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RoyalBlu:
No correlation with the task at hand abeg.

Na government dey give people husband now Shuo.

Objectivity is key!

It takes a man who has attained financial stability (a feat that this harsh economy has made herculean) to consider settling down. When your salary can barely keep your head above water as a Bachelor, marriage won't even come to mind.

Sunnyrado:
Hmmm, this is so pathetic and am sorry about your predicament.. sorry to say, that man is a wolf In a sheep skin.. na why e good to dey enquiry about anything and anything you want to delve in to.. prayerfully, but once una don like una sef don love don blindfold una be that.. .Madam my advice for you..put one leg I. And one leg out since there's more trust there again and marriage is not supposed to be like that. A man suppose to treat his wife like his mother or his sister.. anyways it's well.. but you are a good woman. According to your story o, I pray to find a loving caring and a submissive woman someday...Shalom

He is likely one of such men who cannot bear to have strong independent women as wives. Hence the persistence that she quits her job and even after that, the torture (aimed at breaking her into subservience).

I'm so sorry about this predicament, ma'am. Can I advise that you give him another chance? However, be on guard. Channel all this resentment you feel for him into getting another job. I believe this would be a game changer for you.

All the best!

press9jatv:
you can only buy it on Twitter, facebook, nairaland, Instagram and YouTube handles of APC and Tinubu administration

You have spoken well.

[quote author=IyaTola post=131230611][/quote]How about I delete 4?
Nose piercing
Makeup
Waist beads
Nails

tsnoop:
This a brand new blender ooo and not used one

85k is the last price and you can come pick it up yourself physically

I know it's brand new, hence the offer. 60k is what I'm willing to part with. I'm not in Lagos,which is why I'm suggesting escrow.

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I attached a picture of the price on jumia

I'm willing to pay 60k, we use escrow. Deal?

Exceptional300:
Remember this thread?
https://www.nairaland.com/8130045/pcos-should-tell-parents-it
So I have an update about this issue! Long story short, she is pregnant but she wants to take it out! She said she isn’t ready for any pregnancy right now. Even when I told her I want to go see her family then we can do a courthouse wedding afterwards, she is very adamant on removing the pregnancy. She said she isn’t ready to be pregnant and she wants to be legally Married and pregnant through the right process.
I am thinking of breaking up with her if she goes through with her plan!
NB: I have also not involved my family in this matter

This issue has been stretched for far too long. I believe you know the line of action to take. We, your nairaland in-laws should be seen as third parties and you know third party opinion is not really needed in marriage.

Floky215:
If to say you get prick you won't write what you just wrote now...!!!

You know nothing about man and been a man....so I advise you just keep quiet when it comes to how man handle their things...!!

The nerve of you defining what I should or should not contribute to. Social media sure has a way empowering imps. Didn't your parents teach you courtesy? Like, don't you know how to drive home a point without being rude?

StillDtruth:
See how you women are. You never say the most important one only this same useless advice which has never worked since Eve fuqd.satan.

Why don't you tell him that it he fell for his wife's friend because she enticed and sex induced him?

And the evil thing is that his wife knows but you women never tell.

But when the act is done it is then you come out saying all the rubbish you say whereas, you never told your husband that 98% of the time it is you women who chased him by setting him up to do the chasing.

What makes a man a true man is not the presence of a third leg, but the ability to define/maintain boundaries. A real man may cheat, but he knows best to sow these wild seeds far from home.

mmadu4:
Guys , how are you all doing today ,

I want to share something that happened to me last 2 weeks. I woke up last 2 weeks Sunday, Checked my phone and saw 2 alerts of Pos withdrawal in my mind i was thinking it was an old transaction i did and the alert came late, loo and behold a 3rd alert came in 25k withdrawal i quickly checked my bank app and realize my 55k total has gone out of my account from 164k . i panicked immediately and it dawn on me that my verse card have been compromised and instantly wore my dress to head out to the nearest Pos so i can take out all the remaining money before they empty my account. omo on my way i start receiving more and more alerts 10 k 12k 7k, I accelerate my car like someone that was being chased, by the time i got to Pos my account its left with 47k on it. I withdraw it immediately emptied the account, i told the pos agent what happened she said 3 of her customers have complained about the same thing and i should report to my bank . i ran into my car to call my bank , as luck would have it , i got alert checked it, an amount of 250k has been credited into my account from a random Pos stella David, Without hesitation I forwarded the money into my moms account . 250k, I was constantly refreshing my acc bank to see that it started showing negative withdrawal . i called my bank told them what happened i provided my details for verification after that , they blocked both the card and the account, End of the story , they stole my money and realized i emptied the acc, so they sent 250k possibly from a victims acc , with the intention to quickly take it out , but i did it before them, God , Guys please be careful how and where you used your card,

these types of crimes are on the high raise now, i always do transfer for any transaction hence forth

I'm sorry for your ordeal, but I think you are in trouble. That 250k deposited into your account makes you an accomplice. As painful as this may sound, you need to report that transaction.

