me. You'd be surprised that this same woman might not even have the guts to question her hubby. If my husband cheated, I'd break his head b4 remembering there's even a mistress sef