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olrotimi:
Did he approach her with a gun to her head? What happened to her moral decency to turn him down, knowing fully well that he was married. Na yam wey another woman don suffer to cook na im she balance chop well.
I can bet the life of me that she would have turned down many single guys before the man approached her, perhaps she broke off from her bf just to date this man. Those of us arguing that she didn't do wrong should Pls consider and put urselves in the position of this man's wife.Do you know how painful and heart wrenching it is for your husband to be taken away from you by another woman, perhaps after laboring together, setting the home, polishing and grooming the man and perhaps making him what he is today. Do you also consider her children? How would they feel?
Violence is wrong, very wrong but hey ladies, prevention is always better than cure. When a married man approaches you, run! Cos whatever comes after that, na ur headache

The man wasn't taken. The bastard decided to waka on his own

daretodiffer:
She has every right to kill her. She became her business the moment she knowingly slept with another man's husband.

Islamically and Biblically, both have sinned. Morally, they have acted unconsciously. The concubine and the husband have acted together to break the husband's vows and trust to his wife

The way some people think sef?

Daretodiffer I'm disappointed. Thought you were smarter than this naw

RadicallyBlunt:
Except this I agree with every other

Sexual pleasure is mutual and its for 2 adults (not children). You're not doing him a favour neither are u expected to have sex with a stranger u don't know b4

But others are very correct

Yes she's doing him a favour. You can ask me why

priscaoge:
Even with d rate at which guys expose ladies unclad pics online, so many idiotic n senseless girls still do that Now in d name of "Love" or doing something crazy n fun with Ur Boo.. Ka'm nukwa

No8: Ladies should know when to walk away from any abusive relationship. He slaps u now that u guys are just boyfriend and girlfriend, have u ever imagined what will become of u when he finally walks u down d Alter?

I see nothing wrong in washing his clothes or cooking for him. That doesn't make me a slave! If I spend the weekend in his house and he has some dirty clothes in his laundry basket, do I need Amadioha to tell me to wash them and keep his closet neat? Or do I need Sango to tell me to cook n stock his fridge? I love to see my man eat n appreciate my delicacies! That will make me know d food he likes most, how he love it to be prepared etc. Now I know he love Ofe Oha, Ofe Onugbu(Bitter leaf soup) Ofe akwu, Ukwa and Jollof rice and appreciates how I cook them. So Op tell me, if I allow him to be patronizing Mamaput and Crunches, how will I know this? Well different strokes for different folks! Whatever rocks my boat might sink Urs! To me this very one isn't slavery as long as I don't live in his house with him.

That's how you people turn grown men into babies then start complaining after marriage. Still wondering why a grown man can't wash his own clothes

Strahovski1:
I don't think any sane man will pay 5 million naira for one woman. Instead he can use 5 million to get 50 sexy ladies abroad.

Besides if I pay 5 million for someone like you, it's going to be hell. And there isn't sh!t you can do.

Hehehehe! Anyways no need speculating. Abi dem dey chain people 4 marriage?

Even if my parents collect 5 million naira bride price, any man who thinks Im his property is on a loooooong thing. By the time I finish treating ur Fucck up, ur brain will reset.

It is ur daughters and all the women in ur generation that will end up in the kitchen. Say amen

I can't o. Who wants a liability in the kitchen/a big baby?

emperorchedda:
You didn't answer the fellow before asking him questions.

Give him one reason why the woman isn't owned by the man after he has paid her bride price, bought all sort of food stuffs, clothing, animal and whatnot for her family. Still brings her to HIS house, feeds her with HIS money, and basically takes all the responsibilities that comes with her

Now answer his question

Bride price is like 10 pence in my place. Is that enough to purchase a human being? My family also did their share. Infact in my place the Wife's family covers the traditional marriage expenses.
Talking about bringing her to HIS house. What's that supposed to mean. Once we get married it becomes OUR HOUSE. Or would you agree to come live in my house so that I'd hear word? He feeds her with HIS money? Seriously? He doesn't eat himself? Was she starving before she married him? You know women work right? And they contribute to the running of the home. Abi ur still stuck in the 15th century?
One reason why she isn't owned by the man eh? When you buy a slave, can the slave just up and leave at anytime and refuse to serve you? A wife can say she's not marrying again and you can't do jack about it.