DarkCaesar:
That was why I only sniffed it but didn’t eat as it wasn’t edible

What you did counts as cheating.

DarkCaesar:
https://www.nairaland.com/7979317/how-cancel-appointment-peacefully/1


It’s only right I update you guys about how our meeting went…..She came over as we both planned and we did some foreplays which I intentionally stopped. She wanted me inside of her but I stopped because her uncladness doesn’t appeal to me as much as they were while covered in clothes.
Things went on fine between us after then as we still maintain our usual fronts but recently my wife had an issue with her which is not in anyway related to me and this issue has caused them to drift apart and not as close as before after they settled it. I don’t talk to her no more and she doesn’t use that to react as well.

You crossed the line when you towed the path of being intimate with your wife's friend. That shows that you have zero regard for your wife and your family by extension. If her naked body appealed to you, I bet you would have hit third base.

I won't commend you for exercising self-control because you lack it. My advise is that you should learn to develope restrain and respect your family. Don't let what you see affect how you think.

descarado:
Is that your final answer?

Sometimes it's good to put the records straight for misinformation

I just aired mine. You can do likewise, especially if your thought does not align with mine.

descarado:
No sane argument about weight management through eating healthy food.
The problem is knowing the right food to eat.
We as a nation dont know Jack about healthy and balanced diet.

Speak for yourself!

1Sharon:
Weight loss is 80% diet control😄

Isn't that common knowledge? But do you know that this journey takes a while? Takes longer if the person in question is old? Do you also know that there are health challenges that can put an end to one's life in weeks? If weightloss through diet control can take 3 months and sudden death due to obesity is imminent in a month, would you advise your patient to tow the path of dieting? The quickest solution would be proferred as was done in this case. It's just unfortunate that it cost him his life.


Let me also burst your bubbles further... There are medical conditions that would set one's body on a fat gaining spree so much so that diet control and intermittent fasting won't give any results. Such people are advised to tow this path to correct this condition and set the body right.


Finally, let me correct you by saying weight loss is 80 percent diet ONLY IF the person's hormones are in check. Other than that, even a strict vegetarian would be obesed.

SadiqBabaSani:
Oh my, maybe complicated surgery. He could just have gone for fat removal instead of this.

Anyways I cannot know more than him. May his soul RIP

Fat removal is far more risky than a bypass.

LoveJesus87:
Hit the gym and stop eating trash, simple!!!

I'm certain his doctor prescribed the surgery as a salvation and panacea to his full recovery. Some conditions might require one to stay away from strenuous exercise. Haven't you heard of people who die while exercising? His weight was a challenge. He was not fit to lose it naturally and had to undergo that surgery.
May his soul find rest.

I know someone who had to marry her late sister's husband for the sake of her sister's children. You should have seeked for consent from your clan before being intimate with her, however. If you present this case, it would look like an abomination because she is already pregnant. Anyway, good luck!

Dexy4yah:
So irritating if you ask me...

It is disgusting, to say the least.

atoliman:
Date any age you want to date as long the age gap is reasonable. For example, 25 year old woman dating a 33 year old man is descent

This is a good formula. However, the dynamics need to change once a lady is in her 30s. An 8 year gap may not he feasible because most men within that age bracket are not available.

I would profer that people date with wisdom bearing in mind age and other factors.

atoliman:
I will seriously advise any lady who think she is getting old to wait and marry the right person. Do not marry your enemy because you are getting old or family is pressuring you. Na you go chop the beating from my husband or collect STD, if you marry an abusive guy or a womanizer. na only sorry you go hear or endure dear.

If you are above 35 years old, and you cannot find husband. Work on yourself, work out and please socialize,. You can dress descent and the right man will find you. Do not have unrealistic expectation and do not have unrealistic standard, no one earns 800 million naira in a month with 2 jets and 2 houses in Ikoyi, with one mansion in Dubai.

Except you want to marry the Saudi Crown Prince. So please, have reasonable realistic standards and reasonable expectations. Show respect to men and respectable man will find you.

Dating is not hard, find the right person take time.

Need I also add that do not commit morethan 5 years to a relationship without direction. If your partner is not looking to move things to the next level, please leave!

PointZerom:
The worst people to keep in your home are strangers called maids.
You can never satisfy them, even if you punish her together with your own children, she'll view her own punishment as hatred and wickedness towards her.

The moment you finally sent her home, you'll be shocked what she'll tell people that you did to her including raping or trying to rape her.

That sense of entitlement is what makes them to rebel. The best option is not to hire maids and if it becomes imperative, hire them to visit on certain days to come clean and leave.

membranus:
Well done mate. Keep up Nairaland activism then, more grease to your elbow.

Thanks, mate. I'm extending the same grease and ease to your elbow too. Lets make nairaland sane.

membranus:
Nairaland is beyond sanity, and Seun love it so. Save your efforts.

I am an optimist. Making this place sane goes beyond an agenda of one man.

