₦airaland Forum

Madups:
No type of comment chiboy on go see for nairaland. E be like say all the girls around you na olosho or didnt you read where op stated that she's an only child.

NorthernersSuck:
If I curse you now, your comments sucks

dominique:
Where did he say that he's the one financing her? He doesn't give her much because she's comfortable and doesn't need his money. So those of us that were very comfortable in school and during NYSC were depending on men? Very laughable! Better pray for to be successful enough to give the best life to your daughters so that broketards will be assuming they're being financed by men.

TheNiceGuy:
Cut the crap please.

Do you have to conclude since she has such clothes and a fashion freak, she's into runs

There are some students who hustle legitimately and make cool cash even take care of their school expenses.

U all should stop this stereotype

oylam:
Your girl wey dy do hookup, avoid all these uni students. Basically useless. In short, your mom don see say na wetin her job be, na y she dy reject am.

dominique:
And did he imply that she does runs for money? So why were you quick to assume that's how she makes money? Your poverty drenched mindset can't process that there are rich people that fund their daughter's lifestyle. Pray for to make enough money to spend on your daughters so broke Alfa mails will be assuming they're are doing runs.

BinamRex:
Did you read that she is an only child? She probably has rich parents or relatives. Most we call every lady an olosho?

Raxxye:
Senseless talk!
Someone is so nice and you're calling her olosho, and you haven't even met her.
May God forgive you!

dominique:
Her well-to-do parents? Or is it forbidden for parents to dote on their daughters? In your narrow mind, the only way a "Nigerian girl" can have money is by getting if from men.

Lanty01:
Women everywhere are the same. The problem is you, swallow the redpill.

MarketDispatch:
The numerous number of young girls that dance naked in Strip clubs nowadays is alarming. They get lots of cash dancing naked, lap dancing, pole dancing, etc etc the list is endless....so shine ya. Eyes. If it quacks like a Duck, walks like a Duck, then it's probably a Duck

WhisperedNoise:
Lol
Mr Man, grow up. Shogbo? There's more to life than you can see. And I pray you heal from whatever form of trauma that has warped your thinking.

Blessedmercy8:
Wife of Bright Okpocha aka Basketmouth speaks about what to look out for before getting married.

Zonefree:
Yes, men can copy bad things and women can copy good things.


Abeg, make una copy how to close legs and marry as a virgin.

world123:
There are students with vocation skills, who earn genuine income. With these they pay their bills at school.

As for OP, I think your mum has another lady for you. Bring the your girls home often,s o she get familiar with her.

WhisperedNoise:
You know I'm a woman by my manipulative comments...Pele o, Oshodi Sherlock Holmes. Ndi Dr Sigmund Freud.

So a lady can't save from her pocket money? Do you think all ladies are hustlers? Lol. Some ladies get 30k weekly as pocket money. Some get 150k monthly.
Her source of income isn't really any of your business as long as it's clean and lawful. She didn't steal from you, did she?

emerged01:
First mistake guys always make. They ignore what can open their eyes to reality. When the result of their mistake manifest in marriage,they will now be saying marriage is not for everybody.

blaquebelle:
Poverty has so bastardized some people that they can't even imagine that a student can be living quality life from her wealthy family background. Every young person with money na olosho or yahoo boy to some of you. And that's why some of you can't even make headway out of poverty.

WhisperedNoise:
Oga, stop this nau. You are being absolutely rude and disrespectful to the op and his girlfriend. It comes off in very bad taste.

Your assumptios and judgements are pedestrian and lack any modicum of intelligence. Please 2023 is almost here. Grow up!

rezky:
You should ask the OP not me.

He can't say he's in a relationship with a lady for a while and not know some vital details about her. Moreso, that doesn't give you or the Op's mum to conclude or judge her.

Supreme145:
I even thought I was communicating with someone reasonable, I don't have time to exchange insults...bye

Supreme145:
So I come here to detail her autobiography for you, I only added it when you pointed it out

Supreme145:
Una too get wahala for here...if girls bill you call them leeches, the few ones that are considerate and show concern you tag them pretenders. Someone that her dad stays abroad and sends her monthly allowance cant save 15k again.

Supreme145:
So I've been dating this lady since early this year and everything has been going on smoothly, in fact I even had to tell my mom about her, the first time I would talk to my mother about a lady, but she sounded not too pleased about the lady. Someone she hasn't even met physically.

I've two younger sisters between aged 17 and 15, I didn't like the way they were dressed the last time I visited home so I always try to send them a token every month end to get new cloths. This Xmas I have a lot on my table and have been brainstorming on how to structure my expenses.

My babe is an only child and a fashion freak so she has loads of cloths in her wardrobe. She offered to give some to my sisters without me even asking. She gave me over 30 different pieces of cloths, and bought an ayaya gown or whatever its called for my mom worth around 15k. This is a student that doesn't even have a reliable means of income and I don't give her much. She opened up that she has been saving to get my mom a gift.

I called my mom this morning to tell her that I would be sending the cloths over with some other stuffs I bought for them and she outrightly rejected the girl's gifts citing spiritual reasons that she cant accept gifts from someone she doesn't know. She even accused the girl of trying to pressure me into marriage by pretending to love my family.

I am 30 years old and have dated countless ladies and none has showed genuine concern towards my family like this particular one. It would be so heart breaking to tell her that my mom rejected her gifts knowing how she enthusiastic she was gathering those items.

Sometimes I get tired of my moms spirituality, she's not considering that my sisters even need those items. Those cloths worth over 50k even as second hand materials. I don't understand why she would dislike someone she hasn't even met before.

How do I handle this situation, I don't know what to do with these items, I can't return it to my girlfriend cos it will really hurt her.

Supreme145:
Oga chill, una too dey para na me be the OP

Supreme145:
Oga there are students that come from well to do homes...I don't know the kind of ladies that you surround yourself with that makes you think every good looking lady is into prostitution.

rezky:
Religion has brainwashed alot of pple., any small thing spirituality.

Let your mum to tell you whatever spiritual stuff behind her reasons., someone she has not met., yet she's already judging her from afar.

No be every lady wey dey make monee be olosho get to know pple before you judge them.

Tokskob2008:
Olosho wey carry her "hard earned" money worth several thousands buy gifts for person should at least be treated with a little respect don't you think

Many dey do the olosho work yet still billing their boyfriends to death

peepydelano:
op no even care where she get money to buy all those things and he quickly bought her story of saving for it. This op no sharp gaskiya