Number 2...... Your parents have spent so much on you... feeding, education, health bills, miscellaneous and you're not their property. Where do you get off calling a woman youve not spent half of what her parents spent on her your property? Men of these days are just daft

Daniel2289:
I knw it is not gud to hurt som1, especially in relationship. But its said dat, LOVE don't find faults, it forgives and doesn't keeps malice. But if I accidentally hurt u n it neva happened again, can't u put dat behind u n continue to love me as u used to b4

That's the thing. Cheating on me is not accidental. It is a conscious decision. I'm not sure I know how to forgive infidelity o. How do I trust and respect you after that? If it's a one time thing, just pray hard that God touches my heart to be able to forgive

Daniel2289:
But dats when the incident keeps repeating itself.

ONCE you hurt me, things can't be the same

GreatEngineer:
Will sell the house as owner and nothing will happen, if you don't like it that way, you are on your own.

Yimu! When ur name is not on the title deeds. Good luck

GogobiriLalas:
l knew one yeye gal will come here to start talking crap and giving advice on matters she can't begin to even grasp the depth of...you bera gerouta here

Where did this retarrded child crawl out from?

komododragons:
FOOLISH!

if you are married! stop opening your leg to your husband and be giving silly complains. and par adventure he do get what you are closing outside, take a knife and stabbed him on his neck

this is how divorce is everywhere because of you female. you think the world revolve around you shay? you haven't know anything just yet

She is nursing a baby, YOUR BABY while running the house and probably trying to keep up with her job. How selfish can you men get? Those threats don't move anybody. Cheat if you wanna. You'll face the consequences when the time comes. Our world doesn't revolve around you men

Daniel2289:
What a comment!!! Cheating back will not be the solution. This can only work if only u don't love the person u are following. And I wonder y u will follow such person in d first place.

Love has nothing to do with it. Once you hurt me, the love starts to die

I'd cheat back. We can then choose to forgive ourselves or we go our separate ways. Yeah, I'm vindictive like that

komododragons:
that's why we men CHEAT!

go outside and enjoy yourself and forget about your STVPID wife. when she started suspecting you, just relax she will open her leg 24hrs for you.

Yeah! Ur a really smart guy. Your wife suspects you of cheating and she will open her legs 24 hrs for you even when she doesn't know where ur preek has been. Clap 4 urself. Very smart idea. Makes me wonder why the woman who stabbed her husband in the neck didn't open her legs wider when she found out the husband had been unfaithful

grandlexuz:
I didn't cone here to argue with you o. I just found your comment ironic. So a man is required to pay a bride price sometimes in the millions before a woman can be called his wife. But are women allowed to. Issorai.

There's no bride price in nigeria that's up to a million naira

GreatEngineer:
As a smart guy, I will sell the house and add small money to build a better house for us. Will never live in a house build by my wife cos of many reasons.

Sell the house as what? Owner? Mstchewww

spill:
For me I don't see anything wrong living in a house built by your humble, respectful and well cultured wife.

But for the selfish wife without manners please don't live in a house built by her, because she will always frustrate your life with the "this house is my hard earned money", forgetting that wives are helpmates to their husbands.

Sorry o. But don't you men do/say the same thing to your wives?

Avalon316:
Have you cheated on any of your exes? Or were you wayward in your youth? ( do these girls accept that they are wayward sef). If the answer to any of these questions is yes, baby you will have for yourself, a aman that will cheat.

And if your pvssy has been smashed by exes and co,do you sincerely want your husband to be happy with crumbs for the rest of his life? You,naija girls , are not serious. You give his food,pv$$y, to the boys then expect hubby to be happy with the tokunbo pv$$ies.

Be real.

Oh really? But you will expect your wife to be happy with your tokunbo deek? Wake up abeg

anigbajumo:
u mean yer parents??


The bastard don't even knw how to punctuates, slowpoke old fool.

Go back to primary school before u can quote me.

At least, my errors are in punctuations, if any. But I find it funny that YOU who can't even make a simple correct sentence devoid of gbagauns would dare correct me. I read all your replies to daretodiffer and I cursed the teacher who taught you English in school.
Lemme help you out....
**it is not 'the bastard don't even know', it is 'the bastard DOESNT even know'.
**there shouldn't be an 's' at the end of punctuate.

P.S.. Na ya papa be the bastard. Illiterate! Yes, you're welcome

crackhaus:
With the way the world currently burns - If everyone just gave up and walked out on their partner(male or female) once they cheat, do you think there would still be a lot of married people?