MSN1:
Most times, sane people like us are just too pushed to the extreme, hence the reason we waste our mentions on most of ur type here on N.L.
The fact that, a lot of women and MEN (Yes, MEN. I know A LOT of men I can NEVER wish my enemy sef to marry) these days are not marriageable, does not erase the FACT that, a lot of women out there are just too amazing.

And to think u don't know the supposed lady and you see and know a lot of good women around in marriages, yet turn blind eyes and generalize childishly, tells a lot of your maturity and I.Q level.

I have wonderful sisters and know a lot of ladies that are elevating and giving their husbands commitment, love, wonderful kids, happiness, satisfaction and wonderful homes. So, by ur nasty generalization, they are not worth marrying?.

Sir, we all have, @ one point or the other experienced failed relationships but does that erase the fact that, Healthy relationships exist?, absolute NO.

Please, if u think u have been broken beyond repair, hence your childish statement or maybe u are doing it for stupid validations, PLEASE FIX UR SELF QUIETLY, like everyone of us has and will continue doing, HAVE A NICE DAY.
R.I.P to the dead.

Blessed are you amongst others. Let's make nairaland sane again.

jmoore:
Bodycount is 4? Multiply that by 6.

I agree with you.

Sheistoopretty:
Nigerian men ?

All Nigerian men know how to do is s*x, kidnapping, ritual and cultism. No Brain for innovations and technologies like the Europeans He just killed a promising young girl with a very bright future

It shall never be well with Nigerian men

Stop this please! Don't derail this thread. Can we focus on the matter on ground? Let's make nairalsnd sane again.

Negroid001:
Was relaxing on my verandah sometime last week and i witnessed something that had me thinking up till this moment.

For over 2 days a particular pigeon had been visiting my compound and i dismissed it in my subconscious as nothing peculiar. This particular morning though, the pigeon swooped in again, hopped here and there and in one crazy frenzy picked up a piece of discarded rubber material and took off. My eyes followed it and surprisingly it's destination wasn't far, it flew to a piece of erected metal beam opposite my house, curiosity got the better of me and i stood up and observed.
Behold, it had been picking up twigs and sorts for it's partner. The partner was building a nest, and when it arrived she collected the piece of rubber material from the male, tried fitting it in the nest and threw it away when it didn't fit. The male flew took off immediately to get another twig. I somehow forgot about the incident not until this morning i can see both lovebirds cuddled up in a complete nest.

Bam! It hit. Epiphany or whatever you call it. Men are naturally built to be providers and women are home makers.

Don't know what's wrong with this generation and the hype about being woke with women shi. Sounds like a homosexual propaganda to me.
I love women, smart ones, beautiful ones, every one...

It's my duty to provide for the woman i love with what i have at my disposal and it's her responsibility to support me. Together we shall make our abode a Haven. Simple...

Any other thing? Na una sabi.
I'm not weak, neither am i lazy.
I only go women that have interest in me.
I don't simp.

But say i no go provide, that one na lie.

You have said it all. Feminism and the red pill movement is primarily tied towards homosexuality. When the two he derived develop hate for the opposite, they would naturally crave intimacy within themselves.

Negroid001:
Was relaxing on my verandah sometime last week and i witnessed something that had me thinking up till this moment.

For over 2 days a particular pigeon had been visiting my compound and i dismissed it in my subconscious as nothing peculiar. This particular morning though, the pigeon swooped in again, hopped here and there and in one crazy frenzy picked up a piece of discarded rubber material and took off. My eyes followed it and surprisingly it's destination wasn't far, it flew to a piece of erected metal beam opposite my house, curiosity got the better of me and i stood up and observed.
Behold, it had been picking up twigs and sorts for it's partner. The partner was building a nest, and when it arrived she collected the piece of rubber material from the male, tried fitting it in the nest and threw it away when it didn't fit. The male flew took off immediately to get another twig. I somehow forgot about the incident not until this morning i can see both lovebirds cuddled up in a complete nest.

Bam! It hit. Epiphany or whatever you call it. Men are naturally built to be providers and women are home makers.

Don't know what's wrong with this generation and the hype about being woke with women shi. Sounds like a homosexual propaganda to me.
I love women, smart ones, beautiful ones, every one...

It's my duty to provide for the woman i love with what i have at my disposal and it's her responsibility to support me. Together we shall make our abode a Haven. Simple...

Any other thing? Na una sabi.
I'm not weak, neither am i lazy.
I only go women that have interest in me.
I don't simp.

But say i no go provide, that one na lie.

You have said it all. Feminism and the red pill movement is primarily tied towards homosexuality. When the two he derived develop hate for the opposite, they would naturally crave intimacy within themselves.

1Sharon:
Yeah.

One of the answers is actually correct

All the answers are actually correct. Not so conventional, but since no reference was made to the lecture notes, the teacher shouldn't have failed the child.

As much as this is intended to be a comic relief, it exposes how cl*se-minded most of our t*achers were and still are.