But I know you crackhaus would never forgive a cheating woman. Why should women have to put up with it? If only people would keep their vows...

anigbajumo:
[Am talking about manner and attitude this one is talking about properties and investment. Make she no study well and finking about parents properties somewhere.she don't even forced her to,that is on her own peril......

Read my comment well dumb ass

anigbajumo:
You are mad,Lunatic and other hand insane.show me where I cursed you from that contexts, I only blast you, y the curse??

You will not die better even if u do,u will never rest in Peace but in pieces.

Respect is reciprocal, yes.Is men are women are equal in a family,washing yer boo cloth is not a job bt sign of Love and respect, nothing more. Why did u refused to think with little iota of sense??

Take out the LM and yer mother in Law saw yer husband washing his cloth,and you think she will be happy @u shey?? U lack ability to reason with yer brain which I think it has completely dismantled.


slowpoke old fool,BASTARD!!!!!

Fu**k of my mention, certified mongrel.

Fucck the MIL and what she thinks. She should have trained her son to be able to wash his own clothes. Big babies everywhere

anigbajumo:
I don't knw why ladies of nowadays gat spoiled to the point they av rotten.

The sane thing my younger sister told me some months ago even in the present of my mum.

When she said that,I just asked her simple question,how many times av u seen yer mum washing her husband cloth??

She said," I cnt even count it and dat is for her"

I replied " yer brain is reversed biased"

Mum said, " Is your choice,bt av left a legacy for u,if u like use it,if u like don't use it av done my part"



Here in Yoruba land wife show respect to her husband irrespective of her personality and dignity,that is what the woman show's to teach the young ladies of this present generation.

All u wanted to do is just to open yer legs make dick enter and milk the guy dry.Ordinary cloth u cnt wash,tired of ladies of nowadays.

Hian! What will I not read? So the legacy your darling mom left for her daughter was teaching her how to wash her husband's clothes? Shame no catch her to talk that kine tin? When other women are leaving properties, investments etc for their daughters. Chai! Chai! Beht why?

anigbajumo:
Not only Love but respect, remember she choose to it not her husband forced her to.

U mean u can't even wash his cloth or only undies??

Pls.tell me why an adult male can't wash his own clothes. Nigerian men.will never cease to amaze me

linearity:
Sister make you no vess, it appear that I must have hit a sensitive nerve ending there...go back and re-read the post I replied to, the word EXPECT never appeared anywhere in the post. You must be imagining things.....

As for the iPhone 6s, you must be juvenile for such a low blow...I have gotten new iphones each year, since iPhone 2G (offcourse will be skipping iPhone SE this year, since it is of a lesser feature compare the the 6s) and the post you responded to was typed on a new iPhone 6s....sorry to disappoint you....besides, there is nothing wrong with a used iPhone, I still have my old 5s laying around...working great as a visitor's phone.

Are you blind? You said and I quote "MY GF WILL EXPECT ME TO BUY AN IPHONE...."

What nerve do you think you have hit? Yeah you get new iPhones every year and I change my Ferrari twice in a year. See how easy it is to make claims on the net? Try again my dear

linearity:
Women and their Charactization of 'love'...The man buys her expensive jeweries, cars, etc to 'show his love' and the woman washes his undies to 'show her love'.

Women have been deciding men since 1500 with this 'love' matter. My gf will expect me to buy her an iPhone 6s for her birthday, but on unwrapping the nicely package gift from her for my birthday, they contain singlet and socks...mteeech!

Key word is EXPECT. Can you even afford a used iPhone 6s?

I don't understand how a grown man can't wash his own undies. Azzin you will remove boxers and pile for your wife to wash? Lazy men everywhere. Is he a child? You men can fit disgrace yourselves o. A whole head of house can't even clean up his undies. Glorified babies.

wristbangle:
It beats my imagination why a reasonable lady would make such statement and our dearest romance mod agreed to this biased and insultive words. @ rocktation, I can't believe someone broke the rule, yet u are watching.

Back 2 ur comment joy1706, most ladies nowadays are so irresponsible and lazy to the extent that the only thing your merry bands offer a guy is kitty cat and the news is that men are sick and tired of this lame offer.

God created eve not to be a liability to Adam. Go and read the book of genesis, u will see the major significance of Women. Women suppose to a supporter, an anchor and a manager of her husband's capital.

Yea..... Most ladies are irresponsible and lazy right? Yet I see female doctors, bankers, lawyers, journalists, business women everywhere I look. Yeah you must be living on another planet.

And in which universe are you guys tired of kitty cat? When it's the very air you guys breathe